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Honestly I dont believe so but for some people it may.

, Good to know! Ta for the info

Interesting to see if Mr~Cork gets insulted or attacked in his support of MOBO's comments, cant wait to watch and see!

kpolli:
ok, clarified, but i still feel MOBO should be shot

hehehe!! I understand and am sure your not alone in your opinion.

kpolli:
dear tink_sh, forgive me for intruding, but r u supporting MOBO444 in anyway??i wont lie, i didnt read other post, but just your last one
cos your like the first being to support him,
as in, he has never made sense, am not trying to insult u ooooo, am just concerned, thats all

Hi kpolli. No!! Please read my comment. I wasnt supporting in anyway. I never mentioned the poster i was referring to a comment made about him. I have no business on the subject as i am neither a black man or black woman so i usually dont comment. I just read. But this time i commented only because i was disturbed that a comment was made using child abuse and saying his mother was a love-peddler and thats just uncalled for. I dont believe it is open season on anyone just cos you dont agree with them. There are some things i think are out of bounds and child abuse is one of them. There is plenty of other ways to insult someone but it makes me sick to my stomach for someone to lower themselves to throwing child abuse and insulting mothers as a form of insult. I hope i answered your question. I am trying to clarify but i dont think its working.

Hey MrsEve, love your work!

I believe that the heart and love have no colour. We all have the same insides and our blood is the same colour. I understand some cultures have certain expectations but i believe the individual is the only one who can make a change.
I have only ever dated one man out of my race but that wasnt a consious choice it was just who was in and around my world up til then. Once my world opened up a bit i met a man my heart jumped for. He thought i would have a problem with his colour but to be honest it was everything else i noticed before that. The only time i was concerned was when he was to meet my family. Sadly my family are not open about anything out of what they think is normal. I knew they would treat him well to his face but knew they would freak out, lol!!! Anyway, sadly it didnt work out for many reasons (not my family) and yes at first i was turned off and honestly wasnt interested in following that path with anyone else of the same culture. But the love of my life, if he excisits, he may be in a very different package to me but who cares. Its the heart and character that matters the most. Outside falls away anyway.
My country is full of mixed race, whatever floats your boat i say!!

Looking forward to reading others thoughts.

base 1, I appreciate your concern, but i can see that you can dish it out but when challenged you cant take it back and have to lay more insults towards me. Your comment wasnt sarcastic or witty. You got into the gutter with him. Yes i have read his other posts and i wasnt supporting his comments. If you had read my comment properly you would see i was simply responding to the use of child abuse and attacking mothers in your attempt to bring him down. So because you feel he attacked mothers it was ok for you to let yourself down. Why not take the high ground and prove him wrong but attacking a fellow female is not going to make your point any better. There is some lines i dont believe need to be crossed no matter what the situation. My point was that there are other ways of getting your point across than getting as low and personal as his comments. I can see i wasted my time. You may be MOBO's perfect match as you speak the same as he does. Very sad for you!! I am hoping youth is your excuse!

cold:
Wow Respect.You must be working for the social services

Nope, just dont think anyone deserves a joke being made out of child molestation or anyones mother should be attacked. All the comment did was show she is on the same level as MOBO! There are some lines you dont cross!! Ok, ill get off my soapbox now

base 1:
Oh! Mobp, finally, bravo, you've finally told the truth of who your mother really was, the only thing is that u tuned it up a little, your mother never met any alhajis, bankers etc. She slept with touts, bus conductors etc while she sold stuff like paraga, cigarrettes, weed etc. These are the same pple that also defiled you while u were young and it's also how u came about into this world, with your sisters who have taken after your mother in the only profession she knows ''PROSTITUTION''. I see where your pain comes from.
Fellow Nairalanders pls do not be harsh with Mobo s**t face, u need to understand the kind of childhood he had while growing up!
The title of this thread should have been ''THE CONFESSIONS OF MY MOTHER''.
Mobo take my advice, BUY THAT GUN! Lols!
**Sigh** my love, we should be together!

My fellow nairalanders, Mobo s**t face has got all the time in this world, cos he is a house husband, there was picture of him in one of the threads, where he was doing the dishes with his baby strapped to the back, after doing the dishes, washing his wife's underwear and clothes and picking her nose, wiping her arse and scrubbing the toilet. He would have all the time in the world to come and give us the story of his sad life on nairaland!

Why would you say such a thing?? Its one thing to argue your point but to say such things about him and his mother is putting yourself on his level. To make a joke about child molestation is not funny either on any level. If your going to insult and argue your point please step above the dirt!!

Only if your too lazy to get off your butt and support your own life and if you find a women desperate enough to have to pay for a lover! Run your own life with dignity. You will be glad for the sacrifice. Working for something makes it all the more sweeter when you did it yourself, not cos you sold your body. Have more pride in yourself. Dont let a women feel she owns you cos she pays for you. You deserve better then that!!!

Hi kennyman20, im so sorry for you in this situation. What i have done in the past is talk to the wife and tell her if she doesnt tell him you will. Some may say you want to destroy their marriage but it the wife doing the destroying. In my experience the worst thing when you finally find out your partner is cheating on you is how stupid you feel cos everyone else seems to know but you. I would be furious with my friend or family that kept that from me. It will destroy your friendship with the husband cos when he finds out, and he will, he will find out you not only knew but helped her. Clear your consience and be up front with her. She should never have involved you. Good luck. Be bold and you will be fine.

Yorisb:
^^Lol Infact that got me gobsmacked!

Yorisb:
Oopps! Prolly never read anything this emotional, touching(?) harsh in a while herein

Sorry if i offended,

[quote author=Cork-Mr link=topic=542902.msg7069960#msg7069960 date=1288784251]dyammm, nuff womens in Nairaland want to nyansh only Mobo, what about me?

Maybe they lesbians! [/quote]Ummm nothing was said about 'nyanshing' anyone, you miss read.

But please free to come along and you learn great lessons!! Just got to find out your going rate.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=542902.msg7067973#msg7067973 date=1288762267]Thank you Tink___sh

I completely agree with you. Mobo is gold bullion - a true treasure to behold.

We can make money with Mobo - I smell it sooo strongly - his tongue is his pen
With the proper housing and framework
Mobo will make millions

You see it - and I see it and he definitely knows it.

Yes we will take him for free and at whatever cost - he is no longer in the drain.[/quote]Nice doing business with you shy-one.

Look out MOBO, We are coming for ya.

Again, i agree with shy-one. 190 has enough women fawning over him. MOBO needs the love, 

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=542902.msg7067922#msg7067922 date=1288761368]Thank you Tink___sh

Where in the world would NL be without Mobo? I really enjoy his posts - his thought process alone would make me pool my monies and resources with yours to afford the price on him.

On a personal level once we have finalized the sale - I would have to bow out gracefully and leave him to you or my man would have my head on a silver platter.[/quote]Sounds like a plan. I can handle him. Im already raising one boy, i can handle another, hehe!

Dyt, i am happy to take him for free if you dont want money for him. You will see how he will be worth gold in no time. A brilliant investment on our part. Worth every cent!!

My thoughts is all we can do is raise our son's to be good men. Thats my plan. The world has enough of the crappy ones and needs good, strong, faithful, loving, protective men who stand out from the crowd. Thats what i am working my butt off to raise and if my son falls into the other catagory then he has me and his aunties to answer to and we are sll strong women,

***getting on the gloves and peg on the nose to help shy-one down the drain**

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=542902.msg7067899#msg7067899 date=1288760851]I like you Tink____sh you are a good person.

It is my deep belief that Mobo is misunderstood - he is really a great person and if I were available I would bid $50,000.00 - $100,000.00 US dollars for him.  He is unique and very funny and that is priceless[/quote]I agree with you on the subject of MOBO. I think he is a little messed up but deep in his heart is a good guy, he just doesnt want to show it yet if ever.

Maybe we can go halves in a bid for him, hehe!! I dont usually like to share but you seem sweet.

Definately number three on your list. The others, nope never!

I would put in a bid for MOBO, that boy needs training, hehe!!! Ill go check the cookie jar!

Poster when you find the answer please let us know. I had a very long distance relationship and it was a nightmare. But i found i wasnt made for that sort of thing. Some are. The other comments are so right. If you both keep good contact no matter what you will be ok. Dont let anything stop you contacting. If you lose contact you will lose each other. I wish you everything good.

Im sorry you had that experience in your time of need. Just ignore those that derail and condemn. Unless your in the mood for a fight then go for it, hehe!!! Hope all is good for you.

You know who you are, you can bite my big white butt!!!! Thank you for taking and never giving. Taught me a very valuable lesson. Now i am as hard as you!!! No song worth dedicating to your dead self. You promised to cherish and take care of my heart if i gave it to you, all you did was stomp it under your shoe! Good on you. You lost the best thing that will ever cross your path. You will never find another half as good as me and i take joy from that.

Omolola1:
Pls dont take 190 serious o!

No problemo, i dont take anything much seriously. Sometimes i get hot under the collar but thats only when i am in the mood for a fight, hehe!!! I only want to offend the people i mean to offend not anyone else, hehe!!

omomakun:
The babe in question needs to ask herself what she wants, ifshe's down with just having a kid, that's fine but she better embrace all the consequences that come with it. (1) She will forever only be a baby mama to him, she should not expect any kind special treatment (2) there's a possibility that he might try to take the child away from you, so he can have full custody (3) you will forever be bound to him; good, bad and ugly (4) after having a kid, your options for marriage potentials are reduced, and the list goes on and on. Personally i wouldn't do it, because only one person is really gaining here, how about what she wants

Awesome response!!!! Hit the nail on so many heads!

Omolola1:
Tink_sh, you got me laughing real hard! LOL

Oh thank goodness. After i sent it i was worried you may think i was having a go at you, i wasnt!!!

190:
[color=deeppink]Thanks, shes 6weeks pregnant!![/color]

Is it yours? Just asking cos you have been gone a while,

El Guapo:
@Tink_sh.
Presuambly,your ex-lovers would be calling always.
Solution 1-Get one of your male frnds to start answering your calls.
Solution 2-If u have an extremely jealous ex,having a guy answer your phone may backfire on you,So u've got to try a different tactic.When he calls,jxt crank up some loud music<doesn't matter what time of day>and yell into the phone when he calls<though it seems nasty>
Solution 3-When he calls jxt tell him ''I really enjoyed our friendship,but i think i need some time to get over you,i'ld really appreciate it if u did'nt call me for a while.His ego will be boosted by the idea that you're still pining away over him.But he'll also get the picture that its not okay for him to call anymore.

Wow!!! Thank you. I didnt actually expect a helpful answer. I am impressed!! Thanks again. I shall get my male friends of brothers to answer. Doesnt matter if he is jealous, he lives on the other side of the world from me now. I just want peace without changing my number.!!