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Ebidosia:
At this stage in my life, my daughters count before my mum before my wife.

Wooww..!!
Your wife came last here??

She must be so far away from you emotionally, and in family/marital communications..

TemmyT002:
This is deep

That's how I saw it.

Plead:
Trash. Stupid generalizations.

Is there any person who generalized anything here??
You just came here and showed how truly stupid you are.

Semaj77:
For most men , their daughters become number one once they are born

I'm telling you..
But when it comes to decisions, the opinions of the little daughters wouldn't count though

HeliotJ:
The question is ; can your wife prioritize you over her own mother?

It is very very possible too...
A good wife hardly seek the opinion of her people before she makes her decisions, but she would more likely seek the opinion of her husband.

ojun50:
Order of importance of the women in a man's life

What I wrote is the truth naa..
Or abi you no read am?

ojun50:
Wetin dis penis dey cause eeeh

Why did you say so?

Tpave:
Wey men own nah? Abi we too no dey important?

Let's finish eating rice first before we start eating swallow..
Or abi u wan great the thread already?
Then tag my moniker when you do.

Tpave:
Hmmm

Wetin dey smell u over there?? Abi I lie??

The final decisions of any man is being influenced most of the time by the opinions of the women in his life.

At every stage in life, the order of importance of the opinions of these women vary a lot.
With this topic, I tried to pinpoint these stages in a man's life and the order of importance of the opinions of these women in his life.
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1. Long Before Marriage.
a. Mother
b. Sisters
c. Girlfriends
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2. Close To Marriage.
a. Mother
b. Fiancée
c. Sisters
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3. Immediately Into The Marriage
a. Wife
b. Mother
c. Sisters
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4. When The Children Are All Grown
a. Wife
b. Daughters
c. Mother
...
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5. Randy Husband
a. Wife
b. Girlfriend
c. Mother
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6. Crazy Husband
a. Girlfriend(s).
...
Ok..
This now brings me to the argument about why mothers have a very big opinion in the choosing of life-partners of their sons.
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Assuming that it was a decision that would affect the man alone such as business, place of work, investments, projects and so on, he has the liberty Not to involve anybody, nor seek anybody's opinion, and nobody would say anything about it.
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But in the case of choosing a life partner, the man's family will definitely be involved. Both families will be involved. Kindreds are involved too.

The man in an attempt to carry his family along, would go to seek his father's opinion. His father would then discuss with his own wife and his other grown children (that is, the man's mother and brothers and sisters).

After that, the man's mother (wife of the man's father) who now knows what the problem of the son is, would now make out time to talk to him in a language he would understand better, which includes knowing more about the lady in question, and having her invited over at the house once or twice for series of one-on-one interactions with her.

And trust me, if the fiancée had not done her homework well, and it happens that the man's mother doesn't like what she sees in the lady, the mother can easily talk her son out of it, and the fiancée's opinion cannot do much at this point because the man's father will support his own wife (the man's mother), and the man in question wouldn't want to be against his father.
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Meanwhile, a woman's family can also reject a man they don't like too., but there must be strong reasons for that to happen.

If a woman's family happens to reject a suitor and the woman went ahead to bring him home, they would reject the bride price openly, and there would not be any marriage rites performed again.

This particular topic about women would be discussed another day anyway.

I am more interested in the men for now.

Annie001:
Well!!
I think women who do last fling are weak and as for me, if I happen not to marry the guy I am currently dating, except he is living in another planet, there is no way we won’t have something together if we happen to meet, the love is just beyond me.

It means that you are also a weak woman, because if he ends up not marrying you, you will always find yourself having endless flings with him even in your marriage

M00N:
Are you trying to say a person who sleeps around can have better moral conducts/principle than someone who is chaste?


Virginity is also a proof of moral principle, it shows a person is chaste and can actually handle tough situations, it gives their spouse a reason to trust them fully. A virgin person is more likely to commit totally and not cheat in their marriage.

If you marry a virgin who doesn't love you, or who has some emotional attachments elsewhere (even without close body contacts, but just the mind and heart and emotions), you might not have a good home in the end ooo..

Explorers:
That bros go don spend MONEY... Florida for that matter.

You can imagine that..

What is a Mandamus?

Miracle of BBNaija on my mind now

Lalasticlala..
Please put this to front page.

Lalasticlala..
Someone here needs your help

Lalasticlala..
Please help someone here please.

BluntNigerian:
I am thinking of going to court..
But this our Nigerian system too dey tire person..
The courts may delay it out of the expected timeframe, and may end up making me loose interest in my studies.

Sadly, that might be the only option left for you.

So, they will go back and answer the National Assembly??

seunmsg:
The operation of the office is fully computerized and all transactions are saved online with back up outside the office. Not a single essential data would be lost to the fire.

Mista Man, you would be so badly disappointed very soon.

seunmsg:
The entire building or a part of the building? Hopefully, firefighters from area 10 will quickly put the situation under control.

Those of you insinuating that the fire was deliberate obviously lack knowledge of how far we’ve gone in Nigeria. Gone are the days when people steal money and then burn down the building to destroy records. Financial records can no longer be destroyed by merely burning a building. All transactions are now done through TSA, GIFMIS, REMITA and IPPIS. Federal government transactions are fully saved online and backed up at different locations. Essential records can never be lost to the fire.

Again, those insinuating that Covid-19 donations would be lost to the fire are very ignorant. All donations at federal level are paid directly into a CBN controlled account. All records are with CBN and not OAGF. Nobody can steal Covid-19 donations by burning OAGF building.

Oga, you would be so badly disappointed in the next few days to come..

What if.??
Like, I mean, what if the pandemic gets down more than half of all their population, who would they blame??
Jonathan? or PDP?

vr0xen:
So it means that one day , helinus, official garri, imhotep, doomed nigga slawormir and d rest of dia kind will come to dia right sence.

BTW Sarki u deserve general beating shaa if i remember ur moniker in 2015

It's really hard to believe..
..

The adverse effects of the surge in sales would be felt long after COVID-19 has gone.

PDJT:
-Advice; don’t attempt to answer a question until you have understood the question. Goodbye.

You failed your own test..
You already answered a question you didn't understand..
Have a nice day.

PDJT:
-Na you I dey ask na.

In that case,, I will reply you only on one condition..

PDJT:
-Have you ever seen a Red Eagle?

Who are you asking??
Me??
Or the bloodsucking witch that designed the Nigerian Coat of Arms??

PDJT:
-Lol Who designed this strange looking stuff for the Zoo? I have never seen a red eagle. Have you?

The Eagle on the Nigerian Coat of Arms is Red..
So, what were you saying?

sarrki:
President Muhammadu Buhari you said during the campaign and also on your inauguration that you will lead from the front


Am sorry to say sire

That you never fulfilled your words

On security I can never score your government high

You have failed on this and other promises you made

Is this the same Nairaland Sarrki I know??
A very strong supporter of Buhari and APC.??
Or abi this is a fake/hacked moniker??

pricklewane:
Where is your prove they are doing projection or you want them to count those not tested or confirmed because your bigoted Igbo soul hate any positive news about Nigeria.

I will wait for you to claim you are not Igbo before I fire on. This Wailer wailing sorrowfully did not complain about INEC not providing same data under Obasanjo Yardua n Ebele all older than election result under Buhari. Any bigoted soul that can't address the past but want an American standard of change cos Buhari is now the president is simply fooling himself.

See kettle calling pot black..
You are the only bigot I see on this thread.
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Meanwhile, here is another projection.
2.6 million homes have already collected N20,000 COVID-19 palliative..
That is N52bn.
2.6 million homes??
For real?
Do they have the whole data and details of the 2.6m homes??

greybird:
Hi everyone, I am from Canada and have been doing some research on these crater type formations. I believe its caused by an electrical explosion from natural bacteria in the ground called geobacter.
There are many kinds of geobacters. Some eat sulfur, some eat metal. They are being used in fuel cells to produce electricity and grow without air. I think when an area floods the bacteria is deposited and grows in the soil if conditions are right. A big charge can build up if it connects with water in the soil and explosion occurs. You can see there was some kind of energy escaping at the edge where the groove was.
I don't believe meteorite. If there is metal bits found it may be metal ore in the soil that fused from pulse. The governments do not want you to know about this material because any person who uses it can produce electricity if they make a fuel cell.
I was wondering if there is a stream or pond in the direction the groove was heading?

Throw more light on this please..