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Silly. You cant help who you fall in love with but you can help what you do with it. Please move on your friends wife, i want to see you on the news. Headline, 'Mr Cork found chopped to death in bushland' Some friend you turned out to be!

^^hehehehehe!!! I expected more from the self declared great 190!!!

190, As if i believed you dont like it! Pleeaassee!! Of course i wont believe your a virgin. Im not some silly girl. I am disappointed that you caved so quick and didnt keep your daydream going

No more e-flirting? Yeah right!!! Dont believe that for a minute either!!!

190:
[color=deeppink]Thats her choice
Im tired and wanna rest,

Infact i would even plead with her 2 rest too,
we would both be exhausted and kant perform for long~
She would duly be informed
And lastly i am not a Big Fan of sex [/color]

Whatever!!!!!!!!! Very disappointed in you 

Why ask inknerd?? Dont you know where your woman is??

^^^Why not?? What is the problem? 'not a big fan of sex' Who are you trying to kid? I dont believe that for a minute. Girls here need to know that. If thats true then i am very sorry for you. Its different having sex with anyone and making love to the women you married. Trust me. Some things i do know. When i got married we where both exhausted so we went off to sleep but woke through the night and had some fun after re energising. That is acceptable but if my new hubby wanted to wait three days i would take it upon myself and do it anyway. Please inform your bride to be that you are not a fan of sex before she commits her life to you. I would feel soooooooo ripped off.

^^^oh come on guys, man up for goodness sake!!!!

All i am reading is blah, blah, blah, ill be too tired, boo hoo!!! Very disappointed in both of you!! I expected more than that silliness!!! Pity for your future wives!

Silly boy!!!! Its about consumating your marriage. She marries you and the first night you dont want to fulfill your husbandly responsibilities, yikes!!! Poor girl!!!!! Do your duty!!!  So when is the big day

Allow? ahahahahahahahaha!! You guys crack me up!!!!!

Lord-Reed, sorry to disappoint but its all 100% true what i said. I wouldnt make it up. She had a baby outside of marriage. Her daughter is 11 now. Yes it does happen in all cultures and countries. Its insane and i tried to talk her out of it as other friends did cos we care about her but she chose to go forward with it so now she has no one to blame but herself. I wish she would of waited for a guy to treat her as she dreamed but what she got was a guy that treats her like crap and she still married him. Some people are too desperate,.

Dyt:
^^^ mayb i didnt read wel b4 u modified
m.oron.

What the

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=562401.msg7275055#msg7275055 date=1291548535]Indeed why opt 4 a lifetime commitment wen in 2 weeks u are gonna be bored?[/quote]It was more a case of, she was 36, single mother and had never been proposed to. He was the first one to ask and she wasnt taking a chance letting it go!! Madness but cant do anything now exept listen to her complain. She knew exactly what he was like when she married him but was desperate to get a husband. She had spent her whole life as a female player, messing with married men, having affairs, etc but got to an age where she wanted to settle down but no offers, be warned ladies, hehe!!

Hehe!! Sorry but i am very serious. I kept trying to tell her to not text me cos she was telling me all the things he was doing wrong and i didnt think it was right but that didnt stop her. Dont know why she married him anyway but her choice. They went to Vietnam for two weeks and the second week i starting getting texts that she wanted to come home. That was October and she is still complaining, hehe!!!

Can someone please explain to me why a bb makes a lick of difference?? Isnt a phone a phone and a cheating partner will cheat phone or not Just wondering!

obowunmi:
Nothing wrong as long as ure happy and can manage his shrinking and wrinkling balls.

Eeeewwwwwww!!!!!! Just got a visual!! Get it outta my head, get it out!!!!!!

oh sweetie, save youself. The list of troubles you are in is too much. His wife, mother and children living in his house, he is still very married. If he didnt love her she would be gone. His teenage kids will never accept you and always blame you for splitting up their parents, thats how they will see it no matter what you do. His mother still loves her and they are all living happily/ Married men will say anything to keep their little bit on the side. Just cos you love him doesnt mean you should stay in this nightmare. Many people have had to walk away from someone they love cos it is a toxic situation, even me. So please turn your eyes away and get yourself right. There is a better life for you. You have to know that you deserve better than some guys bit on the side, no matter what he says. He will say whatever he thinks you want to hear to get into your pants and stay there. Please think!!!!!

Players get played sometimes and its a beautiful thing. There is no other explaination than she doesnt want you there, obviously you are not that important to her and she doesnt want her family and friends to know she is hanging with you. Truth hurts sometimes.

I guess your happy and thats what matters but even my father and myself is only 21 years apart in age!!!!! What about when your 40 and he is 60! Others are right about kids. Will he be able to keep up with his own children when he is a grandfathers age. Your way too young for this. But as i said, no one can stop you if you have made up your mind. My father was a grandfather at his age!!!

190 is at it again, tread carefully mediatrix8. Plenty of girls have fallen and been thrown away. 190 please dont get mad at me tellin the truth. You have to check yourself, you know you have a reputation.

Poster, 4months. Dont know if it was too soon or too long. It didnt last but had some fun times so all good.

Whats with all the old posts coming back to life. Is life really that boring that we make comment on a thread made years ago. I am sure the poster is over it and moved on by now.

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=562401.msg7274604#msg7274604 date=1291540729]Tink_sh say u are only joking what?!!![/quote]Huh what do you want me to say 'im joking' about? Which bit

Thank you for the post MzDarkSkin, im looking forward to read some of the guys answer's. Very interesting.

Waiting to see some responses so i can learn!

Absolutely i would have it turned off or at least on silent so i can check it later on in case of emergency. But i would never call anyone on their wedding day or honeymoon. My friend kept sending me sms's on her honeymoon and i kept reminding her she needed to turn her phone off. She was already bored with her new husband, hehehehe!!!!!

sexylogan:
Awwww. That's too bad. i'm 6ft2. And all along i thot that u and i might have a future together. lol.
I love tall girls. I once dated a girl that was around 5ft3. It was ridiculous. People wud turn around
and stare at us walking down the street.

Hehehe silly!! Thats my point exactly. Im 5ft 2!! Just be weird to have a guy over 6ft. I have guy friends that are 6ft4 and 6ft 6 and its easier for me to talk to them when they are sitting down, hehe!! Plus they always wanna pick me up cos i am little to them but i remind them i am not a doll and would kick the crap out of them if they tried!!

^^^Agree!!! Straight to the point, Brilliant!!!!

From start to finish it was the biggest load of vomit i have ever read, sorry but i see no sencerity in any of it, FAKE FAKE FAKE!!!! my BS meter is going off its head!!!! I feel sick after all that!!!

no!!!!!!!!!

Im not sure who said it but the line 'the black man is depised in the west' is rubbish. I would like to know where they got there figures or facts from.

Outstrip:
Really? Would you want that for your own children? They are his children just as the ones you have are his children. Your children will not be more important to him. What do you think will make yours more special. Should he decide to not give you money for the childrens upkeep because you buy something flashy. Women can sometimes be very catty. A man who pays child support is showing that he is responsible. As long as you expect him to treat his children as second rate don't ever expect to have his full respect. If you cannot handle the fact that he has children then do not marry him or better yet marry an irresponsible man with kids

I have no idea what your talking about. Did you read my previous comment? I was asked a question from koyoke and was answering. I am a women who recieve very minimum child support for my son if i am lucky while his father drives a brand new car and just bought a house. Everything i get and everything i earn (cos i work)goes to my sons, sport, clothes, etc. He walks around in labels while i wear second hand clothes. So dont misunderstand. I wouldnt be with a guy who does not look after his children. You are not giving the good men credit. His kids are his kids no matter who the mother and it should be like that. If i marry him then i know what im up for and i dont mind. He should take care of all kids. Just because him and their mother isnt together doenst mean the kids should suffer. Their mother should not be spending child support on herself, its for the children.

I see your point. I can work too for my own kids. But if i see her flashing it around i would suggest to my man that he buys items or pays specific things directly for the children rather than give it to the mother.

^^all good. Was just clarifying. Thought i was having another blonde moment.