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HealthRe: Benefits Of Fasting! by TheFirstLady: 7:47pm On May 25, 2016
stevecantrell:
A 3 day fast will rebuild your entire immune system !
hey you...
PoliticsRe: Obasanjo Donates A Chimpanzee ‘Patience’ To A Zoo by TheFirstLady: 9:58am On May 05, 2016
undecided ...Obj should donate himself... in fact the nickname of the chimp should be Obasanjo
PoliticsRe: PHOTO: Patience Jonathan Now An Evangelist by TheFirstLady: 9:45pm On Apr 29, 2016
shocked
CelebritiesRe: Who Is Wizkid?…a Sierra Leonean Laments Over Presidential Welcome by TheFirstLady: 9:42pm On Apr 29, 2016
These people gotta know anything 9j is final... even the president concur our gbedu is final... no time for Wahala...we be babanla ...yeheye! whizzy whizz baby ti take over..hahahaha see painment...we be Naija
CelebritiesRe: TeeBillz Packs Out From Their Home In Lekki - Ebiwalismoment.com by TheFirstLady: 1:32pm On Apr 29, 2016
TeeBillz Parks Out From Their Home In Lekki - Ebiwalismoment.com...wtf?! this piece of sh*t is on nairaland front page? the style of writing, the grammar... everything about this crap is just off... can the mods do their job other than banning people hereon? oh Nairaland...
RomanceRe: What Defines A Real Gentleman And A True Lady.... We All Wanna Date Them by TheFirstLady: 9:52am On Apr 22, 2016
Eddygourdo:
the ego thing.

Anyway loyalty is everything. If you don't have that . One has nothing. So I get u
point is, if i Am calling my man my Head and lord, he should be worth every inch of that and me...
RomanceRe: What Defines A Real Gentleman And A True Lady.... We All Wanna Date Them by TheFirstLady: 9:33am On Apr 22, 2016
Eddygourdo:
you said u love a man who keeps his words and I just assume u like six packs.

You say you are traditional and by my analysis you are a good nigerian woman , good enough for nigerian men.

The only issue you might have with us is the not keeping to our words

So I ask, can't you excuse that since the bigger problem of naija men , you seem ok with it
what bigger problem of 9j men do you presume i Am Ok with? a man who does not keep his word will definitely lie and never be loyal - Who wants that?
RomanceRe: What Defines A Real Gentleman And A True Lady.... We All Wanna Date Them by TheFirstLady: 9:01am On Apr 22, 2016
Eddygourdo:
if you are this flexible. Then a nigerian man is ur optimal partner. Where have you been lookiong for them at.

The two major issues with a nigerian man is his great innate desire to not be emasculated. He likes asserting his manhood. Foriegn women hate that. But our lovely nigerian women can tolerate us and even allow our bragadacio.

If you could take that, and understand it. In my thougjts a lying tongue appears forgivable. Don't u think so?

We should ignore it like the six packs
the lying part and the six pack... i don't get you
RomanceRe: What Defines A Real Gentleman And A True Lady.... We All Wanna Date Them by TheFirstLady: 8:55am On Apr 22, 2016
HateU2:
Op, I don't lyk bashing peeps really but u dont have to call me a lez simply bcox of my opionon. If u check my siggy nd Dp, u will knw dat I love d!ck. I'm not a lez, u gerrithuh
...#D! ckisIt... all real WOMEN understands this
RomanceRe: What Defines A Real Gentleman And A True Lady.... We All Wanna Date Them by TheFirstLady: 8:48am On Apr 22, 2016
Eddygourdo:
hahaahhahah. Anyway it isn't easy but exceptions abound. We have a lot of ego down here and still pretty much traditional. If such isn't ur turn on. There are lots of evolved naija guys. Especially those who are exposed. Infact have noticed some on this forum.

Upbringing affects idealogy. But as two faces of children of same parents aren't the same. Thus plenty men here could fit ur bill. Once I see one on the street who does. I will tell him to chyke you at once.
the Traditional part i understand... i very much Am African and understand our value and traditions... the ego part is not a special reserve of Nigerian men - a man is a man...
RomanceRe: What Defines A Real Gentleman And A True Lady.... We All Wanna Date Them by TheFirstLady: 8:37am On Apr 22, 2016
Oliviaarims:
Very crucial. smiley
like seriously, some men don't understand the difference of a lady and the Who. Re they run around town with...
RomanceRe: What Defines A Real Gentleman And A True Lady.... We All Wanna Date Them by TheFirstLady: 8:34am On Apr 22, 2016
Eddygourdo:
ha don't tell me you are part of the team foreign men crew?
i pretty much am open minded... i currently am seeing a foreign guy... its been Great so far without the attendant drama of dating a 9j guy...this is my second time Dating a foreigner...i wish i could get that one 9j guy that fits the bill...do i have to lower my Standards because i must date or eventually marry a 9j guy? look around you, imagine what it is like to be a 9ja woman... abegi, wherever one Finds love bo
RomanceRe: What Defines A Real Gentleman And A True Lady.... We All Wanna Date Them by TheFirstLady: 8:23am On Apr 22, 2016
Oliviaarims:
My definition of a gentleman is on who knows to respect a woman. He doesn't toy with her emotions to suit his selfish desires.
hmmm hmm... you go gurl... #RespectAWoman
RomanceRe: What Defines A Real Gentleman And A True Lady.... We All Wanna Date Them by TheFirstLady: 8:19am On Apr 22, 2016
Eddygourdo:
ha and truly there was no mention of six packs. Who says there isn't a living God.

Note to all those pregnant men who may or may not be taller than either aki or pawpaw. We have a lady here that would consider you so far you don't have a lying tongue.

# just kidding. But good choices u gat. It will work for u dear
lmao...indeed There is a living GOD! societal Standards don't trump my personal Standards and choices...i guess.. theres more i look out for and Trust me, a large percentage of 9j men fall below par...maybe its just societal Standards and how they view Nigerian women
RomanceRe: What Defines A Real Gentleman And A True Lady.... We All Wanna Date Them by TheFirstLady: 8:05am On Apr 22, 2016
Eddygourdo:
its veryy difficult for a pretender to keep up with all his words, anyway since u will be crossing out a lot u meet, you should meet a whole lot so by the time you cross out 90percent as frauds. You could have a 10percent to apply another yardstick to. Eg does he have six packs
hahahaha...i do pyscho-analysis to some extent... you can read a person to a large extent behind the facade ...sometimes checkout Body Language, Things left unsaid,things said-read between the lines...touch on the Person's vibe-try to Touch the person's spirit... voila! There you have it... Throw in keeping his words, you just know already
RomanceRe: What Defines A Real Gentleman And A True Lady.... We All Wanna Date Them by TheFirstLady: 7:44am On Apr 22, 2016
Eddygourdo:
if one uses keeping words to filter men, you will know a good man amongst the rest in the shortest possible time. E no easy to keep words, that's why I preach, if you can keep to to it , then shut the hell up
true that... that is the yardstick for measuring Who is a real man or Flash in the pan... i immediately loose interest if a man falls below this standard
RomanceRe: What Defines A Real Gentleman And A True Lady.... We All Wanna Date Them by TheFirstLady: 7:26am On Apr 22, 2016
Acidosis:
Did you read the thread where the OP said being too nice to a lady will never make her love you?

So my idea of being a gentleman: 'don't be nice to ladies'
this is for men who date girls cool
RomanceRe: What Defines A Real Gentleman And A True Lady.... We All Wanna Date Them by TheFirstLady: 7:24am On Apr 22, 2016
First Things first...a man that keep his word! that connotes discipline... that will be a man i can respect
TravelRe: An Indonesian Air Hostess Shared This Story About Two Nigerians by TheFirstLady: 9:33am On Apr 20, 2016
Marinza:
I don't get the point... So was the guy helping out Nigerian? She said the flight was headed to Nigeria dsnt mean they were all Nigerians
the act of human kindness was initiated by a Nigerian and supported by passengers on board that may have been 70-80% Nigerians... BTW keep your negativity about Nigerians out of this thread... celebrate Nigeria for once, sheesh!
CelebritiesRe: Toolz Says You Should Do This If Your Man Asks For A Relationship Break by TheFirstLady: 7:20pm On Apr 19, 2016
different strokes for different folks... this may be counter productive- her advice... if a man needs space, give him the space...absence makes the heart fonder; this will give both parties time to evaluate the relationship and what they want... while at it, take care of you and reinvent you! Indulge in loving yourself more... if he still needs the space after all, update to a smoky hotter better man...there's upgrade for a reason { caveat: do this if your heart is not involved,if it is... win him back}
CelebritiesRe: Linda Ikeji: I Took Wizkid To Police In Lagos Because Of These by TheFirstLady: 5:34pm On Apr 18, 2016
SirShymexx:
Gotta handle my business like Flavor Flav's clock. It comes with the territory and having responsibilities.

Lol, patiently waiting. tongue
smiley
CelebritiesRe: Linda Ikeji: I Took Wizkid To Police In Lagos Because Of These by TheFirstLady: 2:48pm On Apr 18, 2016
SirShymexx:
You tell me, Ms Sunshine. I'm just out here tryna make time and working smart pay the bills. You?

Still waiting on you for the other thing that will blow my mind away. tongue
i like a man that handles his business... for the other thing wink
CelebritiesRe: Linda Ikeji: I Took Wizkid To Police In Lagos Because Of These by TheFirstLady: 1:43pm On Apr 18, 2016
cool
sukkot:
yup my phone stinks. but thankfully i got my internet connection on my lappy sorted today. shyttt conked out on me yesterday and i was stuck with this small screen phone with cumbersome keyboard. ahh well am back baby babyyyy lolz grin
CelebritiesRe: Linda Ikeji: I Took Wizkid To Police In Lagos Because Of These by TheFirstLady: 12:52pm On Apr 18, 2016
SirShymexx:
Looool.

I don't mess with uncouth and rabid folks who lack interpersonal skills and they think the only can get attention is by being caustic or wishing folks they don't know the worst in life unprovoked. Positive vibes and banter only lol.
sure thang... so what's up?
CelebritiesRe: Linda Ikeji: I Took Wizkid To Police In Lagos Because Of These by TheFirstLady: 11:22am On Apr 18, 2016
SirShymexx:
Don't post here - just move it to a next thread.

That jobless cu.nt is the most miserable stalker/troll ever. If you're going to follow someone all over the web, at least post something sensible. With the stupid sket, it's always about: "you'll end up in prison like ya friends", "your mum will cry over you", "bloody convict", and all kinds of crap unprovoked, with the story of life/family's in Ibadan like I give a fvck about some loonies from Ibadan. I never quote this sket on the forum and I posted to "sukkot" on this one, yet she managed to wriggle her miserable life into it, with the same predictable tosh. grin

She's lucky the internet provides a medium for mad tossers and bellends to hide behind their PC and spout nonsense to people they don't know. Else, I would've smacked her face in time ago in self-defense and unwarranted provocations by utter stalking. After that, I'll just get a restraining order against the scandalous sket. grin
Lmao at the Ibadan connect... she prolly got a thang for ya... Sukkot has no chill mehn, his phone stinks already?! double da. mn,thats cold mehn...
CelebritiesRe: Linda Ikeji: I Took Wizkid To Police In Lagos Because Of These by TheFirstLady: 10:49pm On Apr 17, 2016
SirShymexx:
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How many times in ya illiterate and miserable life am I going to tell ya silly arse not to quote me on this forum? What the fvck does ya ignorant and uneducated arse know about law?

Do you I look a miscreant on ya level, you obnoxious fvcked face sket with yeasty pum.

Sod off.

I don't know you and I don't want to talk to you. Don't ever quote my post again.
...
PoliticsRe: Jonathan Was Not Interested In Saving Nigeria’s Resources – Okonjo-iweala by TheFirstLady: 9:54am On Apr 15, 2016
VictorRomanov:
My brother, I tire. And knowing who Nigerians are, they won't bother to even read. I've read this article before, with a different headline. In a separate interview she explained that the state governor seriously fought that the excess crude money should be shared rather than saved.
exactly...people like Rotimi Amaechi... these people just need excuses for failing the Nigerian people under their faux change
RomanceRe: Can This Happen In Nigeria?pix) UNCONDITIONAL LOVE by TheFirstLady: 12:19am On Apr 12, 2016
SirShymexx:
The excerpt in bold corroborates the point I was getting at. The fact that not many people get to experience it, when almost everyone talks about love, adds credence to the fact that it's almost non-existent based on percentages.

Also, I never alluded to attractive - my emphasis is about being attracted to something the person has. It might be how sweet the person is, the demeanour, sense of humour, potentials etc. Once you can actually point to why you're in love with that person, then there's no way it can be real cos love is meant to be something you just feel but can't explain why you feel that way. I'm sure if you're to asking almost everyone who claims to be in love, they'd tell you why they're in love and that's my point.
true that...
CultureRe: Attn: Seun,nairaland And Accidentalgenuis Vs Nigerian Women by TheFirstLady(op): 12:12am On Apr 12, 2016
Fulaman198:
Hi, you would have to be more specific as this is the culture section. We do not discriminate on a basis of gender/sex here. Can you please link the thread in which the problem occurred. Thanks!
ok,thank you...will do that

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