Lamanii22:



Awwwwn..... It put a smile on my face... My innocent face lol... Thank you so much Jason, you're too kind.

Good to know that there's a pretty little smile on your face...

Keep on smiling.


Stay Safe Lami.

Chidorx60:

U can't trust a girl u never started the sexual journey with....her mentality will always crave variety and that is dangerous.....I will rather marry someone whom we both discover our innocence together....someone whom we both share a part of us that no other human being knows about....our love will be fortified in trust and we will both become someone special to each of us.......I pity people who marry public toilets and cumminity taps....were will the trust com from......ladies and boys..virginity has always been the best and anyone who was raped is also a virgin ......but for all thoes advocating for free for all sexual adventure ....sorry but u are a substandard wife or husband material whether u have good character or not

gbam

Erediauwa:
Real Afieki and Udumovwori boy nai you dey follow yarn so.


You know the character.

Your face clear. Who no sabi you no get television for em house.

Erediauwa:
That which you call love is nothing but LUST..


Don't be confused, just control it.

Okay
Thank you

Erediauwa:
Good to know that there's a pretty little smile on your face...

Keep on smiling.


Stay Safe Lami.

Thanks Jason. Stay safe too Hun x

Perocom:


I had a lot of girls I dated that got married and I ceased to have any thing sexual to do with them. For the girls, they are weak and can't keep their emotions in check, a couple of them still want sex with me after marriage, but I keep my rational being check and refused them the opportunity, it's silly, I know I will always find another singles why get stuck with another man's wife, something I won't want to happen to me. We men are to be mature some free foods can ruin one's future.

I wish all men could reason like you.
Hope you find that faithful partner.
Thanks for this write-up.

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M00N:


I belive strongly there still are.

Pls pray to have the right partner. Do not place too much importance on virginity. Some Virgins can be chronic mastubators. We have ladies who have had one or two exes and they still made good wives. Everything still boils down to the fear of God. Go for the lady that fears God and not a must "virgin".

Hausaboy239:
Am still caught up in this!
Had this girl i was dating since 2015,i was 20 in my 300level and she was 18,we really liked each other so much but her parents got someone they thought was good for her, you may have an idea of how northern parents impose marriage on their daughters.
The man they chose for her was much older atleast he was up to 45 then although she didn’t like him but there was nothing she could do. We weren’t getting intimate before the marriage issue came up but we started having sex a month before her marriage,we even had sex on her wedding day.

Fast forward to after her marriage,we promised each other we were going to keep off each other but after some months we were back making calls and chatting though she was in another state and i was in school.

More than a year passed by,we were on and off but were fooling ourselves that we were just friends. Whenever she has problems with her hubby i will be the first person she will look for cause she can’t report to her parents(they’re blinded by his money).

Unfortunately i was done with uni and went to serve in Abuja and that was were it started again,she was staying there and the husband had traveled abroad and was staying for bout 8months there.

Cut the story short,we started seeing each other often and anytime we met it happened to the extent that we got used to it!
I finished serving 2017 and got a job in Abuja,she’s still with her husband but we still hook up anytime she’s chanced though it could take months sometimes but I really feel bad when I think bout it and i sincerely want to call it off!

Pls how can i do stop it?

People like you will definitely end up taking a whọre as a wife...
Since you don't have respect for marriage...
Karma...

MYHUBBY:



Dumbness at its peak. Are your sisters your reference of conclusion?


Any man that's marrying non virgins lady should request for discount in her Bride price. You can't be non virgin and your parents will be giving me big list when your dignity and value had been diminished?



To men that don't have choice, I say kudos. No non virgin will even be in a courtship with me not to talk of marriage, Godforbid

I know how old you are already...

M00N:



Are you trying to say a person who sleeps around can have better moral conducts/principle than someone who is chaste?


Virginity is also a proof of moral principle, it shows a person is chaste and can actually handle tough situations, it gives their spouse a reason to trust them fully. A virgin person is more likely to commit totally and not cheat in their marriage.

If you marry a virgin who doesn't love you, or who has some emotional attachments elsewhere (even without close body contacts, but just the mind and heart and emotions), you might not have a good home in the end ooo..

OsuMustGo:
I know how old you are already...

if that will reinstate your common sense then I'm happy for you

BlueBanana:

Virgins date and have exes before they marry and some sleep with their ex before marriage.

Wait, what?

fsw

MYHUBBY:



if that will reinstate your common sense then I'm happy for you

The one you lack in the first place abi?

Don't worry, you'll surely grow up.
I said that nonsytoo about ten years ago...

Virgin good? Yes

But there are still lots of ladies out there though not virgins but if married to you, will raise a Godly and near perfect home.

Some lost it due to ignorance, youthful exuebearance and co.

If she is born again, if she has dumped that past and has turned a new leaf why not? Are we saying the blood of Christ isn't powerful to wash away all sins?

I know of 2 ladies who are spirit filled and anyone would do anything to wife them, but if they should say they are not virgins, do u now throw away the baby with d bath water?

When God says we should obey his commandents he knows it for our own good, nevertheless, one must not pay for their sins for eternity, for this reason Jesus came.

I have said it b4, I'm not a religious fanatic, but id u dont marry a genuine xtian (male or female, virgin or former slut) that marriage is in for a long ride because the storm.is definitely gonna come.

Then, only those who know him can say "peace be still"

But lust will not allow many of u heed d truth, ur desires of the flesh like money, beauty and co will be ur doom.

I'm out. Phew!

Erediauwa:
Happy New year mhisbliss...

So its now you entered new year?

mhisbliss:
So its now you entered new year?

Lol, the year has been categorise with all sorts of bad things...


I just entered into mine.

MYHUBBY:




shut up and focus on learning how to convince the man you will end up with, how you lost yours


it wasn't a privilege, it was my choice and I got it and there are still many sane ladies outside there


she was nurtured well and advise why she shouldn't join the child of the world like you.

well 4 ur notice i stil have mine intact nd wailting 4 d right god frearing man not ur type who dsnt have respect or regard 4 wat dey dnt qualifils to have in d first place bc u are so rold.

Lamanii22:



Right.. The best thing is never to keep contact with an Ex... Delete their numbers, never be together in private place...emotions/feelings could get a hold of you..

hmmmmm...that means Okafor law is applicable here

Ziky491:
well 4 ur notice i stil have mine intact nd wailting 4 d right god frearing man not ur type who dsnt have respect or regard 4 wat dey dnt qualifils to have in d first place bc u are so rold.

hmmmmm.

Annie001:
Well!!
I think women who do last fling are weak and as for me, if I happen not to marry the guy I am currently dating, except he is living in another planet, there is no way we won’t have something together if we happen to meet, the love is just beyond me.

It means that you are also a weak woman, because if he ends up not marrying you, you will always find yourself having endless flings with him even in your marriage

Lamanii22:




Omg.... Emotions/feelings mehn...

devlish emotions you meant to say....

Ziky491:
well 4 ur notice i stil have mine intact nd wailting 4 d right god frearing man not ur type who dsnt have respect or regard 4 wat dey dnt qualifils to have in d first place bc u are so rold.

lolz! intact kee you there. your rushing like monkey to quote have given me answer why you're pained


instead of you to confess you've repent, you're here acting saint here .


i know your type, intact in wide opposite. wicked dicks deal with naive ladies

OsuMustGo:

The one you lack in the first place abi?

Don't worry, you'll surely grow up.
I said that nonsytoo about ten years ago...

I'm not your uncle's age mate and how does being old the same with my choice? Ode


visit magistrate court across the country and see many divorce cases waiting for hearing because of distrust. Do you think man just decide to change just like that? No! Many men that change didn't change because they caught their women, they're only reacting on past


even this one with low IQ is telling me about age, why mumu come plenty here lately

stormborn28:
hmmmmm.

mr man why are u looking at me lyk dat, u tink say am one of dose ur olosho

MYHUBBY:



lolz! intact kee you there. your rushing like monkey to quote have given me answer why you're pained


instead of you to confess you've repent, you're here acting saint here .


i know your type, intact in wide opposite. wicked dicks deal with naive ladies

i dnt havd time to spend with your type

With the way women have gone crazy, it's only rational to want a virgin.

Society keeps forcing us to see the bodycount of a woman as nothing but they won't tell you that 100% of women who trick their husbands into raising another man's child, married their husbands as non-virgins.

Once a woman has a high bodycount, she loses the ability to pair-bond. She ends up comparing you to the numerous men she's slept with. Little things which shouldn't be problems become issues that can break the marriage. She'll complain about the size of your penis and will likely go outside to get sex.

I'm in my early 30's and as long as there's no way to find out how many men a woman has slept with, I'd never settle for less than a virgin.

Hausaboy239:
Am still caught up in this!
Had this girl i was dating since 2015,i was 20 in my 300level and she was 18,we really liked each other so much but her parents got someone they thought was good for her, you may have an idea of how northern parents impose marriage on their daughters.
The man they chose for her was much older atleast he was up to 45 then although she didn’t like him but there was nothing she could do. We weren’t getting intimate before the marriage issue came up but we started having sex a month before her marriage,we even had sex on her wedding day.

Fast forward to after her marriage,we promised each other we were going to keep off each other but after some months we were back making calls and chatting though she was in another state and i was in school.

More than a year passed by,we were on and off but were fooling ourselves that we were just friends. Whenever she has problems with her hubby i will be the first person she will look for cause she can’t report to her parents(they’re blinded by his money).

Unfortunately i was done with uni and went to serve in Abuja and that was were it started again,she was staying there and the husband had traveled abroad and was staying for bout 8months there.

Cut the story short,we started seeing each other often and anytime we met it happened to the extent that we got used to it!
I finished serving 2017 and got a job in Abuja,she’s still with her husband but we still hook up anytime she’s chanced though it could take months sometimes but I really feel bad when I think bout it and i sincerely want to call it off!

Pls how can i do stop it?

naso another Man go take chop ur wife, you can't escape it, karma has always been a bitch

Ziky491:
mr man why are u looking at me lyk dat, u tink say am one of dose ur olosho

if I handle you eeemmmhh

Erediauwa:
I frown at this ugly and immoral culture we've copied from the Western world... This is not an African culture neither is the Bachelor's Eve or Baby showers ours.

These generation of ours tends to copy what I termed "Animalistic Behavior"


I don't keep an "Ex" contact, once you agree we're done, then we're DONE for good, that doesn't make us enemies, but keep your distance and don't come close.


I remember the ugly last fling of one Elohor at Ughelli, she thought it was just a last fling, but she didn't know she was taking her last breathe as her would be husband traced her to the foolish Ex place and sniff the life out of them.

You might think it's just one last fun, but there's no last fun.


Listen to "Long Story" by Erigga and hear the story of Ese.

guy u na real nigga...eribaba get luck say him padi na real gee or d guy for burst him brain bt d wedding council shaa