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[quote author=Adanna28 post=39705926]Oh really, I'm mixed race Igbo/Samoan it funny you think this way, yet all up in my inbox messaging the "devil daughter" mtschew! punch u in the head. [/quote)

Lol

tyconcepts:
This piece should interest you coming from a man


Some times, being a woman in Nigeria is quite a
task. You are subjected to absurd societal
norms, by men…. and other women. Many times,
men, even those that ‘love and care about’ their
women can’t see these absurdities as what they
are. Onuora Ikechukwu Onianwa see these
absurdities, and he has written a Facebook note
about them. His note his getting plenty likes
from women, and some men.

Onuora Ikechukwu Onianwa’s note :

I want to make a general, sweeping statement. I
know it will sound unfair and rude, and I’m sorry.
I truly mean no insult. It is just me expressing
my view on a long list of issues.

So, here we go…

Sometimes I am grateful to God I am not a
woman...

* I can’t have an education or it will make me lord
it over my man, and tempt me to be the head of
the home.

* I can’t have a job because I will become proud
and un-submissive.

* I can’t have a job that pays more than my
husband’s because it is an insult to his manhood
and he will be emasculated. One day I will even
use it to rubbish him outside.

* I can’t be single at 25, and unmarried at 30, or
without a single child at 35. It means I am
cursed, have a spirit husband or have a bad
character and no man wants to be with me.

* Any achievement of mine is a waste and useless
if I have no boyfriend or husband, and it will only
make me more arrogant and unattractive to
men.

* Heaven forbid I own a car or a house for the
same aforementioned reasons. The only place I
can live till I marry, is my parent’s home.

* Only loose women stay in hotels. If my job
requires I travel, I must stay with older people,
friends or an elderly couple who can talk to me
about this my job that won’t allow me settle in
one place and marry.

* Expensive things are not allowed. I can’t marry
quick with them.

* I can’t speak about anything under the sun
without a ring on my finger and babies who have
suckled my breasts.

* If my boyfriend/husband cheats on me, I must
endure it and manage. All men are the same.
There are no good ones around any more.

* Whatever my husband says (even common
pangolo boyfriend that doesn’t know his left
from right) I must agree. The moment we got
together, I lost my sense of reasoning and
purpose in life. his word, even if foolish, is law
and I must die to please him and obey.

* How dare I expect my husband to hire a maid or
ask anyone asides me to clean? What did he
marry me for?

* My husband, cook and clean? Am I mad? Is that
not witchcraft?

* Why should he take care of the kids while I
sleep, travel or go out? Is he my mate or my
servant? Am I a fool?

* Oh, so I don’t know I must cook fresh soup
everyday? I must be an idiot.

* So, I don’t know I must wear make-up , heels
and sexy dresses or be naked all day? Do I want
him to go out and cheat?

* The home falls apart because I’m a useless and
stupid woman.

* The marriage ends because I am a useless and
stupid woman.

* My husband cheats on me and beats me
because I am a useless and stupid woman.

* The children grow up horrible because I am a
useless and stupid woman.

* I am a useless and stupid woman…because I am
a useless and stupid woman.


Its bad enough men think this way. To see
women do it too, and fight men like me who
have been carrying women’s rights on our head
like we are the next Malcolm X, Luther or
Madiba, is shocking and sad. Maybe one day
things will get better.
I pray it does, because anyone who says the
aforementioned trash to my baby girl(s) will hear
from me, and they won’t forget me in a hurry.
Sometimes I am grateful to God I am not a
woman. I might have killed someone by now…


PS : Coming from a man, this shocked me walahi

lalasticlala, ishilove.....Please let's hear what the general public thinks.

Being a Man in Nigeria
Is many times more harder







Women should stop complaining
Cause if they're allowed to be a man in Nigeria for just a day
Many will probably collapse

WisdomCanada:
Just saw this on twitter.


https://mobile.twitter.com/realFFK/status/663794096109060096

No reasonable person takes a double-speaking, 2faced confussionist seriously


They are nothing but inherent cowards whose aim is to benefit from the confussion they instigate

No time

Nwakali should go to Arsenal
He will develop well there

Seuncoded:
There's a sound across the nation
It's a call so clear and strong
It's a call to build our nation
It's a call for everyone
Everyone who is Nigerian
Hear the sound so clear and loud
It's a call for transformation
And the time for change is NOW
Though our tribe and tongue may differ
We are still one and the same
With one hope, one heart, one future
With one cry, one love, one name
We have the power to change Nigeria
We alone can set us free
But it starts with transformation
Yes it starts with you and me
Nigeria, Our Father land
We can build this nation hand in hand
Let 's revive and let 's reform
Let 's rebuild and let 's restore
For we are the transformation
We are stronger than before
We have had our share of battles
We have moan our days of pain
But through it all, we've stayed together
In our hearts, our hopes, we made
We believe we can better
We can reach our destiny
Only when we are transformed
Can we reach our destiny
Nigeria, Our Father land
We can build this nation hand in hand
Let 's revive and let 's reform
Let 's rebuild and let 's restore
For we are the transformation
We are stronger than before

This is the writeup of a slave minded person
"Nigga area" aka nigeria is a slave contrapment created by the the british for the enslavement of so called "niggas"

Advocating for nigeria is advocating for slavery

It was not created for the benefit of the inhabitants

It was created so as to use lies, deciet, wickedness and evil to destroy those people enslaved in it

It is heading for destruction just as every other fraudulent entity will
No amount of patching, restructuring and reforming can save it
Because
Evil cannot continue forever

samsilo:
At the moment I feel very sad for Nigeria in general and Ibos in particular . Rather than join hands and achieve the potentials of this country with immense human and materiel resources , some people are busy displaying massive amounts of hate and prejudiced behavior towards each other .
I thought initially the spats between the 'Yeebos " , 'Yolobas' , ' name checkers' etc was funny . unfortunately it is quickly descending into something that is causing me to think seriously of the exit of my close family when a Syria situation starts in that country.
From my experience while growing up in Calabar and Uyo (my parents come from both states ) I have to advice my Ibo brothers that it would take all adults in those 2 states who lived through the Civil war to either die out , become senile or become deaf before their descendants would join in something called Biafra .
You always speak of the war crimes at Asaba , go to Eket and Oron areas and ask them what the Biafran army did there before running away .
Go and ask what the Biafran army did to people before retreating where rather than accept that they were outgunned , they killed people for causing their defeat as 'Saboteurs'.
Ask people in those areas to tell you about how boastful and deceitful the Biafran propaganda machine ( convincing people with sticks and mactetes to go against the Nigerian Army in Enugu sector of the war was before you waste your youth and future generations .

Conflict brings no good .
A word is enough for the wise

Biafra is here
Biafra is now
Stop decieving yourself with those stories youwrote up there
Nothing can stop the movement

nickxtra:
You and I know that you will never have Biafria, not even in 50 years time. I think the earlier people like you wake up to this reality, the better for you. At times when I take a look at your purported map, I shake my head in awe and disgust.

What you and I think or know is irrelevant
Biafra's restoration is imminent
And it'll happen very soon

Anyone who can't see this
Is obviously living in delusion

nickxtra:
With these incessant historical calls and campaigns for secession by the so called Biafrians, started and championed by the late Ojukwu, albeit unsuccessfully and the activated agitations by MASSOB and lately IPOB, will the Igbo man or woman be ever entrusted with power as the President of Nigeria? I think it will be suicidal for Nigeria as nation to allow an Igbo man presidency unless they give the other stakeholders in the Nigerian project all the benefits of the doubt that once enthrusted with that 'powerful' position, they will not find a fertile ground to balkanize the country, as they have over the years be hungry for. As the campaigns increase within and outside the country, majority of the Igbo elites are seen to have either kept mute, perhaps in solidarity with their kins, or they are afraid of what may befall them back home if they speak against the agitations publicly. But I believe, if the Igbo race must have the moral and soothing ground to aspire into presidency which should rightly be their turn in no distant future(based on rotation), the best these elites should do now is to put their house in order through their apex body Ohaneze Indigbo, World Igbo Congress or through which ever medium to tackle these dangerous trend, otherwise, they are accomplice to the cause which these youths champion. The earlier they dissociate the Igbo nation from these agitations, the better for them, because I fear the worst for them as regard entrusting power in their hands as the presidency is concerned. That's my candid constructive view(an advice in disguise to the Igbo race). You have got to either agree or disagree it, but it is the truth.

People are talking of how to destroy the British created slave camp called "Nigga Area"
You are here talking of presidency







Do some of you reason atall

A very nonsensical writeup

hmohammed:
You are a. Bastard. I hate ibos I must confess. This is one Nigeria. Anofia

You want "one Nigeria"
But hate the people you want to do so called "one Nigeria" with




You are not making sense

nnamdibig:
http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/11/hell-bound-christians-and-heaven-bound-unbelievers/

You people should stop allowing your selves to be fooled by religious mumbo jumbo
You are all defrauded right before your very eyes with all those crap you are being fed

Open your mind and reason
So that you can free yourself from the boundage youall are in

ipreach:
Jesus is coming back again

Are you prepared for His coming?


Click on my signatures

Let him come and stop wasting peoples time

princeisah26:
Wait oooo..what if chelsea wins the campons league??

Win champions league??

Only way they fit touch that trophy this season na if dem tif am

ZUBY77:
Asking such questions online will end up to nothing.
It is one reason I belive we will have a physical group that occasionally educate the youths of the need to be the ones to chart their futures since the custodians has failed us since independence. And they can't seem to let go of power.
If not, I see no reasons why people such as Audu Ogbe even Buhari should still be in active politics by now.

Educating the youths is not the solution

The solution is doing and promoting the right thing always and living by example
Youths get inspired and learn by the example of their role models

The more role models you have that reason and act right
The more youths will follow suite

kettykin:
Thank you for pointing this out, if Nigeria remains one and with people of such wack and depraved mindset living and answering Nigerians, Nigeria will end up the joke of the black .

It was the same mindset obasanjo has that during his regime he ended splitting the marriage of his son by sleeping with his daughter in law. Abiola was so much into adultery that northern Muslims preferred him dead than ruling Nigeria.

Nigeria will not remain one

It is heading for destruction
Just like every other fraudulent contraception

CSTR2:
I just shudder at their basic intelligence.
I was reading through, expecting something big, instead the so-called traveller was going on about food and women.
Donald trump was right about most black people.

Worst part is
Most do not understand the depth of their idiocy

OBAFEMIawolowo:
I was opprotuned to visit all southeast states on a project work sponsored by an international organization in the U.S. I had to visit several big hospitals in the region like UNTH, NAUTH, FMC owerri, ABSUTH, FMC abakaliki. The work has to do with the prevalence of PUD in southeast and it lasted for 10weeks. This is my first time of going to southeast and I was eager to know what ile Igbo looks like.

On getting to Niger bridge from Asaba airport, I met a 10lanes road in Onitsha which serve as gateway to southeast, the road was well marked and wide ( I was like "welcome to southeast", then i was immediately taken to my hotel at fegge area of Onitsha (top rank hotel).

Onitsha
Onitsha is quite a formidable commercial city, but I can't live in onitsha. The city is tick, dusty and congested, most of their roads are dusty with no walkways. Onitsha has heavy buildings but tiny roads, aside the expressway, I don't think any other thing fascinated me about onitsha. I remember visiting on Chinese restaurant at awka road though. I can remember also visiting oguta road, modebe, zik road, port Harcourt road eetc onitsha needs a total overhaul but i won't deny seeing heavy buildings. I spent two weeks in onitsah then we moved to owerri.

Owerri
I lodged at rapour hotel along orlu road in owerri. Owerri is a very lively city but lot of abandoned projects scatter all over the city. I remember seeing two abandoned flyover projects and it doesn't seem it was abandoned recently. Nice houses, night live is also encouraging. I remember spending time with fine owerri girls, they have beautiful girls. I was disappointed in okoroacha, owerri roads are not well marked, most street lights are not working. But owerri is quite more inhabitable than onitsha. Spent two weeks in owerri then moved to aba.

Aba
Didn't really spent much time moving around here, roads are quite bad here but I saw some construction work going on. i remember our car falling into a big pothole ( I had to role my shirt to push it ooo). The city is also very noisy. I moved to Enugu after one week.

Enugu
I lodges ate fildema hotel at independence layout. Bros, make I no lie, this city get government presence ooo. Didn't really see heavy building like in owerri, aba and onitsha but the city is organized with well planned road networks, street lights and well marked roads. Didn't enjoy enugu well because water is a problem, I also noticed their soil is a strange stony red soil. Enugu is quite better than others. I spent two weeks here then moved to abakaliki.

Abakaliki
I even forget the hotel wet I lodge sef, but it was along Enugu road or so. Abakaliki is quite the least of all ot these cities but i remember still seeig wider roads than i saw in aba and onitsha. Abakaliki is quite laidbacked with similar soil like that of Enugu.

I moved to back to enugu to spend extra one week, visited several clubs and lounges in enugu. Fine residential buildings, I remember eating opa with coke along oguiyi road. Stella odua messed up in that Enugu airport ooo, chairs for there don dey soil finish, but well sha, i will love to visit Enugu and owerri again.

I enjoyed southeast ooo, please lets stop the tribal rivalry here and tolerate each other, I even caught some sweet igbo chicks in owerri and Enugu mmeaning, I will still have to go back there. As for me, Nigeria is the same, I felt at home in these places.

I don't mind settling down with omo ibo sha

I don't see the point in this your writeup



Meanwhile

All hail

casalaburst:
The storm is gathering....

When Niger delta militants took up arms, we suddenly realized they were serious

When boko haram took up arms, we also realized there were serious.

Again, the storm is gathering in the East.

Procurement of arms and ammunitions is as easy as 'pure water'. Ask Russia.

The storm is gathering in the East! A time bomb.

Most people will not understand this
Till MAYHEM is unleashed



#itususallystartslikeajoke

Zoharariel:
Back to the sender in 9million folds - Ewu Morocco!

Like I said
When it happens
Remember you were told

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Meanwhile, His wife posted these.

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I'm glad I married you...even glad ur my best friend...
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Why do popular people like disturbing the public with their private affairs
Unnecessary attention seeking makes you become uninteresting to the public

Zoharariel:
I thought the IPOB youths warned the FG days before their protest that there would be reprisals should any 1 of them gets whacked.

I keep telling you incorrigible dolts that as long as you choose to rebel against the Caesar, ya'll shall keep dying by the Caesars's bullet.

Kudos to the Police but they shoulda shot atleast 72 IPOB jobless youths.

For wishing innocent people evil
Evil shall come you
This is just the way life works

When it happens
Remember someone told you

ZUBY77:
Thanks for your response.
However we are attempting to chose between two evils here.

The question you should ask yourself is: Is it better to start doing something about it or to just sit back and watch them continue stealing.

Thanks.

The so called leaders cannot get to those positions without the peoples support

The question you and the people should be asking yourselves is
Why do we enjoy supporting and electing theives, criminals, drug barron, pedophiles, terrorists and killers as leaders
When we know that we are heading no where when such people are our leaders

Only when you guys answer this question sincerely will you start solving your problems

gebest:
those who does not want peace in this country will know no peace at home.

Of course
That is why IPOB is peacefully protesting

The Nigerian police/security forces lead by the Nigerian leadership are the ones provocating, shooting and killing peacefully agitators and protesters
A reasonable proper thinking and functional government will have rather call a round table meeting where they and the peaceful agitators will sit down, resolve and trashout the issues with reasonable debates and exchange of ideas
But of course they can't do this
Why?
Because they are people who cannot reason properly
When a country is lead by people who cannot reason properly
Such a country is heading for doom

Most of you will not understand the implications of this constant action by the leadership of the country till mayhem is finally unleashed
By then
It will be too late


Don't say you where not warned

gebest:
Kill em all, there must be peace in nigeria whether they like it or not.

Those who wish evil on innocent people will eventually see evil

ZUBY77:
Good day the blessed youths of Nigeria.
My name is Samson, known online as Zuby77. I am from Enugu State, that makes me a full citizen of Nigeria. Despite the agitation of some of my brothers from the South East, i still believe that we can salvage this country without violence.
We can only achieve that by coming together and forming a formidable group that will be heard from across the world. This group will be open to any youth that has the interest of Nigeria at heart. I have read Omojuwa, Adesamni and others fighting individual wars criticizing the government of the day for doing this or not doing that. I respect them for that. However, the truth remains that the people they are critising does not know the mechanisms of modern day leadership. It is left for us to update them on what obtains today. There are things you might think your father knows, but the truth is that he doesn't know it.

A typical example was the day i visited the State CID Awka to bail a relative who was invited by the Police but detained. It started when i configured a newly acquired Android phone purchased by the station Captain. He was amazed at how easy i operated the phone that he couldn't help but asked where i learnt how to do that. I told him i learnt it in Germany and i seized that opportunity to lecture him on how Police operates in developed Countries. He listened to me for over an hour while i lectured this gentleman on what he doesn't know about Police work. At the end of the day, he was so impressed that he didn't ask for bail out money from me. He gave me his phone number and asked that i can always come to his office for chats. After that day, it dawned on me that there are basic things we know more than our old politicians, Police officers, teachers, Army officers and even Pastors. This people sent us to schools so that we could be their eyes when they start getting old. Unfortunately, our politicians and their system are old already but they still hold on to it because we are not teaching them enough. We are not being the light they wanted us to be. I see it as being ignorant if we think that they can just hand over the system to us without knowing the direction we will follow.

Let us not bring in APC or PDP propaganda into this, we can all agree that they are the same, they just changed party names. Let us not bring in Geo Zones into this. Let us see the politicians as what they are; the same. We must not allow our country to die because someone from another tribe is the president or Vice President.

It is on this ground that i appeal to our Youths here on nairaland to come together and start a peaceful group that will contribute ideas that can convince our old politicians that we are capable of moving this nation forward. If we sit down and complain or criticize them from now until the next 20 years, things will only remain the same. This is not a movement or political party. If we will adopt one political party eventually, we all have to agree to it first. We will map out how we will start, write our manifesto and everything that will help this country move forward. We will have plans to implement every policy we think can move Nigeria forward. I personally believe that if this country gets it right, the cry for secession will die naturally.
You can indicate your interest by posting a reply on this thread. When we eventually have a group outside this forum, we will add you.
We will need people to create and handle Twitter and Facebook accounts for us. We will assign that heaven responsibility to someone when we have stability.


Thank You.

What kind of help can you give to people who are theives, drug barrons, pedophiles, criminals, terrorists and killers

justbusy:
The Igbos are industrious, innovative and have got the Midas touch. Do you recollect how the Biafrans were able to manufacture weapons to sustain the war? The Niger Deltans are lazy, lack the ability to think positively. They only think of quick money. Majority of them are not educated. We should NEVER let them be a part of us. They should stay with their Yoruba brothers. I hate them with great animosity. The Igbos, what do you think? I stand to be corrected! If you're not an Igbo, but feels you're a BASTARD, then post your comment.

Try another tactic
Your moves are obvious

Lol