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pocohantas:
What is wrong in cooking for your family? Forgive me, I find arguments like this mundane and irrelevant. Sadly it is what has become the order of the day when marriage is discussed. It shows there is something wrong with us as a people. Both male and female.

You were cooking in Nigeria, suddenly cooking is below you because you are abroad? There are bound to be issues.

Ordinarily, both parties should be helping each other. Domestically and financially, but when one person thinks chores are below him or assisting financially would make her a mumu, wahala done dey. Nigerians play too many mind games and relationships with them wears someone like me out.

You might not cook 7 days a week, but I believe a good husband, be it in Nigeria or Cambodia, should know when his wife has done her best and deserves some rest. On such days she should get her rest.

If her husband is not dicking her and he is making no effort to improve, she can leave the marriage with her dignity and value intact.

No adult abroad has time to even sit and eat three times a day. There are more pressing issues and Nigerian men and women should begin to upgrade their OS. We are too backward in our issues.

I am happy that it's your fellow naija girl that you are responding to.

Now, imagine her mentality when she gets abroad and believes that cooking for her family is slavery, then uses it to punish the man

Hope you see the dilema that we face?

Mariangeles:
Dis una stories ehn...

How come you guys only know friends that are suffering in their abroad marriage?

Because I have friends that are suffering in their marriage abroad. Even one of my own relative is always so careful not to trigger or ask his wife questions to avoid losing everything

Nigerian men are amongst the most loving aftrican men, but same thing can't be said about nigerian women.

PS: I am not saying all naija girls are bad when they get abroad, but a lot are

abobote:
Me I will be taking my wife and kids by January, I just have to do it for the kids

The exact same thing my friend said. He's paying the bitter price.

Unless you are 100% sure that your wife won't turn to a deranged power drunk lunatic over there, then you can carry her. if not, better find another way.

TheKingIsHere:
Na simps like you naija gals dey show shege for abroad

I have a friend with this same mentality. Then he, the wife and kids travelled abroad to Canada.

Not up to a year, the wife divorced him, took the children and sent him out.

Now, my friend has to pay for the wife's rent and feeding, children support along with his own expenses.

The guy just dey suffer. I even heard that she now flaunts sleeping with other guys in front of the man and kids.

Moral of the story, most naija girls true character are not shown until they are given freedom and power over the man

Evercurious:
Not true at all

Thank you for being truthful.

adeakin:
in Canada where i am currently, sierra leone babes are the best, then ghanians, uganda and other South Africans countries like zim. They no dey too demand from men.

Hmm, sierra leone, ghanaians and uganda babe it is

wunmi590:


Some of our men with this their shallow mentality, I guess Nigerian men should stop thinking all Nigerian women are gold diggers...

If I have the chance which I'm currently working on, I will take my wife along, infact, I can't travel out for long without letting my wife be beside me...

No be every nigerian woman bad

Na simps like you naija gals dey show shege for abroad

I have a friend with this same mentality. Then he, the wife and kids travelled abroad to Canada.

Not up to a year, the wife divorced him, took the children and sent him out.

Now, my friend has to pay for the wife's rent and feeding, children support along with his own expenses.

The guy just dey suffer. I even heard that she now flaunts sleeping with other guys in front of the man and kids.

Moral of the story, most naija girls true character are not shown until they are given freedom and power over the man

Seriously, some banks now do 8am - 7pm on their ATMs and will claim that they run a 24 hours ATM service.

Go and try to withdraw at 8pm and the security will tell you " e no dey pay". Go by 7:30am and they will tell you " wait till 8am"

Major culprits are GTbank and first bank

Have anyone else noticed this new trend from banks?

InTheCloudySky:
With her yelling at you over the phone, refusing to do video call, and you finding out later that "she never did go out there to buy water", something's definitely going on. And since there've been "several incidences" before this recent one, yeah, something's up.

I would tell you the same thing I would tell any female who thinks their partner or husband is cheating, especially when you're seeing all these signs or incidences: listen to your intuition and don't let anyone make you think you're crazy.

You are the first person that shows real logical reason.

So many other replies especially on the front page are filled with dimwits

Dshocker:
What you wrote up here doesn't say or show any sign of cheating,unless there are other traits she exhibit that you are not telling us.

I hope you know that telling lies is a sign of cheating?

emmyluizzz:
you know nothing about football

Go and get yourself educated.

I'm sure you didn't know that a winger is also a midfielder. Dunce!!

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Midfielder

richmanrichard:
so in today's game did he play as a midfielder or winger?

He played as an attacking/wing/wide midfielder

Check out the meaning of midfielder and wide midfielder so that you can understand the true position, so that tomorrow you won't be calling Kevin de brune a stricker


https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Midfielder

kinibigdeal:
Trent worst season but your Reece is still no where near

Trent has more games than Reece this season, hope you are aware? And how's it Trent's worse season?

Shegzy8:
So fantasy is your benchmark?

Same fantasy where SALAH is a midfielder

AUBA is also a midfielder in it.

Salah is a midfielder that can play as a stricker. Go and Google it.

Andd abumayang isn't a midfielder in fantasy. Stop spreading falsehood

Also, fantasy is a replica of the epl since it is done and approved by the English FA

richmanrichard:
he is a winger n a winger is a forward.baba am a chelsea n u can't lecture me about odoi

I am also a Chelsea fan but that doesn't change the fact that he is a midfielder that can play as a winger/forward.

So, technically the poster is correct. Chelsea didn't score goals with their strickers at 3:0

patoski39:
Mehn, this Chelsea team is well drilled

Why you come dey cry?

Chelsea is the best club in the world.

How I wish CR7 went there instead of useless manutd

richmanrichard:
odoi is a forward

Odoi is actually a midfielder

You will know this if you played epl fantasy football

TheKingIsHere:
Dr strange 2 is undergoing massive reshoots but everyone is doing like say nothing happen

If a DCEU movie undergoes a minor reshoot, people will be lamenting and will not let us hear word again

I forgot to add that Sam Raimi's vision will obviously be cut with these massive reshoots. Will there be justice for him? We'll see

Dr strange 2 is undergoing massive reshoots but everyone is doing like say nothing happen

If a DCEU movie undergoes a minor reshoot, people will be lamenting and will not let us hear word again

BlackManta:
After bvs and josstice league WB properly think Superman's arc is complete.

Another issue is budget. Superman films especially MOS was very expensive, they spent 258 million on that before marketing....and how much did they get in return-668m and bad reviews from critics
Matt Reeves The Batman only cost 100m

Superman films are also difficult to write because the guy is a literal god

Henry Cavill dey stubborn sometimes. WB asked for a cameo in Shazam and he refused. They haven't forgiven him for that.

But there's hope....

Warner Discovery CEO said in one of his interviews that DC trinity is a priority for him. He might make it happen.

Gbam.

A lot of people are not looking at it from this angle. Superman movies are fuc'k1ng expensive to make due to heavy CGI.

Anyways, the rock has hinted that there's going to be a fight with supes one day

Nickshrapnel:
I wish other studio will do what WB is too scared to do.

So, what's stopping other studios from doing it then? Lol

The Rock in a recent interview hinted that BA will fight Supes.

And we all know it ain't black Superman or that CW supes.

Just relax and keep the hope alive

hope4nigeria:
Loan app in Nigeria is demonic and should be disbanded.

Stop borrowing if you have no intention in paying

"Henry Cavill talks about the Multiverse & multiple Superman's existing at once.
# Superman"

I always had a huge feeling that Henry Cavill will be back as Superman.

*Fingers crossed

Emmynator:
This season
That must be a joke.
Titans should go to stargirl for tutorials please.

It's no joke bro. Maybe I'm just the only here that loves Titans

pu7pl3:


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Kaycee7:
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I don show

Somebody cannot joke with you people again

Thank God say my neighbour na soldier..I don show am una post

Kaycee7:
Pick location where we go fight this fight.

See preview of how it will go down below

I dey my house. Come and beat me

Techsupport:
This is your argument? Holy shiit!! I am arguing with an asss. you know what? you win. go drink some more holy water from your daddy dearest and expect that miraculous bank deposit.

I stated how family is a business but as usual you resulted to insults instead of you to try and debunk it..

Techsupport:
my point won't make sense to you, you are drunk on their coolaid.... eyeball deep in their BS. you think they are your savior, they fill you with fear and take your hard-earned money in exchange. but like you said, having a family is a business, what is your private jet tail number since i believe you too came from a family

Lol, you can't even give a constructive argument.

oya, if family isn't a business tell us what is happening here where families are fighting over properties of another person that they didn't even help financially? Or you can only shout when it involves a pastor? https://www.nairaland.com/6839626/uncle-state-dilemma

abduleez1:
Abeg make Una slow down with the Star Girl spoilers.. we never start.

Who be mister Bones again.


Finally up to speed with Doom Patrol.

Titans season 3 EP 4 looking funny as always.
See the way them catch Black Fire and Release am like say na so them dey take obtain Govt property.

pu7pl3:
Yea you're right but most of them were already on this one with just a few additions so I think they can handle it...i don't think people like the Shade or Sylvester or Chuck will have many episodes in S3...

What do you think about Cindy Burman??her growth arc has been really interesting and now she wants to joint the JSA...I'm actually really proud of her, you already know I'm a sucker for those kind of characters

I actually liked the Shade guy. He was the stand out guy this season for me.

The rest were either there or annoying. Maybe I am the only one that sees it this way.

Btw Titans >>>>>>>> Stargirl

Techsupport:
you mean when they start their business

Even having a family is a business, so whats your point?