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Poverty has nothing to do with it. Just cos you have no money doesnt mean you have no morals. Money or not, bad people are still bad people!!!

Poster, thank you for the thoughts. It would lovely if everyone respected each other and we would not be in this world mess but thats a dream. If each person is responsible for themselves that would help. Instead of blaming everyone and everything for their behaviour.

Learn your lesson, say goodbye to your laptop and keep walking!

^^I disagreed with you saying 'western culture killed passion' As i said i was raised in western culture and no where is it accepted or believed that its ok to be with a married person. Alot of those thoughts have come from people who have migrated here with their own culture in tow. Especially the one where boys can do whatever they want but girls are held to a higher standard. Thats not western it has come here from other cultures. We dont have total freedom, i cant imagine anywhere that does but we do have freedom to marry or be with whoever we want. cheating and adultery are not accepted unless you are from another culture.

^^^I was raised in a western country and i dont feel like that! I believe its peoples decisions not the culture.

^^ why the angry face

^^ of course its women's fault!! Geez!!!!

^^good for you! I dont know about the 'they mixed it up on my papers' I have heard similar before but i am not trusting so everything sounds dodgy to me. But can they make such a mistake on papers? One guy told me he changed his birth certificate to get out of service!! Still dont know the truth on that one. I know you cant change certificates here but dont know about Nigeria.

ladej:
u didnt finish the statement. one sided mate

What statement? The submission bit? We all know that but i was pointing out that some guys are saying 'the bible says so' and the bible actually says what i wrote. I said both parties have a responsibility as they do to each other.

Depends on the guy i guess. My ex husband still opens doors for me when we meet. I am so used to doing it myself now that i forget he likes to do it. But the last relationship i had there was nothing at all. No chivalry by my nigerian guy, thought is was just the way he was raised. Maybe a culture thing but think that it is how they are raised.

Poster, see what happens when people play games. You thought breaking up with her would bring her to her senses but it backfired. If a guy broke up with me i wouldnt be calling him either. It was your choice. Advice for the future, dont play games with women!!!

[quote author=k-money £ link=topic=560054.msg7248651#msg7248651 date=1291161400]Yes it should be mutual thing== but guys are more committed at the initial stage of such relationship== when the lady newly accepts his offer== but guys interest and commitment are bound to drop as the relationship progresses== law of diminishing returns sets in== At this time the bulk of the commitment are now shifted to the Lady, [/quote]Very true, very wise!!! Thats the reality.

Cheating and lies!!!!!!! Which come hand in hand.

Perfect height for me in a guy is round 5,9!! Im a shortie so not attracted to guys my height but dont like over 6foot cos that just looks silly.

Peace of mind. I can do the rest myself.

Wether what he said was true or not it doesnt matter. You dont intentionally hurt someone you love. That was just mean and nasty to you. Bad boy! Be careful there. Dont let yourself stay around for more. If you want to stay with such a man then give him a dose of his own medicine. Pick something out in him.

Nope, i believe it should be the same. Both being involved and doing those things you mentioned. I dont believe relationships are supposed to be a one way deal.

I love that some guys here are using the bible to defend their hunger for dominance! NOT!!! Check your bible guys. No where does it say you can hit a women or be a dictator to her. Both parties have a responsibility within a marriage. It says 'love you rwife as Jesus loves the church' Does that sound like a dictatorship?? I dont believe so. The kind of man that hits a women to control her is too weak to get it other ways. Would love to see the same man take on someone his own weight and size.

[quote author=Mrs. Eve link=topic=559417.msg7248032#msg7248032 date=1291152689]Men are so confused and they do not know what they want,

They can't never be pleased and always complaining about what they don't have and not appreciate what they do have,


I mean I learned five years ago to let men be men because they die faster than women anyways so let them be! When they do die move to the next victim, I mean man! [/quote]Awesome truth and soooo funny!!!! 'they die faster than women' so true but cant stop laughing, thanks!!!!

iyatrustee:
wow! i imagine how you would find happiness while causing pain to another person? can you imagine how many times the man's wife would have said some unkind words about you to her God? what has happened to us as a people? we longer feel guilty when we sin.i am sure you are not married [s]little wonder some women have marital problem just maybe its the seeds they have sown that they are reaping[/s]

I agree. I think everyone is doing what makes them 'happy' and stuff everyone else. As long as they are getting their needs met they dont give a rats who they are hurting. Those people deserve every bad thing that comes there way. I wonder whats happened to peoples compassion, respect for others and themselves that they will go sleep with a married person just to make themselves feel good. Nevermind the family they destroy in process. Selfishness these days seems to have no end!!!

170:
Ask senseles Dsense

You dont know the answer, cool. You could of just said that, movin on now!!!

[quote author=mr.official link=topic=558786.msg7243008#msg7243008 date=1291087506]Tink-sh and Mzdarksin, you guys should see me in my office tomorrow. Make I settle fight. E don do naa, make una give una self big hug, sisters.

Tink-sh, I get one fine girl for your boi. You won't resist.[/quote]Thank you for your concern but im done now.

A fine girl for my boy? Yikes!!! No girl will ever be enough for my boy, hehe!!! You should know mothers protection over their son's. He has much to do in this world rather than be tangled to a women. I know how much trouble girls can get boys into, not my boy,

190:
[color=Black]^^

I didnt get any mail and yes i do know you've got a child and you have more rite to protect him,Its long i saw him last anywayz

I hope hes cool and i also know he mite have started keeping GF's

we dont have no issues except the fact that you seem 2 be more Vulgar in your approaches these days even towards me,

Once again apologies on mzdark,Just keep been Vulgar!! [/color]

Ok, i will send it again.

No my boy is only 10 no way for gf's, over my dead body!!! hehe!!!

Im sorry you think im being vulgar but find it interesting that others are far worse than i have ever been and thats ok. But as i said i apoligise if i have caused you offence and will re send the mail.


MzdarkSkin, i found myself avoiding any place you where so i didnt incure your wrath again but decided to tackle you head on rather than wait for the next attack. Ive got it out of my system now and am done now so i shall leave you in peace, enjoy!

190, Please inform me of what i did. I would like to know if i did something that was so horrible to you as i am not that kind of person as you well know. I think you are talking about me removing certain people from my fb which i sent an email explaining my reason. I have a child to protect. Thought you would understand. I dont feel i have attacked you but if you feel that way i apoligise. I will take it to heart if i am being accused of something i havent done. I dont mind coping crap if i have deserved it, i will take it on the chin.

^^good for you!!

If you check through some background you will see who started this grief between Mzdarkin and myself. I wont sit back and be abused for no reason so i gave her a reason, very simple. At least now she has a reason to abuse and hate  on me wheras before she did not.

You will also notice that i have not ever reduced myself to name calling and insults, even though i have been called everything under the sun. So forgive me if im sick of taking crap from people and being nice about it. I give respect where respect is deserved and earned.

170:
what question ? Yeye gal

I asked what 'mary jane' was.

MzDarkSkin:
[s]lol@ this silly trick. keep trying to recruit help. you dont know a damn thing about what is discussed and any female who assumes like you that we are talking about them all can cry and pass out for all i care. I know who i do and do not like, 190 was just there to listen to me vent. fly away bird. i'd rather be the concubine than the b.tch on someones nut sacks with no play. Omolola is a sweet girl no doubt so keep her name out of this.[/s]

[mouth shut] being a good girl!  

Wow why so angry?? Its all ok babe, you dont have to rant to get attention. You already have it. Take care of yourself before you pop something.

^^thought you said you where never talking to me, see you cant resisit me, Oh and the comment was for your concubine. I am dissappointed in your taste in some women, stick to sweet omolola!!!!

^^Why are you so mad Ok if thats the way you want it. Geez, you can dish it out but cant take it, good to know, bye bye!!

Im enjoying the war between you guys, so far D-sense is definately ahead.