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Hi Nayah

what if:-
in that particular instant of "love at first sight" does a person's sexuality evolve?
e.g. If I was drawn to a lady who I assumed was a man would that sub-consciously expand my s[i]e[/i]xu[i]a[/i]l orientation? or is that just a one-off?
[quote][/quote]IMO, the term "love at first sight" is more of being attracted to someone at first sight,and that in no way defines love,and of course will not expand your s.exual orientation

Bravo! Clap for yourself

Sexsinners and sexkills,aint you guys brothers?
@topic,Knowing someone for 2months or eternity is not a guarantee that any marriage will last. IMO, staying put in a marriage is a DECISION.

@ House, I've been a silent reader for a long time now(even before i registered),and i must say that this is one of the best thread on this forum.
Congratulations to all those that have gotten their TRV's and those already in Canada. I'm praying for all those waiting to get theirs. I hope y'all will still be active on this thread so we can always come to get info from experienced people. Hopefully,I'll be coming to SAIT for next fall.

yem boy:
You sure sound like a prof. u knw? U r RUDE! watch it.

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yem boy:
my reply up there was for[b] premechaz[/b] 'm sooory Tjluv.

Good enough

premechaz:
Did you speak English to your in-laws?


Its probably your English that scared the mom. I'd be scared too.


Next time, go for illiterates like you.

That was quite harsh, pointing out spelling mistakes or gramatical blunders is not equivalent to being intelligent.

Its sexy for skinny guys. Otherwise,not cool

My parents never did,yet i excelled. Y should i then pay for my kids to pass an exam?

BABE!:
To the people that are already doing Bad belle, and the up-coming bashers:

Y'all should quit being so insanely Judgemental. Mercy Johnson is a human being like yourself. She's not Osama, neither is she Hilter. She's didn't kill any of y'alls family members, So why the unessecery bitterness?

EVEN IF SHE DID SNATCH Mr. Prince from Aunty. Lovely, there's only so much condemnation that's appropriate. We don't know the TRUTH behind the whole saga. We don't live with them. We are only judging matters from what WE CAN see and hear. Why then are we being so hateful and filled with so much sorrow? Haba.

At least, consider the fact that she's very talented and she has been entertaing us (Nollywood-wise) for the past years. One rough phase in her life shouldn't cause this much hate from people na.

My Conclusion: The set of People that are repeatedly hateful on Mercy Johnson's case are simply depressed and Problematic in their own personal, miserable lives. Miserable people are often negative and looking for ways to condemn people to make themselves feel better. Happy people are positive and filled with good vibes. Even if they want to condemn people, they do it with sense.

My advice: Don't be quick to judge people. Quit being a bigoted hypocrite. Fix your own life; make changes about yourself, and you'll see how your attitude towards life and people will change.

HAPPY MARRIED LIFE MERCY JOHNSON AND HUSBAND. I wish y'all the bestest.

Gbam, no need to repeat my tots

The guy is too dark,he's too ugly,he has brown teeth. So ugly people are not supposed to marry abi? God Abeg o

@ Poster, what exactly is it you want to rectify? Were'nt you fine before the friendship,advice,bla bla? What makes you think you wnt be fine nw? You should even be thankful that he deleted you from his bbm,except of course you want to start sleeping with him.

toba:
Im not going to trust people again. When did u join Here Tj that u know i always smdh?

I've been on here for long(as a guest), to know almost every user id, especially in the romance section.

@Toba, y are u always shaking your damn head?

sexkillz:
Girl! It's not always Good to trash talk someone who has accepted wrong doing and is willing for a second chance! So i'll leave out my usual snide & insultive remarks to people i find annoying!
Of course telling you parents would be very very difficult! But it is BEST! Whether you or anyone reading this accepts or NOT, TELL YOUR PARENTS ASAP! TELL THEM THE TRUTH! Believe it or NOT they are Actually the BEST people to handle your SITUATION! Not me, Not any poster on this thread & definitely, NOT ANY ONE ON NAIRALAND! They'll be bitterly angry, but they wont kill you, neither would they kick you out! But be ready for any action, ban or what ever they'll do at that point in time of your telling them! PLS MAKE SURE YOU UNDERSTAND THAT THEIR REACTIONS ARE OUT OF LOVE FOR YOU! They wanted the best for you! So their anger may not actually be directed at you, but at themselves! They would be blaming themselves for being bad parents! That thought alone would make them calm down! They still WANT the best for you! One thing YOU should NEVER EVER DO when your parents are screaming at you and saying things out of their anger, is to TALK BACK @ them or TRY TO DEFEND YOUR ACTIONS! DONT TRY THAT!
DONT look them in the face when explaining!
DONT raise your voice!
ALWAYS say I'm SORRY! (you dont know how Parents like to hear the word i'm SORRY from a teenager)
DONT defend your actions!
ACCEPT your mistake!
TELL them how bad you feel for Disappointing them!
MAKE them realize that they are GOOD parents and that they deserved better from YOU! Say you are SORRY!
TELL them you are UTTERLY CONFUSED & need their help!
TELL them they are the only ones you trust!

Many things you can say, buy remember THEY HAVE ALL RIGHTS to be ANGRY! But how well composed you are as a person, would make them soften their hearts and actions toward you! May you have PEACE!

Nice one. 9jafetish,i remember you jokingly mentioned ur pregnancy on another thread. It's about time you let your parents know about it. Teenage pregnancy is not the worst thing that can happen to you,NEVER let the thought of committing an abortion cross your mind.

I believe in prayers,but i've given up on Nigeria. Prayers is not what Nigeria needs,everybody needs a change of attitude.

Today,Nigeria women are cheap like pure water.
Tomorrow,Nigeria women play hard to get. The ideal question should be, why are Nigeria men confused?

*****observing******

I don't believe in withcraft though but I've seen a young gal confess in church.

@Cuddlemii,so much wisdom up there.

@ Pendo,would you mind if it was someone else that's pacing the hallway every 30mins? Chances are that the guy is doing all of those things nt because of you. IMO, it's not a wise idea to go face him. Like Cuddlemii said,take a chill pill or develop a thick skin and btw North and South pole attract( in magnetism)

violent:
Woe betide this country!  . . . .where police aren't well compensated and left exposed to depressing financial mishaps!

Better renumeration is never a solution to depressing financial problems. May his soul R.I.P

Mynd_44:
^^^
And how did you come to love someone who does not give a hoot how you feel?

Exactly what i meant by falling in love with the wrong person,on the other thread.

I appreciate all the comments so far,tnx for your time. Love doctors in the house,your comments are welcomed.

manakeagie:
TJLUV my dear love is a strong feeling of attachment to someone if it is romantic love , yes some times you can love the wrong person out of panic and love for material things or love for beauty you may miss out the whole concept and end up with the wrong person ,

If Love is a strong feeling of attachment for someone, how is it then possible to love out of panic,beauty and material things? Try to understand what i mean by the wrong person.

SIlknSteel:
@Poster: U can only love the wrong ones right n that makes them right.

[b][/b] Now,that makes so much sense.

M M M:
can i luv u like milk biscuit?

No sir, thank you.

Vicjustice:
Let's not be selfish in our judgements on this matter; you need to realise that sometimes, you happen to be the wrong person for your partner, it's not always your partner that is the wrong person for you.

Exactly, but this thread is not about any personal experience,just a general question.

@ fjlovelk, IMO, LOVE is one complex theory.

claremont:
1. Is love just a  feeling? No, it has never been proven that "love" is a feeling.

2. If yes, what is the feeling like? My above answered question refers.

3. Now,in the absence of the right person,is it safe to say that we've fallen in love with the wrong person?  The concept of "right person" or "wrong person" relationship-wise is totally erroneous and ludicrous, there is NO right or wrong person. Every relationship is like a lottery, you can make a strategic plan for you and your partner(s), but there is no assurance that the plan will ever work as initially planned. If it does work, then fine; if it doesn't, take a deep breath and move the hell on!

Claremont, Love is not a feeling,fine. What then is love? And your answer to question 3, well,well, i agree with what you said but try to understand what i mean by the "wrong person" in the context of this thread.

Mynd_44:
Yes you can love the wrong peraon

Good enough,but what are the consequences

M M M:
the wrong person is some1 dat dont nyash u

Yeah,right?