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Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by TobyeCole: 4:53pm On Jan 06, 2020
dalass:


Madam take it easy o. She didn't mention any name. Don't you think it may not be you that the OP mentioned or it may not be mama Lekan... Sofry sofry o




She's the one. Im a man. I checked her timeline and she's the one. Why not let her defend herself abi her daughters name. Isn't Lekan again?









Does her number not end with 00937








Did her father not die in the last one month
Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by Graxie(f): 4:54pm On Jan 06, 2020
TobyeCole:
Let us all be careful with one sided stories people tell to absolve themselves of guilt.



I'm not related to the op nor my mum. We only knew ourselves in a church we both attended for a short while











Because I'm always busy with work and my mum is old my.






Mum permitted the girl to go help this woman with chores everyday after school and that she will be tutuored in assignment at the same time













We didn't throw the child to the street. The father now works unlike when he was about to kill himself a decade ago when we picked her.












Out of how she was transformed the father let her leave with my family. Especially since I was the one who consoled him when he wanted to kill himself ten years back and asked him to bring the two kids. Housed trained and feed them alongside my brother in law and sisters
Your story seems to be different, she said the nanny is married. You are claiming the nanny is you people house help. Are you married to the nanny?

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Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by TobyeCole: 4:54pm On Jan 06, 2020
Graxie:
Your story seems to be different, she said the nanny is married. You are claiming the nanny is you people house help. Are you married to the nanny?





She spinned the identity to cover up identities. You should ask her if the girl. Is her nanny how come can the girl be her nanny and be someone else's gril. With someone else having control over the girl. Ask her o




If truly the girl she emphatically describes as her nnay is being sent away, how come.... How is her nanny sent away... Ask her o. I'm. Sure Nairalanders can see lies and are very intelligent people.
Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by Graxie(f): 4:56pm On Jan 06, 2020
TobyeCole:






She spinned the identity to cover up identities. You should ask her if the girl. Is her nanny how come can the girl be her nanny and be someone else's gril. With someone else having control over the girl. Ask her o
There are married women doing nanny work. I don't get your question.

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Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by TobyeCole: 4:59pm On Jan 06, 2020
Graxie:
There are married women doing nanny work. I don't get your question.



She posted her nanny is being taken from her. How come is a third party taken away her nanny. The girl is an adoptee that had turned reblius and unrepentant. I only asked her to help her with chores in exchange for her helping the girl with home work. How does this translate to house help! +/nanny? Ask her to. Come respond na
Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by mofedamijo(m): 5:01pm On Jan 06, 2020
philip0906:

His posts are actually sensible grin grin

His posts are laced with sarcasm to drive home his point and he makes very interesting points when you read beyond the surface. He is a very intelligent writer.

You don't apply sarcasm to everything, when people are in serious talk, keep your sarcasm............

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Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by philip0906(m): 5:03pm On Jan 06, 2020
mofedamijo:


You don't apply sarcasm to everything, when people are in serious talk, keep your sarcasm............
He doesn't give a sh1t though. That's his style of writing, after all this is a faceless forum. For all we care, the threads could simply be the figment of people's imaginations.
Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by Graxie(f): 5:06pm On Jan 06, 2020
TobyeCole:




She posted her nanny is being taken from her. How come is a third party taken away her nanny. The girl is an adoptee that had turned reblius and unrepentant. I only asked her to help her with chores in exchange for her helping the girl with home work. How does this translate to house help! +/nanny? Ask her to. Come respond na
All I am saying is that, your stories are not the same. She said her nanny mother in-law and husband wants her to go back to the village.You are painting another story. You can create your own post to address your story. Moreso, she have not been responding to others questions before you.

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Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by TobyeCole: 5:09pm On Jan 06, 2020
Graxie:
All I am saying is that, your stories are not the same. She said her nanny mother in-law and husband wants her to go back to the village.You are painting another story. You can create your own post to address your story. Moreso, she have not been responding to others questions before you.



I have spoken all my concerns.


I am waiting for her response and we'll both take it up from there Graxie
Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by DavidEsq(m): 5:11pm On Jan 06, 2020
Neddstark:


Your abbreviations bored me off
Me too

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Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by mofedamijo(m): 5:13pm On Jan 06, 2020
TobyeCole:






That is what happened. Look at how she came to the Internet to blackmail my family









The young girl had become rebellious and would stand to curse my mother to my face.


This has been happening repeatedly. The girl isn't her nanny. We only attended the same church and my mother said she couldn't teach the girl assignments and the girl should go to her house and in turn help her do her house work









This is a girl I picked from the street mentored and trained her for almost 10 years.















But she started becoming rebellious and acting against every instructions given. When we saw she has grown and doesn't want to stay with the family as she even threatened us a few times the gather stayed in a three bedroom and we stayed in a small house along with many of such issues we noticed we had lost her and before she got pregnant we asked her to go home so she won't get pregnant untimely nor do harm to our family as she had turned covetous always beating our own kids for no reasons cause she.. Oh my God. It was good I did o.










The girls mother threw her away to the street some years ago









I picked the girl up clothed her fed her trained her. Even today she left if you saw her skin its spotless clean. She eats 4 to 5 times a day














She then started receiving attention from all boys around and turned prideful and arrogant.







I took her to various pastors to speak with her different people. Before rebellion became another thing we then called this woman the OP with the aim of trying to talk to her several times
















She's just a neighbor we allowed our kid go visit and help take care of her kids. It was good we were doing






















She's only speaking from the loss of having the freedom to leave her home and her kids while the girl does the chores.



















God almighty will judge you mummy Lekan for all these lies you've spoken about me today. Heaven bears witness that you won't go unpunished for tarnishing my family's good will like this.





Can you guys now see part of the reason we had to decide that the girl go. Can you see how the girl's disloyalty opens the door for this to my family















Nairalanders be careful whom you open your family and home to



























I double dear you mummy Lekan to come speak all you typed here to my face. I'm at home

I don't know who you're Sir, but i will beg, handle this issue with the highest maturity in you, if what you're saying is true, which i want to believe, don't let that woman make you look like a bad person in the said estate, be calm, state your facts, talk to her husband, nd if he is not matured enough, leave the matter to God, you raised the girl right until she went gaga, leave mama lekan, time, karma and God will be the final judge., Shalom.
Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by ariesbull: 5:19pm On Jan 06, 2020
Don't make that mistake...I did it years ago and paid for it. .never house a wife of another person sent away.. they would spin the story

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Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by Zooposki: 5:39pm On Jan 06, 2020
TheRedpillguy:

Doesn't it bother you that you are leaving your kid with a stranger? The time kids are little are times you teach them about your core values but you let sombody else put ideas in your kids head. U know its by desigh for the mother to rase the kid. Oh sorry I forgot. The work is too much.

Maybe she is a career woman. I don’t blame her though. Women are often left with the short end of the stick, after staying at home to take care of the children, to the detriment of their financial status. Meanwhile the husband often ends up leaving them for a younger model, after he has become financially stable due to no distractions from the home front. Wise women are now serious about their careers though and want independent financial stability and are no longer housewives. The raising of children should be a joint effort between husbands and wives.

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Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by zigzagluv: 5:49pm On Jan 06, 2020
Rent a room for her outside and she will be coming to help you ,
Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by superlanny(m): 5:50pm On Jan 06, 2020
iHart:
MIL- Mother in-law
DIL - Daughter in-law

Thank you for saving the writers, obvious error. I was like what is mil and Dil.

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Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by busar(m): 6:06pm On Jan 06, 2020
AfonjaBoston:
You are typical selfish, egocentric, proud, talkative, busybody and foolish naija woman who really don't care about her kids.

She is a good nanny liked by your kids but you are full of BULLCRAP about what her family will say about a nanny doing a good job.

She is not a criminal or ex-con so why would you be worried about what the neighbours or landlord association will say?

You are really foolish and If I was your husband na beating I go use reset your brain
too many crazy people on this forum

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Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by armadeo(m): 6:20pm On Jan 06, 2020
If she agrees to stay with you leaving the MIL then fuxk it. Take her.

Life is too short to bother about the opinions of those you really dont give a shit about.
Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by cococandy(f): 6:23pm On Jan 06, 2020
What’s this one saying?
AfonjaBoston:
You are typical selfish, egocentric, proud, talkative, busybody and foolish naija woman who really don't care about her kids.

She is a good nanny liked by your kids but you are full of BULLCRAP about what her family will say about a nanny doing a good job.

She is not a criminal or ex-con so why would you be worried about what the neighbours or landlord association will say?

You are really foolish and If I was your husband na beating I go use reset your brain

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Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by cococandy(f): 6:23pm On Jan 06, 2020
busar:
too many crazy people on this forum
I thought I was the only one
Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by eROCK247(m): 6:26pm On Jan 06, 2020
iHart:
MIL- Mother in-law DIL - Daughter in-law

Thanks.

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Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by clemzo101(m): 6:28pm On Jan 06, 2020
PointZerom:
I see you creating big problem for your family.

No human is irreplaceable on this planet.
If you go ahead and accommodate this fellow you will regret it.


Just let her go and stop been emotional.
you have said it all. God bless you
Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by YoungBlackRico(m): 6:28pm On Jan 06, 2020
iHart:
MIL- Mother in-law DIL - Daughter in-law
Thanks, I was starting to crack my brain.

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Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by cococandy(f): 6:29pm On Jan 06, 2020
Sounds like a psycho to me.

All the demeaning talks .

Bla bla bla

Different Stories too
TobyeCole:
A girl that had close to 400 clothes eats 4 to 5.times.daily is a. Girl we treat abi. That's how psychos treat children


A girl that has never been used for any form of work nor sent to do any form. Of work in exchange for work is a. Maltreated child abi.


Does she not look cleaner than your kids. Would that have bee. Achieved if she was treated how you depicted. My neighbors have all seen your lies. Everyone around us will know of your deeds.






Just because we opened our home/family to you has turned us to psychos abi. People with status who don't want to see the poor girl. Did you tell them I picked her where the girls original. Mother threw her into the street where she was tattered couldn't talk. Washed her trained her mentored her. Trained her for a decade. Today the girl me picked on the street after a decade care doesn't fit our status abi



God will judge you.

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Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by TobyeCole: 6:35pm On Jan 06, 2020
cococandy:
Sounds like a psycho to me.

All the demeaning talks .

Bla bla bla

Different Stories too



Do you know the shock I'm under. Do you know the feeling?


Can't you see how fast you are to judge in an issue other readers empathised with and didn't judge the goodness I did out of my heart and opening my house family and home to someone we felt we trusted only for her to spin things around and say all these at our backs.



Do you know how it feels to be betrayed where you invested trust?



Madam do you know how it hurts seeing this thread with all its spin lies? Do you?
Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by TobyeCole: 6:39pm On Jan 06, 2020
mofedamijo:


I don't know who you're Sir, but i will beg, handle this issue with the highest maturity in you, if what you're saying is true, which i want to believe, don't let that woman make you look like a bad person in the said estate, be calm, state your facts, talk to her husband, nd if he is not matured enough, leave the matter to God, you raised the girl right until she went gaga, leave mama lekan, time, karma and God will be the final judge., Shalom.





God bless you sir. I thought taking care of the kid ( feeding 4 to 5 times daily), nothing to stress the kid was me handling her good treatment. After years her skin began to glow so much that different people who come across us want to take her, some even to overseas. And where even preparing her. Mind towards this before her rebellious character from no where made her too difficult to continue with her development.





Seeing that she glitters, albeit to a good extent character wise and her flawless skin produced pride, arrogance, uncontrollable attitude and outright rudeness and disregard for people. Seeing how overbearing it had become I asked the father to come take his kid since he wasn't tmat the lowest he was 10 years back and since the dad is not unemployed as before so wy does this woman obsess herself with this girl. I hope you can see why now



There are millions os Street kids like her she can bring into her home and train like her children if she was half as good as she projected herself. Why must it be this one...


I leave the case to God to judge. I told my neighbors they are all mad and are waiting for her

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Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by WeRblessed(f): 6:50pm On Jan 06, 2020
naijazee2:
I think is better she agrees with her hubby to go back to the village then you can go pick her from there if you genuinely loves her and want her back. Please be very sure you want her back. shocked shocked shocked

perfect point! kiss
Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by cococandy(f): 6:52pm On Jan 06, 2020
See as I dey look you

TobyeCole:

God bless you sir. I thought taking care of the kid ( feeding 4 to 5 times daily), nothing to stress the kid was me handling her good treatment. After years her skin began to glow so much that different people who come across us want to take her, some even to overseas. And where even preparing her. Mind towards this before her rebellious character from no where made her too difficult to continue with her development.

Seeing that she glitters, albeit to a good extent character wise and her flawless skin produced pride, arrogance, uncontrollable attitude and outright rudeness and disregard for people. Seeing how overbearing it had become I asked the father to come take his kid since he wasn't tmat the lowest he was 10 years back and since the dad is not unemployed as before so wy does this woman obsess herself with this girl. I hope you can see why now



There are millions os Street kids like her she can bring into her home and train like her children if she was half as good as she projected herself. Why must it be this one...


I leave the case to God to judge. I told my neighbors they are all mad and are waiting for her

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Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by DavidEsq(m): 6:52pm On Jan 06, 2020
D1zion:
God bless you abeg,look for the thunder make e kee am set.nonesence fool.
I thought I was the only one that saw his nonesence.
Calling a post "nonesence", when u can't even spell NONSENSE. Nonsense and ingredients!

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Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by Catchfirez: 7:04pm On Jan 06, 2020
TobyeCole:
A girl that had close to 400 clothes eats 4 to 5.times.daily is a. Girl we treat abi. That's how psychos treat children


A girl that has never been used for any form of work nor sent to do any form. Of work in exchange for work is a. Maltreated child abi.


Does she not look cleaner than your kids. Would that have bee. Achieved if she was treated how you depicted. My neighbors have all seen your lies. Everyone around us will know of your deeds.






Just because we opened our home/family to you has turned us to psychos abi. People with status who don't want to see the poor girl. Did you tell them I picked her where the girls original. Mother threw her into the street where she was tattered couldn't talk. Washed her trained her mentored her. Trained her for a decade. Today the girl me picked on the street after a decade care doesn't fit our status abi



God will judge you.

You are arrogant and stupid. You really act like psycho trully. Must you display your foolisnesd here.

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Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by lolaluv1(f): 7:06pm On Jan 06, 2020
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Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by Graxie(f): 7:11pm On Jan 06, 2020
TobyeCole:






God bless you sir. I thought taking care of the kid ( feeding 4 to 5 times daily), nothing to stress the kid was me handling her good treatment. After years her skin began to glow so much that different people who come across us want to take her, some even to overseas. And where even preparing her. Mind towards this before her rebellious character from no where made her too difficult to continue with her development.





Seeing that she glitters, albeit to a good extent character wise and her flawless skin produced pride, arrogance, uncontrollable attitude and outright rudeness and disregard for people. Seeing how overbearing it had become I asked the father to come take his kid since he wasn't tmat the lowest he was 10 years back and since the dad is not unemployed as before so wy does this woman obsess herself with this girl. I hope you can see why now



There are millions os Street kids like her she can bring into her home and train like her children if she was half as good as she projected herself. Why must it be this one...


I leave the case to God to judge. I told my neighbors they are all mad and are waiting for her
Is the girl your wife?

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Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by DavidEsq(m): 7:31pm On Jan 06, 2020
TobyeCole:






She spinned the identity to cover up identities. You should ask her if the girl. Is her nanny how come can the girl be her nanny and be someone else's gril. With someone else having control over the girl. Ask her o




If truly the girl she emphatically describes as her nnay is being sent away, how come.... How is her nanny sent away... Ask her o. I'm. Sure Nairalanders can see lies and are very intelligent people.
Guy ur story for make sense pass so, if only ur English correct. I don bite my tongue because of this your English, no be say I dey follow u speak am sef. Abeg no vex o, ur English teacher die ni?
wetin be "she spinned the identity to cover up identities"? Chineke nna.

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