- Everyone is kinda slow and clumsy. The rain didn’t help matters.
- They put sanitizers at strategic places and we have a handwashing prefect, lol. The cleaners have been asked to work extra.
- They are considering making us continue shifts to reduce the number of staff in the office.
- Use of face masks. They gave us this too.
- I don’t have clients coming in here. My heart goes out to people who have much customer interface, because with what I am seeing- there would be CASUALTIES. Social distancing isn’t working!
- Someone swapped my seat for one that slides down. I will go look for mine when I am ready. They don’t know I marked it.
- I am looking at my (new) boss differently today. Over the work-from-home period, I realized in-house pressure influences lots of his erratic behavior.
Apart from its inherent risk, feels good to see my colleagues physically. I missed their faces, I missed our COB xrated talks. I missed the food we order...etc
Please i know this might sound intrusive but what kind of organization do you work in... Is it Nigerian or Foreign owned... Also is your boss the owner of the company or just a manager?
I'm asking because i only banks to be this organized
ibiso1986: Guy, I'm like you.. the funny thing is that I'm in my mid 30's.. I'm comfortable in terms of work. (I earn close to 150k per month), I drive a car but still find it difficult to socialize.. I don't have a close male friend, the female friends that come always back out after a while..
Their main reason is that im too boring.. I have to be honest, it affects my me psychologically in the sense that the next friend I'll meet might still say the same.
To be honest, making money doesn't make girls chase after you or improve your social life. I know jobless people that have lots of friends and hot Girls chase after..
Or could it be the lifestyle of Port Harcourt based people (especially the females).. I served in Calabar and had lots of friends there.
How do I improve my social life.. I'm not getting any younger and I hope it doesn't affect my search for a spouse.
Do you have hobbies, do you travel, dont you want to do things and talk to people about them?
Can you play the guita, cook great food, write great stories, can you wire a house, build an electronic device what are your hobbies mehn.... Can you dance, play card games, scrabble....
You're boring because you like being boring and lazy (push)
Needhelppls: I've never been a downer, never asked for help, but I think i need help . I'm depressed
I'm socially fvcked up beyond repair. Ever think you're at the point where you started learning things too late? It's where I am right now. I High school days were tormenting, I had friends that tortured me emotionally, lowered my self esteem and confidence.
Now I'm 19, first year in the uni. Never had a gf, very few friends. I've been a chronic Introvert, was shy (not anymore).
Would have asked for help earlier but I dismissed the thought, thinking I'll soon get around to fixing my completely non-existant social life.
Social skills, to others, is just like a normal everyday skill, but to me, I apply conscious effort and focus. Trust me, I've tried
Things like having anxiety attacks moment before calling a girl. Ended up calling, was a disaster
I just have this feeling of being behind - too behind
Now anyone I encounter, I feel completely out-of-sync within a few minutes. I keep loosing meaningful connections.
My outward appearance makes people wanna come close, then they get to notice I'm socially awkward and I'm politely forgotten.
I don't want this Life anymore, I just want to live a normal social life.
Someone pls help! FP pls
There is no normal social life
Everyone you see out there has self esteem issues
Thats why girls use filter... Thats why boys want to make money, thats why they flaunt money..
There is no normal.
Accept your social awkwardness and live life...
What are your hobbies and dreams.
In my class some people see me as socially awkward.... I barely talk though lots ofi guys and girls like being around me.... But i live my life. I focus on making money and perfecting my skills
I can now play thr guitar, piano, do graphics and write books.
I'm a student already earning above the minimum wage....
When girls enter my room, i don't try to impress them, i dont even reply their compliments... I sometimes say... I know....
I dont hate my social awkwardness, instead i use the spare time it gives me to focus on getting money and enjoying myself.....
For you to do all these you have to read books
Like 48 lawsof power The power of the subconscious mind 7 habits of highly effective people Brian Tracy books There are many
Dont assume that others are enjoying.... No one is really enjoying in this world.... Those that live happily simply developed a thicker skin.... They know that life is brutal but they are not as soft as you thats why no one or nothing in life can hurt their esteem....
They know that we are all going to die so they enjoy their lives and have fun....
Take this from me
Take life very seriously when you're alone or working but when you're in public, take life less seriously, laugh and joke and play...
If no one laughs at your jokes... make better jokes... Dont start feeling bad...
Another thing is to have direction, ambition.... Remember that you're not going to see those your school friends after 5 years.. so if you live your life because of them you will end up lost after five years...
So plan for youro future and work towards it..... Laugh and joke with your school friends and seriously work towards your future....
Don't try to be the most popular or most loved in school.... Simply be Happy...
Embrace your awkwardness... Stop judging your life by looking like others....
Develop hobbies, learn skills, stay busy and focus on your life goals.... That way you'll have a better future...
Make sure the gen speed is low, and tight the fuel consumption screw
Hello,
I got a Tec junior 2 months old and i noticed that when the gen is running for some minutes, therr will be a power surge, the current will increase and then return to normal....
Imagine the gen running and then it hums loudly, then the light increases for a second and everything returns to normal
Let me say it in another way.
Imagine a car been warmed up , the car will be fired like voom voom voom.... Like that
So the gen is running for some minutes and then its as is the engine is fired and it goes voooom for a second, the light current increases for a second and it retuns back to normal
Whats going on..
I,m only using a big orl fan, 100 watts bulb, 32 inches TV, laptop... thats all
I got a Tec junior 2 months old and i noticed that when the gen is running for some minutes, therr will be a power surge, the current will increase and then return to normal....
Imagine the gen running and then it hums loudly, then the light increases for a second and everything returns to normal
Let me say it in another way.
Imagine a car been warmed up , the car will be fired like voom voom voom.... Like that
So the gen is running for some minutes and then its as is the engine is fired and it goes voooom for a second, the light current increases for a second and it retuns back to normal
Whats going on..
I,m only using a big orl fan, 100 watts bulb, 32 inches TV, laptop... thats all
MaryJane24: Hello peeps, so, I signed up on nairaland today so that I can ask this question in peace. I sincerely hope you experienced members will say something useful to clear my doubts. So I've been seeing this guy for three months- no sex. He is always asking for it but I finally agreed to do it with him on Saturday last week. But when I saw his thing, I dressed up very quickly and said we can't do it now. He asked me why but I was reluctant to tell him the real reason. His joystick is not straight but rather curved to the left side. It was fully erect when I noticed and I couldn't bear to let him force it into me. Is such a joystick a normal thing? Have you seen one like that before? How do you manage to have sex with it like that and is it painful? Thanks in advance for your help.
Its totally normal.
Ask him if it pains him during sex, if it does then he may have Peyronie's disease.... This disease causes the penis to curve
Peyronie's disease Fibrous scar tissue inside the penis that causes curved, painful erections. Peyronie's disease is caused by repeated penile injury, typically during sex or physical activity
GenPROFESSOR: I intend buying a small capacity generator but I'm torn between these two generator brands: Sumec and Tec. My major concern is fuel consumption. Please advise.....................
Good day ma sorry for the delay I will advice you to go for SUMEC FIRMAN SPG1800 Reasons
1) it does not make noise 2) zero, level in fuel consumption 3) is 100/ Copper coil, it's portable,that you will love just change the engine oil every three weeks
iClef: Even though I didn't share the full story to avoid too much argument, let's summarize the little I shared.
She came, we laughed, she gave me money, we ate together, played, and showered together, etc.
While going, she noticed a carton of indomie I bought some weeks or days ago has been untouched, so I told her to take as many as she can because I only eat indomie once in 2 years — I hate the food. I only bought it for COVID-19 buying sake and visitors' sake, but most times when someone visits me, there is always cooked rice and stew ready, so they no longer bother cooking indomie.
She grabbed a bag and packed some and I added some tin tomatoes to the bag since I bought a carton of it too. I kissed her forehead as she demanded and she happily left with an everlasting cute smiles on her face.
Now, I'm all alone in this house lying under the duvet as I press phone and laptop. It's cold in here. We make money while we sleep and we have fun when we want.
We act mature when we want and we act immature when we want too. We control our lives and behaviors, the society can't control us — that is the epitome of freedom.
We act arrogant when we want and we act humble when we want too. We are in control and God is in FULL control.
Recession or no recession, I'm not bothered. I have suffered all the suffer needed in life while others were busy sleeping and having fun, so allow me to flex.
I came across a proverb that said " Do not tell a woman to close her legs because you don't know her source of receiving fresh air" I don't know what it means. Because when I saw a lady seating inappropriately by exposing her unclothedness, I will tell another lady to her to close her legs ( so that she won't feel embarrassed if I told her myself or I don't want a scenario whereby she will be asking me "waiting your eye go do for there? lol. for that two reasons I prefer to tell another lady to her. I know the proverb has a meaning, please who knows the meaning of the proverb.
Never tell a lady to stop fucking around because you do not know her source of income
iLegendd: Some people think enjoyment is food. Though, it's part of it, but the best enjoyment is self-development by reading books or listening to audio books.
When this pandemic is over, you'll be greater than you were when this issue started. Don't be depressed and think about how life sucks, but use this time to improve yourself.
Below are audio books I downloaded from YouTube and I want to see how far I'll go in listening to all before this pandemic stops.
Do the same and your life will never remain the same.