Omg. And so? Just say you're incompetent.

You were cheating on her if you were talking dirty with another female but you're here forming victim. I wouldn't be surprised if you've met up with this person or other women, or dated other women in the so-called 7-year relationship with this girl. Neither of you are saints, but you're the epitome of pot calling kettle black.

Of all the starving dogs and puppies in Nigeria, they couldn't find one to adopt?

It's not even about allowing. Once you're getting married, you should do away with male besties and men should also do away with females besties. Anyone who respects the marriage they're walking into and the person they're marrying will do just that. It's totally nonsense to be keeping friends of the opposite sex, chatting them up or going out with them when married. Your husband, and wife, should be your new bestie. If you need other besties, then find besties of the same sex. Simple.

That is awful. May his soul rest in peace.

Dinner:

~Coconut Macadamia Crusted Salmon
~Creamy Pasta Carbonara & Shrimps
~Seaweed

Move on

bukatyne:


Did you read what YOU posted or you are so desperate to drag people into your feminist camp?

It is you feminists desperate to drag people into your camp that are living under a rock.

Beyonce's real life actions has constantly contradicted her songs.
I guess you believe Chris Brown is a lover boy or Davido would be faithful to Chioma because he sang 'Assurance' for her.

And feminists do not want equal opportunities; they want equal outcomes. And who has equal rights on this earth? Do I have the right to use my company's private jet? Does that mean I am discriminated against? If my CEO can't participate in a trivia to win N100k, does it mean she is 'inferior' to me?

The place where girls really need equal opportunities (e.g. same common clearance cut off mark) like Northern Nigeria, you’ll are interestingly missing there.

No, I actually closed my eyes while writing all that, smdh. I guess I just developed a new skill, wow, wow, wow!!! I should be asking if YOU read what I wrote because you're all over the place without saying anything concrete.

Which real life actions of hers contradict her songs? She supports the FreedomForGirls campaign, donated $250,000 from her foundation last year, most of which went to women, as well as gave $10,000 grants to small businesses last year to businesses impacted by economic inequalities, most of which also went to women. I've given real-life examples in my previous post and and in this, but you're yet to give any as proof of what you're saying and just talking out of thin air.

I haven't been in the thread for some days now and you quoted me telling me I'm dragging people into my camp. Who quoted whom? And what has Chris Brown and Davido got to do with the discussion? Can Nigerians not argue without digressing unecessarily?

Idk why I'm even wasting my time replying someone in Nigeria living in one village with no light talking about what they've no idea about.

bukatyne:


Beyonce is a feminist?

I am surprised

I guess President Tinubu is a Muslim.

Of course she is. Perhaps you've been living under a rock. She once performed in front of a screen with the word FEMINIST written in giant fonts. One of her singles, "Flawless” conveys a feminist message in its own right and samples the TED talk by Nigerian writer Chimamanda Ngozie Adichie that calls for gender equality. During an interview, this is also what she had to say about the concept:

"I’m not really sure people know or understand what a feminist is, but it’s very simple. It’s someone who believes in equal rights for men and women. If you are a man who believes your daughter should have the same opportunities and rights as your son, you’re a feminist. We need men and women to understand the double standards that still exist in the world, and we need to have a real conversation so we can begin to make changes. Ask anyone, man or woman, “Do you want your daughter to have 75 cents when she deserves $1?” What do you think the answer would be? When we talk about equal rights, there are issues that face women disproportionately…. Working to make those inequalities go away is being a feminist, but more importantly, it makes me a humanist. I don’t like or embrace any label. I don’t want calling myself a feminist to make it feel like that’s my one priority, over racism or sexism or anything else. I’m just exhausted by labels and tired of being boxed in. If you believe in equal rights, the same way society allows a man to express his darkness, to express his pain, to express his sexuality, to express his opinion—I feel that women have the same rights".

She also has two little girls now, so it makes sense that she would be an advocate for girls and women's rights.

Need any more proof that she's a feminist, or is it clear now?


https://colorlines.com/article/beyonce-talks-police-violence-feminism-elle-interview/

Awesome

I like it! And she looks great; body on point.

Grilled Salmon + Broccoli Crunch Salad

Quitmast:

Are you going to chew that leaf too?

No, it's bay leaf. I don't chew it. It's impossible to chew bay leaves but I sure love cooking with them.

Hmmm

May her soul rest in peace.

Born2winnx:



But you know that kind settings when you hardly see her with people coming to visit and you wonder despite being an indigene of the place.
Struggling to go get things herself and all

Eeya. So they didn't assist her in her old age, didn't bother to check on her and basically did nothing for her when she was alive? Very wicked set of people. They're obviously only at the funeral to eat and drink. Awon wicked gluttons.

givedemwotowoto:


Before feminism there was about 80% chance of black women getting married in America. Today only about 25% of black women will find husbands in America. Some of you use outliers as examples and don't know the consequences of what you're encouraging

Who is talking about finding husbands? We're talking about A, you're talking about Z. Stick to the topic of the discussion and don't digress to fit your own agenda. Secondly, since you made that statement ( "
25% of black women will find husbands in America" ), I need to see the research behind it. Some of you will just pull numbers out of thin air thinking you're corresponding with a mumu. Morever, black women get married every day. It may not be to black men. There're other nationalities in the U.S and world besides black men. I don't even know why you're talking about a girl of 16 finding a husband. Are you a pervert?

Beverlyjean:


She will destroy herself just like those b4 her ... feminism has destroyed women

Which women before her? Did it destroy Malala Yousafzai, Ruth Bader Ginsburg, Beyonce, Angelina Jolie, Angela Davis, Gloria Steinem, etc? Because all these women are feminists.

She will be successful and will live a fulfilled life. Stop speaking ill into a 16-year old's life.

Beverlyjean:


She will destroy herself

Huh? Are you speaking from experience? Imagine such evil statement about a 16-year old. If she doesn't, why don't you go and do it for her? Smh

She probably learned that at school and kudos to them for teaching girls these important topics.

Yooo! I'm against jungle justice but with situations like this I will gladly support, especially knowing how useless Nigerian laws can be. Someone who had the audacity to batter or nearly kill another and somebody's mama at that (whom the person is owing money ooo) should face the full wrath of the law. Do whatever you must to get justice for your mom.

Noodles & Salmon (lightly stir-fried with olive oil and four drops of toasted sesame oil) featuring sweet yellow and red peppers, lots of garlic, etc).

Blueberry-Pomegranate Juice

And they've not been arrested and charged with murder?

Happy birthday

Her behaviour is unacceptable. She's abusive to people and to you (e.g. took your phone and turned it off). If you care about your life, walk away now.

Viceni111, how're you doing? And how's your dad doing? I just saw the video you posted in 2020 (Appeals to Nigerians) in which your Dad is pleading for help and you're all crying. What a sad video. I hope you and him are doing fine. My sincere condolences.

How're you doing? Did you finish your studies?

Imagine. Just within a year of marriage, you've committed adultery. If your wife didn't find out, you had no intentions of stopping. You didn't even mention that you have or will. What a joke of a marriage.

Don't give up.

Also, someone mentioned up there that you can teach and mentioned Benin. Why not look for a teaching job at your current location or go to Benin?

Congrats to them

Tell him to run. With what he saw there and how he felt, he better run.

How pathetic

What names did I call you in my post? You quoted my post calling me names, not the other way around. But let's play that game now: what names did I call you in my post below, Miss Blind Bat? It's you that something is wrong with, LilMissFrustrated.

Secondly, you seem to lack reading comprehension skills or these your eyes must be severely damaged because of the total rubbish you wrote again. You're crazy with the way you're just making up your your own stories without going by OP's post. OP CLEARLY wrote that the guy has been sending her money every month for the child's wellbeing but he doesn't see any significant effects of the money on the child. If she's spending the money anyhow or not using it to take care of the child, how is that his fault if she's suffering, as you claim? His main concern is the child and if she's not using it to fend for the child, then that IS what concerns him and the more reason he should get custody, or should he continue to waste money to not see her use it on the child? Or he should be rushing there everytime the child falls sick? At this point, it makes sense for the child to be under his custody as he will take better care of him and the mother can continue her shenanigans.

Lastly, that he will remarry and the child's fate will be worse is another nonsense you keep shouting. The man is an involved father, so if he does remarry he will definitely watch over his son as he is doing now. If he does get custody and remarries, I hope he will marry a loving and kind woman who will love and care for the child. With the way, you attacked the OP unecessarily up there and telling him to leave the child, you're obviously a pained and frustrated single mother, as well as the type to abuse children. Monster.

LilMissFavvy:
You are a f000l, I don't know why you should call me names, instead of dropping your own contributions. Go back and read my comment, if you still cannot get the point, then something is definitely wrong with you. Why is he monitoring his ex wife and her relationship(s)? His child's mother is fairing badly, he refuses to help, yet all he does is send people to monitor her and give reports. Does he expect those people to bring back good reports? He will also remarry or date, and I am very sure when he remarries, the child's fate will be worse off in the hands of a step mother. He can always attend to the child's medical care, while the child remains with the mother.