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My only issue is that those who get triggered easily for tribalistic stuffs are usually the greatest tribalists.

Realtalk20:
It's rather unfortunate unprofessional and distasteful

But I don't blame the fulani soley after all yoruba and tinubu refer to ibo as okoros

When tinubu was shown herdsmen attack he asked is evans fulani? Meaning herdsmen are better than the ibo yet you ibo kept mute

You guys did this to yourselves but trying to be politically correct

It's because of you ibo we in the southsouth are disrespeced

Had it been you guys took your rightful position in Nigeria the southsouth would not be disrespected the way we are in Nigeria . Ibo used to be a major tribe in Nigeria but today you guys are a laughing stock

You allowed yoruba push you guys to mockery and uselessness. This is my anger towards you ibos.

Because of you guys we southsouth are not respected because no matter what they see us as you guys junior hence when they treat you guys as slaves how won't they open mouth to call us drunkards

Jesu...how this one take concern Yoruba again...stop deflecting na

KanuSE:
You can never understand these things till you row your own boat.

There's more to life than women, get busy.

BLOODYSPERM:
Rubbish
Look at rate of divorce and non-maritalness of western Progressive Societies leading to the destruction of family values

Anyone can be an alpha rich or poor it all requires strong frame
Rich men can be Simps too

Divorce rates may be higher in western progressive societies but now in africa it's domestic violence rates that's topping the charts...plus if africa had better family values we won't be a continent of poor leadership and the world's poverty capital... family values would teach honesty and uprightness in leadership and africa won't be a shithole where it's people cross the sahara desert drinking their piss to enter into those western progressive societies.

And you clearly don't know the difference between being powerful and being rich... it's what really defines an alpha...

lekki1444:
that old geriatric biafran nigga pete is insane and you are equally insane for cosigning his rubbish

Swears not that it doesn't exist in all tribes but the ego of these guys is just mind blowing....they want to hide their weak egos and seem invulnerable by being scumbags to women.

Saltybear:
Is that so. Don't worry I will catch you on tinder or badoo.

Teach you some manners that day

Lmaoo dude am a guy and I don't rely on dating websites to get laid.

Saltybear:
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Shut up

You haven't met a real man. Ian best respect into your life.

You should not speak when I speak nor raise your voice louder than mine when we argue

I can best any woman into submission

Trust me and don't you mention me carelessly

Know your place

Bro don't you think you sound absolutely pathetic....am 100% sure you're a self-servicer.

sheDD:
I need no further debating debating or talks
Following this man statement that have graced social media

I can confidently badge him "ambassador of the Alpha male"

He is an ambassador for incels, misfits and guys with a fragile ego....

KanuSE:
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Look around you and you'll realise you're myopic in thinking.

You defo got it twisted again.

Dude... it's you and cringe grandpa Pete who's myopic and living in the past...

princechurchill:
Simp

A simp is a man who didn't amount to much in life and is largely irrelevant thus he decides to help his ego by obsessing over women and how he can dominate them, he takes pride in dominating those weaker than him like women and children, at home he prides himself as the alpha male but at the work place he gets his ass kicked and is largely unaccomplished.

An alpha male is a man who has reached the height of power in a certain industry or political sphere, he isn't a conquerer of women but a conquerer and ruler over men like him e.g Dangote, Adenuga, Obasanjo. They rarely talk about women issues because what matters to them is influence and power.

KanuSE:
Your problem is that you find it hard to process his submission.

Lol.... feminism is why women get beaten up in marriage. How is this statement not a result of too much palm wine and kola nut.

Alexaonfleek:
This man is gradually loosing it,no offence

Sincerely he thinks he's redpilled but he sounds like a some drunk dude in a beer parlor.

This guy legit low key justifying domestic violence.....real men learn to control their emotions no matter the situation, what's wrong with society is that we put so much pressure on our women about "do's" and "don'ts" yet forget to raise our boys to be responsible disciplined men....this grandpa is obviously drunk on palm wine

Veteran Nollywood actor, Pete Edochie, has said feminism should be held responsible for the domestic violence women suffer in marriage.

The actor told BBC Igbo that modern women lack a basic skill like cooking to keep their husbands happy, adding that women are usually to blame for cases of domestic violence.

He noted that any woman who cannot cook has lost the right to refer to herself as a woman.

He said, "Feminism isn’t something black people are known for. Once a woman leaves her parents to meet her husband and takes his surname, she is to be submissive to him. If she wasn’t married, she can do whatever she wants.
"Women walk and show off their behinds, it’s so that men would find them. If you see such a woman and express your marriage interest, then she starts walking properly. Our women now plunge into feminism nowadays.

“They can’t even keep their husbands anymore. Is that a good thing? These women are schooled but a lot of wives now can’t even cook — one thing that a woman should be good in so as to be able to keep her husband.

“My mother was not educated but she would cook all sorts of soups, including bitter leaf, Oha, Ogbono, Okro, Egusi, Ukwa, and what have you. My father would always get back home hurriedly to eat what his wife had cooked.

“Today, our wives can’t even cook anymore. Women who can’t cook aren’t supposed to call themselves women. And feminism is what causes women to be beaten up in marriages. You complain to a woman and she retorts.

"It becomes unbearable, so you stretch your arm and deal her a slap. Domestic violence starts. I don’t like seeing women crying because it hurts me deeply. But it is the fault of the woman herself a lot of times.”

According to Edochie, feminism has no place in Nigeria’s culture.

He continued, “To be honest, the understanding of women is low. I’m not a misogynist but I’ve associated with them a lot, even at work. Feminism has no place in our culture. We don’t worship women as the whites do.

“In the west, women could join forces and accuse a male colleague of assault. The man resigns. This can’t happen in our culture. As a young woman, if pedestrians don’t admire you, you’d weep for fear of not being beautiful.

"I’m a strong adherent of culture. Kneeling to put a ring on a woman’s hands is not our culture. Any man who does that transfers the headship of his family to that woman. Until my dad died at 96, he never knelt to propose.

“It’s just like kneeling down on entering a church because there’s a higher being to whom you’re paying respect. Men climb trees to tap palm wine. How does it look if women do the same? Today women dictate to men.

“It wasn’t like that in our days. How women talk to men nowadays isn’t how we were raised. My mother was never beaten. My wife and I have been married for 52 years. I never beat her. My five married sons don’t beat their wives.”

http://saharareporters.com/2021/03/31/feminism-why-women-get-beaten-marriage-%E2%80%94pete-edochie