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Pettyprincess:
There is this guy i met on 2go long time ago when i was fourteen years old, we exchanged contact and since then we have been talking and he did usually call me everyday just to hear my voice,he is way older than i am.

After sometime we lost contact, and we reconnected back on facebook and we started talking since then, he has always told me he likes me blah blah but still waiting till i am mature enough.

So when i clocked 18, he told us to meet which i agreed and we actually met at a bar and he finally told me about his feelings physically and said he would love us to date but i declined because i actually had no feelings whatsoever for him but i said we can be friends.

So since then he has been calling me every single day, everyone in my family knows him because of his constant call and one day he told me he is at our area that he would love to see me i actually agreed even if i never wanted because people at my area will think i am dating this guy and i know he is not my type moreover after my first (unserious) bf that cheated on me because i didn't give him chochie i decided never to date Nigerian guy no more, but this guy that is crushing on me will not let me go.

After that first visit he now wants to turn to it to routine to always visit me whenever he is in Lagos which i am not comfortable with but i dont know how to tell him because he is really nice caring and has been there for me financially when i needed him but still it doesn't change my feelings.

Nw i gat a serious bf, although he is not Nigerian but he is also caring, honest, nice, very handsome and very tall and those are the features i like a guy to possess, especially I love when a guy is very tall because i am petite AKA portable
ND this non Nigerian guy has already talked to my mum and my mum seems to like him a lot although they couldn't speak well because my mum not so fluent in English.

So this guy crushing on me still wants to be visiting me again after i told him i have gotten a boyfriend but he insisted that he will still visit me which i told him okay.

So later he called me that he is almost at my area but b4 he could call me later i quickly blocked his number, he has probably called me many times with his number but later he called me with another number but the moment i had his voice i pretended as if the connection was really bad and we actually didn't see that day.

I know what i did was bad which i have been feeling quilty of bt i dnt wanna give him false hope that we can still date.

So later he sent me a message on whatsapp asking if i blocked his number which i deny because he would be really hurt if i had told him the truth.

Even after denying i blocked his number he has been calling me with another number and my boyfriend got to know this guy nd told me to tell him the truth bt i can't because i know it will very hurtful for him.

Nw i need advice on how i can let this guy to know my bf doesn't want him to be disturbing me with calls or try to visit me no more without his feelings getting hurt.

I only need mature advice!!!

Renderhelp:
@Renderhelp,

Since I started being intimate with my boyfriend he loves to pee on my body after or before sex, one time he even asked if I could drink his urine but I refused.

I love him very much but I find this thing disgusting and humiliating. He said he would end the relationship if I refuse him.

I don't want him to leave me, how can I enjoy his urine?

OSITA2love:

I am about to go and do the introduction into my fiancé's family but just find out that she has been chatting with her ex( who is already married for long) they have been calling each other for some time now and she have exposed our relationship to him.
They started reminding each other those good times they spend together and the guy keep on calling her love baby sweetheart and the guy told her that she would like to be served his favorite food that she is given me

Worse she told him that I'm not good at all when it comes to eat the apple.
Can a wife to be can act in such way?
But in spite of all this, she has not rebuked him but enjoying it and never been straight to him to stop him
I have catched her many times from one guy to another( all are her ex) never rebuke them but just keeping quiet. but I keep on forgiven; hoping that she will change . But this time, my cups is full.
Should I continue with this? My fellow brother

NwaAmaikpe:

Why will anyone even use a phone cheaper than 70k

In my opinion, if you can't afford a phone, then don't use a phone.

Kestolove:
no b gifty I dey see dia so?

RadicallyBlunt:
The first guy in blue shirt funny die.

If woman lie enter man house, the man don carry wetin go kill am be dat. Its not even about the betrayal alone but that she's the wrong person to trust over your life. An ordinary woman has trouble... A deceptive one is a potential killer o. If you don't believe me ask Samson in the bible about delilah. Even Job who was d richest, when God tested him, his wife's true character surfaced..I'm sure even Job too did not know that its someone who can wish him dead he's been sleeping with for years upon say she born for am.

An adage says "that a woman has children for you doesn't mean she cannot kill you". God have mercy on men, wife no dey town again, na just women everywhere. Wife and woman no be same thing.

RadicallyBlunt:
The first guy in blue shirt funny die.

If woman lie enter man house, the man don carry wetin go kill am be dat. Its not even about the betrayal alone but that she's the wrong person to trust over your life. An ordinary woman has trouble... A deceptive one is a potential killer o. If you don't believe me ask Samson in the bible about delilah. Even Job who was d richest, when God tested him, his wife's true character surfaced..I'm sure even Job too did not know that its someone who can wish him dead he's been sleeping with for years upon say she born for am.

An adage says "that a woman has children for you doesn't mean she cannot kill you". God have mercy on men, wife no dey town again, na just women everywhere. Wife and woman no be same thing.