deadie:

Yes, he sent some people to the clinic during his excellent performance in 2010 World cup. Clinical finisher my a$$.

loool

Yakubu Ayegbeni scored four goals as Blackburn Rovers eased the pressure on Steve Kean with a 4-2 Premier League win over Swansea City at Ewood Park.

http://asia.eurosport.com/football/premier-league/2011-2012/yakubu-scores-four_sto3046864/story.shtml

It's a mystery to me how these guys perform so good at clubside but perform so poorly at international level, including Odemwingie and others.

bebe2:

OH, i forget kebab and chinese  buffet

You took the words right out of my mouth lol , when I first came here, i didn't know how to cook and was eating kebab like every day. mehn man don suffer!!

lefulefu:

ok we got a chubby lover in da house

Ode ni e!!

tom28:

hahaha who would shop me?.Anyway i have never been married but just speaking from what i see here everyday.True not every african man marries a white woman for visa but then most do.For we africans we really dont see anything attractive about whites.

Speak for yourself man, jeez!!
Apparently, I'm African and I'm all over my chick! You're seriously disturbed!

lefulefu:

emofine u must be a very fat woman.am i correct? .abeg dnt take my question out of context because i am not prejudiced against fat women ooo.Its just i cant phuk them

You've got some issues bruh!

tpia@:

You are indeed rambling.

I dont see men of other races or nationalities typing endlessly like nigerians do, just because they date other nationalities and races.

Seriously, something is wrong somewhere.

Its your decision how you want to live your life- why this constant search for other people's approval or always letting strangers know how " good" you have it?

And yet nigerians' image remains in the gutter.

You're very funny sha, where in my post did i say i'm seeking people's approval or "go ahead". Just like every other issues, some people are for it and some against it, I simply want to hear opinions especially from those against it. Chikena!

why does it matter? it's the 21st century!!

Moreover, if you read my earlier post, i pointed out that this wasn't my initial plan. It just happened and maybe because i see past the skin color. I don't think i will ever be happy marrying someone because of race, ethnical or cultural ties or any other reason.

Surely, you're not suggesting I break up with her and tell her "sorry, I can't be in this relationship because you're not from my race " or lead her on and opt out later.

Thanks everyone for your input to the thread. It's true, true love does not know race. Of course, there can be added difficulties due to cultural differences that can make marriage harder than it already is; but, if there is love, there is no difficulty that cannot be overcome. For those saying I should concentrate on my studies and ignore this distraction for now, I'm sure if you're in a relationship with someone for 2.5 years, regardless of race, at one point, you would start to think about your future together. You would talk about it at some point in the relationship , what the future holds for you etc, that's the point where I am now. What makes this relationship exceptional is that we've been living together about a year since she started studying at the same University… not for anything else, but because we both think we can save money and share the rent. I thought it would be hell at first, but I have never had any problem with her , she pushes me to keep my grades up, there is mutual respect etc. So waking up beside her every morning, I'm constantly thinking, "could she be the one I'm going spend my life with?". I've been with several girls before I met her, back home and here. I've never had anything as special as this. If I do end up marrying her in the future, which is very likely I just pray God gives me the courage not be bothered by people like UgoBabe and their ignorant thoughts.

hugooh42:

@Poster  Considering your age 22 and i guess she will be younger and your status as a student,you guys are still young and being carried away by emotions.Sorry if i may ask is this your first relationship with a girl?Why not continue with her finish your studies and then know if the feeling is still as strong as it was.
Secondly,talking about going with her to reside in Naija,how are you going to take care of her until you get a job?I mean accommodation etc or are you considering "squatting" with her in your parents house.

Haha, no it's not my first relationship but it's the longest relationship I've ever had and in fact, it's the best I've had too.

Yes, the plan is to squat with her at my moms place until I get a job. It's a bit complicated but i know my mom won't have a problem with it, she always want what i want,   Also, she's financially solid (she worked for several years but decided to go back to University because of me). Btw, she is same age as me.

Lax75:

I was brought up in a one-parent home too (mom). Ok, this is deep. Seriously, kido. You are on the right track and I really commend you for that. We share the same mentality about wanting to get things right. For me, I've always wanted to give to the woman I end up with, everything that my mom missed out on in her failed marriage. Stay true to who you are and don't ever let the bad women change you.

Impressive.

Great advice! thanks

Lax75:

Na true talk bros. I just pray the girl is appreciative of his rear kind. Hate to see him turn into another jaded playa. Don't wanna see him turn to "the dark side" like Darth Vader

Lol, I don't think I'm rear really. I just think it's best for me to start thinking about this now. I don't want to be over 25 and just starting to get to know my future partner.

Lax75:

tinkinfela:
"Thanks bro,  I really think she is IT. To honest, my initial plan before coming here was to get my degrees, move to Nigeria, get a job and settle down with a working class lady. This just kind of happened and I think I love her too much to opt out. Also, it's the longest relationship that I ever had and I know it sounds silly but I don't really want to be with someone for 3 or more years and not end up marrying her Tongue"
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You are quite mature for a youngster your age kido. Most in your age group are busy trying to make the guiness book of records for how much punee they've plugged. Hope this lady appreciates you and doesn't mess things up for the good ones. We don't want you coming back on NL becoming one of these bitter bashers like the many that plague the site. You think she would be willing to move back to Naij and settle there with you? You know this is a very important issue.

Thanks, bro , I think huge part of that comes from being brought up in a one-parent family (mom) so I know how important it is to get it right.

At this moment, if there is one thing I am sure very of, it's that she is the ONE. She knows my standpoint on the issue of moving back to Nigeria and I think she's up for it,  but you never know,

Beync:

The most important is  the person has to be gud and should come from a gud family backgroung too

Her background is no issue at all,  I also have a very close relationship with her parents.

xxcarolxx:

As long as you both love each other, are able to communicate with each other, Understand each others culture,  There is nothing wrong with it,  You won't be the first and you won't be the last to marry a white person,

Thanks, she has all the qualities I want and extra

Lax75:

I understand how you feel about betraying your race. And there's nothing wrong with inter-racial marriage but it is very difficult mainly because of external interference. If she makes you happy and sings your heart's song, I say go for it kid. But please erase from your mind that you should ever go to your village and marry. The only men that do this are cowardly men who are looking for a servant for a wife and not a REAL woman. 

Thanks bro,  I really think she is IT. To honest, my initial plan before coming here was to get my degrees, move to Nigeria, get a job and settle down with a working class lady. This just kind of happened and I think I love her too much to opt out. Also, it's the longest relationship that I ever had and I know it sounds silly but I don't really want to be with someone for 3 or more years and not end up marrying her

Ranoscky:

Are you trying to say that village girls are FAKE?

OP, let me tell you something. . . .In this life that we are now, the one and ONLY happiness that one could get and be forever happy with it, is being with som1 that he or she deems PERFECTLY COMPATIBLE, with!

Your dad married your mom, (maybe) not b'cos your mom was of same country or state with him, but, cos he saw your mom as the ONLY woman that gave him the joy and happiness that he needed amongst other women that he yanshed back then (dont mind my naughtiness) that was why he agreed to tie the know with her.
Now, are you asking this question b'cos of the long distance relationship, or b'cos your GF is a white girl from another country? If it's b'cos of the LDR (long distance relationship), then I'll advice you to stay off relationship, and whenever you feel h[/b]orny, you go for booty calls because, NO GIRL is ready to be with a man that would not like to tie the knot with her after spending the whole years of staying together with him in the name of love. And to me, staying with a girl in a relationship for YEARS (no mtter her ethnicity), and when it's time to marry, u leave her (for NO JUST CAUSE) and marry a girl back home, that's plain WICKEDNESS!!!

But if you know you TRUELY love her and you see her as your future partner and the mother of your unborn children, then forget about [b]A and B's inter-racial marraige didnt go well, so-therefore, urs wont, aswell. NO! That's an awkward way of thinking and reasoning! Long lasting relationship/marraiges depends on how peaceful and harmony both couples unite in, and NOT skin colour, other peoples marraige expirience, that's Elephant s[/b]hit!

For me, the only problem that am havin now is to get a compatible chick that I'll spend the rest of ma precious life with. Infact, I see my future with ma angelic chinese chick (she's even here and reading these while am typing it) cos she's the best thing that have ever happened to me!

[b]I NO SEND NO BAGGA !!!

Best of luck, brov!

"PERFECTLY COMPATIBLE" can mean different things. The distance is not really an issue. I've made it clear that I'm going to try to get a job back home after my studies which means moving back and she's fine it. One of the issues I have is, can I live a normal life in Nigeria with her? that's another kind of compatibility.

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Is Akinbo before or after tipper garage? do you have pictures?

Wayyyyy over-priced,  In fact, I'm in the middle of deciding between buying a property in a rugged part of Lagos and buying a top class apartment here in Europe!!

Do you check your emails at all?? I've emailed you twice and still no response

Gotta be there!

Well you should have stated that earlier on in your post instead of fooling people to think you attached the pictures. Nevertheless, correct the subject.

How much

U have pictures for sale? ODE!!

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