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Funny how when you speak the truth regardless of who it may hurts.. President or no president

You have to apologize for speaking up

OK let's see how it's plays out

So painfully

Rip sir

You see a beautiful girl and your heart starts running faster. You want to tell her how she makes your feel or want to ask her out on a date but don’t know how to initiate a conversation. A lot of guys fear of starting a conversation with a girl or they just don’t know how to do so? Few don’t even realize this problem until they freeze when talking to a girl in the first meeting. Many can even talk for hours but they just hesitate to approach a girl for initiating a conversation. Every guy wants to learn the skill to start a conversation with a girl without hesitating and skills to have the great impression on her in the first conversation itself.

This social skill is not tough to master, with keeping few points in mind. You can learn how to start a conversation with a girl without having any flaws if you follow the steps..

Steps to Start a Conversation with a Girl:

1.) Make Eye Contact:

Making an eye contact will show her that you are interested in talking to her. A firm eye contact reflects your confidence. Make an eye contact with the girl you want to talk to also, smile if she looks back in your eyes. Eyes can talk without words. When you can’t talk actually talk virtually. Make sure to look directly into her eye but don’t hold the gaze for the very long time you will look creepy.

2.) Keep it Simple to start a Conversation with a Girl

The girl you are going to approach is obviously beautiful and is very used to get approached by many men. She might even be tired of hearing cheesy lines. So, all you need to do it to keep your introduction part simple. A simple “Hi”, or “Hey”, how are you doing would be enough. Keeping it simple would make it easy for her and would present you as a genuine guy who just wants to have a chat. She will also respond because to you because you did not ask anything bad or made a hit on her you just asked a simple question which she would not feel offended to reply to.

3.) Ask Her Questions

Ask her general questions like is she having a good time? Or does she like the place? These simple questions are the great way to carry on conversation and it also doesn’t harm anyone. These general questions would help you both to build a conversation. She will also not hesitate to answer these questions as it has nothing to do with her personal life or it also doesn’t show that you are hitting on her which will feel her safe to talk to you.

4.) Comment on Something

If you see anything which is worthy to talk about try to comment about it, do it being closer to her while she can hear you? Try to do it in a funny way looking at her so that she would respond back to you. For instance, if you are in a pub or bar you can comment about the music this will also give you an idea about her likes or dislikes. You can start saying “Oh!” this is music is so good it makes me feel I am already in heaven, don’t tell me you are an angel? She would not stop smiling hearing this and would definitely start the conversation herself.

5.) Compliment Her to Start a Conversation with a Girl

You can compliment her or give her gestures that her dress is pretty. Every girl loves to be complimented. She may start talking to you herself. Complimenting is the best way to initiate a conversation; it will make her feel good about herself and would also show her that you are interested in her. In places like restaurant or bar you can also write a note and it pass to her, looking beautiful written on the note.

6.) Start with a Fact to Talk to the Girl You Like

You can start the conversation by telling any fact about the place or about the food, music or anything in your surroundings. Which may be apt for the situation, don’t say anything which will have no meaning at that place. You can tell her fact about the cheese or wine whatever may be closest. Tell fact which is not very common and would amaze her. This would make her feel that you are a smart person who have good knowledge about things and who doesn’t likes a smart person.

7.) Ask Her Opinion

Ask her opinion about anything, asking opinion would make her feel important. This would also involve her in the topic. Getting to know her opinion would let you know her better. You can sit beside her and which drink you should buy or which place is a must visitor if you are in an office you can ask about which coffee you should try at the cafeteria.

8.) Crack a Joke to Start a Conversation with a Girl

Crack a joke when she is close. You can also crack a joke looking at her and smile at her. Your joke may lighten up her mood and her smile will help you to start a conversation. Be sure to not pull off any stupid or vulgar joke. Crack a decent joke; don’t try overdoing it if she doesn’t pay attention. Make sure that you are in her audible range before cracking the joke

9.) Share Interesting Story

Share any interesting story which happened in your life or anybody else or even can be a fake one. The interesting story will make her curious to know more about it. She may ask you to tell more about it. Before handed prepare any interesting story to narrate and narrate it while she listens to you. Make her attention turn towards you; if you can do that then it is the walk on the cake for you.

10.) Talk on Mutual Interest

You both like a thing then talk about it. If you are seeing her first time then talk about anything this may be liked by her as well. You can also talk about the mutual friend if you have any. You can ask about her favorite band or movie and can talk about it. Talking about topics which interest her will make her pay attention to the conversation.

Only GOD knows the amount he gave him as compensation

The accident brought out his handsomeness

Nawa oh

Iamwrath:
I don't trust the source, but i think it's long overdue , him and Wike

wike ke... My brother stop dreaming

Fayose has always been headache to some certain group of people

I hope this one's wouldn't blow up like C4's

Congrats to him. It's not easy

I hope it's for a better Nigeria...

Not for begging of money

Which kind of month of March is this?

Dead here and there

A while back the news of a pregnant man who eventually gave birth to his child made headlines. The man has now revealed how he carried and gave birth to his daughter and the reason he did that.
Chris Rehs-Dupin, 33, made for a unique sight when he sported beards and a protruding belly that could not simply be explained off as a beer belly.
He carried the pregnancy to term, gave birth and even breastfed her and his reason for going through all that is because his wife could not fall pregnant.
Chris had been born a female, Christina. He then met his wife Amy, 33, when they were both in their 20s and working at a children's summer camp and they fell in love immediately. They got into a civil partnership in October 2012 and legally married in 2013 then decided they wanted a family. The plan was for Amy to be the biological mother but after five attempts of intrauterine insemination failed, Chris, who was at the time a pre-op transgender, volunteered to carry their child.
After five rounds of IUI treatment using sperm from an anonymous donor and a miscarriage, he finally gave birth naturally on December 20, 2014, to a girl named Hayden.
Chris, who now runs children’s summer camps, explained how his life unfolded to bring him to the point of deciding to have a baby even after identifying as male and how his gender was not an issue for his wife:
“When I went to university in 2007, I knew I wasn’t a woman and it was an easy realisation to make. I didn’t want to take hormones, because I was happy with who I was and who I was presenting myself as, but I have always been very open with Amy.”
Amy added to Chris' explanation: “By the time I met him, I knew the issue of his gender was at the forefront of his mind. And, eventually, he became more masculine and lived as a man. Chris was my soul mate. I loved everything about him. It didn’t matter what he looked like.”
Speaking on their unusual arrangement, Amy said: "There was no question who would carry the baby. I couldn’t wait to be pregnant."
But things didn't work out as hoped and they improvised.
"We went through a lot of fertility treatments, until we finally reached a point where we needed to make a decision as to whether we were going to do more medical intervention or if we were going to switch bodies," Amy said. “We were fortunate enough to have two uteruses. So, after a lot of thought and emotion and difficulties we switched to Chris.”
Hormones released during the pregnancy made Chris' breast to begin growing again after years of binding them flat and he did not like that bit. Amy tried to breastfeed after the baby was born by taking drugs that will stimulate her body into producing breast milk but the milk was not sufficient so, eventually, Chris had to breastfeed.
Being pregnant made Chris more certain than ever that he wanted to complete his transition to become a man. He also wanted to fully transition so as to be an example to his daughter by letting her know she shouldn't be afraid to be who she is.
“I knew it would make me a better and a happier person, a whole person, to start a medical transition. When my daughter came I knew I didn’t want her to be afraid of who she is and it’s important for me to model that behaviour,” he said.
Having Hayden made Amy even more determined to carry a baby herself so since there was no medical reason why Amy could not conceive, they decided to try again. In January 2016 Chris started his medical transition and Amy became pregnant in the same month, on her first attempt. She finally gave birth to another child, Milo, via caesarean section.
“When I was the pregnant one, because I had a husband who had been there before, it was different. He understood what I was going through, what I was feeling. It was a benefit that not a lot of women have,” Amy said.
Chris will love to have another child and does not rule out the possibility of carrying it himself. Amy, on her part, is simply happy with the family they have and is pleased that Chris is in

This may just end up been another reason why they won't let us in into their country

I don't have any kind of sympathy for this woman..

She deserves what she is getting

Somebody needs to wake this idiot up

Cassandra about to beg on behalf of Magu

Reminds me of a certain former President of Nigeria

Magu himself is corrupt..

Why use a corrupt man to chase after corrupt people?

sarrki:
It does not remove the fact that he's a scammer

he is a scammer because he spoke about the senseless killing of kaduna people by the Apc led govt

And he is even smiling

That thing wey him dey find, wen him go see am..

Me I no dey ooo

When will the SARS commander be persecuted?

That's my darling Governor..

He is always a smiling and happy man

It’s been four days since Barcelona’s incredible 6-1 victory over Paris Saint-Germain and the fallout continues.

While it was the greatest Champions League knockout stage comeback in history, it was overshadowed by some dubious decisions from referee Deniz Aytekin.

The German official awarded Barcelona two penalties on the night - with the second one appearing to be a blatant dive from Luis Suarez. He also turned down PSG appeals for a penalty of their own when Javier Mascherano fouled Angel di Maria - something that the defender admitted to after the game.

It’s since been reported that UEFA are investigating Aytekin’s performance and he faces demotion to the Europa League for the remainder of the campaign.

But Aytekin could face an even more severe punishment after a claim from French newspaper Le Parisien.

They’ve published a report that claims the ref responded to complaints from the PSG players during the match by saying: “f*** you”.



Unfortunately the newspaper doesn’t allude any further to its claims but, if this is true, Aytekin surely faces further investigation.

PSG will certainly want this claim investigated, especially considering their criticism of the referee at full-time.

Their president, Nasser Al-Khelaifi told Le Parisien: “You cannot help but think that the result of this match could have been different with clairvoyant refereeing, and more as the competition progresses, there is a lot at stake and the referees need to know it, there is no room for nervousness or lack of lucidity.

“Everyone saw the penalty to Di Maria that would have put us 3-2 up. Not to mention the penalty on Suarez.”


Barcelona certainly won’t let this report affect them, though. No matter how they did it, they have progressed through to the last eight of Europe’s elite competition as they keep their dream of winning the treble alive.

They will always remember the night they beat PSG 6-1 to progress and won’t remember the few fortunate decisions that went their way.

However, PSG will always remember the name Deniz Aytekin and their players may have every right to feel aggrieved with the way he treated them.

Will this continue for the next 6weeks?

Well Sha nice one

Ogoni again?

We are talking about the one that is happening in Ahoada and Omuku.. Ogoni no wan rest too

OK make them kontinu

Adaowerri111:
16 years misrule contribute

and 2years of lies and propaganda contributed the more

Come 2019 we will start counting the 60years

micfoley:
Which Nigeria?

this Nigeria

Asin Federal Republic of Nigeria

Am so amazed at the level of reasoning of some Nigerians

Suffering and smiling