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Ivebeenbanned:
Where you born stupid? I was writing out what you meant about your exes becoming feminists after your relationships. Guy, like I said, drop the tag. You're not smart.

Smart girl, thank you.

Ivebeenbanned:
You see yourself? You don't even know what you're talking about. When did feminism become, a church program?? Where is the rule that as a feminist you can't show your skin on social media? How do they relate? How do you think you're making sense? How does someone suddenly believe in equal rights simply because she was in a bad relationship? What nonsense is coming out your juvenile brain?? Isn't feminism about women doing what they want as long as no one is getting hurt? Yet you're here opening mouth, attempting to bash people for showing off the body that belongs to them. Ogbeni, drop that tag. You're not a feminist. You're hiding behind feminism to bash your exes freely. Well done

You are an idiot with short memory because yourself wrote that females become feminist because of bad relationships. Same way you accused me of saying Narcissists cannot be feminists, because your short memory couldn't remember what I said.

Feminism according to you is women doing what they want as long as no one is getting hurt but you gladly include people who say all men are scum as feminists even when it hurts some good men for them to say that. You are filled with cognitive dissonace and such a short memory you can contradict your self in one sentence. I am not the author of your mental distress please direcr your anger and insults accordingly.

Ivebeenbanned:
Right. They turned feminists because of bad relationships. Typical. I mean, what did I expect from a Nigerian man? The movement you claim to support, I don't think you know what its about. I'm sorry for your gf, tomorrow tell people she became a feminist after y'all broke up.

No, they turned feminists because of their unsuccessful ability to control men with what they think is the Midas touch.

In your small world (mind) a feminist who becomes a one due to a bad relationship must have been the right person in the relationship. Self-pity should be kept aside let's face the facts, some women are manipulative and possesive and I don't value people who are such at all. Once I notice you are trying to gain special favours becausee you are a woman, I relegate you. My ideal woman is a hardworker who gets what she worked for and sees responsibility before gender.

My gf is rather sorry for you, you have created this brain fog for yourself where you think that only women can say what feminism is but men can join a movement they have no say about. Go to twitter most Nigerian women influencer there are showing either boobs or ass, now go check the male influencers. That brings the question, areally most women selling skill or skin? I respect a woman who knows her worth outside how she is shaped or her boobs and thighs. Isn't that what feminism is all about?

Ivebeenbanned:
Have you met a woman who became a feminist because her primary motive was to be a narcissist Last time I checked you don't even need to join a movement to be a narcissist or whatever. Go off sha. She has done the one that pleased you. Tomorrow she'll say, "join your wives in the kitchen" then she will become a 'fake' feminist. I know una type. Do it for the attention.

Yes, I've met women who tried to control me with their vaginas and we're unsuccessful and later became feminists, women who think my world revolves around them and that I should worship them. From experience they are the hateful feminists.

My girlfriend is a feminist and I am a feminist too, she worKS hard for her money and never compensates me with vagina because she knows sex is not trade by barter. She does it because she wants to not because she thinks it's something I should pay her back for in advance or arrears.

Ivebeenbanned:
Oh, really? So if you're narcissistic and hateful, you're not fit to be a feminist? Is that so?

I never said so, I said if that is your primary motive of joining the movement then that is what you are and not a feminist.

Ivebeenbanned:
And so they're fake feminists?

Yes, because feminism is not their primary motive.

Ivebeenbanned:
Is there a thing as fake feminist, or you just want to talk?

There are narcissistic, hateful women who are men-haters and hide under feminism.

Feminism in its real sense is a very good thing but it has also been poplated by hateful women who try to control men in their life and are unsuccessful so they hide under feminism to say all men are scum.