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celestialAgent:
This might be a valid message. Check the sender's email, and compare it to the email addresses on the embassy's website.

Yes dear its a valid message.the rescheduling is as a result of the two days public holiday.

Thanks.

Its a serviette. I had to stop using this particular serviette the day a guy stared at me for so long on citing the serviette as i brought it out from my bag to wipe my hand.

Lol, the guy probably thought it was real dollar notes.my hands kept shaking on my steering as I drove home that day thinking the guy was trailing me.

larrynakel:
Here is one of US embassy (Lagos)customer care. number.. Call to find out 01 440 6218

OK. Thanks so much

She just accessed her email.there's a mail notifying her that she have successfully rescheduled her appointment from 28 June to 29 June.
Then another email informing her visa interview won't hold on 28 June because the embassy will not conduct interviews on that day.

Please how can she verify the authenticity of this email?

Your June 28 appointment at the US Embassy has been rescheuled. Please check email for more details.

Good evening all.my sister and hubby have a b1/b2 visa interview in two weeks time and just got the above message few minutes ago.

The message sender is TLNET.

Please , can this message be from US embassy.she has been trying to open her mail to no avail.

Your June 28 appointment at the US Embassy has been rescheuled. Please check email for more details.

Good evening all.my sister and hubby have a b1/b2 visa interview in two weeks time and just got the above message few minutes ago.

The message sender is TLNET.

Please , can this message be from US embassy.she has been trying to open her mail to no avail.

The first set of comments on this thread is so annoying.how some men will generalise about women.

How about when a woman sacrifices her all for a man, never had carnal knowledge of another man except him,respectfully stayed with him when he was broke,helped him to stand back on his feet.then after all this and more, the man cheats on her and abandons her .

How about many women out there suffering in their marriages,trying so hard to please an unrepentant man?

Please let's learn not to generalise because of a post.yes, from the op's story, the wife is the bad type.just as we have bad husbands.

We should try to be humanist instead of misogynist or misandrist.

[quote author=NOC1 post=67923885]Why[b] do you guys go through peoples phone?
There is no way you will check someone's phone without Seeing one thing. [/b]
I have never for one day checked my girlfriend phone, I know she is beautiful and young chykers and admirers will be all over her in one way or the other, If you truly want to own her then please make haste and pay her bride price.
For the fact you guys are not legaly married, you don't have a right over her life style.[/q

As long as its not a fling but a serious relationship that may lead to marriage, I don't think it should be an issue unless the patner is not faithful.friendship/marriage should be that open.
Though I don't support sniffing on a partner, trust is of utmost importance in relationship/marriage.and this trust can't be there when you have a partner that you are scared to go through their phone because of what you may see.

A man will always remain very loyal to the that person who showed him the way to the top. Same cannot be of women

This is not true.it depends on the individual not gender.

A man will always remain very loyal to the that person who showed him the way to the top. Same cannot be said of women.

This is not true.its dependent on the individual not gender.

My Son's best colour is blue.Lol, he is also a Chelsea fan.

My daughter's best colour is purple.

Happy children's day to all our children.may they all continue to be a source of joy to us and never regret.hugs and kisses to them all.

My Son's best colour us blue.Lol, he is also a Chelsea fan.

My daughter's best colour is purple.

Happy children's day to all our children.may they all continue to be a source of joy to us and never regret.hugs and kisses to them all.

kapelvej:
Hello Tinamoore, this is kapelvej, you sent me an email request, I have battling to open my mail, but I cant, please can you email me at kapelvej1975@hotmail.com

Invalid email

MKKO:
Which location did you apply ? and wia are you writing the test ? i did apply but no invite.

Port Harcourt.

1cor2v9:
Google and download all you can on APTIS TEST. it includes writing speaking listening and grammar test.
I wish you the best
NB: I applied for an accounting role so I am not certain your test may be same as mine. Just gave you the summary of what I wrote last year

OK.thanks a bunch .I appreciate

Good day,

I just got an invitation from British council for a test.I applied for the post of exams venue staff and the invitation states that it will be a test of English Language and communication skills.

Please anybody that have an idea or have taken this test before should help me with likely questions.thanks

Note- I saw the vacancy on myjobmag few weeks ago and applied.

My dear please move on with your life.Its not advisable to marry into a family where no body likes you except your spouse to be.

[quote author=OLAFIMIX post=67161030]She has lost her beauty to surgery [/quote

Exactly

frozen70:
First of all, you need to be strong, when I mean I strong it means bringing brave, be courageous.
Don't allow yourself to be wallowing in pains life goes on. Go ahead and plan for yourself and your family, you are the only one they have on earth so why do you want them to be stranded because on one person that never valued his family because if he did he won't back his family.
Tell your children the truth before they get to know it from outside.
Give yourself joy and make your self happy with all you can.
Your husband wants to enjoy himself and he needs a breathing space so allow him to do what pleases him.
Concentrate on the development and welfare of the children, don't ever cry because of him he doesn't deserve it. Pamper yourself so that you will be stronger for your children.
Don't feel bad about the whole thing rather use the opportunity a focus in your children.
I don't want to know what happened or what lead to the separation you are not the first person and won't be the last. Get some thing doing and get some to make you feel like a real woman aftrall he has moved on so why won't you move on. Lastly pray for the grace of God to see you through.

Thanks frozen70.sure, I really need the grace of God.

shaybebaby:
I'm so sorry you are going through this @OP.
Yes it's not always going to be easy but you can take some solace that you are not alone, others have been through it and some are facing the same thing as we speak.

Since your union is dead, it's okay to mourn the loss of what could have been. But never ever think that's it, your best years for you and your little ones are yet to come.

I know it is heartbreaking to hear them ask for their dad, do not shatter their little hearts with the truth whilst they are too young. Tell them, daddy is busy finding himself but loves them. Take the time to reassure them that you will always be there for them.

Don't worry too much about being mum and dad, love them to the best of your ability and surely that will be enough.

Now is the time to decide the sort of future you want for yourself, refuse to be a victim of life. Reaffirm that you will never let another dictate the outcome of your life. This mindset will give you the strength to overcome challenges as they come.

I am a single parent too (ish as in divorced) with a son. Since the time it happened, I have cried, been frightened for the future but I have still forged ahead. In the middle of divorce proceedings, my child was diagnosed with autism, but I somehow managed to keep going, returned back to get a degree, graduated with a first class, bought my own home, found love again.

Maintaining a civil relationship with ex is tricky but I always tell my child his dad loves him and still make sacrifices daily so they can have a relationship.
I do not know what the future holds but each day, try to find a reason to be thankful. Give yourself credit for the littlest things you do for yourself and your kids. From keeping them safe for another day to making sure they do not go to bed hungry.

We often take these things for granted but they are enough reason to hope for better things. Stay strong mama bear.

Thanks dear.your story is an inspiration to me.you are right when you say I shouldn't worry too much about being a mum and dad.I never seem to be satisfied that I am doing enough for my two angels.

I want to look back at the end and say" yes, I pulled through despite all odds".

Thanks once more.I appreciate. Hugs to you.

bukatyne:
Thank God.

Continue leaning on them and appreciating them.

@husband: is there no hope of reconciliation?

No dear.for my sanity, there is no hope.

edoman2016:
What did you do why your ex-husband abandoned you and the children? Hardly will a father just abandoned his children without any serious reasons. Especially if the said children are his pure blood.

It could be that you have changed as a loving wife to troublesome wife or you made the house unbearable for him to come to.

There are many questions that need answers from OP.

Hello, I came here to write yesterday because the pains of what I am passing through overwhelmed me.I didn't write to tell my story here because if I do, it will be impossible to believe it.

What did you do why your ex-husband abandoned you and the children? Hardly will a father just abandoned his children without any serious reasons. Especially if the said children are his pure blood.

The bolded comment of yours, is the reason why its weighing me down so much. many questions in my head that begs for answers.

However, you are entitled to your own opinion.

bukatyne:
God will be with you and strengthen you.

If you can, please be closer to your parents for support.

Yes dear, if not for my family, I would have been a complete wreck by now.

Thanks

yettymuse:
Are you financially stable? This is the one way to drive the singlemotherhood train with ease. If not, you really need to get get something doing. You need money! Consistent cash flow to avoid complete breakdown. This too shall pass. Hugs

Thanks dear

Aim07:
I read ur story and felt like crying for u cos I am in similar situation right now, the only difference is that my is domestic violence related. I understand what you passing through and am happy that u have ur family support.

Yes, single motherhood has its good and bad days, but u need to prayerful, bold and courageous for the sake of yourself and kids. Get something doing, if you can teach, find a teaching job but if not venture into business. It doesn't matter even if it is 1k that u have as capital but be hopeful that better days lie ahead.

Don't let depression set in for u, believe that u will survive it... if kids are still young, whenever they ask for their dad, just keep hopeful on that, as they grow old share some stories that led to ur separation with them that does not mean u are painting their dad as bad person but for them to learn lessons from it.

I pray God will see u through your hurdles remember tough time never last tough people do...

Thanks dear for the advice. I am so sorry for whatever you may be passing through.

Amen, God will surely see us through our hurdles.

nana228:
This is so sad, I hope you feel better soon. I don't know exactly what you are going through but I know it gets better every day. It's just like a wound, you'll feel better and your life will be easier. Time is a healer and it gets better.

Some days will be harder than others but try and get help from people that care about you, go out, exercise and stay in shape, if you have a little money to spare go ahead and spoil yourself and your children. If you will feel better after crying, lock your door away from your kids and cry but you have to be strong for them.

My thoughts are with you.

Yes Nana, some days are harder for me.I am not somebody that seeks for cheap sympathy but the whole thing I am passing through overwhelmed me today.

Yes most times I cry.I cry even as I write this.my angels are sleeping so I don't have to hide.

Thanks for your words.

ifyalways:
One day at a time.

Cry when you are down butvremember you have two souls depending on you so you must get up, wipe your face and push on.

Don't rush to date. Take your time.

You need money, plenty of it,so get something doing.

You will be fine last last.

Thanks ify.my priority is my two angels now.dating is the last thing on my mind now.

I honestly pray to be fine at last.today is one of those days the whole pressure weighs me down.

Lalas247:
Your number one priority should be your kids...
Some people think money solves all but showing your children LOVE is key .... remember that ! Always do what you can for them
My mum is a single mum even though situation is different because she had a job so finacially was stable and didnt have that burden ...but we love her so so much for her strength .. so dont doubt yourself as a mother .

[this is why i advocate for ladies to have something doing before they marry , having kids just because one man said he will do everything doesnt work anymore you have to have something to fall back on ... ]

So just keep pushing your children will see all the struggles and love you more for being strong, it will build them up . As for their father just leave it to God ... later on in life he may change and have a better relationship with his children .

Never too late
Be strong and know alot of women pull through this

Hugs to you dear.your words mean so much to me.its an inspiration.