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Good for you!! Im soo pleased for you, Enjoy!! Its good to know that no ones secrets are safe with 190 if he discusses people offline, good to know. Thanks for warning the other ladies through your comment.

^^^Dont lie sweety is is very unbecoming but its ok cos i forgive you.

^^ ok, cool, i get ya!! Please continue!

^^^ Come on now, dont get all precious on me! I was actually complimenting you but you must of missed that bit.  All good sweety!!

You did prove my point though. You dont like me speaking this way, sorry but i am what i am! Im no ones puppy!

Bring your best game!!

cultured, i know what i said and you didnt answer the question. Why you want to do this to a child? It doesnt sound like you want advice. It sounds like you made up your mind and you want people to agree with you. What i said was valid. It is selfish cos your only thinking of yourself and your needs and wants and not the needs of a child. There is enough children in this world without love. There is enough damaged children in this world through adults sillyness. Why add another one unless your prepared to do whatever it takes for that child.

No i havent heard of contract marriage. But i have seen the damage made on a child when it has been born into a loveless relationship or born to save a relationship, or born out of the selfish needs of the parent without proper education on raising a child by the parents, etc.

^^^ Oh please, D-sense why would you be so mean Dont wish that on me. I was just complimenting him this one time. Please dont put me in the same catagory as his many bimbos, i actually have a brain and dont need to open my legs to get attention!

190:
[color=deeppink]Marychi why do you wanna scatter a happy home

There are alot of single guys around like Phathead,d ull sense and kay 404

choose from any of them

Dont toil with a happy home else someone toils with yours![/color]

Wow, you actually made sense! Im impressed!!

Poster is absolutely right, i need to save this, Brilliant!!!!

Life is too short for such drama.

Mr Cultured, i am a mother so i am more than qualified to know what it takes to raise a child right. I also work in the area of children so i also know what damage silly, selfish parents have on a child for life. Some damage can not be fixed and will continue into their adulthood so you need to be very careful here. A child needs a hell of a lot more than finances to grow into a happy, healthy, secure child into adulthood. More than you understand. Any fool can have a child. I asked you simple questions and you respond with attack. You are in no way ready to be a father if you are silly when someone disagrees with you.

ismaeel86:
1. You get beaten up by the the man's wife or children.
2. You get a very hot(i mean boiling) water bath.
3. You will be embarrassed and seen as a love-peddler.
4. You will be given a lifetime curse by the man's wife.
5. You will feel cheated(dats if u hav self dignity) cos d man is using u to satisfy is sexual urge only.
6.You might end up not marrying the man.
7. You might end up in hell fire cos u hav committed adultery, which is a great sin.

Brilliant! Hit the nail on the head.

Also poster you reap what you sow. So go ahead if you want your own husband in the future to do the same or your curse affects your children. Your life will not be a happy one.

DapoBear:
Dude, the world does not revolve around you. Human beings are not puppies or kittens that one buys and owns. Hell, even puppies and kittens should not be emotionally neglected by their owners, talk less of children.

Your best bet is to buy a pet turtle, lizard, or perhaps goat. Those animals to my knowledge will not mind being emotionally neglected.

Trying to do the same thing to a human being is ABUSE. Wait until you can devote your full time to a child before having one, otherwise you are violating their rights and abandoning the RESPONSIBILITY that you owe your kid.

I do not know if something is wrong with your head, you need to see a doctor and have your head checked. You shouldn't have to ask on an internet forum why what you are thinking about is wrong. I could excuse this if you were a 6 or 7 year old little kid who didn't know any better, but you are grown-@ss man. WTF is wrong with you? F.cking narcisstic ba.stard.

Love this comment!!!!

Children need emotional love and support more than anything else. They dont grow properly and their brains dont grow without love and affection. All you are saying poster is YOUR needs and wants. I have read through everything and cant find one comment of yours that says anything of the benifit to the child. Just wait for goodness sake before you destroy a life then dump it cos its not what you wanted or expected. Buy a puppy, see how you go with that. If it dies then you know to wait.

So you want a child and want someone else to raise it til your ready Unbelievable!!! Some peoples selfishness amazes me!! So why do you want a child? What is the point? Its not a toy its a life commitment. Grow up then think about it!!!

666,

Your first question, True i agree, but sometimes if i believe something passionately you cant budge me, some guys are not strong enough to handle that in a women, just saying.

Second, I support myself 100% for everything. No man helps me or gives me anything. I dont take from others so yes i see that as 100% independant. If i cant get it myself then i dont have it, simple. Life is a lot less complicated that way.

COOL DK said it simply and so right!!

MzDarkSkin:
@Tink Is your name 190? and was anybody talking to your co.c.k fiend a$s? Renk and feisty self. [deleted]

Awww, sweety is that the best you can do, hehehehehehe!!!!!

Oh puppy 170, you will be ok. Im still waiting for an answer to my question. Dont you know the answer??

I know what you meant silly, i was asking what 'mary jane' is??

[quote author=*666* link=topic=558786.msg7238291#msg7238291 date=1291030600]Well, i am a demon. My mission is to cause delution about these things.
But, if you want the truth, i think the old traditional ways are still the best.
What are the kinda challenges you (a real woman) will likely give to a real man, [/quote]Oh lots!! Im strong minded, strong willed, fiercly independant, just to name a few. But as i have said, a real man can handle a woman with those qualities whereas boys prefer their girls to be 'yes' little puppies. Just saying.

ssemire:
I do not forgive anyone easily be it man or woman. and if it is a guy that chooses to mess with me, then his dose will always be double. i don't forgive neither do i forget. a guy once crossed the line and he thought he got away with it. after processing his punishment, i gave it to him hot and he carries the scar till today. i can smile at you but beneath that smile lies the venom you will not like to taste.

does this sound harsh? yes
does this sound right? no
but will i do what i have set out to do? most definitely yes

Awesome!!!!

[quote author=*666* link=topic=558786.msg7238228#msg7238228 date=1291029872]Lady first![/quote]Difficult to explain but i know when i see it. But a real man can handle a real women, not a silly girl who acts like a puppy. A real man would be bored with that in no time. A real man likes a challenge in a women. Just my opinion. Please share yours.

Meldrick:
I HOPE YOUR DEFINITION OF A REAL MAN IS NOT WHAT I THINK.

Please enlighten me on what your idea of a real man is.

Mary Jane??

170:
@tink_sh your must be carrying an empty skull around to think Moron101 is intelligent. Urs will be worst then.

Every time you comment you prove my point perfectly. Real men dont need to brag!! The guys that feel the need to brag often are lacking big time. Good for you.

yankite:
@Tink_sh real men like me abi ,u better confess,life you said life is to short
to dey form o

Hehe funny!! Are you are real man or a boy?? Im not into boys, takes a real man to handle me! Im not easy, just a warning!


[quote author=Mrs. Eve link=topic=558786.msg7237563#msg7237563 date=1291021128]Excuse me? Women don't have ego issues like men so we don't cry over spilt milk and beat our chest with tears running down our faces,

Negro please![/quote]Agree yet again!!

170:
Whats wrong wif u little tinkish.why is it hard 4 u 2 believe me?.Silly girl wif silly attitude.

Awww, nevermind. You are clearly showing your attitude which makes it impossible to believe any grown women would find you interesting. REALITY101 is an intelligent man and you could learn alot from him puppy.

yankite:
and na wetin dat 190 or 360 guy dey feel like super star abi wey two women dey fight for am
yeye

Please re read my comments. Im in no way interested in silly boys like 190 and the silly girls chasing his attention. She is welcome to him. Life is too short. I like real men.

Ok, agree to disagree cos we can go one like this forever. We dont agree. Isnt that what life is about? Different opinions? Neither wrong or right just different.

Not you again!!!! I know you think you can only get attention by being nasty. But sweety you can catch more flies with honey! You should try it. Being nasty just for the sake of it is a very ugly trait in a women.

Then he should move on. Women gain and lose for different reasons. He never said how much she put on, it may only be a little. If he doesnt like it, leave. Im sure he is not perfect. Its real simple, if wants to lose it then good for him, if she doesnt then he should move on.

Aweswome!!! I need a holiday! Yay for me!!!

190:
[color=deeppink]^^

what about the sex!! [/color]

Sorry im not your type and much harder to get into bed than your other girls! Im a dream you will never have,

, now go away!!!!

googles:
This the wrongest thing anyone can ever say. . . so because he does not like his women fat dat makes him "ungrown" ?

oh please ! or is it because you are thick then all men should like thick madames ? _{damn ! i like the sound of dat}

lets consider and respect other pples' opinion/preference instead of bashing dem just because it doesnt go down well with us abeg

I disagree, no surprises there! Since when is anyones opinion respected here?? Come on. As far as the poster goes, if he loves her it wouldnt matter what size she is. If he doesnt like it and is so shallow then he should move on and let her find someone who will love her for all of her. My shape has nothing to do with it, cant stand people who judge only on outside, surely there is more to her than he shape.