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Me i were not there o....

aisha2, Fehintola, babseg, nd d rest of y'all, Am very grateful for ur advice nd encouragement, i will av a sit down discussion with my siblings nd finalise tins on her issue. Like u all said i will try to forgive her but we wld keep our distance from her nd focus our attention on our dad... Hope dats better??

ferhyntorlah: I hope she listens and not allow sentiments get her into trouble and BTW poster, please pray that what happened to her (being married twice) won't happen to you and your sister.

I am married now, even if one marries twice, it wont make me abandon my kids nd not feel remorse.... I av prayed about dat but...... Dis life is a two sided coin.

candy: IMO, unless your father was a bully and a wicked man who refused to allow a mother access to her children, the reason she abandoned you guys can't ever be justified. She had her chance to play mother to you but she blew it.

Whatever you do for her is out of the benevolence of your heart, you don't owe her jack but respect as is commanded by God! Most importantly though, try and find it in your heart to forgive her and move on with your life.

I grew up with my dad, he never for once turned his back on us till i got married he was there...he is not in any way a bully or wicked man but rather a lovin nd carin fada.he didnt throw us away.he know evrytin about his girls(d sizes of our undies, our montly flow dates nd even buys pads) until we are old enuf to do so,dat was wen he stoppd. So please help me rephrase.God bless u.

i didnt know there are nice people lyk dis on dis forum until tonite. Tanks a lot guys uav all helped in many ways....but i wont lie ur comments av shed lite for me on dis issue. Tanks once again.

esmeralda1: Sorry op, ur story sounds like a yoruba movie I watched "IYA MI" by funke Akindele
Back to ur question distance urselve from such a woman, talk to ur dad about her demands she could become obssessed and end up using jazz.

are u kiddin me? Dis is not a movie nd as m typin dis i cant fight d tears in my eyes back... Wen i hard my last baby, she came for nursin.... Afta d third day, i transfrd her to my dad's place,finally out of softness of my dad she was able to dupe him of alot of money with d promise dat she wil be ther for us... I am really confused rit now nd i dont know wat to say anymor...its relly hard for me to forgive her i dont feel her atall and am not free around her....please wait let me finish crying.

I will just go straight to d point, nd please my pple, gud advice will help me tanks...... I grew up with my dad nd two siblings, we r two girls nd a boy... My mum left us wen i was just six months old nd i didint know her atall. So dat leaves us with dad. Wen clocked 21, my big bro heard a news wen he travelled home dat she now lives somwhere in d east. Out of xcitement, i nd my big sis went to visit her. She has re-married nd has 5kids nd still divorced. Since we met her till now all she ever asks us is money for her needs(we r all married with kids now) but she has never been remorse for once for her deed. My question now is: i still feel hurt by her nd it really pains my heart. M now a mother too nd i cant leave my kids a day nd worst part is dat she is not satisfied with my husband status all she wants is a millioneer. I feel so hurt i cant forgive her atall. Wat should i do?

Happy married life to u nd ur wife.... U shall both be blessed with good seeds of marriage by d grace of God.

i can testify to single motherhood big tym.... I was a single mum for 4yrs bfor i got married. Dat xperience taught me alot about being independent. D situation was bad because d fada of my girl was just a figure head and wasnt readdy to allow me further my eductn. I was scared of leavin him because i dont want to count dat i av kids with different men.... My people to shorten d long story, i am now happily married to a veeeeerrry responsible man, nd i av 1kid along with my first kid dat makes 2. Nd m going to stop on 4.(lol) av been married for four years now nd u cant even tell my girl is not my husband's daughter........ God really loves me.

i was here..

Dats my state o. I can now visit witout much road stress...

merzybenedict: .. Yeah !.. I totally agree.. It's a gift from the most High !.. Thanks ms.

u r welcom.

kini gbogbo eleyi. Awon china na loma n je ijekuje.

I dont know wat to type... Let there be no war in Nigeriaoooooooooooooooo

life is a gift from God.

Op u r very correct. Infact na stone dem dey use knock now. Even d house owner go don find one big stone hang for d gate incase guest come. Dat will make knockin easier....

Feel free to marry d guy. Said by my father....

No body dey gree use dat bell again o, na stone dem dey use now. Even most house owners sef dey go find one big stone hang for their gate to make d guest knock easily..... Nigeria sef. I love my country die.

Op, where nd when are dey takin off? My tins are parked for d journey....... *locks door nd hide dkeys*

D first tin i touched is my hubby' JOYSTICK..... It was as hard as rock but it was tym for prayers so i culdnt insert it.

Prowizy2: Get me a strong rope!! And make sure he doesn't run.

will do.....

they will catch up wit u, nd finish ur rice for u.u sef go join dem sef...

Eeeyahhh, dis is terrible o. Please join me nd praise God if u know u av nose nd u can breath normally. Eni to kan lo mo.

somone shuld com to dis guy's rescue.... He needs help seriously.

soooo to wear perfume now don turn bad manner? Nor be smalltin ooo.

tomiobj: so u xpect turning ur S....h,ittttttt to gold to be cheap

dont tell me u bliv dis crap. Shit to gold my ass.....

A day witout nairaland is just like every normal day to me....... I may feel bored o but it wil wearoff.

[color=#990000][/color]Dis is bullsh**... Nd d worst part is d price.70,000k..... Com nd take my head na.

I will change from dis habit of keepin my kids indoor. But i do play,sing,dance nd do lots of fun stuffs wit ma girls. Isn't dat enough?. I just dont want dem to av bad influence from kids i dont know wat they r being tot in their homes....

ok.first to comment.. Wat happend?

ok. Idodo thread. I heard dat wen such women are pregnant,the nurse will av to tie her narvel so dat d baby wil not enter inside it when she starts to push. Is it True?

ahh! My snails!!!