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SOZINN:
Just like I condemned the idea of restricting the red pill to game and female vagina. I also repudiate the idea of making it solely about self development because the red pill encompasses the two of them.

I don't wanna quote the whole post, but this is based on it.

Now let's break it down:

• I think you're misinterpreting the main point of the post. No one is saying you shouldn't fvck as many girls as you wish, but being proud of banging girls like you're doing a worthy job then, that's a problem. Some even share explicit details of them banging girls online like they are getting an award for it. I term this a low IQ behavior. SMH. (You should understand what I'm talking about).

TRP is amoral of course, no one can dictate your life but at the end of the day, women will always be there at anytime, but your mission or purpose won't always be there. When the opportunity is lost, you won't be able to regain it. Purpose over women anytime, any day! But if you think it's an achievement for you or a mission to be accomplished, that's also fine. With every decision, there's always an end result.

Pareto Principle can be used in various areas of life. 80% dedicated to your purpose, while the remaining 20% dedicated to pleasure. As you grow in your dedication to your purpose, the percentage to pleasures reduces and vice versa. You can gain pleasures while on your purpose/mission but you can't pass your mission whilst focusing on pleasures.

• The post by IM is being directed to the men who are quick to judge women or call them out as hoes but still go behind to fvck these same women in order to increase their notch counts and also make themselves feel good. Seems hypocritical isn't it? What does this tell you? *Smiles

• Again, TRP is amoral and you only live once. You can either be a good example for people to follow or be a bad example for people to avoid becoming.

• Finally, the truth doesn't care about feelings. It's a knife that cuts deep. You can either heal fast from it by taking the proper medication or ignore the wounds and let it grow to an infection. Pick your poison carefully.

Brunicekid:
ATM can also mean Abstinence Till Marriage, you know..

I'm not even worried about that. I'm only concerned about the fact that he might be the only one investing in the relationship and the girl might not even be a virgin. Girls are cunning, if they can eat their cake and have it, they will choose to do that.

DaddyRochie1642:
See how Kpekus made this man to wait patiently for 4years, now he's weeping and gnashing his teeth because he's tired of waiting .... Never Underestimate the power of Kpekus

It's really powerful bro . The guy still believes he's in a relationship when he's just an ATM and an emotional tampon. A non-virgin girl for that? Damn! The drug is really working.

I'm sure the girl doesn't even contribute anything to the relationship excluding the sex part. Sunk cost fallacy is at play here.

Maybe you didn't include sex in your terms and conditions with her when you signed up for the relationship. Don't worry, wait few more years, she will consider you. Probably 4 more years.

LOL "Past experience" huh? What type of drug did the girl give you? It's very potent, like very potent. 4 years relationship? Damn! Is this the new format?

CaveAdullam:
In addition, low IQ men boast of notch counts with (low IQ) women and see glory in slaying pvssys. Loool!

The double edged sword has come to stay at home. Hey y'all!

Haha, we've mentioned it here several times, but unfortunately, not everyone is prepared for this.

You know you've reached a certain level of maturity when you judge people equally irrespective of the gender.

Key word: vet everybody!

low IQ men boasting of fucking several low IQ women, LOL! You will never meet this kind of attitude amongst high value men. They boasts with something of value instead.

@genius43

What do you think of the Xiaomi Redmi 9T? Is it a good phone? Is it good for graphics apps or games?

Junnior:
"It is better to be hated than ignored"

Are you sure about this?

Maybe throw more light, with references.

Very good question, I was actually expecting this.

The saying goes thus, "While it is better to be loved than hated, it is also far better to be hated than ignored." — Viet Nguyen

If you're being ignored by people, it's like you don't exist. Everything you do to gain attention won't have any effect. Being ignored is not a good position to be in especially if you're seeking to climb up the hierarchy. It's better to be hated than ignored because you can learn to use those who hate you or criticize you. It shows you're on their minds and they are thinking about you..

If you are being hated, people will spread rumours about you and indirectly making you more popular; if you're been ignored, it's like you're dead. This is why when you ignore someone trying to get your attention or trigger you to react in bad way, you cancel them out. This infuriates them the more.

Being hated can also be a sign of fame or success. If people start hating you, consider it a massive privilege. People only hate those they are intimated of, envious or jealous of, or scared of.

I find it funny as you guys keep breaking the rules of this thread.

Rule 1: Never present logical facts to people who prioritize feelings. As they say, facts doesn't care about feelings and her feelings doesn't care about your facts!

When you always resist the urge to argue with people who are invested in their feelings, life will become so much better.

Your pastor won't be there to bear the consequences of the choice you make, you alone will dance to the tunes. I don't know why people always seek their pastor's opinion on matters like this even more than their parent's. SMH. Religion has made some people so dogmatic that they can't think for themselves.

NobleSeed:
what if reverse was the case? What should be the best approach?

Then you go with a different type of approach the people around are not used to.

prodige001:
no equation needs balancing... Remain feared.... Remain respected... Remain envied.... Their hate will be a means of you being announced and those who don't know you will seek to do so... There you can apply a different tactics and get them to be your allies

No loose guard at all cost

Good reply!

Too much investment is one of the leading causes. Also, include ignorance. Sometimes, ignorance kills faster than poison. Many people entered the relationship with the wrong mindset, probably because of what they read in a book, what they saw in movies, on social media, etcetera.

TBH, heartbreak is perilous. It's not something you joke with. Not everyone can handle it. The more you invest in that relationship, the harder it becomes to move on from such relationship. This is why some people exhibit suicide behavior when things goes wrong.

Women are still more likely to move on faster than men because they mostly already have a fallback plan and they also invest less in it, this is not the case with men. When a man is in love, he mostly love with everything he has and in most cases, he has no fallback plan if things goes wrong.

Hmm, this is a complicated issue. What reasons do they give? Hope it's a valid one? Because if you choose wrong irrespective of their stand, you'll be the one to bear more of the consequences.

Since you're the last born, it might prove a bit difficult making a stand in order not to go against your family members. Sometimes what they see might not be clear to you yet until you get into it. When a man is in love, he tends to make irrational decisions. Reason with them and try to make a conclusion.

Since you're a man, you have an advantage. Marriage is not to be rushed into most especially in this generation. You also carry more of the responsibilities.. But in all, never let a woman come between you and your family, or you'll regret it deeply.

dacblogger:
No it doesn't.its very nice. I use it alot

Ooh alright. OP can actually try the suggestions out then.