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BlackhatMentor:
Tinubu can never!


International community already know and Tag him as an unrepentant drug addict, smuggler and human parts trader.


He belongs in same category as Pablo, Carrillo and El chapo.


El Tinubu is a certified drug lord and university dropout

na Tinubu keep your mama?

Odin13:
Shut up Yoruba man..

Na you dash druggie this kind reception

Make we see link to am

This people sef and truth Dey fight ... every time.

Yoruba sef

Yoruba dey do number for your head

Don't worry, you'll be fine

Saintinoo:
Thank God you found out, mehn, marrying those guys is hell, I thank God I didn't marry her because Nov 2024 was the date we fixed.

My relationship ended with her when I asked her to go for therapy, she started the discard phase.

😂 good for you

He made my life a living hell

He still thinks he's doing me a favor

Saintinoo:
I never knew that I will one day write about this, because, of all the advice I have been given, I taught it was love in the air.

Some months ago, I created a thread about how I can't get over my girlfriend and another thread where I confirmed that she was a narcissist. But now, I have not only confirmed that I dated a covert narcissist for four solid years, but I have come to learn a lot about narcissism and how to unmask them. Sadly, we have more narcissist both male and female going into serious relationships.
White you are thinking about the problems in your relationship, the fights everyday, the mental abuse etc, you might just be in a relationship with a narcissist and that is the worst thing that can happen to anybody.

HOW DO NARCISSISTS GET THEIR VICTIMS.

Be it male or female narcissist, they hunt for their victims same way. A narcissist targets an empath, they target people who have something they do not have, learn empathy from you just to use it against you.

They portray themselves as the best thing that can happen to you after egusi soup. Yes, my narc ex portrayed those traits, that wife material characteristics, godly and prayerful, dress decent and act same. Do not be deceived, they know that is what you want in a woman so they give it to you for the while.

They will always talk about forever with you, bring so many fairly tails and give you the soul mate feeling, this you will believe you have found a wife or a husband, then you start making marriage's preparation. They have successfully made you commit. Mine always use this word "forever is the goal". All these is to make you commit and when you have committed, they start the abuse stage.

The narcissist common aim, be it male or female is to get you trauma bonded to them. Trauma bond is a situation when you excuse abuse from someone, go back to your abuser because you are afraid to lose them. I cannot count the number of times I went back to apologize for doing nothing, that is trauma bond working for her.

The narcissist will never apologize for their wrong at the later part of the relationship, they will do wrong, and expect you to take it, when you try to speak up, they give you the silent treatment as a punishment. Yea,because they have groomed their victims so much through the various love bombing stages. I was given silent treatment every time, and yes,after going a week of waiting to see if she will apologize for her wrong, I end up saying sorry. I was groomed during the earlier days to not do without her.

The narcissist will love bomb you at the early stage of your relationship, this is not genuine love,it is a tactics to get you used to them and whenever you try to leave and think of the past memories, you will have no choice than to run back to them until they are ready to discard you. In my case,she calls every day to check on me, would spend over an hour with me on phone, gave me pet names and showed the world that she truly loved me. Those were all lies.

WHAT WENT WRONG BETWEEN I AND MY NARC EX.

For me, i thought she was the last bus stop, in fact I had been planning how our wedding even though I had limited funds at that time, I was ready to go against anybody just to wed my soulmate. But then, this problem keep coming. I felt someone was trying to control me, someone was doing wrong and do not apologize. We kept fighting almost every week, and yes, I kept apologising.

Early this year, I called her to discuss marriage plan, she disagreed with everything and went completely mute, I called the next day to resolve and ask for her opinion, she still went mute, the silent treatment increased. I vowed I am done and will not contact her again, went no contact. After two month, I saw her pic somewhere, and since I was trauma bonded to her and didn't heal completely, I went back begging her for over a week. That is was being trauma bond to a narcissist does, it completely makes you their slave.

During the cause of the discard from my narc ex, she knew that I have been trauma bonded to her and the sight of her pic will bring back memories, she used what is called " flying monkeys " to make me see her pics and believe that I will keep rushing back to beg her, because she enjoy all the abuse.

HOW DO YOU KNOW THAT YOU DATING A NARCISSIST; if you do any of those thing I did, you are dating a narcissist.

1. I beg for her attention when she gives silent treatment.
2. I felt like she is just the one.
3. I do not look at any other lady not even a friendly look because all my attention was around her.
4. Her eyes goes dark when she is angry.
5. She shouts and insults to any extent when angry.
6. When she wrongs me and I refuse to call and apologize for reacting, maybe for 5 days or a week, she rages in anger.
7. She belittles me when she is angry, this is a common trait with a narc, male or female.
8. From her story, during our love days, and from my findings her dad is a narc. Pls try and know your lover parent, narc is hereditary.


Did I talk about how I later confirm that my Darling angel was a terrible covert narcissist.

Early this year, I had a neighbor whose 2 years old daughter exhibited the same traits my ex exhibited, the anger, the manipulation, the gaslighing, everything.

Finally, narcissists are demonic, look for these red flags in your relationship and end the relationship the minute you confirm that you date is a narc, there is no changing them, I tried and got hurt. The narc know what he/she is doing.

Narcissism is hereditary and they are born that way, they keep getting worse by the day, so best is to avoid them.

Drops pen.

you described my husband (soon to be ex) so well

They can never change

They hate it when they are figured out

dondodo:
Like if you believe Pain landed in Yoruba Muslims

Yoruba Muslim dey do this one shege

BlackhatMentor:
South Westerners


The pinnacle of their ancestral DNA and existence is traced back to a foreign alien and an outcast from Mars who was chased away after Beheadind and and doing Owanbe with the fresh skull of Akinyele the first born of Lamurudu


Till this day Lamurudu requires each south western born child to have at least five cat like claw marks on their face and foreheads as a curse they must bear as result of of the fallen demon Oduduwa's crime and sins.


We Nigerian live amongst a cursed alien tribe that that's the major cause of setbacks and underdevelopment in the country.


Until we get rid of this fallen demons there won't be any progress in Nigeria.


I rest my case.

go and look in the mirror

That is the picture of underdevelopment

Ewedegubbler:
But there wasn’t any glitch for the 1411 idiots disgracing themselves in Dubai

because they no carry you along? 😜

Shattuck:
shameless family. Papa dey misbehave, son dey misbehave, wife too even daughter, guess nobody had home training in the family.

Oga oni training

Who know you

Tinubu

Zooposki:
You know he’s Igbo pretending to be Edo, right? You can tell from the way he writes and expresses himself.

I was going to type this

Let's not be carried away

Coolcat95:
HIM NO HOLY PASS BUT HIM BETTER PASS





CHIAAA SEE WETIN WE MISS

not we abeg

You can make him your president in alaigbo

JASONjnr:
Na only mumu go think say everybody weh deh Yan for this platform is as wretched as he is .....


Thunder fire your foolish mother and may she die miserably for giving irth to a bastard like you.

your own foolish useless nonentity of a mother will die in poverty along with your wretched self

Useless poverty stricken ldiot
Person wey no know Im papa dey call himself human being

E no go better for your generation!

Spits

JASONjnr:
Ofcoz I can't relate..... I wasn't born and raised by a foolish harlot who raised foolish and uncouth bastards like you.

Olodo....

oh yes you were born by a very useless harlot
One that even your friends in your neighborhood dey climb every night
If not why would you describe a lady you have never met before like that.. Only read news about her

Guys like you cannot even stand to speak to a lady cos you are a silly coward but says trash about people wey pass your fada online

Ode number 1

Phantom233:
Another Olosho is coming to defend her colleague but unfortunately this one is from mushin and very hungry. If care is not taken na yahoo boys go use you for sacrifice. Poverty is not enough reason for you to become an Olosho 🤣

we hear
But still won't make you or your fada amount up to cuppys slippers in this life no matter your hardwork

Proudly olosho... Happy?

JASONjnr:
Olodo.....



You product of a foolish and wayward mother who sleeps around to earn pennies to take care of you bastards.

cos your mother does that you can't relate to people with money, that they don't need to sleep with every dick and Harry they come across

You can't relate na! as your mama dey bring them every night come meet you for house.

News flash!

Not every girl with a hole gets fuxked like the useless people your mother and sisters are

Uselessness!

JASONjnr:
Exactly, when I said you're stupid. I wasn't wrong about you.


Your comments are filled with errors and you don't sound any better than a stupid and foolish person.

oya correct yourself and answer yourself

Baby factory product oshi

You don't even know who the hell your fada is

JASONjnr:
You're as stupid as your useless mother.

you kuku answer yourself

Good job boy!

MadamVanessa:


This fool, instead of him to imposed brain and sense to his father whose original brain has been damaged by too much intake of drugs .

he is a fool but he is governing your fada that is wise

Pele o

Fasindo:




Cuppy is like a national cake for men


Cuppy go soon reach everybody, it's your turn today and another man turn tomorrow. Just bang her and pass her to the next man.
I pity the simp that will end up wifying her.


Only God knows what Cuppy would have become if she is from a poor family, the reason God created her into a wealthy family
Babe belong to the street full time.

Cuppy would soon have exes from each continent of the world, it's a matter of time.

Me I will patiently wait when it will be my turn to chop her too, after all the patient dog eat the fattest bone,no need for me to rush

for your mind

You think say you be human being where she dey

Dey wait

Animal

JASONjnr:
Babe weh talk say she don knack almost all the guys with colors in the world. Was bragging about sleeping with men from all the race in the world.


The olosho weh deh her body, no fit keep man.


I doubt if she's ever going to settle down and marry.

but she never mack reach your mama nah

But your mama nor get money

Phantom233:
Na Olosho she be na, forget dis Papa money superstory. Olosho na Olosho, no matter where she comes from. You can see that the sister where get sense no de get such experience

e pain you say your papa no get and no go Eva get like her... I'm not even talk about her father sef

She can fuxk anybody she wants to

Not and should never be your business

BBIA:
I no be from there too.




Na cruise and banta I just the find.

I don read your comment sef

I see say na cruise you dey🤣 I just dey waste my time for your body

The one wey off me na your comment about Aisha Yesufu raising her hijab for Obi

Walahi you nor well🤣

BBIA:
Hahaaa, how far my G.


I no be Ndi-Jew of Emeka-land in the south Yeast oooooooh!

I am not a developer

you come dey follow dem dey yab your sister?

E no make sense naw... Haba!

Jcomtrader:
This govt is just confused
Another apc 8 years down the drain

They keep voting dullards to mock the SE

you wey no confuse

How is your life

Effin loser!

blackgold2018:
With the tune of Op, you will realize he is a trouble maker and not straight forward.

Mothers are not stupid. She has realized the op is either irresponsible or most have noticed a turn off behavior.

you are so wise

His tone was loud and clear

They want the things they don't deserve

Imagine threatening her mother with lawsuits

A troublemaker that he is

Fountainofyouth:
OP did not expect most people's reply, the comments shock am, Pele

Next time, if you are really serious in marrying her, you'd do that when the pregnancy was 3 weeks old.

the guy thought Nairaland is same as reality

The shock eh🤣

luminouz:
MURDERESS!!!!!

why the matter dey pain una today like this

This thread is so entertaining 😂😂😂

Kobicove:
I can't say I blame the girl's mother

So you want the girl to end up a single mother and be receiving insults from Nairaland misogynists?

I tire o

They will be the ones to criticize and condemn the hell out of her and praise the guy

That girl might never be able to say a complete sentence in that house cos she was knocked up and that's why he had to wife her

Very wise mother

Sugarcan3:
Kiss and tell.

😁

Sophiemama:
Tomorrow when you both have issues,then you will abuse her of tying you down. The mother did well,don't marry because of pregnancy.

aswear
He will definitely bring their matter to Nairaland and tell us how he helped her life and family by marrying her cos she got pregnant for him

Very wise mother!

I would do same!

Jeon:
Yes, I supported it. However "Men don't benefit anything from Marriage " ,but it's the other way round.


Marriage by mistake more like trapped marriage . And you will always remember her that you did her a favor by marrying her because of pregnancy, when the 5sec love fade away
.



Why did you not use your real moniker?. You don't want to disappoint you redpills clans?.

madam
E be like say you don dey wait for a day like this

Please reduce the pepper🤣🤣🤣