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Business / Re: Billionaires Supporting Fight Against COVID-19 by Thoughtfeed: 10:28am On May 10, 2020
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Romance / Re: Women And Double Standard by Thoughtfeed: 2:30pm On May 08, 2020
I need that next post


Love this cheesy

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Career / Re: Work Resumption: Share Your Experience by Thoughtfeed: 1:08pm On May 04, 2020
sexylassie2:


Not a bank.

It seems you're not interested and i wont bother asking which place it is
Technology Market / Re: Professor On Any Type Of Generator. by Thoughtfeed: 1:05pm On May 04, 2020
enochogaga:


I think the gen need to be service, like the cabrator and govnor need to be set, that all

What is govnor
Career / Re: Work Resumption: Share Your Experience by Thoughtfeed: 1:04pm On May 04, 2020
sexylassie2:


The working description looks like a bank i guess

Is yours a bank too?.... I once worked in a contracting company as an intern.. but they we're not so organized
Career / Re: Work Resumption: Share Your Experience by Thoughtfeed: 12:55pm On May 04, 2020
pocohantas:
Nothing much;

- Everyone is kinda slow and clumsy. The rain didn’t help matters.

- They put sanitizers at strategic places and we have a handwashing prefect, lol. The cleaners have been asked to work extra.

- They are considering making us continue shifts to reduce the number of staff in the office.

- Use of face masks. They gave us this too.

- I don’t have clients coming in here. My heart goes out to people who have much customer interface, because with what I am seeing- there would be CASUALTIES. Social distancing isn’t working!

- Someone swapped my seat for one that slides down. I will go look for mine when I am ready. They don’t know I marked it.

- I am looking at my (new) boss differently today. Over the work-from-home period, I realized in-house pressure influences lots of his erratic behavior.

Apart from its inherent risk, feels good to see my colleagues physically. I missed their faces, I missed our COB xrated talks. I missed the food we order...etc

Please i know this might sound intrusive but what kind of organization do you work in... Is it Nigerian or Foreign owned... Also is your boss the owner of the company or just a manager?

I'm asking because i only banks to be this organized
Romance / Re: What Has Love Made You Do That Annoys You Anytime You Remember? by Thoughtfeed: 10:09pm On May 03, 2020
Cc: lalasticlala
Romance / Re: My Social Life Is Fvcked. I Need Help Pls by Thoughtfeed: 6:51pm On May 03, 2020
ibiso1986:
Guy, I'm like you.. the funny thing is that I'm in my mid 30's.. I'm comfortable in terms of work. (I earn close to 150k per month), I drive a car but still find it difficult to socialize.. I don't have a close male friend, the female friends that come always back out after a while..

Their main reason is that im too boring.. I have to be honest, it affects my me psychologically in the sense that the next friend I'll meet might still say the same.

To be honest, making money doesn't make girls chase after you or improve your social life. I know jobless people that have lots of friends and hot Girls chase after..

Or could it be the lifestyle of Port Harcourt based people (especially the females).. I served in Calabar and had lots of friends there.

How do I improve my social life.. I'm not getting any younger and I hope it doesn't affect my search for a spouse.


Do you have hobbies, do you travel, dont you want to do things and talk to people about them?

Can you play the guita, cook great food, write great stories, can you wire a house, build an electronic device what are your hobbies mehn.... Can you dance, play card games, scrabble....

You're boring because you like being boring and lazy (push)

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Romance / Re: My Social Life Is Fvcked. I Need Help Pls by Thoughtfeed: 6:48pm On May 03, 2020
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Romance / Re: My Social Life Is Fvcked. I Need Help Pls by Thoughtfeed: 1:05pm On May 03, 2020
Needhelppls:
I've never been a downer, never asked for help, but I think i need help . I'm depressed


I'm socially fvcked up beyond repair. Ever think you're at the point where you started learning things too late? It's where I am right now.
I
High school days were tormenting, I had friends that tortured me emotionally, lowered my self esteem and confidence.


Now I'm 19, first year in the uni. Never had a gf, very few friends.
I've been a chronic Introvert, was shy (not anymore).

Would have asked for help earlier but I dismissed the thought, thinking I'll soon get around to fixing my completely non-existant social life.

Social skills, to others, is just like a normal everyday skill, but to me, I apply conscious effort and focus. Trust me, I've tried

Things like having anxiety attacks moment before calling a girl. Ended up calling, was a disaster


I just have this feeling of being behind
- too behind

Now anyone I encounter, I feel completely out-of-sync within a few minutes. I keep loosing meaningful connections.



My outward appearance makes people wanna come close, then they get to notice I'm socially awkward and I'm politely forgotten.

I don't want this Life anymore, I just want to live a normal social life.


Someone pls help!
FP pls

There is no normal social life

Everyone you see out there has self esteem issues

Thats why girls use filter... Thats why boys want to make money, thats why they flaunt money..

There is no normal.

Accept your social awkwardness and live life...

What are your hobbies and dreams.

In my class some people see me as socially awkward.... I barely talk though lots ofi guys and girls like being around me.... But i live my life. I focus on making money and perfecting my skills

I can now play thr guitar, piano, do graphics and write books.

I'm a student already earning above the minimum wage....

When girls enter my room, i don't try to impress them, i dont even reply their compliments... I sometimes say... I know....

I dont hate my social awkwardness, instead i use the spare time it gives me to focus on getting money and enjoying myself.....

For you to do all these you have to read books

Like 48 lawsof power
The power of the subconscious mind
7 habits of highly effective people
Brian Tracy books
There are many


Dont assume that others are enjoying.... No one is really enjoying in this world.... Those that live happily simply developed a thicker skin.... They know that life is brutal but they are not as soft as you thats why no one or nothing in life can hurt their esteem....

They know that we are all going to die so they enjoy their lives and have fun....

Take this from me

Take life very seriously when you're alone or working but when you're in public, take life less seriously, laugh and joke and play...

If no one laughs at your jokes... make better jokes... Dont start feeling bad...

Another thing is to have direction, ambition.... Remember that you're not going to see those your school friends after 5 years.. so if you live your life because of them you will end up lost after five years...

So plan for youro future and work towards it..... Laugh and joke with your school friends and seriously work towards your future....

Don't try to be the most popular or most loved in school.... Simply be Happy...

Embrace your awkwardness... Stop judging your life by looking like others....

Develop hobbies, learn skills, stay busy and focus on your life goals.... That way you'll have a better future...

And havw fun when the time comes

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Technology Market / Re: Professor On Any Type Of Generator. by Thoughtfeed: 10:54am On May 03, 2020
enochogaga:


Make sure the gen speed is low, and tight the fuel consumption screw


Hello,

I got a Tec junior 2 months old and i noticed that when the gen is running for some minutes, therr will be a power surge, the current will increase and then return to normal....

Imagine the gen running and then it hums loudly, then the light increases for a second and everything returns to normal

Let me say it in another way.

Imagine a car been warmed up , the car will be fired like voom voom voom.... Like that

So the gen is running for some minutes and then its as is the engine is fired and it goes voooom for a second, the light current increases for a second and it retuns back to normal

Whats going on..

I,m only using a big orl fan, 100 watts bulb, 32 inches TV, laptop... thats all
Technology Market / Re: Professor On Any Type Of Generator. by Thoughtfeed: 10:54am On May 03, 2020
suco01:



No idea. consult an engineer physically


Hello,

I got a Tec junior 2 months old and i noticed that when the gen is running for some minutes, therr will be a power surge, the current will increase and then return to normal....

Imagine the gen running and then it hums loudly, then the light increases for a second and everything returns to normal

Let me say it in another way.

Imagine a car been warmed up , the car will be fired like voom voom voom.... Like that

So the gen is running for some minutes and then its as is the engine is fired and it goes voooom for a second, the light current increases for a second and it retuns back to normal

Whats going on..

I,m only using a big orl fan, 100 watts bulb, 32 inches TV, laptop... thats all
Romance / Re: Win This Game and Get 5k Each [Picture] by Thoughtfeed: 3:46pm On May 01, 2020
iLegendd:


The download link is working, so I won't be sending to any email — it's time consuming.


On chrome its not working

Romance / Re: Win This Game and Get 5k Each [Picture] by Thoughtfeed: 3:45pm On May 01, 2020
Yuceeluv:
i have downloaded and opened an account on 4shared... when you are ready OP, beep me.

S..
Romance / Re: Win This Game and Get 5k Each [Picture] by Thoughtfeed: 3:43pm On May 01, 2020
iLegendd:


It seems you're using Opera mini. Use another browser. If it persists, drop your email and I'll forward it there.

Jjj
Romance / Re: My Boyfriend's Joystick Is Strange by Thoughtfeed: 2:47pm On Apr 29, 2020
MaryJane24:
Hello peeps,
so, I signed up on nairaland today so that I can ask this question in peace. I sincerely hope you experienced members will say something useful to clear my doubts.
So I've been seeing this guy for three months- no sex. He is always asking for it but I finally agreed to do it with him on Saturday last week. But when I saw his thing, I dressed up very quickly and said we can't do it now. He asked me why but I was reluctant to tell him the real reason. His joystick is not straight but rather curved to the left side. It was fully erect when I noticed and I couldn't bear to let him force it into me. Is such a joystick a normal thing? Have you seen one like that before? How do you manage to have sex with it like that and is it painful? Thanks in advance for your help.

Its totally normal.

Ask him if it pains him during sex, if it does then he may have Peyronie's disease.... This disease causes the penis to curve

Peyronie's disease
Fibrous scar tissue inside the penis that causes curved, painful erections.
Peyronie's disease is caused by repeated penile injury, typically during sex or physical activity

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Nairaland / General / Re: Maintenance On Your Thesaurus by Thoughtfeed: 12:44am On Apr 29, 2020
GenPROFESSOR:
I intend buying a small capacity generator but I'm torn between these two generator brands: Sumec and Tec. My major concern is fuel consumption. Please advise.....................

Good day ma sorry for the delay I will advice you to go for SUMEC FIRMAN SPG1800 Reasons

1) it does not make noise
2) zero, level in fuel consumption
3) is 100/ Copper coil, it's portable,that you will love just change the engine oil every three weeks

Are you saying sumec is better then Tec
Health / Re: My Penis Discharges Pus, What Could That Be? by Thoughtfeed: 10:13pm On Apr 23, 2020
illitrate:
op, ignore every reply here, I am a gono regular customer.

Dont waste time going to hospital or testing just buy this and thank me later.


Go to any pharmacy and buy augmentin 625mg

first take 2

next 1-1-1

2 days maximun u will be fully healthy.

dont take 1g take take 625mg

First take 2 at once or separately...

1 1 1 when? Morning or wat
Crime / Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed? Share Your Experience!! by Thoughtfeed: 4:50pm On Apr 23, 2020
adewumiopeyemi:
I was scam on data bundle her after two days I reported him to the bank his account was blocked he later called me apologizing

How did you report him to his bank
Romance / Re: As a Niger Deltan, What Will I Benefit From Marrying Igbo, Hausa, Or a Yoruba? by Thoughtfeed: 12:16pm On Apr 23, 2020
iLegendd:
So, what will I benefit. Which tribe (I hate the word tribe) do you suggest I should marry from and what are your reasons?

What tribe are you... The benefits depend on your tribe
Family / Re: What Is The Weirdest Thing You Have Seen In Someone Else House? by Thoughtfeed: 11:16pm On Apr 16, 2020
Guru Marahaj

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Romance / Re: Look At These 2 Beautiful Queens and I'll Tell You What Happened [Picture] by Thoughtfeed: 11:55pm On Apr 14, 2020
iClef:
Even though I didn't share the full story to avoid too much argument, let's summarize the little I shared.

She came, we laughed, she gave me money, we ate together, played, and showered together, etc.

While going, she noticed a carton of indomie I bought some weeks or days ago has been untouched, so I told her to take as many as she can because I only eat indomie once in 2 years — I hate the food. I only bought it for COVID-19 buying sake and visitors' sake, but most times when someone visits me, there is always cooked rice and stew ready, so they no longer bother cooking indomie.

She grabbed a bag and packed some and I added some tin tomatoes to the bag since I bought a carton of it too. I kissed her forehead as she demanded and she happily left with an everlasting cute smiles on her face.

Now, I'm all alone in this house lying under the duvet as I press phone and laptop. It's cold in here. We make money while we sleep and we have fun when we want.

We act mature when we want and we act immature when we want too. We control our lives and behaviors, the society can't control us — that is the epitome of freedom.

We act arrogant when we want and we act humble when we want too. We are in control and God is in FULL control.


Recession or no recession, I'm not bothered. I have suffered all the suffer needed in life while others were busy sleeping and having fun, so allow me to flex.

#smile.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NlyzO7dJ0YY
Can I get chatdictted please like that guy
Romance / Ubunja Has Abandoned Us!! by Thoughtfeed: 9:25pm On Apr 13, 2020
I check his blog almost daily yet nothing..

He claims he is busy yet he login to nairaland everyday

Ubunja why
Romance / Re: I Romanced One Nairaland Girl Today(pics) by Thoughtfeed: 7:50pm On Apr 07, 2020
Fake account... This is not the real ubunja

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Romance / Re: Never Ask A Woman To Close Her Legs...what Does It Mean? by Thoughtfeed: 1:59pm On Apr 07, 2020
Irijosa777:

I came across a proverb that said " Do not tell a woman to close her legs because you don't know her source of receiving fresh air" I don't know what it means.
Because when I saw a lady seating inappropriately by exposing her unclothedness, I will tell another lady to her to close her legs ( so that she won't feel embarrassed if I told her myself or I don't want a scenario whereby she will be asking me "waiting your eye go do for there? lol. for that two reasons I prefer to tell another lady to her.
I know the proverb has a meaning, please who knows the meaning of the proverb.

Never tell a lady to stop fucking around because you do not know her source of income
Literature / Re: Time to Enjoy and This Is How I'm Doing It... [Picture] by Thoughtfeed: 6:04pm On Apr 04, 2020
iLegendd:
Some people think enjoyment is food. Though, it's part of it, but the best enjoyment is self-development by reading books or listening to audio books.

When this pandemic is over, you'll be greater than you were when this issue started. Don't be depressed and think about how life sucks, but use this time to improve yourself.

Below are audio books I downloaded from YouTube and I want to see how far I'll go in listening to all before this pandemic stops.

Do the same and your life will never remain the same.

Most of them are 1 to 6 to 10 hours each.

5 second rule I need it

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Romance / Re: My Wife And Her Mum Packed Everything And Left Me With Nothing. by Thoughtfeed: 2:20pm On Apr 04, 2020
ubunja:
it's always the man's fault with these guys.

Who is ubunja1 please

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