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Cr7sBabe:
What does this have to do with my school

A dumb question. Very rhetorical

Shey na God dey bleep the toto abi
You be unilorite n you dey ask this question ?
I will report your ass to the vc

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undefeateds:
Mr Donstan thank u very much sir,i really appreciate sir, ve always read ur comment,and is like u are an expert in counselling people,u ve ease my mind so much,thank u sir.
And all of u forming serious boys,thank u,but i don't think it is too early to be in relationship as an undergraduate,so let's be real for once and stop painting others negative so as for us to look positive and besides this will be my first relationship if it works out,i haven't had any girlfriend in my entire life and i am not sex maniac,i just love this girl so much,and i want to give it a shot,i didn't say it is affecting my studies,so please...

I want to assure you that when you confront her about your feelings for her one on one, I am 99.99% certain she will say No to you. Nobody says you shouldnt have a girlfriend, but your education is primary n you should be enterprising while in school. Make more money while in school. Like flies dey follow poo, girls go dey follow you.
They're somehow genetically created to use reverse psychology on guys, what will prevent it if you use it on her too. In fact, that's the shortcut to win girls.
Girls dont need nice boy like you but, bad boys. What will stop you from being a good-bad boy.

[/b]Logical things are boring and senseless to ladies.[b]

This made my day. Can't laugh again
Indians and foolishness like 1&2

Imagine, S.J is the new Sug.
My cousin, just be zealous with your studies
I wasn't expecting less from you. You far more intelligent than your age
I am proud of you even though, I dislike politics.

I salute you o, you still dey swim inside friend zone lol
Guy, make God dash you brain. Leave that girl alone jare.
Are you jobless, face your book n stop facing girls. Please, go to where you're celebrated not tolerated. Ignore that girl as if she get ebola.
Stop your sly chat, stop saving sit for that useless Lady. She doesn't deserve you.
Next time, don't save any sit for that Lady. Make friends with other ladies and safe sit for other ladies. If she ask you, tell her another lady dey sit there. Just bone her, no look her side, frown your face too. God punish devil.
If she no dey ur school, you no go live ur life?

[/b]To win a woman you must be ready to lose her.[b]

Send me a pm. There's an articles that can help you grow your balls and win ladies. It's free

Hardlife:
i deserve all the insults on earth i know but i want to quit. I need help. I need recovery processes. I am tired and frustrated. The deed has already been done. I want to get my life back.

I am encourage by your response. You're sincere, you recognised you short comings yet you accepted responsibility for your bad choice. Hope isnt lost, you can improve and be better. You remind mE of two stories in the holy scripture. The example of Peter who denied jesus 3 times and the prodigal son. Both stories are typical examples of human beings, however the similarity btw both was that they were remorseful n made effort to repent/change

Tips;

1. You need to speak to a mature older person or a counselor about your pains and troubles.

2. You need a great deal of self Discipline. You condition yourself to say No to things you don't want to do. You stand by that No. Remember if you give in into gambling, you will become a slave to it. It will be controlling you instead of you taking charge and controlling it. Let your know be No. Learn to be in charge. It may not be easy but, keep pushing and don't give up.
To be a master over fear, you must face the fear courageously, conquer it and gain freedom.

3. If you're xtian/Muslim, you preoccupied yourself with religious activities.

4. You need to change or limit the cycle of friends you keep. Friends who will tempt you into joining them to gambling, change or reduce your friendship with them.

5. If you're jobless or unemployed, you need to stay busy and occupied. Find something to do, if you don't mind, learn a trade or a skill depending on your area of interest. Learn a skill that will add value to your life.
6. If you have money give someone you trust and reliable to keep or save in his account mayb your siblings till you're able to gain control over you life.

7. You need to pray, persevere in prayer. I am not saying you must turn into a prayer warrior. Just pray to God to help you define and get control over your life.

8. Read motivatonal books like those for entrepreneurs- such as the richest man in babylon, rich dad, poor daddy, your holy book or bible etc.

GodsOwnFav:
You are so dumb. someone in his teens got into gambling and gradually became addicted and now crying out for help and all your dumb ass has is to judge him. If you don't have anything positive to say then shut the fvck up!

I see you're guilty too. I can see you're pained too.
Unfortunately can't feel pity for those that deliberately chose bad choice to make money they can't earn. I have friends into bet, some have sold their properties because they wanna become rich over night. Two went into armed robbery bcause they chose the shot route. Have they madE the millions ?
I tell you bro, for where. They're singing and dancing something
Iike azonto in prison.

When I warned them, I was the bad friend. I was insulted, mocked, taunted but I remained courageous, strong, never afraid to tell the truth.

The op was not born to be a gambler, he chose it and he will enjoy the pain alone.
No amount of advice here can't restored his financial, quality time wasted.
Nothing can be said here, will make me remorseful.

Hardwork pays not gambling
Contentment is a source of happiness not gambling

The love of money is the root of evil by reaching for it, many have pierced themselves all over with many pains or sorrow - 1Timothy 6:10

[quote author=Nedic post=69182860]nawao..... have sympathy kwanu
everybody has a skeleton in their cupboards oh.[/quote

Bet had become a cankerworm in the life's of people today. Many don't have goals, no sense of direction no achievement,and in short, no plans, but placed their almighty hope in gambling. I can't seems to fathom any meaningful sense in it. They had in fact become tearaway themselves.
The government have failed the society yet, the utmost solution by, especially the young men is is gambling.

It's alarming how many young men are wasting their dear life, resources and time on gambling. You want to earn what you didn't work for. You're a fraud.
Thousands of young men play bets, how many have become millionaires- red flag
I can never pity someone like you. What you planted, you're ripping!

You need rehab

youcanmakeit:
Baba, you dey vex o

We are human, nobody is above mistake. Even God once regretted creating man.

I never say we aren't humans and above mistake or i am a superhuman. People use this imperfection as a levity to deliberately make mistake. It's either u choose abstinence which is the best choice or you protect yourself. We should be ready to accept responsibility for our bad decisions, not using imperfection
The op said he spent on the girl yet he can't spend on himself. He cant spend to protect himself Or meant he spent to chop the nunu. Unfortunately, nothing is free in free town.

That guy doesn't value his own liife because of 10-30 minutes enjoyment that never quench satisfaction, only to ruin is entire life.

May God help him overcome is present challenge

"if you haven't been in the dark, how can you appreciate light?"

BlueShine:
Yeah, when she told me I didn't really feel scared cause I know it was the first time we are having sex but what's making me go crazy right now is I can't even buy the prep drug, so scared right now. I don't know why some people are heartless. I did everything I could to make this girl happy and see what she paid me with back in return. Not like I was stupid not to use condom but I trusted her so much I already saw her like my life. And now my life is coming to ruins in my very eyes, I can't even sleep anymore

You're very stupid. because of konji you trusted someone. Is this a joke?
If you can trust her, you should be be able to trust yourself you can't have hiv.
Just visit government hospital for help.


Something must kill a man, konji is not an exception.

As you lay your bed, so you lie on it!

PresidentAtiku:
EPPPPPPP ME!!!

Laugh don kill me die

[quote author=Uglymugg post=69001456]iLegend, how far

Guys should go to where u're celebrated not tolerated

The first mistake you made was professing ur love to a girl. Girls are like money, when you chase them they run. You can still have her provided you do this.
Forget the fact you're in the same department or is she the only female in your department?

[/b]The way upwards is the way downwards. The way backwards is the way forwards[b]

1. The first is sendless attitude: don't give her attention like you used to do. Form you're busy, you don't have her time again. Let her miss you bro, if you see her, greet her but try not to have conversation or lengthen discussion with her. Please, stop calling her and no text messages. I know it's not easy but it must be done. Stop running errans, your not an errand boy. If she ask you to do this, tell her you dont have time, you have something else to do. Let her miss you.

2. The second step is jealousy techniques: Having stopped 95% interaction with her, start talking and befriending other girls in your department. Joke with them, laugh with them, do as if you don't notice her. Most times let her see you interacting with them. She begins to feel lonely, miss you and realized she was wrong not to accept you.
Ladies enemies her other ladies, this will make her jealous, she will begin to get closer.

I have stopped chasing girls. I am the prize, they re the one doing the chasing, trying to please me. Girls like someone that can control them.
Stop spending on a girl, stop it


Besides there's an articles on nairaland. The best articles I have ever read on nairaland. If you have access to this I bet you, though shall not have problem with ladies. You may begin to change ladies like tissue paper provided you read, understand and apply.

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ololo12:
@Hardon
I want to commend you for the work you’re doing on here. I’ve been a silent reader of your thread for a year and half. Without further much ado, I’ll go straight to the point. So, I met this girl from the Uk online about 8 months ago, we got to chatting, got to know each other, really bonded, and fell in love with each other. Now, the problem is, she sends mixed feelings. Sometimes, when we chat she’s all lovey dovey, calling me sweet names, and the next moment, she’s cold calls me by name, and wouldn’t initiate a chat until I do so. I really like this girl a lot. But I feel she knows it, and trying to take it for granted. What do you propose I do? Let go of her? Or I should give her some space. I’d like your input. Thanks very much for your time

Give her some space. Stop chatting with her or no calls. Since she knows you're into her she's using it as weapon against u by making u beg, or to initiate chats.

Ignore her, you're losing your balls already because you're in love. You need to get your priorities right. You're the prize not her. Stop initiating chats. Let her be unless she's ready to make the move. You're not a toy or puppets that can be easily sway or controlled, but a real man.

[b]The key is sendless attitude. Let her miss you, she will come initiating chats.

At times you can display picture of a friend a girl (pretty girl). She will feel threaten (jealous )
If she's into you, she will realized she's replaceable and she will wants to chat you up


Sendless attitude is the key, don't let any girl hold and pull your balls.

HARDDON:
SENSE PILL

1. In relationship, one source of income might just be enough. However, never buy that idea in marriage.... Invest long term.
* it is better to starve when rich through investment than to eat and be merry with an unplanned wealth.
* a man with only one source of income is a very poor man. Second only to a rich man who only cares about his immediate fam

2. man know thy girlfriend before you walk her down the aisle . Spring crazy, unanimous tests if you have to. tow the lane: only the rich can afford to be poor if necessary. Never marry a stranger with huge b00bs and slay b00ties

3. Take at least 6 months to one year to court. Courtship is no time for s3x, fun and more s3x. It is a sober reflection time. A due diligence time.

4. A lady's true colour is in her unspoken/body language and it is your duty to read those words she emits in silence.

5. Boss and Hubby to a beau are two opposite sides of the coin. the tides are quickly flipped. Protect your investment always.

6. Only a fool bond blindly.

7. Dead is the man who does not lay down core rules before embarking on the marriage ship. You cant learn core things on the job

The great harddon, you're sighted o

This is fucking, fucking hilarious

henryleecom:
hello everyone, gat to say fantastic job u guys get going here. would really love an intake on this situation:

Today i went to a canteen at my work place to eat though i was low on cash, so i had to order half plate of rice then i sat waiting for my food, the waiter finally brought the food which was a full plate of rice so i called her attention to it to avoid any embarrassment after eating.

To my surprise while she was trying to change d plate a lady in the same canteen then told the waiter to return the food that she'd pay for the food, so i went over to her table and asked why she was paying which she didn't give me a straight answer to so i told her thank you and went to eat.

After eating i tried talking to her, asking what her name was and she was like she didn't pay for my food cause she wanted me to ask for her name then she paid and started rushing out, tried stopping her but she didn't oblige & am not d type to run after a lady so i let her go (all these while she never really gave me a eye contact, just focused on her phone).

thanks for d timely reply

cc harddon

For me I don't think it's necessary asking why she paid for your meal. To me, it looks rhetorical though, many don't see any ish asking such especially in this part of the country.

If she wants you she will still come for you. Besides, she might still come to thE canteen another day and conversation may ensue from there. As you said, she was glued to her phone, that doesn’t mean she's interested or not interested. She may have other concern or worries or tasks to achieve that day. She may even like you but using sendless attitude ( been busy with phone) to send shiver on your body.
Next time you see her, you may greet her and thank her for the other day. Go back to your table and give a sendless attitude. She mayb the first to initiate a conversation with you

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