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osarodon:
How old are you as that will depend on the kind of advise to give you but for now just be looking from far

25yr

Coldie:
Just codedly act like u didn't see it, then continue fvcking her while you look for a new gf. It's that easy.

I am afraid she might break up first and it won't go well with me if she does it first

I am about to ask her should I go on?

Hello Good morning nairalanders ,
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Pls I want to know am I about to experience heart break or I should do that now before she does it to me . My girlfriend just posted someone LOML . I just saw that on her stories. I investigated deeply and I found the guy's username . I saw that the guy has been commenting on her posts recently and I wonder why she posted the guy LOML . I tried to ask her but some people adviced me not to and that I should watch from distance. Okay just when I have decided to freestyle the matter , today again she posted same guy again . I am so pained right now , and confused.

Am I about to experience heart break .? Should I kuku end the relationship now ? Pls I need your advice

pansophist:
Me too, I no send football. Give me a good political, historical, or NatGeo documentary with popcorn, and I am a happy man. The only time I watch football is during the world cup because it brings out the patriotism in me. But normal Chelsea and Arsenal, for what na? I don't do that.

See me

Chai

Chai

falcon01:
Is like you are a bee keeper abi?

I didn't understand o

M

[b]An entrepreneur and the CEO De Latinos, a leading hospitality organisation in Abia, Emmanuel Okenini aka Bello has decried the prolonged curfew imposed in various cities of Abia including Aba and Umuahia, saying it is putting their business under existential threat., ABN TV report.

Okeini said at a time when the industry was gradually getting its foot back on the ground after the COVID-19 lockdown, the imposition of curfew in the state has posed another challenge, causing the industry owners, family, and staff to pass through financial difficulties.

In his verified Facebook page on Monday, De Latinos CEO while pledging support to the state government in its measure to deal with insecurity in the state, he appealed for an intervention to save their livelihood and means of survival.

While insisting that Hotel & Restaurant industry are in deep financial trouble in Abia, he said justice for them in the face of the security concerns in the state is needed.

He said, "With the Abia state government imposing night curfew, restaurants and similar establishments in the state are again staring at an existential crisis. After coming out of #covid-19, #endsars this curfew that is almost lasting 3months could be a final blow to many hospitality businesses in Abia state.

"It has been less than six months since the struggling hospitality sector found some footing after bearing the brunt of the strict nationwide lockdown for most parts of 2020. The sector suffered massive losses due to the stringent eight-month lockdown that was imposed to contain the pandemic’s first wave in Nigeria.

"We are doomed this time around if we are expected to be both, shut for business and not receive any relief. Shut us but do justice to the owners, staff, and their families. Take care of the salaries.

"The Hotel & Restaurant industry are in deep financial trouble and without the Government’s consideration, it will be staring at a catastrophic disaster."

He continued, "As the situation stands, it seems that the curfew have triggered an existential crisis for the hospitality sector. Already neck-deep in losses due to the months of the stringent lockdown last year, most establishments do not have the financial capacity to withstand more restrictions.

"While the measures taken by state government seem inevitable because of the insecurity, they need to find a way to make this period easier for the struggling hospitality sector before it's too late. We are pleading for help, restore our business, restore jobs and let the families of those who work in the hospitality industry have hope again."

ABN TV recalls that the state governor, Dr Okezie Ikpeazu had about three months ago announced a curfew in parts of the state following incessant attacks by unknown gunmen on security personnel and formations.

At the moment, Aba the commercial centre, and Umuahia, the state capital are under 8pm to 6am curfew.

Ikwuano, Ohafia and Arochukwu are also under curfew.

Source: https://abntv.com.ng/2021/06/count-us-out-of-fulani-groups-plan-to-attack-delta-miyetti-allah/[/b]

Well I don't have any thing to say

I wan talk

Me

Fiscus105:
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If you couldn't ask person who you have issue with, why coming online to ask it?

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I came online to ask because I don't want to ask her . If I do she might deceive me more . She might give me a Kind of lie that I might believe her. While what is going on in secret is still going on . So once I hear opinions from different people and make my decision , I will know what to do .

Orochimaru247:
Simp.... loading... You can save yourself of some heartbreaks.... only if you
1. Confront her and ask.... Cause she might be playing mind games with you....
2. Based on your story you are probably not her boyfriend or lover as the case may be...( Don't be sad it's their nature . having Plan A B and C...
3.She probably haved friend zoned you long ago without you knowing....( It's better to become a monk than to be friend zoned.....)
4. The only way to solve it is to follow step 1
5. If her anwer is not geniue... Or not acceptable. By you...
.....DUMP HER AT ONCE.... DON'T FALL VICTIM ...
.....PROVE TO HER THAT YOUR EMOTIONS IS NOT TO BE TOYED WITH..... YOU DESERVE SOMEONE BETTER.....
Wait did I just say DUMP HER??
YES ....... DUMP HER ASAP .......

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Friend zoned ? No cos she still day offer puna

Orochimaru247:
Simp.... loading... You can save yourself of some heartbreaks.... only if you
1. Confront her and ask.... Cause she might be playing mind games with you....
2. Based on your story you are probably not her boyfriend or lover as the case may be...( Don't be sad it's their nature . having Plan A B and C...
3.She probably haved friend zoned you long ago without you knowing....( It's better to become a monk than to be friend zoned.....)
4. The only way to solve it is to follow step 1
5. If her anwer is not geniue... Or not acceptable. By you...
.....DUMP HER AT ONCE.... DON'T FALL VICTIM ...
.....PROVE TO HER THAT YOUR EMOTIONS IS NOT TO BE TOYED WITH..... YOU DESERVE SOMEONE BETTER.....
Wait did I just say DUMP HER??
YES ....... DUMP HER ASAP .......

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Hmmmmmmm your number 1
Shall . Don't want to find myself in that situation of nagging. Once I finds out the truth I will quietly craw out no time at all

coronavirus19:
He is being delusional and insecure.

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Pls bro or sis explain better

Fiscus105:
You saw it on her stories? You did not call or make enquary from her, you run to nairaland, what do you expect from faceless individual?

Treading at cost no go give people heart attack oooooooo

At the bolded , why should I ? I am a quiet gentle guy . If I finally verify and sure she's gat someone else I will quietly sign out . I no like trouble abeg and I no day carry vigina matter for head
What do you want me to ask her again. ? Did she post such picture on her stories by mistake? And going as far as captioning it LOML .

Thank God no Lagos there

Hello Good morning nairalanders ,
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Pls I want to know am I about to experience heart break or I should do that now before she does it to me . My girlfriend just posted someone LOML . I just saw that on her stories. I investigated deeply and I found the guy's username . I saw that the guy has been commenting on her posts recently and I wonder why she posted the guy LOML . Am I about to experience heart break .? Should I kuku end the relationship now ? Pls I need your advice

ifytrik:
The man's manhood should be cut off and fed to the dog for committing such sacrilege. But somebody should have told me that sunnews have started employing Fulani herdsmen as news writers, which kind English be this? Which one be "A source from the community who confided with our correspondent narrated that the man has been forcing her 17years old daughter to sleep with her" and also " She told us that her father has been sleeping with her since she was 16years, she even threatened to kill her if she reveal their affair to her mother ".

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Maybe the man na bobriskey

Who go do selfie � video for my upcoming single . I go send N200 airtime

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright
Way that niggarrrr of end time

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This person is wicked

Another social media giant, Facebook, has deleted a post against the South East region of Nigeria by President Muhammadu Buhari via his official page.

However, on Friday, Facebook said the post was deleted for violating its community standards against inciting violence.

“In line with our global policies, we’ve removed a post from President Buhari’s Facebook page for violating our Community Standards against inciting violence.


Another social media giant, Facebook, has deleted a post against the South East region of Nigeria by President Muhammadu Buhari via his official page.


This comes a few days after Twitter deleted the same tweet from the president’s handle for violating its terms and conditions.

However, on Friday, Facebook said the post was deleted for violating its community standards against inciting violence.

“In line with our global policies, we’ve removed a post from President Buhari’s Facebook page for violating our Community Standards against inciting violence.


“We remove any content, from individuals or organizations that goes against our policies on this platform,” Facebook Spokesperson stated.

Reacting, former Presidential aide, Reno Omokri, commended the platform for the decision to delete the president’s post.

“Facebook has also taken down the tyrant’s genocidal post. We are grateful to Mark Zuckerberg.

“We urge Facebook to permanently suspend Muhammadu Buhari like they did to Trump.

“He is a bloodthirsty warmonger that should be shut out of decent society,” he wrote.
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Cc. Lalasticlala mynd44, Dominique
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Source: https://dailypost.ng/2021/06/04/facebook-deletes-buharis-post-against-south-east/

Have you ever been defeated in a fight ?
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Share your experience

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Hmmmmmmmm

MiddleDimension:
My dear, I understand how you feel and it is very natural. However, what I do not agree with is how you are taking or reacting to them declining to have sex with you, which is why I decided to reply you.

First of all, you asked if you are being too gentle. There are two ways thay statement can be seen: the first is that it shows you feel it is your right to have sex with them. Now IF that is the case, then I think you should re-examine how you see the human being. It could also be a reflection of how you see yourself too, because many times, we see others the same way we see ourselves. If you see yourself as not having any form of personal sovereignty, then you are likely to think other people do not have personal sovereignty too which is why you think you are probably being too ''gentle'' and so you should be more forceful. If you go more forcefully, that is a crime and you could get a jail term for that.

The second way your statement could be seen is in the idea that women do not mean what they say when they say ''no''and so you should be a bit more forward otherwise, they will see you as not man enough. Well, while I am not going to buy into the denial of this reality and go with the ''me too'' feminist narative of ''no means no'', I still think it is wise to stick to the idea that ''no means no''. This will help men to develop and realize what they have always had in themselves, the ability to stay without sex. YES, YOU CAN LIVE WITHOUT SEX! It is not all that exist!!! When men get this way, maybe women would be come more clear in what they want and what they do not want. But for you and every other man out there, I feel it is safe and better to assume that no means no.

If you cannot handle the urge, you can go into your bathroom and masturbate. This is what your hands are for. You can also get a gadget for that too. This is what they are for, that you can make use of them when you cannot get someone to agree with you to have sex with you, and you cannot go to a brothel for whatever reason, and you also cannot hold yourself. What you do in that case, is to get a intimacy gadget, or you masturbate with your hands. That's better than getting frustrated and thinking you should go ''rough''.

Thanks for the advice

Babara1994:
You don't. You can be attractive financially though.

If you feel your hard earned savings is worth a round of sex, you can forfeit it; else you use soapy.

Babara1994:
Look good and attractive, or spend half your salary for a few rounds of sex.

I look good

grossintel:
Either you're stingy or broke. Take a girl out, you don't have to spend too much but show them you can take care of them and they will give you sex in abondance any day any time even if you're married.

I was with one yesterday, the way she was hugging and touching me in public fear me, I was like no be this church girl way talk say she get boyfriend again , she literally wanted to leak me like a lollipop.

Nonexistent:
Buy them more gifts and show them more care. Just remain the Mr. Nice guy you are and maybe someday, they will let you put just the tip. It's a SIMPu sturvs.

Hmmmmmmm