₦airaland Forum

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

I refuse to believe you are in your 30’s

A man making 45k monthly needs no relationship.

You can’t depend on Nigerian girls! If you give her or not she will still join Tinder . Lekki men deh pay 30k for a night. U better keep d small Change for ur sef

kenzysmith:
Ighodo just wan cash out make him run go UK fools keep donating money for this guy

You’re wrong. We Yoruba’s are strongly behind him. He’s speaking for almost 80% of Nigerians home and abroad. He doesn’t even need our support even if he does we will still stand by him. A Yoruba man can will never be a slave to Hausa or Fulani man. Our culture, our tradition, our influence reject that

Kingkyle1:
I wouldn't call that a break up but subliminally we went apart.
6 months later, I got a message from her and she first used reverse psychology on me, accusing me of leaving her when she needed me the most. Someone I dated for 4.5 years got a leaning shoulder in less than 4months of being apart. Well now she's always in my dm proposing love and hoping we could get back. She said i was the best thing that happened to her.


Even though she is already in relationship with someone academically ahead of me, she can't wait to break up wishing i would just propose but I have kept my proposal to myself. I just told her I am happy for her and her man but she wouldn't hear. I pity the current boyfriend. Women shaa, always confused.

Maybe you are not financially stable yet! Woman just don’t break up for nothing. Don’t fall for her trick she’s keeping u aside cus of guilt

Beehshorp:
It should be Igbo presidency or nothing. Give an Igbo man this country and watch it turn to Dubai in 5 years

Watch while the cabal disagree on that! They don’t want change

Some People on Nairaland are mad!

You’re right.

I didn’t check Nairaland for almost 1 year. But, I was on social media. I see comment from both Yoruba’s and Igbo’s and even sometimes Hausa people supporting this. But,

I recently come on Nairaland and I see comments I think people on Nairaland are different. They are still having hateful mind and fight instead of coming together just as it always been 2008 when I signed up the tribal war is still same on Nairaland . I feel a lot of kids are on here than adult

Lowkey I feel the Nigerian government are behind this.

PrinceOfLagos:
All the southern state should do the same and let Buhari do his worst.

Buhari himself said it’s ok. So what else again?

Nigeria will still be Zoo nation then

If PDP get sense! They should give us a good candidate that we want so to win this election

Nothing will happen to him! People shouting why he left his comfort zone I no understand. He’s not a foolish man. He’s smart and he Kanu knows what he is doing .

They are making him famous and powerful! 48 laws of power. For 100 million he will set ehin own location for him to be arrested. Don’t ever play with an educated Igbo man. You are losing already

odysey:
You should care, they're coming south

We are waiting

Resurrection212:
Hope they concentrate their attack on north warning they mustn't cross border to south. Hope we hear good news soon .

They should stay up in north and kill all their Muslim brothers there. It’s a great news up in northern Nigeria . Who Cares

Yoruba Muslim are peaceful and they admire Hausa their mentor are Fulanis! This people treat Yoruba Muslim as second class . I will rather be oduduwa than kill my brother for religion from north

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With all the jobs weh them give Fashola e never finish ham una still give ham Twitter to look into. They want to kill Fashola with work in Abuja

Human beings will never learn from history! As long we keep using our heart not head.

Lilpen3758:
yes that's true I am born in march....lolss

So, there is nothing wrong with you. Most of your people are like that … that’s why it’s even more easier for me to guess your birthday

Lilpen3758:
My friends are steady bashing me about being anti-social that I don't watch football and I don't play football and I like being on my own too much which is true but the thing is that I enjoy being on my own is that weird??

You’re either a Pisces or Aries! Probably born in feb or March @lilpen3758

Nonexisting:
Something is fishy about this Buhari. Could it be that the real Buhari has surfaced?

I was thinking same too! This Buhari is real one

There is nothing called YAF in Ogun state! Never heard of them, they are not ours . The only YAF we have is Youth alive foundation

The more reason to prove that northerners think differently like cow! I don’t understand. That’s why I don’t even argue with ordinary northerns because you have nothing to gain

To be frank : I don’t understand why Nigeria problem should now be about party pdp, apc, they are the same people charging parties from PDP to APC same people same mindset. Yoruba Nation’s

So, anybody in Nigeria now still using twitter? Cus mine is still working perfectly

Nigeria is ready for Civil War !!! Igbo are not our problem, Yoruba are not my problem, Hausa ain`t . Fulani men are the problem in Nigeria. this happen when u have a foreigner as a president.

I remember so well, back when Igbo and Hausa work peacefully Together. But, This Fulani people ehen! Just wicked people speaking on behalf of Hausa don’t understand

Anybody around there who can confirm this fake news! I think Nigeria is mere illusion . Like the matrix. We believe everything easily,

ivolt:
A person who uses unlawful violence and intimidation for political purposes is a terrorist.
It is violence that defines terrorists.

Huh .... wonderful !

Can someone explain to me how IPob are terrorist ? I don’t understand. I don’t get

I’m sure in few years they will catch half a million of Yoruba Muslims and cut their penis and stone the women .

iampeterben:
Na only u be scammer nor cry

I’m Nigerian