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Music/Radio / Re: Boyz II Men Musical Group: Then And Now (Photos) by TheWinterBird: 2:12pm On Jun 01
Love these guys! They still remain one of the greatest R&B groups of all time, next to H-town.
Family / Re: Will He Ever Be Serious? by TheWinterBird: 1:49pm On Jun 01
Why buy the cow when he can get the milk for free? You already have a child for him, you have been living together as an engaged couple and likely being intimate, he's basically getting the benefits of marriage without marriage, so why would he want to marry into with you when he's getting all the benefits of marriage without marriage?

Besides, look at the other things you wrote: he's still confused on what to do with his life at 38, he blames you for not progressing, he smokes and drinks, etc. Is this someone you yourself should want to marry?

And I can't believe you're talking about having another child for you. Umm, m'am, are you okay? Please get sense and I mean that respectfully.

You should break the yeye engagement. Imagine an 8-year (and counting) engagement, smh. It's either you move on with you and your kid, or keep wasting your life away with him. Your choice.

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Sports / Re: Nigeria To Sing New National Anthem In WCQ Clash Against South Africa And Benin by TheWinterBird: 1:11pm On Jun 01
All of them should hold ground and refuse to sing it. Yeye President with the wrong priorities.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Michelle Obama's Mother, Marian Robinson, Dies At 86 by TheWinterBird: 1:06pm On Jun 01
She was a strong pillar for the family. May she rest in heavenly peace. Amen
Politics / Re: Lawyers To Sue Tinubu, NASS Over Reintroduction Of Old National Anthem by TheWinterBird: 1:40am On Jun 01
They should definitely sue. What a joke of a government.
Crime / Re: Nigerian Lady Dies After Kidnappers Killed Her Father After Paying Ransome by TheWinterBird: 12:31pm On May 30
Have they apprehended the kidnappers to bring them to justice? Smh
Sports / Re: Olarenwaju Kayode And Zinny Olanrewaju White Wedding Pictures by TheWinterBird: 5:07pm On May 26
Lmao. Who went to dig up these photos? Seriously, she's very wicked for what she did. Her and that yeye Pastor whom she fathered those kids with should be imprisoned for fraud.

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Travel / Re: Essex To Cumbria Road Trip (Photos) by TheWinterBird: 6:11pm On May 25
This looks like fun

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Sports / Re: DNA Test Reveals Kayode Olarenwaju Is Not The Father Of His 3 Children by TheWinterBird: 4:02pm On May 25
That is wickedness.

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Celebrities / Re: Late Junior Pope Back Stabbed Me Repeatedly - Yul Edochie by TheWinterBird: 11:09am On May 22
Keep quiet there. The man is not here to defend himself. Imagine speaking ill of the dead. Besides, did you not backstab your wife? The last person who should be taking about someone backstabbing you is you because that's your specialty. Pot calling kettle black.

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Health / Re: Margaret Oyibo Atayi Allegedly Commits Suicide Over Failed Marriage by TheWinterBird: 9:09am On May 22
She went out at 3am to commit suicide? Or somebody killed her?

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Crime / Re: Margret Oyibo Atayi Found Dead In Abuja by TheWinterBird: 1:33pm On May 21
This is undoubtedly homicide. I'm sure the yeye police will not do any investigation nor will they arrest anybody. Nigeria is such a terrible country because people/anybody can be murdered and the perpetrator[s] will get away with it.

I want to say "may her soul rest in peace" but Idk how a murder victim's soul can rest in peace when her life was taken from her unfairly.

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Foreign Affairs / Re: US Mourns Iran's President, Ebrahim Raisi by TheWinterBird: 6:51pm On May 20
May their souls rest in peace.
Romance / Re: How Do I Fix My Marriage, It Has Crashed - Family - Nairaland by TheWinterBird: 4:28pm On May 20
I just saw that you posted a similar thread last year:

https://www.nairaland.com/7646882/frustrated-wife


It's a good idea to check people's profiles and post history with threads like this. You mentioned on that thread that your problems were there from the get-go when you got married 6-yeara ago and you've said the same thing in this thread as well. You and your wife were not compatible from the start. Like someone asked above, did you not date and get to know each other before marriage? Did you marry quickly because of pregnancy? If the marriage is just not working and you're not getting along, you can go your separate ways and co-parent. You both don't need to continue being miserable and it seems that she especially does not want to be married to you. Perhaps youre both still in it because of the kids but you're not doing the kids any favor by remaining in a toxic, unhealthy and loveless marriage, but you're doing them more harm than good.

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Career / Re: Lady Who Assisted Father With Vulcanizing Job Receives 500k Cash Gift (photos) by TheWinterBird: 11:35pm On May 19
Awww, now it's things like this I want to read on NL. Genuine people who need assistance and get it, not some people on NL who lie to scam others and go around calling people names because they think they're entitled to their money.

I hope her Father also receives medical attention. He can barely stand in that video.

May God bless her and her Father all the more.

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Celebrities / Re: Diddy Admits He Beat Cassie, He Apologizes: ‘I Take Full Responsibility (Video) by TheWinterBird: 10:12pm On May 19
It's too late for any possibility of damage control now, and he's only sorry he got caught. His reputation is completely ruined and there's no coming back from this nor any of the other crimes he has committed.

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Family / Re: Some People Are IngrATES. by TheWinterBird: 8:44pm On May 19
cococandy:


Yes her intention was for people to insult the person that gave the 20k.

And someone followed me to the food thread too after that interaction on the 20k thread with this same account you mentioned and called me stingy broke person. (And other choice words as well).

I thought it might have been her because they both use the same exact phrases but I wasn’t sure so I ignored it.

Now she deleted those threads and then a few days later she’s posting her hospital experiences. Seems premeditated but I can’t be sure. So let me just observe
She's definitely the same person. Seeing the similar rude and unwarranted comments she made to you in the Food thread after that thread, she's definitely the same person. Also, see the correspondences between her and two people below.

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Family / Re: Some People Are IngrATES. by TheWinterBird: 8:02pm On May 19
cococandy:
Color me confused too

Because she severely insulted me on that thread as well because I said ppl should value whatever they are given

She even took it to another’s thread to continue insulting me there. Calling me stingy and broke. Asking why I’m not doing giveaway for nairalanders.

Now this? Okay maybe she’s reflected on it


I remember that thread. I believe her intention in creating it was for people to insult the guy who sent the money because to her, it was too little.

She has also called me a "stingy entity" in the Food thread using one of her alternate accounts (MrsAminaBello) saying I don't do giveaway on Nairaland. I had no idea who the person was because I had never seen the moniker before only for me to check the profile and see her photo on it but it has been removed since.

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Celebrities / Re: Ayra Starr With Her Gay Fans In Brazil (Photos) by TheWinterBird: 5:45pm On May 19
They love her and support her music. They probably make up a good percentage of people buying and streaming her music. There's nothing wrong with her embracing them and treating them with kindness, otherwise it would affect her image and success. Imagine an African artist whose music transcends nationalities and borders like this. Quite amazing.

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Family / Re: How Can I Managed My Anger With My Wife. by TheWinterBird: 5:30pm On May 19
Re. Her serving you food without cloth to wash your hands:

So... she serves you food, along with water to wash your hands, but no cloth [or towel] to dry your hands and it's the last part you're complaining about? Na wa oooooo. Why can't you get up to dry your hands yourself or is that too much for you to do? That will not reduce your being man; get up and go dry your hands. It's possible she forgets amidst trying to get everything done (going by your post, you probably don't help this woman at all with any chores in the home!!!), so you could get up to do that yourself. It's your type that will not want to lift a plate in the home to wash because your wife is a maid that will do everything. Na wa oooooo.

Another option is to be reminding her and doing it gently and respectfully: "Darling, can you please get me a cloth to dry my hands?" or "Darling, please get me a cloth to dry my hands". If you're doing that and speaking to her like sweetly, she will be remembering gradually.


Re. Her taking the baby out without informing you:

If you're not home and she needs to go somewhere important, is she supposed to call to ask for your permission before going, or leave her baby alone at home because you might not want her taking the child along? Oga, reason am na. This is a 1-year old, so it wouldn't even be a good idea to leave him/her with anyone else (other than you), hence it's best for the child to be with her mother when they need to go out and you're not around. I don't live in Nigeria and see a lot of new moms and their spouses here taking their babies (not even up to 1-year olds) out and about in strollers. They're usually in strollers that keep them protected away from the sun. I hope your wife has a good stroller like that, but if not, get her one! You obviously don't help this woman do anything at home and definitely not outside either, so I believe she's doing the best she can.


Re. the insufficient salt in food

Mr. Man, get a salt shaker (a little bottle/container where you put salt in and meant to be kept at the table where you eat in order to add it to food, if needed). A meal having little salt isn't a bad thing and is better than it being loaded with too much salt! It having little to no salt means you can always add salt when eating. Secondly, we all have different thresholds when it comes to tasting things like salt. It's possible she's one of those people who tastes food with little salt and can enjoy the meal like that. You've to inquire from her to determine if this is the case and if it is, stay with her in the kitchen (hopefully being in the kitchen would not induce any anger in you since you cannot get up to dry your own hands because you're too big of a man to do that) to show her how much salt you'll like her to be adding. That doesn't mean telling her to dump a gallon of salt in the pot and being inconsiderate of her own taste but coming to a compromise on how much salt would be cool for both of you. In the meantime, get a salt shaker like I suggested above and if you show her and you find the food is still lacking the amount of salt you like, then continuing using the salt shaker and add your own salt when eating.


As for your temperamental issue, get help. I don't know what she was thinking marrying someone "very temperamental" and seemingly sexist. You're close to turning her into a punching bag (I hope you're not already doing that) because of these small issues, therefore seek help before it gets to that stage.

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Career / Re: Beautiful Lady Spotted Assisting Her Aged Father With Vulcanizing Job (photos) by TheWinterBird: 2:26am On May 19
Oh gosh. The father should be enjoying his old age, not doing such a stressful job. Oh Lord, please bless them.
Celebrities / Re: Fr Mbaka And Bishop Onaga Laid Junior Pope To Rest by TheWinterBird: 2:22am On May 19
I'm still in shock over this.

Rest in peace, Junior Pope.

Hmmm, life!
Politics / Re: Peter Obi Visits Junior Pope's Family, Signs Condolence Register by TheWinterBird: 9:17pm On May 18
Rest in peace, JP. My condolences to your family.
Politics / Re: Peter Obi Visits Junior Pope's Family, Signs Condolence Register by TheWinterBird: 5:35pm On May 18
So Junior Pope is really gone, huh? cry cry cry
Celebrities / Re: Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs Beating Cassie Ventura In 2016 Video by TheWinterBird: 3:14pm On May 18
Hmmmm
Celebrities / Re: Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs Beating Cassie Ventura In 2016 Video by TheWinterBird: 11:10pm On May 17
The man is a monster. I hope he eventually gets locked up. And I'm still waiting for him to be convicted for killing Kim Porter.

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