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Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Nobody: 8:01am On May 13, 2016 |
Heromaniaa:same as me lol |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Ahdunns(m): 5:32pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
dmcdad:bro u just talk dat tin cuz u thought dat he needed sum1 to console him. But introspection kips gettin beta. U beta undastnd his core issue b4 uttering solutions |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by dmcdad: 5:59pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Ahdunns:Wrong! I have someone like him who is full of himself because of that same body type. It's a mindset thing, hence my advice. Understand the concept of an ish before jumping in. |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Ahdunns(m): 6:03pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Lordnewton1:gaddammn.. All yhu said is true.Ur'e actually a blessing. E be as if na me d talk self. But wen u wrote diz,were u analyzing to see if u were corect or not? Nd i belivd u might av searched websites 4 answers to no avail. Me sef i no knw aw much i fit help u but. actually,someday thiz wuld be a problm of d past. Dont 4get ur overall focus in life bro. |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Magnoliaa(f): 6:13pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Ojisik: honestly! You are soo right. There are a lot of things going on, and a lot of things to think about. I soo much hate small talks, i would have to think for hours about the best reply to give in such conversations. but i can go on and on for hours when it's a very deep and meaningful topic. The flow is smooth and evrything just comes easily to my mind. I 'force' myself to small talk becos i don't want to be seen as being too serious. All the time. [sighs] one thing i hate about being an introvert is not being to make friends easily. I guess it's the same with introverts. I hate the fact that i get depressed often, and i hate the fact that i over-think. . . |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Magnoliaa(f): 6:27pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
[/quote] All this pressures from social gatherings makes me try to adjust to fit in other not to be left out and in the end i just get worn out [/quote] Yeah, trying to fit in soo draining. . .i've given that up now though. . I won't force myself to be someone im not. Im not sociable, im not outgoing and im fine with it. . If you talk to me, fine. . And if not, let's just rather wait for a situation that'll get us to converse. . . 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Nnfe(f): 6:43pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Am I the only one that dislikes girls that like boys too much, or girls that are always clingy to guys n dependent..It just irritates me.. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by kateskitty(f): 6:49pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
kaziblake:As an introvert, I wish I could laugh more. Until I discovered Dave Chappelle and Trevor Noah. I hate nothing about being an introvert, the only thing I hate is that people don't try to understand me. |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by harriet412(f): 7:06pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
The fact that I stutter when I speak and I find conversations so boring. I prefer to lie in bed and just read novels all through. I can literally count all the ceremonies I've attended... I miss out so much on opportunities ... I'd have to double check so many times before I do something... I choose my words so carefully before I talk... Never given a public speech before, first time I tried, I was so blank... Social life is wack, I'm so opposite of my parents.. Just have 1 friend.. Lol, God knows how I bug her so much bou err'thing I do ... Looking forward to my seminar, just hope I don't freak out. Lol, this should be the longest I've typed on nl. Mehn.. I hate being an introvert. 2 Likes |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Ahdunns(m): 7:47pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Antoinne:sis u gotta calm down. U aint gat to be so hARd on dis dude naw! Trust me, if sum1 kips reminising bout himself being a faliure,then sure he wuld go no where except he sits 1 on 1 with an expert to talk common sense into his head in other to prevent him from condeming himself lyk an engine oil. |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by egopersonified(f): 7:01am On May 14, 2017 |
Maybe someone should start a thread on what they hate about being an extrovert, then you all will appreciate some of these 'disadvantages'. If you really want someone as a friend, look for activities that would make you be together. It actually gets easier with time, the kind of job you do, the type of family, friends, neighbours and colleagues you have. But it gets better, IF YOU WANT IT TO. |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Nobody: 7:34am On May 14, 2017 |
Lacomus:"Introvert" make una carry name give una self o introvert is just a name you are hiding under you are all suffering from low self esteem. And the earlier you face your fears the better for you all. |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Nobody: 7:40am On May 14, 2017 |
maxwell60:oga self esteem I hear theeee |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Nobody: 7:41am On May 14, 2017 |
harriet412:My dear forget this "Introvert" bullshit you are suffering from low self esteem which is very dangerous it can lead to axiety which always leads to suicide I will advice you not to run away from those thing you are scared of face them and love yourself the way you are, and your life will be better ok? stop calling yourself introvert the name "Introvert" alone is creating more problems for you. Peace |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Nobody: 9:46am On May 14, 2017 |
Ojisik:Yes o.. It happens to me. I rethink many situations especially when it has passed already! |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Nobody: 10:52am On May 14, 2017 |
That feeling when i've experienced both Introvert and Extrovert That feeling when now an introvert That feeling when loving every second of it |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by harriet412(f): 9:02pm On May 15, 2017 |
maxwell60: Mr, I'm not suffering from low self esteem...I'm just quiet and reserved. |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Kendzyma(m): 11:14pm On May 15, 2017 |
...no one here mentioned that most introverts are chronic masturbators,caused by boredom and lack of will to get on with a girl which increases their konji level... |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Tyviv(f): 11:21am On May 16, 2017 |
Well I don't think I hate anything about being an introvert although I hate the names they call me, some one called me a recluse last week ...i love being alone and I also have few friends, I hate noise, I hate crowd too... |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by newslifeop: 11:44am On May 16, 2017 |
Nothin |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by extremelygolden: 12:28pm On May 16, 2017 |
My neighbours keep asking why I don't like coming to sit and discuss with them outside, especially when there's no light at night instead of sitting put inside, and in my mind I will be like what the hell will I be discussing with them if I go outside to sit with them! And I have a very serious problem dressing up and going to visit people. That's one thing I don't know how to do. I would have dressed up a million times, UnCloth another million times and then place a call to whoever I was going to visit that I couldn't make it as scheduled. They all ended up thinking I am avoiding them, but only me, myself and I know that was how I was wired from the beginning. So weird of me sha! |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by dingbang(m): 12:40pm On May 16, 2017 |
extremelygolden:are you a guy? |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Nobody: 1:54pm On May 16, 2017 |
I used to be a core introvert (still working on myself though). Growing up I would walk with my head faced down, if I dressed too well I would be too shy to step outside alone. I dreaded going out and meeting new people. Even till now I'm still being seen as proud because I hardly associate with people. I would say getting married changed me a lot, my partner being an extrovert helped me step out of my comfort zone. After I became a parent my self confidence went from 0 to 100. I am still a very quiet person but I try very hard to mix with people and contribute to conversations even when I just want to be alone and mute. |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by extremelygolden: 8:39pm On May 16, 2017 |
dingbang: No, a gal. |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by barallanee(f): 11:20pm On May 16, 2017 |
Den in skul...it made people nt to even talk to me,thinking DAT am a snob..and wen I smile or talk to dem..der feel so surprised...I get unnecessarily embarassed |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by chiraqDemon(m): 1:05am On May 17, 2017 |
barallanee:Exactly, i was shocked when a friend of mine told me thay a girl he was talking with said i was proud cos i drive and stuff thats why i dont talk to girls or some kind guys. In my mind i was like jeesus, me that is just quiet while wishing that somebody will come and talk to me. Cos i cant initiate convos and most times sef i feel better when im alone instead of when im in the midst of ppl. |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by martinlooter(m): 2:38am On May 17, 2017 |
My only challenge is that it has deprived me of getting married to a woman when i was supposed to even till now. Me, I don't have a problem starting a conversation now, in fact, most people think I am a master conversationalist, but what they don't understand is in my inner heart of hearts, I really want to end the conversation with them and be alone. In reality, I think its a problem, cos life is more fun when you live it with other people. Its okay for ladies to be introverts, but for guys its a no no. Raising this thread means people don't understand you, and the society expects more from you. Therefore, why not make a conscious effort to extend a fellowship, tolerate that one hour with that other person, be a friend to someone and crawl out of your shells sometimes. me I am now a very dynamic person, when I am alone, I enjoy my quiet times, but when a friend pops in for a conversation, I engage them in whatever they feel conducive to discuss. I wish you guys all the best. Btw, I don't know what became of the whatsapp group for introverts, the last I saw that invite was in 2015, if the group is still existent in 2017, add me up with my number: 08138129166 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Tklabelle(f): 5:58am On May 17, 2017 |
Constantly having to try to open up to people and communicate when I'm perfectly happy being a loner 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by shollarey(m): 6:54am On May 17, 2017 |
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Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Nobody: 12:40am On May 22, 2017 |
martinlooter: barallanee: Tklabelle: https://www.nairaland.com/1830091/introverts-lounge-extroverts-pls-keep |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by loud1: 3:48am On May 22, 2017 |
Ojisik:this happens to me all the time |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Nobody: 6:32am On May 22, 2017 |
I'm an introvert and I love myself.u re exactly me bt nt the last sentence...pm me abeg lets talk |
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