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OvertheTop:
You are very Right!
I think that is exactly what the Statement( I was doing well ) meant :
Now, she had to Bleep and Get only from one Guy.

The Reality is that a lady previously getting from a Lot of guys (say 50 guys)... then suddenly gets committed to 1 can never be satisfied....
Because 1 guy cannot have the resources of 50 Guys!

Going back to the Streets is the only way to satisfaction (till 40yrs I guess) eye go come clear!

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LordAdam16:
Dey there.

They'd have millions in savings and still ask for money for hair and cream.

Women in Nigeria have decided between themselves on what they can and cannot pay for. And the men have implicitly agreed to foot these bills to maintain access.

Demand and supply. If only 5% of men are calling them out and 95% of men are falling over themselves to accept billing, then these rants are meaningless and futile.

It's risen to the level of being a social contract. If you don't want to play, take your ball home. Guys full ground. Between when that aunty drop that message and now, cream money don drop. Later she'd go and get a satisfying f*ck since uncle would want to impress her.

See, if a dozen girls dey your Whatsapp dey beg you with money for your bills, still dey ask baby when are you coming over, with transport fare on top, and one aunty don even pay your rent already, another one change your phone; would you not be entitled when one girl dey frustrate your life for nothing, no dey drop chin-chin, and still dey demand exclusivity?

Men made their beds. No start wetin you no fit finish. Since men have decided wholesale to demonstrate their value through spending, they should not complain that women measure them with the same yardstick they wholeheartedly selected.

-Lord

Your points are valid.

but it doesn't make sense the way Nigerian girls go about it...

Lol omoh me weh dey always support women here don dey dumbfounded

She was doing better before the relationship cause she was getting a lot from other guys randomly and I believe in this part of the world nothing goes for free so she was obviously fucking around a lot.


From the chat I can tell the boyfriend was doing good before they got into a relationship and probably he got financially crunched along the line.

Sorry to say but that girl is a Nuisance and every other girl that thinks like her is a Nuisance.

Omoh I don weak, what did I just read....

God forbid my daughter grows up to beg a man for her hair and cream...

God forbid God forbid.

A very useless and rusty cage.

Nigeria no go ever better...

Ever ever ever ever

You don't love her....

Your Dick loves her

Lol it's amazing how everything is now the fault of the woman...

God help Nigerians biko.

Nne you did well and your husband knows that one too.

Makakween:
Hello nairalanders, please I am an old user of this platform I had to create a new one because I don't want this in my old account. I have been trying to get a new Gmail to post this,I really appreciate ghettoman I don't really know his moniker for the help he rendered by trying to open a new Gmail for me.

My husband and I got married by recommendations from my pastor, he's was already having a child from his previous marriage,no matter how I said no to this marriage, they had already planned it anyway... now after marriage his daughter came to stay with us,I started working because I don't like staying idle at home so I can also assist in the house.
He usually gives me money monthly so I can buy foodstuffs from the house, but the money is never enough and sometimes I beg from my sister and I use the money at home to cook.

Now the problem is my girl would start thinking and telling people around,that her father sends me money and I don't use it on her... she would be looking at the food like shit...with the country problem everyone is managing this girl own is fish,and meat, since I married my husband gave me money just once to buy clothes for her and my daughter.
I am the one that buys her clothes, everything I do she doesn't appreciate and she just wants it all. I didn't even notice this at all until I was told outside,I was so shocked as to what this child can do. I was so shocked 😨, how come I never noticed until I was told... she monitors my calls and tell her dad,I just don't understand. The money he gives me can't take us 2 weeks, it's not like he doesn't have the money but he doesn't want to bring it out. I was still breastfeeding my daughter it was my prevention for pregnancy,I wasn't seeing my menses and I got pregnant again,it became worst I have complained to alot of people about the verbal abuse I get from my husband,I was asked to endure now the endurance is killing me...

This month because of her,he felt I wasn't using the 20k well and he gave me a list of things to buy at home,but he gave me 10k,and it was first week of January,I later asked for another since we already didn't have anything at home he sent 5k I used it to fill gas 3k plus t fare. He knows there's nothing at home,and school was on holiday, even with pregnancy I didn't mind looking for job still. Now I beg for money to feed,ever since I knew she's like that I hate serving her food cos the money isn't enough for all of us. When her dad came home he gave me 1k for me to use for a week,no garri,no rice nothing. And school has resumed I am the one responsible for giving her money to school,I have stopped since she uses it on the way to school and behaves like a beggar in school.

She is always telling her fellow kids that I can never be her mother,I can't kill myself,I begged him for money on Sunday he sent 1200 to me,I used it to fill gas 1kg,I begged for foodstuffs to cook. I am tired of begging,I almost died last week and I didn't have the money to take me to the hospital, it was God, even the drugs I tried begging no way. Since she thinks everything I own and buy is for her father,and I am not seeing anything,I have been supporting quietly but she feels she is entitled to more and all which I can't give, when 1k finished I begged and was given 2k, which I used for yams,and I cooked small soup,I couldn't help but give her but she still behaved like that, like it isn't worth it...

Now I want to stop feeding her,I go hungry most days drinking the garri I begged for 2 days, nobody knows how I have been feeding,I feel I have been too foolish by covering up this stupid marriage. Now he's even telling me that if I give birth to a female again I would face it alone, right now like this he doesn't want to even send anything to me for the house,i hate complaining and complaining about things, people are already urging me to talk,I don't want people pointing at me on the road,I don't know what is wrong with me but I need help...

I can't endure anymore, sometimes I want to just die,I hate begging people for things but I have been subjected to that just to feed,I needed someone to talk to, people who can give me advice different from what people are giving me here... that marriage is for life, please I need help before I lose it, what do you think I should do,I don't know my fate even with this pregnancy but I want a better one for my daughter. Please drop a comment for me,I would really appreciate the help and advises. Please no insults I am not really that strong still fighting some health issues,thank you.

Please leave the sucker of husband and move on with your life in a different city and locality...

Forget he ever existed biko...

What nonsense 😠😠😠

DaddyCK:
Cool. For me..i never worry about broke or rich women. Whether they rich or poor never concern me..i spend on women & always enjoy spendin on women. I feel so low when women spend on me coz its against my principle.thats why sometimes i spend upto 220k juss to get sexxc...but 220k only for lightskin married women. I spend between 180k and 220k only on married women only..Real talk

Lol you be kitten business man.

You get different prices for different stocks in the market...

Just dey play
Dey play

DaddyCK:
#


so u sayin bread seller can manupulate u....corrrect?

No I am saying a roadside bread seller is broke and I don't Bleep with broke girls.

Am not dating you when you are danm broke....

I only date Rich girls, poor girls are very manipulative.

okrikaboi:
Except the girl is just loot, but if she is an investment he should treat the boy Bleep up with the soldiers or at least threaten him or else the boy will this time calm down and plan something more evil for the girl because at this point she has become office. You no get OT bro forget,,, every school cultist is afraid of the military their number 1 will give order for him to avoid the girl totally. Na make Dem dey call una Jew and sheep

Hahahaha Issues dey

Efficient man like me Jew and Sheep plus no OT.

No vex brotherman 🙏

okrikaboi:
I have said it before and will say it again the guy that they slapped is girlfriend is a big coward. No matter the money I make in this life my sons must be street smart geez.

Even in some situations your street smart sons will be taught by you that not all wars are wars in reality....

Shebi?

DannyWalker:
I have cult guys around me and I have also heard from them, they also have sense of negotiations. You think they always want to enter war with anybody talk less of the military?

Be like you no Sabi cultists... Just like you, they avoid wars or blood too b cause they know the consequences.


I can't go out seeking the girl, the humiliation or disrespect is not for me to bare.

Did they also not tell you that Negotiations to them means a time for reinforcement and replanning by them?

Even military personnel outside barracks can get into a war with a top 2 gang member here in Nigeria and still lose out in the war....(The kind connect this boys get now pass years back you understand?)

Look where I grew up in Ogbor -hill Aba, soldiers are only feared by Gang boys if they soldiers are in Squads.

If you do them first because you be military and they catch you one on one you are dead and missing....

Zero caps.

DannyWalker:
Freedom is not free.

In this guy's situation those cultists will still oppress that girl because their confidence has hit sky high after slapping her in front of her man who did nothing.


Bullies are not brave... There is too much hype around cultists... Many of them are not brave oh. These ones particularly need to learn a lesson.


Well, if this man doesn't teach them, another man probably will

Lol no vex brotherman...

Collect the girl contact from the manchi then link up with am make she show you the bastards ....

Go to war with them and see for yourself if it is worth your blood.

DannyWalker:
okay I hear you...

Personal this is no longer about girlfriend sef.

If you bring problem to me, I will give it back, if you then bring war I will give it back.

That's my rule... Make we kill ourselves... If na that level of crazy they want e dey available to go round.

Just in case you don't know, there are strategies to winning any chaos... You don't have to accept humiliation in the name of peace.

Give them back the same problem then talk peace later, they will forever respect you.

That is just me

I get your point brotherman...

I live by same rule which say's "If it's war then it's war""

But for a girlfriend? Count me out

Fkj2021:
Good day everyone. I will make this as short as possible.

A friend of mine got married January 2022 and he has been having issues from his wife every single day.

The wife was working but stopped working August 2022. While she was working, the husband paid for every bill at home, all the lady does was to send money to her family and get herself clothes.

Before I forget, the woman added 300k during the marriage ceremony but this has led. To alot of issues because the woman asks for this money every single day.

Back to the story, when the woman stopped her work due to issues that the company had, the husband continued providing for the family including his brother and brother in-law who came to stay with them due to the work they started learning.

Due to the fact that funds were not coming as it should due to the situation of the country, the woman started making comments of the man not been wealthy and this has led to issues of disrespect from the wife.

The man is a jealous type according to him but his wife always have suitors online and offline whom she keeps and always say that incase she break up with the husband.

The husband is a good friend of mine and he asked for my advice. Please what advice do. I give to him?

My relationship advice is now worth $250 .....

But because this is a very simp_le case to solve I think I will charge $75

Fancygurl23:
I live alone. When I went to bed yesterday, the scars weren't there. And I've been experiencing pain on this spot since I woke up. What do these marks even mean and who would do such a thing to me?

It says NB

That is a logo for New born...

Welcome to the marine world where you belong

DannyWalker:
so because the street boys are dangerous we should now our face to the ground and accept their oppression.

You think cultists don't appreciate their own lives? Bro you don't understand how human beings think

Let me tell you a simple truth.....

It's a very dangerous move engaging this men in a war because of a woman.....

He was even fucking with their number 2...

Some gangs can wait for years just to let things slide and then you will be butchered.......

If you harass a number 2 and it gets bloody even if you like bring an entire battalion, your matter go still dey come up for meetings until you are dead.....

It could get worst if the military men are same gang with them....


All I am saying is that for such wars to occur because of a (girlfriend) is not worth it brother man....

I can only go to war for my full pledge family.....

Nothing more nothing less ..

Modified:

You see lately in Anambra a lot of vigilantes are getting killed and some police men too?

That is as a result of an Axeman kpowai the vigilantes killed and burnt in Anambra publicly some months ago ......

You call them Cult boys?

Learn to avoid some unnecessary wars please

DannyWalker:
DonOG

https://www.nairaland.com/7546884/how-handled-cultist-slapped-girlfriend

I will tell you this sir.

Clearly you handled this shit like a damn coward.

Listen to this, a man is worthy of respect and honour when he shows an enemy that he is capable of dangerous actions. Not all situations demand peace solutions and this one was definitely not one.

You had a very big advantage which were your military friends.... Cult boys will never fvck with military men.

If your military friends had hurt that guy for slapping your woman I can assure you that he will avoid her till the end of his life.

If the army had invaded that school because of that guy, your girl will be feared.

The last thing he would do will be to touch her again when you are not around because he knows that he might lose his life.

You probably do not understand the psychology of the human mind and how to paralyzes men with fear.

If you did, you wouldn't let that shit slide, because that nigga will still bully your girl because he has not received a scar on him that warns him not to enter your territory.


So I must say this... You are a coward until you show the tenacity or capacity to be dangerous to other men.

#Peace


MODIFIED

some of you are saying the cultists will d this and that... Lol. You don't understand human beings

This is not even about the girl anymore

When men come in face of danger something must happen, action or silence. This particular issue was not one to be silent about.

Cult boys like this can only understand one language and it is a language that hurts them and inflicts fear. Boys like these are meant to tamed not negotiate peace because they are brutes and do not understand the essence of peace.


I have said my own sha... His girlfriend will still be bullied


I have a saying that goes thus "There are two ways to defeat an enemy, make them an offer they can't refuse or overwhelm them with violence".

Hahaha it's obvious you don't know how the streets work...

How many Cultists do you think you can find in your military organizations??

My Advice now cost $250 .


Slightly Negotiable...

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. We Africans, especially Nigerians are hypocrites. Feminism is gradually taking over Nigeria and our so-called men aren't exempted. If it was a guy that made exposure of a lady he slept with, u guys(feminist) would have crucified him and call him all sorts of names. Now, a lady did same, u guys(feminists) are calling him all sorts of names. Is it because he is a religious leader? Weda the allegation against Apostle Suleiman is true or not, it was a Consensual sex. Why is Halima now acting like he raped her? Was the sex not consensual? Why is she blackmailing him? Why is she tarnishing his image? Why is she trying to destroy his marriage? Was she expect Apostle Suleiman to dump his wife for a kiss and tell Wh*re?

Hahahaha now na consensual Bleep ?

Hahahaha no be Fornicaton Bleep?
No na Adultery Bleep?


Omoh oh this pastors no say those their Bible rules na trash...

But I pity all of Una weh dey do sheep sheep sheep with them.

God has blessed you...

Marry the two Asap🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🤠

siofra:
Seriously. I pity this guy. He seems so bitter, unhappy and angry.

It's like his gaypillers have stopped giving him attention.

I pity him cause few more years from now when he gets wise then he will realizes his stupidity.

Jimmythewise:
change your mindset
The harder you try is not the worse it becomes. Life is not a slavery.

I dey vex today

If you no go post anything weh e be for here then shiiiiuuuu

Hahahaha


Boiled chicken...

Lostchild:
You are indeed blind..

Hahaha I am not blind

You are lost indeed

The stupidity that follows will always scare me...


Romantic love is Stupidity ...


But I love been Stupid

kozmokaz:
I knew he was not gonna reply

kozmokaz:
And how is the Niger delta and the north east currently?

😆😆 Otilor..!!

He has ran very far way because of your question..