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Don't give them any mark or scar. How barbaric.

You should be able to tell your children apart without having to give them a physical scar. They should not have to pay for your ineptitudeness.

Besides, twins will typically have physical attributes about them that differentiates one from the other. As their father, you should've observed them closely to notice these things. Even their personalities will not be the same (and I learned that in a Cognitive Science class).

Good point @1Sharon. I wonder why he can't ask the mother. Imagine opening a thread about something like this when he can ask her.

As someone waiting for marriage, this wouldn't be a big deal. I would find the best Doctors and Specialists for him. Thank God for free healthcare.

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Notfogotten:
[b]My position is, the wife (who knows the celebrant) should have explained the situation to the celebrant that she and her husband cannot be in the party while her husband waits the car park. Thereafter, they can all go home.
That is for a woman that loves the husband.

The wife did not explain or try to explain to the celebrant that the man is her husband? I find that hard to believe. Because that's normally what anyone would do in such situation. Whether it's one's husband, sibling, bff, etc, you would not be happy about them being denied entry for that reason.

If she did explain and the celebrant still refused, then none of them should enter the party. If the celebrant (someone you say she knows) can be that unaccomodating and un-understanding, then they should head back into the car and go home. They can go home and have their own party. I know that's what I would in such situation.

There's nothing genetic about it. God does not create anybody gay. In fact, HE abhors homosexuality. It is not of God!

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A 20-year old? What sorta brief illness did he have?

May his soul rest in peace. Amen

When y'all voted in a useless government, what do you expect? Of all the problems in Nigeria, it's the national anthem that he decided to change. I don laugh tire ( ) but I know it's not a laughing matter. Idk how a government can be this irresponsible and lackadaisical towards its people, smh.

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Why buy the cow when he can get the milk for free? You already have a child for him, you have been living together as an engaged couple and likely being intimate, he's basically getting the benefits of marriage without marriage, so why would he want to marry into with you when he's getting all the benefits of marriage without marriage?

Besides, look at the other things you wrote: he's still confused on what to do with his life at 38, he blames you for not progressing, he smokes and drinks, etc. Is this someone you yourself should want to marry?

And I can't believe you're talking about having another child for you. Umm, m'am, are you okay? Please get sense and I mean that respectfully.

You should break the yeye engagement. Imagine an 8-year (and counting) engagement, smh. It's either you move on with you and your kid, or keep wasting your life away with him. Your choice.

All of them should hold ground and refuse to sing it. Yeye President with the wrong priorities.

She was a strong pillar for the family. May she rest in heavenly peace. Amen

They should definitely sue. What a joke of a government.

Have they apprehended the kidnappers to bring them to justice? Smh

Lmao. Who went to dig up these photos? Seriously, she's very wicked for what she did. Her and that yeye Pastor whom she fathered those kids with should be imprisoned for fraud.

This looks like fun

That is wickedness.

Keep quiet there. The man is not here to defend himself. Imagine speaking ill of the dead. Besides, did you not backstab your wife? The last person who should be taking about someone backstabbing you is you because that's your specialty. Pot calling kettle black.

She went out at 3am to commit suicide? Or somebody killed her?

This is undoubtedly homicide. I'm sure the yeye police will not do any investigation nor will they arrest anybody. Nigeria is such a terrible country because people/anybody can be murdered and the perpetrator[s] will get away with it.

I want to say "may her soul rest in peace" but Idk how a murder victim's soul can rest in peace when her life was taken from her unfairly.

May their souls rest in peace.

I just saw that you posted a similar thread last year:

https://www.nairaland.com/7646882/frustrated-wife


It's a good idea to check people's profiles and post history with threads like this. You mentioned on that thread that your problems were there from the get-go when you got married 6-yeara ago and you've said the same thing in this thread as well. You and your wife were not compatible from the start. Like someone asked above, did you not date and get to know each other before marriage? Did you marry quickly because of pregnancy? If the marriage is just not working and you're not getting along, you can go your separate ways and co-parent. You both don't need to continue being miserable and it seems that she especially does not want to be married to you. Perhaps youre both still in it because of the kids but you're not doing the kids any favor by remaining in a toxic, unhealthy and loveless marriage, but you're doing them more harm than good.

Awww, now it's things like this I want to read on NL. Genuine people who need assistance and get it, not some people on NL who lie to scam others and go around calling people names because they think they're entitled to their money.

I hope her Father also receives medical attention. He can barely stand in that video.

May God bless her and her Father all the more.