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Just driving by in my 2024 Cadi...

Please do the right thing and leave your virgin girlfriend alone. Why should she marry someone like you when she has never been touched?

You're loyal to which commitment? You're harboring feelings for your sales girl, talking about you love her, when you've a pregnant fiancée you should be focused on. It's your fiancée I feel sorry for because you've no idea what loyalty is and you're also a confused entity ready to cheat. Arrant nonsense.

Happy 82nd birthday, Mr. Olu Jacobs. I wish you many more to come and in good health, IJN. Amen 🙏

How did she die? Why don't they conduct an autopsy?

May her soul rest in peace. Amen

He either doesn't love these kids and wants to ruin them (God forbid), or he needs psychiatric evaluation or a neurological exam to get his brain checked because something doesn't seem to be right somewhere.

If your husband refuses to change his destructive methods of raising your kids, then you've to find a way to put them first.

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I don't know but looks like someone has answered your question. Good luck.

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Everybody else took shelter but they went inside the ocean? Was this double suicide? Or perhaps they underestimated the seriousness of the storm?

May their souls rest in peace.

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Lol. Smh

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Ahh, thank God. May God continue to keep him alive and grant him long life.

Nigerian bloggers, make una stop with these your false news

Oh no . I hope this isn't true.

May his soul rest in peace. Amen
May God comfort the woman. Amen

You said you orchestrated the breakup and you're the one crying 6-months later, smh. You said she also called you 3 days after the breakup and if you wanted to patch things up then, you could've because maybe she was still willing to. You didn't but instead chose to insult her (according to you, "I became very rude to her and said silly things to her due to my pumping anger and ego). She then did the right thing for herself by moving on and not looking back since, and hopefully she's now with someone who treats her better and with respect, and now you're crying yeye tears. I blame her for not blocking you because that's what she should've done so that you will stop calling her. She doesn't want you back nor should anyone in their right senses take you back. Leave her alone and move on.

You said this man plays the role of a father and has been in your lives for "some years now", so I'm assuming that means he's good to you and your siblings, and mom, provides and takes care of all of you like a father figure? If that's the case, then you could a call him another variation of Dad like "Pops" or "Pa". Neither of these means he's your biological Dad or that he can ever take the place of your Dad (may his soul continue to rest in peace - amen) because nobody can, but this is just a way to acknowledge him for assuming that role of a father figure and being good to you and your family over the years. He's a good man if he has been trying for y'all. If you still don't want to do that, then just make sure you always respect and appreciate him.

Wonderful

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Agba baller (agba baller)
How much is money? (It's nothing)

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I don't see any problem. He's Davido's good friend and was their bodyguard for the day.

Awwwww

Can you give examples of what she means by you've "different perspectives on life and relationships, particularly within an African context?". Because all that sounds like a compatibility issue.

Secondly, instead of going to Nigeria to be parading around people because somehow you'll understand how people think that way, why not go and study her/each other? Have you met before? Because differences on life and relationships means the compatibility might not be there between you two but to ascertain whether it is or isn't, go date her during the time you're there - go out, have further important conversations, etc. It's not like it's other people you're interested in marrying, but her, so you should go there to spend the necessary time with her to gauge compatibility, not other people.

Lastly, 13-years is not really a long time for you to have disconnected as much as you say you have or she says you have. I didn't grow up in Nigeria and still consider myself Nigerian in many ways. However, I know my mentality differs from many Nigerians. I joined a Nigerian group earlier this year on FB and remember replying a post that I'll never date a married man and someone (a woman ooo) replied me to argue with me as if what I said was a crime! Apparently dating married men is a common thing in Nigeria and she saw nothing wrong with it. The point is your own views or ways of thinking are probably not bad at all and I assume might actually be progressive, but a Nigerian woman in Nigeria might disagree with them. For example, perhaps you believe a woman should bring something to the table but a Nigerian woman in Nigeria might disagree. I'm just trying to figure out what she means, especially with the "within an African context part" but that's for you to figure out sha. Good luck.

Ksli:
She has expressed that we have very different perspectives on life and relationships, particularly within an African context. She's advised me to return to Nigeria to understand how people truly think.

I'm confused by her suggestion. She's recommended specific actions like sitting in a bar, spending time with family, and even trying the food again to get a feel for the culture. She told me during my hangout i should observe both the men and women to understand how they think.

Congratulations to them 🎊🎊🎊🎊

Yes!! I'm so happy for them!! A big congratulations and happy married life to them!!

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They can go kick rocks with their Pride month nonsense. I cringe anytime I see a pride flag, mtcheew.

Jesus reigns!

It seems this your so-called friend doesn't want you to progress and is envious. I'm going to assume he's Nigerian? After 19-years in Spain, you should definitely move to a better country in Europe (e.g Ireland, like you've mentioned) if you will have better opportunities there and especially for the sake of your two little kids. The fact that you still told him weeks later means this is something that's in your heart to do and you will forever regret not doing this.

Idk why you can't go to the bigger boss (who is that?) yourself to get your payoff or whatever financial compensation you would be entitled to? What kinda job is this?! If you're legal there, you should know your rights. In any case, don't stay in Spain because of your friend enemy's envy and him wanting to keep you static. His response also shows he's not that good of a person nor someone you can trust if he doesn't want to give you whatever money you're entitled to. It's time to distance yourself from him because he's not your friend.

As long as you and your wife have planned your relocation, move! I know someone (a Pharmacist) who moved from Nigeria to Ireland about 7-years ago, found work soon after and has been thriving since.

Your friend is an enemy of progress. Anyone here telling you to stay in Spain would be an enemy of progress.

Go to Ireland. Great things awaits you and your family.

Let me finish with one of my favorite Bible verses (Joshua 1:9):

9 Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go".