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cococandy:
You’re going to be eternally frustrated if you expect these double standards to lead to anything but dysfunction

There are no extra women hidden in a cave somewhere so that y’all can have one and some extra on the side. The more sex you have, the more women are having sex. Expecting low body count is you being in denial and having absolutely no sense or logic in how you operate. Sorry to break it to you.

A woman has unlimited access to sex.
Men have to become the top 10-25% of society to get access to GOOD quality beautiful women

The fact you think you are some how special that you can get access to multiple men is laughable.

If you are giving you sex to multiple men. It means you don't value your pussy. Because DICK is not valuable (not in the eyes of women)

this is how slow a lot of you are

- PUSSY IS valuable and if your are giving away a Ferrari for free something is wrong with it. because NO ONE GIVES AWAY A FERRARI

What is valuable in the eyes of men (IS HIS ABILITY TO PRODUCE) and if your pussy can not keep a man that has the ability to produce is very possible you gave up the PUSSY to TOOOOO many men or its over valued. If this man how has worked so hard finds out you are the village door knob. YOU THINK HE WILL TAKE YOU? LOL

That is what the Beta men are here for.. to take care of the left overs.

Lets just face it you WANT TO BE A MAN and have no deserve to be a woman and this is why you bitch and moan. Suck it up sister.

sharone21:
From all I read, black men still have a LONG wat to go...

It's amazing that few men like the Op exist on this forum... Ladies may not want to comment on threads like this, but trust me, they are on the side of very mature men like the Op...

So, men too don't have body counts? While we know many are sex addicts sleeping with different ladies each week... So, men do not have problems of erectile dysfunction( and all that comes with it), STIs/venereal diseases/ HIV?...Na dem spread am more pass.

Men pretending to be holier than women... If woman preach morality to me and Bible, I will believe her more than men who can sleep with fellow men, chicken, goats etc if women no dey...Men should be very GRATEFUL to God for creating women: I'm talking to those boys who say women are never good( including their mums& sisters).

Both men and women should be responsible for their bodies though.... Women at times sleep with men thinking by doing that he will marry them...apart from those who need money...unlike men who sleep around because they are addicts...

If na fellow woman dey slut shame another woman though it is bad but at least still understandable NOT public toilet which most men are and trying to slut shame a woman.... As far as I'm concerned, NO MAN can dare that as I no get their time.

Women, stay strong... Better men dey that will value u, no too put mind on Naija men sharing same mindsets as the ones in Nairaland....Men plenty, just believe in yourselves( no matter your age) and learn to explore outside Africa...At least to help your future generation- if nothing u gain in this, u will gain another citizenship and very intelligent children who think maturely and out of the box.

*I'm TOTALLY disappointed with men in this forum, I hope majority of Naija men don't think like this though...Anyway, I may not know because I will NOT give them that privilege ( lol)....

I didn't even read all this..

MEN AND WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME.
-Not mentally
-BIOLOGICALLY
- We dont have the SAME VALUE ADD IN THIS WORLD

WOMEN CAN SELL SEX RIGHT?
MEN CANNOT SELL SEX - Not a the same level
Therefore the more sex a women has --- the value drops -
A man value is HOW much he can produce with his hands and mind.

I dont expect for you to understand this.. your fem training runs deep. Good luck to you!

Get educated - sister and top thinking men and women are the same

You already started a feminist and you will suffer the fate as a feminist

Straight from your own past threads

She is independent and can make life-death decisions, so I don’t feel bad if she doesn’t consult me and make some decisions highhandedly. I trust her, she good decision-maker the majority of times. For us, It’s accountability and responsibility that counts. I won't settle for less and she won't either. No room for excuses or self-pity.

She has to be nice to her patients and fellow male colleagues. I don’t mistake this for flirting. Her male colleagues are there with her than I am, so I am more comfortable and carefree because I trusted her. we do know our boundaries. Most of the time she will be discussing how much she misses me with them. I have the self-confidence that helps me though sometimes I get a bit jealous.

She is Superwoman without the cap all the time. So I have to decide whether to expect even more from her or be Super Man myself and share her burden a bit more.. understand her a bit more..love her a bit more.

As a doctor, she is extremely sensitive but also blunt. She knows when I need a hug and when an earful. Most of the time, she sees me as a case, desperately trying to diagnose my actions, detect my mood, I have to explain every action, etc.

She is great, very polite, courteous, intelligent, and fun and I love her effortlessly. The hard part is living with the job, the workload, the schedule, she never off duty, even when she is off duty, no time for long conversations. I already know I am committed to her and I must be committed to her job too. I need to be supportive of her, emotionally mature and have a life of my own. It has been a long ride but our relationship is thrilling. Will I choose another if given an opportunity? Only if I stop been me.

You are the definition of a beta male. You are not in control of the relationship, she is. Most likely you wrote this garbage because your girl has a high body count of Alpha males and now she believe she deserves what she though she can get from ALPHA by getting a BETA male. This is typical. You did not find any holy grail here.

You talk about how great your woman (and women) are but what exactly are YOU doing?

Stop sucking up to women and calling them QUEENS. By no definition are you defined as a KING and without a KING there is no QUEEN. You show no sense of leadership mentally, financially, or spiritually. You are simply a BETA male looking for a FAN.

Years back, I had this Queen, who everyman will proudly show off and be identified with. We had everything going on well but our conversation always Centre on her, her job, her achievement alone. I had things going on well, then Port Harcourt was truly an oil city, there was money to make. So I have my game up, wasn't a pushover, so I expect equal respect but we were like we competed in some sort. I pointed it out but it was getting so bad as days gone by.

What exactly are you trying to point out? You pointed put kneeling to women. Are you obsessed? Do you have no respect for your self. You do know you can respect the other gender without looking like a total F00L?

Again taken from your words

Like I always tell my girl( a Nigerian whom I adore and love deeply), if I didn't met you, I will have steadily work my way up, get marry to a western lady due to the fellowing factors 1 economic power, 2. Loyalty and respect 3. World influence. Don't get me wrong, I have a world view and selfish interest. You can achieve a lot been in the circle of white ladies if you play your cards right

Again you are a BETA male. Nothing is wrong with you being a BETA MALE. You want to be taken care of by fiscally stable women and fetishize them that is your personal kink. However, stop trying to convince to be submissive to women. Its not good for the country or for the future of men. Men who come from single mother homes tend to have poor relationship boundaries with women and wonder why the wife ends up cheating on them.. because god intended men to be masculine and women to be feminine and its CLEAR you are more on the FEMININE spectrum. This is not an insult. this is just a fact and you better get into your masculine because WHEN your wife cheats on you you are finds a another doctor who is more masculine than you.. you are EASILY replaceable because you have NO advantage in a relationship.

Before you get into the LOVE thing marriage is not about LOVE its about compromise and hard work. Men love harder than women. A Woman can leave a relationship into the arms of another man.. because the only unconditional love she has is too her children. Stop being arrogant and you barely been married 5 years kid.. SMH You are just going thru the honeymoon stage and trying to educate with NO experience.


We really don't care about your relationship.

Doradorwa:
So, in light to the recent blackmail sage of Tiwa savage and her leaked sex video. I got into a serious conversation with myself and I wondered if maybe even I can withstand blackmail without failing. Blackmail are sometimes aimed using our weakest link.

So here's the question. How will you react to if you're blackmailed with any of the following:

1. Sex video or nude pictures
2. A tape of your voice saying what you ought not to
3. A scandal by using your past against you.

Disclaimer: This thread is not to condemn anyone

Mods let's have a discussion on this

Simple.

You leak it out your self and take control

KingOfAmebo:
Senseless to you, but have you asked yourself how the developed nations you cherish so much get to where they are now? Where do you think developed nations get the money they used to develop their nations aside mineral and human resources that you have in aboundance?

If you tax the rich the poor won't have to suffer.

Maybe you made this statement because you lack economic education or maybe because it sounds virtuous to you. Countries make money from innovation and GDP. Jeff Besos is wealthy because of innovation. He creates jobs which creates income and that creates tax revenues. Taxing the hell out of a business prevents innovation and does not help countries - it HURTS countries.

The country needs to make TAX INCENTIVES to bring innovation and business. You are totally backwards in your thinking. You need to show other countries that if they place their money here it will create a return.

California has high taxes, but the poor suffer. You cannot tax your way out of poverty.

scam

Senoiret:
Half of my workers are mid range over 48-55, and constitute the set of people who like to cheat me , I've been extremely nice to my workers in such a way you'll always love to work with me, I pay them promptly , sometimes cook for them and made sure they see enough gain when buying materials aside from their workmanship fee....

There's this carpenter that has been working for me over 2 weeks, he seemed cool at first and sweet coated whenever he dishes me daily report about his work and how well coordinated he works, I decided to give him a trial in the first place but the first work he did was so unsatisfactory he got me angry , someone over 40 years older than me, I gave him money to get nails for me which he never bought for the work , when I requested for the pack of nails he bought he gave me unreasonable excuses... And he was someone who was literally begging to get the job misbehaving to me....


as if that's not enough, I caught my bricklayer with a vehicle to the site loading over 4 bags of cement into the little van they brought, I wish I could record the shock all over his face and the way he was stammering .. And decent guy who I thought was reasonable enough to handle things for me, I sacked the motherfucker, the new one I employed is even worse, he thinks I'm a small buy kus I'm 22 and maybe he's feeling Intimidated by the portfolio of work I'm handling....

so many instances I can't even mention, after showing them love and care, allowing them to eat even when you are paying them well, they'll go at any length to rip you off...

please always open your eyes ooo, most of these worker's but not all are fond of acting crazy and take people they work for granted on site, they feel they are always smarter than. everyone else in the room and know how to cheat their way around you.... we have to do better and more as human, greed is unnecessary a d won't define breakthrough .moment for anybody...

The success of your business is not who you hire, but who you fire.

Mynd44:
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/16050984/taliban-soldiers-tear-gas-womens-rights-protest/

When you train women equality instead of training the local men how to protect and serve

Righteousness2:
How does a baby look older than the Mother?

[s]Very likely as a result wicked Witchcraft Manipulations and Projections. The World is filled with Wickedness.
[/s]
This is why it is risk to Just Live anyhow. It is risk to be Live without a Solid connection with JESUS Christ.

There is no Vitamin, Supplement or operation that can Rectify this Disorder.
Only a Divine intervention from GOD ALMIGHTY will sort this out.

$hut up

EmekaA125:
Stop derailing this thread with bitterness, envy and jealousy. Tell your brown roof governor in Osun to complete Osun International Airport where Fulani herders are currently grazing their cattle

Are you getting kick backs too or you enjoy corruption so much you will stab your fellow man in the back.

Where are all the simps that want a single mother! Come pick up your wife

Omoluabi1stborn:


BTW, on the other thread, i saw many ignorant people saying democrats are useless bla bla bla


Yet, they've forgotten in the history of America, democrats are known to be using war to settle peace rather than Republicans negotiation

Better check your history

falseprophet:
The death of the young lad is regrettable, but the risk he took was uncalled for.

[s]Western media is controlling the whole narrative, they have even taken away freedom of speech from Taliban so the world will be fed only the propaganda they dish out.
[/s]
I see alot of people here on Nairaland who just flow with the popular opinion without thinking with their brains, even the people clamouring for a Jewish state in Nigeria are raising their ignorant voice against the Islamic Emirate of Afghanistan.

The west have once again lost the war against a Conservative country, Afghanistan will be great with or without democracy!

This I have seen!

Islamic Emirate of Afghanistan just ran like girls and didnt put up a fight.. your logic is laughable

If you do not know how the Taliban murders individuals, than you have no idea the panic that was in this young mans mind.

hakeem02:
[s]After checking your profile, I realized that you are just an online newbie who believes any online investment is a scam.[/s] You have no experience with how things work online and you don't want to learn. I have been a registered member on this forum since 2008 and I have made a lot of money legitimately. After this comment, I won't reply to you again.

is just a startup e-commerce company seeking investors which are normal for all startup companies. For instance, in 2016, paystack got over N100M funds from local and foreign investors and within 5years investors earn over 2000% on their investment (That is x20 of their investment). You can read more here https://www.nipc.gov.ng/2021/02/20/paystack-investors-cash-out-big/

Now slash,ng promised 50% yearly. Even after 10 years, investors will only earn 500% of their investment (that is x5 of investment). If paystack can achieve 2000% in 5 years, I believe it's 100% possible can achieve 500% in 10 years.

Tech is another secret lucrative investment. But Nigerian believe in anything trending, just like the way they are pumping money into Bitcoin and expecting to make it big. Whereas the real beneficiaries are those that invested at the early stage.

When did I ever say [b]all [/b]online businesses are scams. No business is going to give you consistent returns of 50% and no you are not getting a 2000% return on your investment.

With one exception.. you are taking new members money and paying out older members AKA Ponzi Scheme

I was at the forefront of telling everyone MBA was a scam and no it is defunct.

Economics DOES not allow for 2000% returns unless its a unicorn company and you are not even close to being a pony.
anyone who really thinks they are getting 2000% off a person on nairaland is taking some serious pills.

How about this.. show your face (since you want to acquire money) here to back up your claim and Ill retract my statements...
but most likely you will not because you want to remain faceless so when you disappear in the night.. no one can go after you.

hakeem02:
Why showing your ignorance here on a public forum. The only problem with Nigerians forming gurus online. The simple explanation you can not apprehend. It's our business and we have been running it for the past year.

We have invested over N50m in the project. We are making a profit already. Whether people invest in our project or not doesn't stop us. We are just seeking an investor just like any other company. So stop saying trash

nope you are a scammer.

I called out MBA before it fell.

I am calling out you.

hakeem02:
Thank you for your contribution.
NOTE:
* This is NOT a new business
* We have been running this business for over a year.
[s]* 50% yearly on N50M is very realistic base on our estimation.[/s]
* We only need to make a minimum of 3m monthly profit in other to achieve it.
* Currently, we make 1m - 2m monthly profit.
* You can take your time to read about our businesses.

visit https://investors.

Negative... no business makes 50% returns to investors unless its illegal. Just like MBA you sickos never stop

hakeem02:
Introducing the first escrow marketplace in Nigeria. We have come to change the narrative of e-commerce in Nigeria. Become our early investor and enjoy up to 50% yearly for 50years.

NOTE
* This is NOT a new business
* We currently operate within Abuja only and we already have 5000 users and over 1000 verified sellers.
* Over ₦50M already invested in the business by the team.
* Fund is needed to boost marketing and team growth
* Maximum fund needed is ₦50M
* We will sign an agreement with investors.
* Your fund is 100% safe.

******QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS*****
How much can I Invest in SLASH?
You can start your investment plan with a minimum of ₦500,000 - ₦10million Limit. You can visit the Plans available to guide you on which is more suitable for you.

How much interest will I earn on my investment in SLASH?
You will earn 50% yearly on your investment. For instance, if you invest NGN1,000,000, you will earn NGN500,000 yearly.

What will I get after you confirm my payment?
After payment confirmation, You will receive a confirmation letter from us. We will introduce you to the investor portal, where you can manage your investment details and get the latest information about your investment with us.

Will I get any proof of investment with SLASH?
Yes, After the closing of the investment, we will send a certificate of investment to all investors as proof of investment with SLASH.

When does my Investment begin to earn returns?
You will start earning a return on investment after 1 year and you continue to earn every year.

When can I withdraw my money?
Your earning will be sent to your bank account as soon as your investment reaches the maturity date (starting from 1 year)

Do you operate all over Nigeria?
No, Presently we operate within Abuja only, we will start operation in Lagos by Q1 2022.

I live outside Abuja, Can I invest?
Yes, investment is open to everyone irrespective of the location.

Is there a closing date for investing?
Yes, the Investment will be closed on the 10th of September. However, if we reach the maximum fund needed (₦50,000,000) before the closing date, the investment will be closed and we will stop accepting funds.

Can I cancel my investment?
Yes, you can cancel investment when it's still open and you will get refunded in full. However, you cannot cancel an investment after it has been closed.

I will like to meet the team for more inquiries?
You can visit our head office in Abuja. We are always available to attend to you.

For more information visit:
https://investor.

Scam.

Think about it.. if the investor is getting a 50% return the company has to make a more than 50%.

This is not economically possible

samuelson06:
Once she's deeply angry /sad, she talks like someone that is possess with the demon of talking. And she does it with tears. I had to slap her because of that. She's been talking and crying since 12 midnight till now. I seem to be lost.

Maybe she's expecting me to start begging and petting her but I'm not ready for that. She's talking about all the wrongs I've done to her since we met but ignoring what led to our misunderstanding.

Can I live with this kind of human being in the same house as a wife? The more she keeps talking, the more I'm getting angry. She's vomiting all my records of wrong since we met.

Is this normal? How can I handle this nature of human being?

You need to leave her. Stop trying to control her.

Brainard22:
Beta person

You truly do not understand what a beta is? Even Genghis Khan treated his own with respect.

Dreadshy:
What is it?

If a woman is having sex with another man its cheating, because when women are having sex with another man they have lost total desire for you.

When a man is maintaining another women ( (paying bills)) he is cheating because men are NOT emotionally involved when having sex.

Dreadshy:
I have often wondered why men cheat in their marriages and how a young woman can catch a cheating spouse.

if a man is having sex with another woman it is not cheating

IamKizzbrown10:
BEING A SIDE CHICK IS A WASTE OF TIME

He will spend hours with you and still go back to his wife. He will give you a hundred orgasms and tell you to take emergency pills. If you dare get pregnant he will tell you to abort. He will ask you to be faithful to him, when he has someone else.

While you are in the background, he will post photos of his beautiful family, talk highly of his wife and talk about how he loves his children. You are left to wonder about this love he talks about. If he really loves you, why does he make you do all those things to your body and still put you behind the scenes?

How can you even be comfortable being in a relationship that requires you to hide whenever you are with him? You have to keep quiet and listen to him talk to his wife while you lie on his chest.

How do you feel when you call him and he disconnects the line...only to send a text saying. .."Am with my wife, call you later"? Does he really value you? Does he respect you? Does he love you? The answer to these questions is NO!!

He is just using you, when he gets tired of you, he will throw you away. To him you are just another girl. Wake up my sister and break the curse of being a side chick. You deserve better.

IS THE VOLUME LOUD

Some woman rather be with a married man, because another woman has vetted him.
A single man with no prospects is not an attractive man.

DanielAlhassan:
I can easily make a girl fall in love with me and date me but the relationship don't last for two months

Infact before two months we have already break up

I have been in more than five relationship and it doesn't last two months but when we first started the girls will be madly in love with me but before you know it break up

The truth is I don't lie to them or make them feel am rich , am just an average guy try to make up my life

I just need your opinion to know where the mistakes are coming from or if you have similar experience and you have find out the reasons why your relationship don't last please help me out

The truth is am an introvert (gentle and quiet person)

look up borderline personality disorder all your answers are there.

Odewaleadesoye:
https://punchng.com/relationship-sweeter-when-money-is-involved-mojisola-adebanjo/

Remember your youth honey and all the faithful men you passed for the $$$$

Don't forget when you are 50 years old and husband can buy a new model. Yes money does makes relationships better

youngest85:
Then he will now use the money he gets from the killing and buy a bigger knife.
Is that money clean?

youngest85:
Not in Nigeria because even if your hands are clean, the majority of your customers hands are not clean

You can sell knives, but eventually a customer will be a killer. What's your point? You cannot dictate your customers

Omicron007:
Hello fellow Nairalanders,
There's this girl I really like. She's my spec and we just clicked and became good friends.
I actually met her at an event and we exchanged numbers.
I did all the necessary follow ups and we connected.
We have gone swimming, outings and I have invited her over to my place like three times.
We have great conversations, kisses and all that, but no sex.

She called me recently and told me I need to leave her alone because she is Fickle minded.

I went through the internet to research more about fickle minded people.

According to vocabulary.com, People who are fickle change their minds so much you can't rely on them. If your best friend suddenly decides that she doesn't like you one week, and then the next week she wants to hang out again, she's being fickle.
Fickle comes from the Old English word ficol, for deceitful. We usually use fickle to talk about people, but it can also be used for abstract things that alternately favor you and abuse you, like the weather. If you win the lottery and then lose everything else in the world that's important to you, fate is being fickle.


I am now confused. Should I persuade her because I want her to be my girlfriend.
I am not a Simp and I don't want to be all around her if she is truly fickle minded.

Help a bro.
Your comments are highly anticipated.

©Omicron007

You heard what she said, but you didn't interpret it.

The is female talk for...

You are a nice guy.
You do nice things.
I should like you.
I am forcing my self to like you, but you are too nice.

There is a guy, he is not so nice.
He doesn't do nice things.
But he sexually makes me aroused.

There for I am conflicted and friend zone you.

Omicron007:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/08/stop-breastfeeding-your-husbands-breast-milk-is-for-babies-nnaji-tells-women/amp/

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