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may320:
Now you're talking.
But let me advice you, be careful of the way you break up with her. She's as 'dangerous' as those you're running from.
Use wisdom to cut off from her.....slowly. You know her better than anyone here. Device means of withdrawing slowly from her till she gets the message or she's no longer interested in you again.
Avoid emotional playout and manipulation from her, dont fall for it.

Exactly bro... she may even belong to their group so I don't want to make it seem like I broke up with her cos of the cult brouhaha and I made a grave mistake yesterday.
I told her about the dream I had before we started dating and if she actually belong to their group she prolly would have told them about it and they would want to carry out whatever they are planning Asap. So I have to act smart and fast.

may320:
People should stop advising this one. He wouldnt hear.
He replies to advice that tells him to continue but neglect all those 'run' ones.
Goodluck on your venture.......either you make it alive or dead.

You know I cant reply to all comments but i've decided to end the relationship in the next couple of days.

Thank y'll for the advice, I'm greatful. Peace!!!

DogmaNation:
My broda run,e nu make u ju man. Confra go easily kill u because of pusssy. Life nu get duplicate. Ladies plenty for street.

Thanks bro.

Daeylar:
Timil let her go.

The fact that she's going around showing you multiple cult members interested in her, and the number keeps growing the more you hang out with her. Why does she keep telling you? Is she proud of it? Is she boasting about it?
Are they just asking her out or she has something more with them?
I find it weird, before you know the number will reach 20 cult guys all asking her out. only her.

Those two bolded above is also given me a great concern cos i'm starting to feel that she's been used as a bargaining chip to make me belong in their nonsense group.

franklingud:
@Timil

Don't ever listen that shiit of an advice saying run for your life.

Life itself is a risk, take it.

Be with your girl no matter what, if they persist on her then do the needful and report them to a nearby anti-cult or SARS.

Let them deal with those boys.

Its not as easy as you think bro but thanks for the advice.

kelechi50:
Please your parents sent you to school to acquire knowledge and be useful to them and the society
but you have chosen to be distracted by a girl that the devils are after,your name na sorry

I've asked her on multiple times the reason why numerous cult guys could be hitting on her but she doesn't seem to have an answer and I've this feeling those cult guys may be seeing what cool guys like us who dont do voodoo aint seeing.
Thanks anyways!

Korllami007:
People are advicing you to run for your life and you're saying you love her. You think cultists na boys scout.
I hope you will continue to love her after your death. If they kill you, she will continue with her life. If you think you can lay down your life to prove that you love her so that she can love your more after your death, RIP in advance and continue your love for her in the grave while she's still alive. Please, leave money for candlenight before you die because that's very important.

Thanks for the advice bro.

Ziel20:
Be a hero bro. Stand up and show them that u don't take shit from nobody.

Hmmm.... this is actually what my girl wants though she hasn't said it but from her reaction to the whole situation this is what she wants but when I think of my life and think of the fact that if I end up dead in the process she will surely get another man. I reconsider going down this lane.

valirex:
Baba find your way, those guys may come after you.

A friend actually suggested that I should stay in the relationship but we should stop with the PDA and limit how we communicate in public for some time just to confuse the gang members.

ritmek:
My brother run for your life....this life no get part 2 oo

I've been thinking of this but when I think of how much we love each other and how young the relationship is I feel like staying in the relationship.

Good day Nairalanders I'm Jay (psuedonym) by name and I need your candid advice please bear with me if my writeup is long.

Several thoughts have been running through my mind all day and I've been trying to get an answer within but none is forthcoming. Flash back to some few months ago there's this girl I met in school, she's sweet, lovely and she's got everything I want in a woman, we started talking and we got to know each other.

During one of our conversations she told me about a particular guy of the Aiye confraternity who has been hitting on her but she claimed its nothing to be worried about so I waved it aside.

Few months later she gave in and gave me a yes, precisely six weeks ago but on the 7th of this month (Sunday). She told me a friend of hers decided to take her out only to discover that its a gathering organised by some gang members to celebrate their annual anniversary (7/7).

She said she met some other gang members who has been hitting on her there, according to her claim she said nothing transpired between her and the members of the secret society but during the convo I got to know that apart from the other guy in Aiye there are also two other cult guys from different gang who are also after her.

I didnt take it as much of a big issue I just told her to be careful of friends and people she moves with. Sunday went by and today (Wednesday) after lectures while hanging around the school premises she showed me two other gang members who had approached her and who still holds an interest in her making it 4/5 or more cult guys who are hitting on her.

From that moment I wasn't at ease but she didn't seem bothered or disturbed like I do infact she was still getting cosy and all loved up with the PDA despite the fact that I was trying not to draw attention at that very moment.

When I got back to my hostel while thinking of what to do I remembered that two-three weeks before we started dating I had a nightmare in which some gang members were after my life.

I thought of the nightmare and the current circumstance I am and I can see some sort of relation I've been thinking whether to continue the relationship or end it even though its still young, fresh and filled with love.

Please Nairalanders I need your advice on this, thanks for your help.

PDP should shut the fucck up they don't deserve any sympathy, all those times they were stealing other parties/people's mandate they didn't know then that others were learning from them and following their footsteps.
They started this rigging nonsense in Nigeria and made it a norm like its no big deal but now that times have changed and it's theirs that's being stolen they are crying foul.
Useless parties with useless supporters!

namiji2598:
u listed the remaining noisemakers again ooooo is there any difference between those guys and the song Asa jus released?maybe u DNT have data to download sha

And who are those that aren't noisemakers? perhaps Burnaboy, Teni, Cardi B and the other bunch of non talented artists.

Dude I didn't comment without checking out the video in fact I have my own copy. It's apparent you have a poor taste in music, you no nothing about good music. Good music is life!!!!

namiji2598:
it's gonna be trash!!!!!

The worse of Asa's song is sweet to the ear than the best of your overrated Wizkid, Davido, Olamide and the likes

Are we sane in this country at all??.

2019 isn't over yet this fools are already thinking of 2023 that they may even not live to see.

We keep retrogressing as a nation yet what this nonetities can think of is how to get power in 2023.

Even God knows Nigeria is a joke of a country and if we are not careful, this God forsaken country will be plunged into oblivion forever.

Other countries of the world are obsessed with growing their economy, developing ground breaking technologies and making their country a better place for their citizens but what our own so called leaders are obsessed about is how to cling on to power come 2023.

We've lost it as a nation and the chances of redemption is below 5%. Which way Nigeria......

HigherEd:
There is no hiding under anything... There are over 5,000 church universities in the world. And winners chapel members are more than happy to fund this social good for the perpetuating research advancement.

One of the gullible chickens of winners chapel spotted, you people are always defending your pastors ungodly acts.

That was how some folks were also defending him when he said God will open the gates of hell on some certain people as if he himself is sure of his place in heaven.

Hmm..... one man is hiding under the guise of religion and in the process he's duping his gullible church members and growing his own empire.

I don't see the point in building universities that almost 70% of your church members can barely afford, if you are doing the work of God do it selflessly.

Ibadan tops the list.

When the government is useless and the people are sensless the nation will definitely languish in rot and the future of such country is in oblivion.

This selfless man clearly understands that an house is nothing but a mere building that will lose form over time but getting his community a borehole will put his name on their lips for decade to come.

If every single Nigerian can have this same mindset and stop chasing after materialistic things that doesn't last long. The country will progress beyond her current state.

Nigeria is a failed country with failed leaders and useless citizens.

Mariangeles:
...then you don't know good music

Hmmm.. its astonishing how we've made "Wack Music" seem like "Good Music" in this shitthole and in the process we celebrate mediocrity. When we are talking of Good Music in Nigeria only two people (Asa and Brymo) fall in that category.

Give me one verse of Teni's Music that has life, give me one verse of any of the song she has released in her entire career that has a deeper meaning.

Y'all celebrate wack artist when you should be celebrating those with talents, in the last ten years the most talented artist we've produced is Asa and Brymo.

Adekunle Gold has what it takes but he needs to develop his music talent more especially his lyrics.

If we don't start celebrating "Good Music" we will never ever produce a Grammy winner.

Mk17:
same way some people believe pdp destroyed Nigeria as if pdp is the name of any candidate forgetting that those pdp used in destroying Nigeria are already in apc

Stop this public show of ignorance, PDP destroyed Nigeria its very obvious to even the blind man.

APC just continued the destruction plan from where PDP left it.

I don't know why most Nigerians are always sympathetic towards members of the political class and their political parties don't give a hoot whether the average Nigerian man or woman lives or dies.

The kain juju wey this politicians do Nigerians wey dem kon turn mumu, strong walahi. The juju man wey do am fr dem na confam juju man.

Nigerians take back your sense from the hands of this demonic politicians.

zombieTRACKER:
Gbam....
Ortom Saying it as it is ...
APc is heartless

Here's one Zombie tracking other Zombies

All this noise about PVC is of no use, the two main candidates most Nigerians are canvassing for aren't credible nor visionary likewise their party.

Every single Nigerian on planet earth knows this but Nigerians always love to dig their own graves and come back to whine after the damage has been done.

Whats the point in voting when it doesn't address the same old problems in the country.

Come 2022 the same old problems will linger on because the people aren't ready for a change, they aren't ready to progress, they've been enslaved to APC & PDP.

Even if you want to vote make it count by not voting for Buhari and Atiku.

If Nigerians are really woke and politically conscious as they claim, this is the time to send both APC & PDP on extinction.

APC & PDP has nothing to offer the nation they are agents of doom.

You aren't an election politician yet you are always MIA after the elections.

This wan dey deceive himself.

PDP can't win anything in Lagos just like APC that can never ever win an election in Enugu.

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Bushyhair:
u go soon fall down
watch out

Shush.. your hair is bushy go and cut it.

chocboi78:
schalke o4? Kilo shele

My old man supports Schalke 04, back then when schalke 04 was a strong side the old man no dey give me rest but now times have changed.

I'm now the one taunting him everyday about his useless team, if schalke 04 should win a title today na wahala be that. The man wey I get fit dey disturb me everyday with the tok of schalke 04. Make e dey like that make schalke no win anything in the next 20/30yrs.

dukeprince50:
how is Liverpool better dan united, because deh are on top of the league wen season is not over? den AFC Bournemouth and Arsenal are better than united cos deh always top league wen season starts in alphabetical order.

Its not about topping the league its about performance on the pitch of play, something we lacked as at a month ago but all thanks to Solksjaer there's a sign of improvement.