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dacblogger:
Buy turmeric powder ,like 50naira in the market where they sell food stuffs,buy hollandia yogurt,the plainsweetened one(that's the blue one) for 60naira.
Mix it in a small container,2spoon of the turmeric and 2spoon of the yoghurt,mix it together and apply on your face.leave it for 15mins and wash off.do it three times in a week

Turmeric powder too might help. I've heard about it before, but I didn't know about mixing with yoghurt. Just the powder with water to form a paste. Hope mixing the powder with yoghurt won't have any side effects?

Stop using those creams. Your skin needs to heal, try using olive oil, almond oil or coconut oil (make sure you get the original product).

The moment you stop using those creams, it gets worse. Those products might be one of the leading causes for those reappearing acnes. Try to avoid oily or fatty foods also.

In scenarios like this, the new guy was simply just a tool to be discarded when the mission has been accomplished. Once the other guy comes around, there's a high probability that she either breaks up with the new guy or cheats in the relationship with the other guy. Most of the times, the new guy was the girl's fallback plan or plan B (probably a guy that was disturbing her for a relationship before the incident)

So she will feign love for him, and the new guy will quickly become attached without knowing her intentions. She might even relate her former boyfriend's story for him in other to gain sympathy or compassion from the guy. This new guy (a typical simp in this case) will promise to treat her better and "prove" his worth. This will lead to the new guy investing a lot in the relationship, and when the other guy comes around, she will either keep the new guy around for his resources or cheats on him with the other guy.

Women know how to play this game better than men. Only few men can beat women at their own game. This is why it's in your best interest as a man to avoid damaged women at all cost.

Dbliz:
Please is this also applicable in a workplace/environment with the female person being your senior/junior? Or how can it be applied?
cc:Ubunja, pansophist, caveadullam, martinez39

At work environment:

If the woman in question is your boss, use the blue pill mask; if she's your colleague or your friend at work, use the red pill mask.

Do not display signs of stubbornness to your bosses or superiors whether male or female; you're putting your job at risk for nothing. Your ego won't put food on your table.

In addition, we often accuse some music artists as being bluepilled, this is not always the case. Some musicians are redpilled, but produce bluepilled songs. Bluepilled songs sell most.

Also, core redpilled songs is likely to trigger provocation, this is why the mainstream media is doing everything possible to stop the spread of the message. When you are going to be dealing with lots of potential customers, you'll be on the safe side to use the bluepill mask. The end justify the means. This is just my observation.

What does she expect? I love your friend bluntness! Tell him to dump that hoe.

And about your friend's mom, he embarrassed himself? How? Should he have paid for the bitch's hair or his mum has the same kind of entitlement mentality or she related another story for her? A week's relationship?? Damn! That kind of mum needs to be checked ASAP.

Reex12:
its a work thing, contracts are given to an outsider to do,but when hes unavailable I do it but the former is paid better commissions whereas he does halfdone jobs, now thing is I know the contractjobs better and have to elaborate on keypoints onwhat made it perfect but this guy created an atmosphere of hardwork when he was around that even bosses percieved him to be whereas hes a lazy ass mofo ...so now basically all jobs he does are seen as perfect despite it been rubbish and halfdone..

@the emboldened statement is one of the Machiavellian tactics I've talked about.

Is it part of your work outline to do the finishing touches of the job? If that's so, I'm afraid the situation might never change. They might also respect him more based on the qualification he has, that's if maybe they perceive he's more qualified than you based on his experience or certificates.

Katridge2021:
You're truly on point. There is this my friend, he was dating this girl and this girl wouldn't post him on her status, despite him posting her. Just recently she broke up with him, and she was telling him that she had been dating another guy alongside him. if she is not flaunting you, you are dating yourself.

This is my first time commenting here. And I must say, you are making impacts in my life. I'm so blessed to have you on nairaland. Kudos boss, keep it coming.

You're welcome. Girls are naturally cunning. They don't need to learn about it.

Reex12:
I have a question sir, in a situation where you have to always prove your worth or efforts to someone but there's another in the picture whose little/tiny efforts are seen as a gigantic thing, what's the best approach or solution?

Who's this someone? Is it your boss at work? I need details of this.

I talked about likeability on the first page on this thread. If he's someone people like, that's definitely gonna happen.

Or it might be that the mode of delivery he's using is totally different from yours. He might be delivering small tasks in an exceptional manner.

scrolldown88:
End Which relationship? Niggas be clowning shaa

The niqqa thought he was in a relationship...

If you've come across TRP, and ignored its message, you'll pay dearly for it when it's time to pay. The particular quote below by IM is enough for any man hoping for his love to be reciprocated to ponder on. Women don't reciprocate love in the ways men expect, this is the reason why they end up getting disappointed.

Men always think that, "If I show her love well enough, then she will see through the kindness and reciprocate with the same kind of energy.". Unfortunately, only men think this way, women do not. If you're too kind to a man, he will love you forever but if you're too kind to a woman, she will take it as weakness from your part even if your intentions was pure.

"Men remember being boys. Man has a lucid perspective in comparing the diminished affection of his adulthood to the greater bounty of his childhood. Women do not experience such a significant loss of affection. As such, man is forced to realise he will never again be loved so profusely, for the boy gets his fill, but man loves the most to be loved the least. The profundity of maternal love is longed for, but forever gone. A girlfriend cannot provide that, and is loathe to do so should a weak man demand it. This is perhaps the bitterest of all the pills."

Ninejaywon:
U don't have any problem at all. As far as she is young with tight body, very feminine, good character, a virgin. Just ride on guy. U are covered.

The guy doesn't have any problem. As long he's the oldest and not the girl.

If he's having any doubts, he should ask Ned Nwonkwo to give him words of advice.

You're truly the son of your father!

Let me give you another hack, when you're doing a business transaction with them, bolster their ego and they will pay more. Women love compliments a lot... They might get depressed if they don't receive any compliment for a day, that's why they try as much as possible to make themselves available on SM.

Say something like, "I'm doing this for you at a lower price (of course not, even more higher than the usual price) because you're a lady and you're also beautiful, if it was to be a man, I would charge more.", then watch what happens.

Always deal with men and women equally in business. Charge full price, and never mix pleasure with business. Do not let what you did with her make you fall for her manipulations afterwards.

Well, I don't think you have a problem. You're just preoccupied. Since you're not really interested in women for now, focus the energy on something else.

dan9ice:
If you kill yourself
Another man they for queue they wait like this
If she want more, make she go buy Love Machine

OP has already seen various red flags waving right in from of him, but I'm sure he's going to ignore them.

Women always makes it seem like it's men's duty is to make them orgasm during sex every time without them making any conscious effort towards it. Most of them are poor in bed and even lack the skills needed for pleasurable bedroom experience. She should get a love machine if she's that desperate to orgasm. SMH.

SmellySperm:
Ok i choose pusssy

Chidinma is viewing this thread, I'm out.

SmellySperm:
Lols... Are you indirectly giving me 2 options to choose between kpekus and Nigeria?

Hmm I'm between a rock and a hard place on this one.

Everyone should serve who/what they deem worthy, pussy inclusive, LOL!

SmellySperm:
Lols... But the country isn't worth serving na

Haha

Would you rather let the headline reads out "Man dies during war while protecting his country" or "Man died during sex with girlfriend/side chic/wife"

I'm sure she's going to be the one to distribute the man's obituary posters when he's gone.

SmellySperm:
Lols...she's probably started fvckin someone else bro.
Better to quit now than to die during active service

Funny bro, but in reality some men prefer to die while serving worthless pussy than serving their country. Men like OP would start taking drugs or going extreme lengths because they want to be called a real man, LOL!

Women who are already determined to cheat will cheat when the opportunity presents itself whether you satisfy them or not. They are just looking for a loophole in the relationship to leverage on in order to hide their real agenda.

All these information is loaded enough for anyone to make use of.

@atom080, again, I wish you all the best. Take care.

Yxxx:
Like how many years?

That amount of time you'll spend and your subconscious mind will tell you that you've had enough.

pansophist:
You try bros. Your advice are solid. But in the end, you fit carry a horse go river, even carry am enter inside, but na him must open him mouth to drink the water.

Exactly my Gee!

Hmm, you asking whether to go or not means your intentions was plain. Some women would have accepted it without thinking twice or considering her husband's decision on it. Now back to the question;

Since you asked your husband and he gave you the go ahead, then I don't think any outsider's opinions still matter much. But do you guys have kids yet, or how long would the duration of the job take you? Distance is also part of relationship because at some point, there might be a reason for the couple to be apart but the dangers of it and determination of the couple to still make it work is what matters most.

The probability that you taking this job will affect you guys is also high especially when you begin to get more comfortable without him over there, if taking the job is going to greatly affect you guy's relationship and you can also cope with the current job you're doing, I would suggest you stay with him. But if you can withstand the pros and cons of it, then no problem. Pick your poison carefully.

Books:
Books will only give you the guidelines to follow, but it won't give you the confidence and energy needed to implement it. Only you can find this power and build it and this comes from continuous practising and determination. If you have various tools but still don't know how to use them, it would be as though you still don't have any. Implementation of knowledge is far superior than acquiring the knowledge itself. No one was born an alpha or a simp, the environment, how you were brought and what you're used to is what determines this.

Some books I can recommend are Robert Greene's, Rollo Tomassi's, and some threads on Nairaland like HARDDON's thread on Dating Drills. Some books on dating hacks and communication skills too might help. I'm sure it will go a long way, but in all, always remember, it requires continuous practice. Rejection is nothing and it's always better than regret.

On physical appearance:
How you view yourself is having an impact on your psychological state. You have to remove this mindset. You're projecting how you view yourself towards the other party and this is putting a dent on your self confidence. Remember, how you accord yourself is how people will accord you.

And also I think you having difficulties in interacting with both parties might be a sign of autism or should I say the reason behind this was how you were brought up? It's hard to tell really. Autism makes people unwilling or unable to be social and they might also find it difficult to hold a conversation, you can research more on this. If you know what usually cause this anxiety in you, then you can solve the problem.

Confidence:
I think you just need to start interacting more. Don't view yourself as inferior. Even if you have a stature to complement your age and you feel inferior with it, it will still affect your self confidence. If you've seen the TV series called Peaky Blinders, even though Arthur Shelby was the eldest, people still accord Thomas Shelby with more respect and also see him superior to Arthur because of the aura the younger one emanates. This is just how it is with the human nature also.

Continue working on yourself. Take care of yourself, dress well, groom well, wear nice perfume, and also control your anxiety. Know the rules of body language i.e. eye contact, body posture etcetera. Learn to start and hold a conversation, you can also practice privately, with time the anxiety you always have when interacting socially will be eliminated slowly.

It's really good having this conversation with you. I wish you all the best.

Now before one of my bosses @pansophist comments on this post after cooking his delicious meal, I just have a couple of things to say.