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Princewell2012:
The reason why this case is different is because this woman is well to do right May be thats why everybody is consetrating on the property, what if it is the other ways round? Am sure nobody will hear about it.

Have the woman told you why her husband wanted her out in the first place? You should know that this story is not complete. Have you heard the other side of the story? May be the woman might be Rollin on the begging if she don't have that property? But now instead of her showing remorse she is threatening her husband. Yes I called it a threat. At this junction the man felt l insecure and decided to leave the so called property for the woman.

But you want her to break her marriage because of this so callled property hmmm

Mind you this man might not even mean what he is saying it might be a mere threat to bend his wife to oder, because no reasonable man will send his wife and children out of the home. Believe me that story is not complete she was only looking for sympathisers so she can Cook up anything to gain it.

I knows why I made that comments that if she is still interested in her marriage she should do the needful though you will not understanding.

I have comes across so many cases of this such and by the grace of God I were able to reconciled them.

Finally you said you don't want to insult me, but I have put it to you that you have already done so.

Shalom.

I'm sorry in anyway I spoke rudely... But yet sir, we can't say d man doesn't mean it... A man that change his work place to another state is not a good man...

Arobake:
Thank you.

I'm sorry if I'm disrespectful sir but I feel so sad for the lady.. I pass through such in my dad place against my mum too. I don't want this lady to pass through such too

Concerning your post @ HEseesall


Pls listen to this man advise
By LewsTherin
Finally, under no circumstances whatsoever should you add his name to that document. In mediations, the best you should do is to place the property in a trust for your children. Children! Not you, not him, not Mr and Mrs. Put it in the names of ALL your kids with a caveat that it cannot be sold by any one until all kids are above 18 years old...


Don't change it to his name or else you and your kids will be homeless... A man that can forget about kids and wife then change the location of his job is not a good man.... He will ruin you if you don't seek for wisdom... Many of us never had perfect parents and it affected us e.g Timekeeper but thank God for his grace, my own wunt be like my parents own.... Pls listen Oo, don't hear any pastor that tells u to give him the house.. He wunt be there if he send you away neither will he take u under his roof if ur husband send u away..

Be blessed

Ps: I'm a man but I support LewsTherin on this. Give it to your children

Princewell2012:
@op I have taken my time gone through your posts and this is my submission. Am also a married man with children. And a minister of the Gospel.

1 what you did was wrong and make your husband not to trust you again. Why? Both of you entered into an agreement. When both of you got married your properties became his and his became yours. In evey indication you re well to do and can take care of your children. 2 your husband feelt betrayed here, mind you his parents are now your parents do you believe that?

Pls if your still interested in your marriage though you didn't tell us why the man wanted you out in the first place. Now go and correct that documents accordingly, beg him and resolved your issues amicably.

Don't allow all these posters to deceive you.
Your pastor can accompany you to do that.

Peace.

I don't want to offend God through u minister.. Are you saying she shud change the name to the husband name or to Mr and Mrs... If it's Mr and Mrs, I agree but if u say to the full husband name, never.... Fine she betrayed he husband trust but which good husband will send a wife packing thinking that it was his own house when the wife built it with her own share.... Minister don't let me offend God through you... Ur home may be so cool but don't mean others are.... Pls sir

HEseesall:
I had to open this account for anonymity
I'm in a dilemma, let me start like this, when i and my husband first got married we did a joint business that fetched us a huge amount of money, the aim was to build a house, when we got the money, he decided to use his' for his parents (i had no problem with that) then mine for what we wanted to use it for

Two weeks ago we had a major misunderstanding, it was soo intense to the extent that he told me to park out of the house, in the heat of things i told him that cannot be possible that the house is in my name, he was shocked, saying it is impossible we built it together that it's in his name, i had to remind him what happened then, he was furious saying it was wrong of me to use my name, that he cant believe he has been staying in a house that does not belong to him, he told his family what i did claming victim, then he packed out saying he wont come home till i change the name to his full name, i begged him to no avail, i dont even know how to tell my people, imagine if it was in his name, i and the kids would have been out of the house by now, he has requested for transfer from his office to another state cos of this, who does that?? He cant expect me to change it to his name.

Pls i need other advise to go about this, he is a good man but he feels his ego has been bruised, i need other options.


MODIFIED For those viewing this, i have made some clarifications down to page (1),

I'm a man but pls don't change it.. If he wunt allow Mr n Mrs, don't change it... I never liked how my father treated my mother all bcox she did not have her own.. It had an effect on us. Ur children may suffer such too.. Pls don't..... U share me ur mobile number n let's chat

folake4u:
Friends with benefits you mean?

Maybe

Lordlestat:
Dotard

Sorry goat

Lordlestat:
@OP also stop logging into your fake accounts and commenting on this garbage

Get a real life

What's ur problem really

Lordlestat:
Grow up and stop posting nonsense, nigga

I assume you have a job or you are in college? Dedicate this mental energy to further your life goals and stop seeking internet fame with made up nonsense

Mumu read the last part...

Lordlestat:
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How is this the right place to get answers?

This comment alone shoes the ignorance and falsehood behind this post


What is the average age of active users of this forum?
Do you have this accurate data?

How many are married really ?

How many are parents ?

How many are active Sexually?

Do you see the folly of ylour comment now ?

Personal problems are meant to be personal and shared only with either professionals or close confidants not a public faceless web forum where you have no idea the credibility of people rendering advise !

Made up stories like this should be labeled as such and not falsely passed off as serious posts

U lost ni abi who is this one shouting like person wey dog bark

A serious controversy happened yesterday when I was with my friends. We were having a constructive conversation when a mother of five said that she is not enjoying sex any longer, because her husband joystick is way to small now that her clit is 'opened' due to child birth. And she said it's her husband's fault that he should improve on his 'skills' in bed. Her husband is complaining about it like it is her fault. Some said it's her fault, other said it's her husband's. I want to know what Nairalanders think about this. Is there a right side here? All the experienced people, please i need y'all here. I'm going to show her this thread so that she will realize that a woman that has five children cannot enjoy sex. It's over even though she is in her 30s!


Nb : it's someone's post but I though this is the right forum to get answers... Kind contribute

Colourich:
Why you too like free things...

Is the lady not getting free orgasm too?? "or is she paying for it

Valaci:
Guys,

How do you feel when your JOHN THOMAS fails you after having a fun filled night-out with this gorgeous lady and her friends and spending a good chunk of your cash.

The lady pictures or addonbilivit

Preca:
.....

But preca, how can we connect?? Mail or digits

fancy4eve:
masturbating crew, guys Neva finish.

Okay.. Shud i send u one heavy bouncer to treat you right and give u 10x orgasm

fancy4eve:
dat is wat am saying..... More lyk frwnds with benefit.

U nack am... Will send u one cucumber as my show of appreciation.. Use it gently

Toor who shud I approach? I love the two of them.. Tiwa though old but still sexy.. Yesi though young but a nice investment..


Click share for Tiwa and like for yemi alade

Try being a father first before you judge... As a father, I'm better than most baby daddies.

Ps: ain't a father yet

mimimile93:
Nigerian ladies don't have emotions.. That's why they easily opened their legs to whoever that can pay for it..

Likewise you??

If you love to see a female candidate as vice president of Nigeria, click like if no Click share

marvelli:
But you've said it already OP... Prostitutes! Or are you just trying your luck here

Maybe I shud try my luck with you.....

XhosaNostra:
Some do, but from observation, they usually have major issues. And I don't think it's as unemotional as it may appear, since I suspect they're getting some sort of validation from it. Sex & self worth are closely related imo. Why would you wanna have sex with someone you have no feelings for? Sex is sorta disgusting, with bodily fluids involved, so I don't understand why anyone, male or female, would wanna do it for the sake of doing it.

So ur conclusion, u can only have sex with sumone u love?

fancy4eve:
They re not prostitutes, dey just can't stand heart breaks, in a situation she is attracted to him nd don't want 2 b caught in d middle, just get down wit him nd act as if Notn happened nd lyf goes on.

U understand me but in a situation that a guy doesn't wanna commit himself nko... Can a lady agreed with such guy on a no string attached sex?

Nackzy:
Bros no talk so, jst say blue collar job
Cos any job implies packing of shit, being an herdsman, sweeping the street, m so forth

Okay

It has been established that lady have sex with emotions unlike prostitute but guys have sex with out any emotion at all.... But does no strings attached ladies still exist, as in ladies that are interested in just sex and not relationship.....


Cc:
Amakababe
Ishlove
Farano
Sabenabeauty
Ahnie
Makydebbie
Blackhawk

. Closed

Optionally:
I don't think he even knows that he has serious temper cos each time i try to talk to him about it he gets really annoyed.

Op i advise you to go learn karate and boxing... The guy may be gud in karate n not boxing and vice-versa. So pls learn the two so that u can have an upper hand in case u guys wan fight... Don't let anyone cheat u Cox u a lady, learn karate and boxing n tryout randy orton, John cena and undertaker smack down... It will be helpful in the future

Optionally:
I Have been dating him for almost 2 years now and i am looking forward to marrying him but his temper has always been too much.
He easily get annoyed over little things.
One minute he his happy and loving with me and the other minute he his something else.Sometimes i would be confused on what to do cause i may do A and he will get annoyed and i may do B and he will still get annoyed,I just get tired and confused.
Please what can i do cause i really love him but sometimes he can be really aggressive towards me.

Or i advise you to go learn karate and boxing... The guy may be gud in karate n not boxing and vice-versa. So pls learn the two so that u can have an upper hand in case u guys wan fight... Don't let anyone cheat u Cox u a lady, learn karate and boxing n tryout randy orton, John cena and undertaker smack down... It will be helpful in the future

RedDistrict:
never ends well babe, trust me on this.

hot tempered and abusive guys only get worse and 2 years is already a long time for him to have actively tried to calm down for you at least

i attended my guy's sisters wedding to a younger temperamental guy.
The marriage crashed after a year cos the crazy guy was beating the wife who was pregnant already. She would run into the bedroom and close the door and the hubby woukd be hitting the door ( i saw pictures). she had scars on her body also.
My guy and his other brothers went to the house to beat the crazy guy and carried their sister away.
She has a baby boy now and is taking care of her son herself

Run now or manage for now and run after you get married, you'll still run eventually

She will not hear, she will now come back after d guy don design her body with different colours 3 days after wedding...