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if you no get money, sorry is your name.

K.O

lashorrt:
Isn't she old enough to be his aunty if not sister

if she's not related to you, forget the age.
"old wine tastes best" na dem talk o. i'm yet to taste.

be asking and no concentrate on your hustle. the guy don dey experience snow weather with him madam.

i'm sagittarius and i have never cheated.

you just want someone to justify your action. dude, you're an ee-diaaat.

text messages, calls log and whatsapp. those 3 will determine if your girl's loyal or not.

Boj2:
my gf will never leave her phone for you to see..talk more to get a hold on

she's got something going on.
she might not be cheating, but there are stuffs in her phone that'll make you react.

CaptainNipples:
how about you do nothing and have a rest of mind

rest of mind when the signs are visible to the blind? even if you close your eyes, your ears go hear everything.

spouse cheating? i won't do a thing. from that moment, we'll be living as co-tenants till she decides to leave.

adajoe555:




lol...you are funny. ..I don't eat bread with indomie..don't just like it

this means she knows how to cook. most u.p girls i used to know were terrible cooks. even them indomie usually swam in the pot.

p.s: my regular nl email cannot be accessed at the moment. please use this. christoph236@yahoo.ca

adajoe555:
No thanks...don't know you much

I'm toastedbread. the type you eat with indomie...
me too, i don't know you and i'd like to make your acquaintance.
send me an email:

adajoe555:
Yes

wow! small world it is.
i'll be around helena tomorrow. if you're free, how about you join me for a bottle of coke?

adajoe555:
I'm still in sch...back of Chem if you know there

do you attend the kingdom hall opposite that sda church?

adajoe555:
I'm still in sch...back of Chem if you know there

back of chem big na. i once stayed at baby giant. i know every where there.

snoop dogg even twitted about these our nigerian okada men and their stunts without helmet.

if only they rode jejely and not try to impress a corpse.

adajoe555:
lol that's aluu girls na ... there are chaste ones out there

chaste ones? yes, them they but how you wan see dem? from pritaso junction to cody's bar(maryland), na so so bum shorts and bleached laps one go dey see for evening.
even if na you, you'll be forced to conclude that na only such girls dey uniport.

which side you been stay for unique u.p?

MarieSucre:
Are the men themselves husband material?

Dey there dey look for wife material when your husband material no fit see G-string.
A good man will attract a good woman. You only attract what you are.

Yes o. The guys are husband materials. We've always been until the females changed the game.
Men will always be husband material to a loyal girl, not a pay as you go.

The fish image is sooo correct.

I've got 99 problems and a female ain't one.

adajoe555:
if his girlfriend is that way must he generalized it to all Uniport graduate..Must he take one person to judge others.... metcheeew

Maybe he has met plenty and has heard a lot about u.p girls.
You know how Aluu girls be na.

1. Stop trying to read minds.
Most relationship problems and associated social anxieties start with bad communication, which in turn leads to attempted mind reading. Mind reading occurs when two people assume that they know what the other is thinking when they don’t. This process of wondering and trying to guess what someone is thinking is a rapid route to feelings of insecurity and stress.
If someone says one thing, don’t assume they mean something else. If they say nothing at all, don’t assume their silence has some hidden, negative connotation. Likewise, don’t make the people in your life try to read your mind.
Say what you mean and mean what you say. Give the people in your life the information they need, rather than expecting them to know the unknowable. It’s also important to remember that you aren’t suppose to know every little thing going on in the minds of others, even the people closest to you. When you stop trying to read their minds, you really begin to respect their right to privacy. Everyone deserves the right to think private thoughts. Constantly asking, “What are you thinking?” can provoke a person to withdraw from a relationship to find space.

2. Stop looking for perfect relationships.
You will end up spending your entire life hopelessly seeking the right lover and the right friends if you expect them to be perfect. Even worse, the process of doing so will drive you mad, as you feel more and more insecure with every failed relationship that doesn’t live up to your fantasy of perfection.
We’re all seeking those special relationships that feel perfect for us, but if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to realize that there are no “perfect people” for you, just different flavors of imperfect ones.
That’s because we are all imperfect in some way. You yourself are imperfect in many ways, and you seek out relationships with people who are imperfect in complementary ways. It takes a lot of life experience to grow fully into yourself and realize your own imperfections; and it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest imperfections, your unsolvable flaws – the ones that truly define who you are – that you are able to proficiently select harmonious relationships. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for imperfect people who balance you out – the perfectly imperfect people for you.


3. Stop judging current relationships based on past ones.
Think about those times when you passed an unfair judgment on someone merely because they reminded you of someone from your past who treated you poorly. Sadly, some people pass judgments like these throughout the entire duration of their long-term relationships. Simply because they were once in a relationship with someone who was abusive, dishonest, or who left them, they respond defensively to everyone else who gets close to them, even though these new relationships have been nothing but kind and supportive.
If you carry old bricks from the failed relationships of your past to your present relationships, you will build the same flawed structures that fell apart before. So if you suspect that you have been making unfair comparisons between your present relationships and a negative one from the past, take a moment and consciously reflect on the hurtful qualities of this old, negative relationship, and then think of all the ways your present relationships differ. This small exercise will help you let go of the old bricks and remind you that past pains are not indicative of present possibilities.

4. Stop inventing problems that don’t exist.
Inventing problems in our mind and then believing them is a clear path to self- sabotage. Too often we amuse ourselves with anxious predictions, deceive ourselves with negative thinking, and ultimately live in a state of hallucination about worst-case scenarios. We overlook everything but the plain, downright, simple, honest truth.
When you invent problems in your relationships, your relationships ultimately suffer. Insecurity is often the culprit. If you doubt yourself and you don’t realize your own worth, you will pass on any opportunity to let others care for you, and you will remain stuck with the insecurity issues that weigh you down.
The insecure passenger does not trust anyone else to drive. They feel out of control. They imagine that the driver is not paying attention. Or they may even fantasize that the slight jolting of the driver stepping on the breaks is a sign of doom via an impending collision.
They freak themselves out by assuming that the visions they have invented in their mind represents reality.
What you need to realize is that there are normal idiosyncrasies to any relationship. There are ups and downs and mood changes, moments of affection and closeness and moments of friction. These ups and downs are normal. Wanting to be absolutely close and intimate all the time is like wanting to be a passenger in a car that has no driver.
Next time you feel insecure, and you catch yourself stressing about problems that don’t exist, stop yourself and take a deep breath. Then tell yourself, “This problem I’m concerned with only exists in my mind.” Being able to distinguish between what you imagine and what is actually happening in your life is an important step towards self-confidence.

5. Stop focusing on the negatives.
There’s no such thing as a perfect relationship. Even if it seems perfect now, it won’t always be. Imperfection, however, is real and beautiful. The quality of the happiness between two people grows in direct proportion to their acceptance, and in inverse proportion to their intolerance and expectations. It’s how two people accept and deal with the imperfections of their relationship that make it ideal.
Of course, this doesn’t mean that you have to accept everyone into your life even when it is obvious that they are not right for you. But it does mean that if there are occasional difficulties in your relationships, you don’t have to jump to the bold conclusion that the entire relationship is bad, and become so distressed that the relationship ends, or so insecure that the other person questions your intentions.
No meaningful relationship will always work flawlessly all the time. Being too black and white about the quality and health of a relationship spells trouble.
There will always be difficulties present, but you can still focus on the good. Insecure people constantly look for signs of what’s not working in their relationships. What you need to do is look for signs of what is.
Having an appreciation for how remarkable the people in your life are leads to good places – productive, fulfilling, peaceful places. So notice their strong qualities, cheer for their victories, and encourage their goals and ambitions. Challenge them to be the best they can be. Every day, acknowledge just how amazing they are.

These are things you should apply in your life everyday. Keep on practicing (as I am still practicing) until it becomes part of you.



Source:
http://www.omolove.co/2017/05/five-ways-to-stop-feeling-insecure-in.html?m=1

10K?

Blueeyedboi:
Pictures??....Reason for selling?

a new one is 23k na

she's gotten the fame already. who rewrites a course that was passed with A B or C?

he chose not to burgle, nor carry arms. inasmuch as stealing whatever is stealing, his was out of hunger.
haven't you eaten a chicken that came into your compound when you were in school?

that's how one girl i been dey with bid me goodnight around 11pm but was still online and typing till 1am.
her excuse was she was still telling her online peeps goodnight. it happened not twice nor thrice. when i questioned her..., she hid her last seen.

you just eff'd up big time. but why would you take the penalty when you know you're lionel messi? you're bound to score.
your girl was somewhere busy bragging to her friends about how faithful you are and behind closed doors, like davido, you were busy shooku shooku-ing another girl.


i don't support abortion and i'll advice you to talk to the both girls involved.

ee-tar-lee again? God bless your hustle.

how much do you sell?

sharrp:
People tend to ask silly question when testing their feets. And there is no where the front page explicitly says ,"ship to nigeria"
Like 3 pages later. But cool tho

read page zero and you'll see where he talked about helping nigerians with shipping and handle.
need i say more?
all cool tho. happy feet testing.

the best way to overcome temptation is to yield to it.

meanwhile, avoid staying at home when there's no one else at home.

did anyone recently acquire the box from aliexpress? if yes, what was your total expenses?

as regards using the box to play games, what hardware is needed? (knowing how android phones work by tilting the phone, up down etc)