nonsojaggs: A 22 years old girl, Ifeoma Evelyn Emmanuel, demands for compensation from Atiku Abubakar for surviving the 2002 Ikeja Cantonment bomb blast which claimed over 600 Nigerians.
She called on the public to help her get Atiku Abubakar’s attention as she deserves some compensation. Ms Ifeoma wrote;
“Please Atiku help us this is a video clip of the news paper of the incident that happend at ikeja cantonment bombblast Jan 27 2002. I was a survivor at the canal where people drowned including my brother. I was the only baby who survived, we need to be compensated.”
All the surviving families of Boko Haram never demand compensation na bomb when dis idiot survive 18yrs ago e dey find compensation. Nor go hustle for your daily bread. ODE.
Put yourself in your friend's shoes. If your girl was cheating on you would/wouldn't you want your friend to tell you instead of allowing you walk into a deceitful marriage. Ask yourself that question.
Wait o. How this one come take be news Is this her first time going to club abi is it her first time going with her husband abi na you she suppose carry. Na wa oo
Make this freeze guy rest him case joor... tickets dey for as low as 2k. Who wan pay 5m for table na their choice na. How many of these comedians when dey sell table for 10m e don criticize abi na becos say she be Christian.
NAIRALANDERS!HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU ALL. THE LADY IN QUESTION WE LIVED ON THE SAME STREET BEFORE,COINCIDENTALLY WE ATTENDED THE SAME HIGHER INSTITUTION,WE ARE TOO CLOSE,SHE INTRODUCE HER FIANCE TO ME ON THE PHONE,I SPOKE TO THE GUY ONCE ON THE PHONE,LAST YEAR THEY BROKE UP,SHE TOLD ME THAT THEY HAVE BROKEN THE RELATIONSHIP,THAT THE GUY IS TOO HARSE AND TEMPRAMENTAL,AND ALWAYS JEALOUS OF HER MALE FRIENDS.EVER SINCE I MET THIS LADY I HAD FALLEN IN LOVE WITH HER BUT because OF OUR CLOSENESS I COULDN'T WOOED HER.PLS NAIRALANDERS HOW DO I GO ABOUT IT.WHAT WILL I TELL HER PLS.
Mr lover boy, one thing I've learnt in life concerning women is that they are attracted to confident people and can detect if a guy is/isn't confident a mile away
So,I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for over three years now (since my year1 in school) and I just found out she was cheating with me with our caretaker.. He(the caretaker) and my girlfriend are of same tribe, I guess they kinda blend. Am older than the guy he is 23 and am 24.
My girlfriend and I are currently roommate in year 3). We moved in together late October last year. She also cheating on me with another dude from her town where she resides. Before our academic break (22 Dec 2019) she frequent our caretakers room too often,I try tell her to stop that am not comfortable with it, of which she shrug off saying she is only being friends with him because the speak same dialet,and we all live in the same compound. She would stay late at his room,I had to tell her(sternly) not to visit his room again and she agreed. But she still visit him.
When we return from our academic break,she started to visit him again. She stayed late again with our caretaker Just outside our room and I asked her nicely to to get inside because it's late and she entered and bid caretaker goodnight. She got the bed after taking her bath,and we got talking I told her not to stay out past 9pm. She got angry saying I simply don't like him that and I hate seeing him with her,she started crying. I had to apologize. But she said she won't forgive me because I hurt her. The next day she refused to talk to me before going to class. When we got home later that day,we just found ourselves Talking . A mutual friend (female)of our visited, we were eating and my eyes just got a glimpse of her WhatsApp message telling our caretaker that I almost attack her yesterday because I saw them together. I didn't react then,I had to keep my cool. Later that day I told my friend what I just saw (my girlfriend message to our caretaker) she said I should ignore,but anger got the best of me.i was angry because she told him I nearly attacked her.
When we got home,I asked her for her phone which she gave me reluctantly,I went through her WhatsApp messages with the guy. And I found out she do tell the guy our personal things ( including when I told her not to visit him) she shouldn't tell anyone. She must have told the guy am controlling her because he asked if am still controling her that I have no shame for trying to attack her the previous day. I went further into their chat and I saw where he told the boy that she missed her period and the boy told her they would do pregnancy test.
I know she might have told a very good friend of her about the guy,so I went to their chat. She told her friend about the guy and she told her she lived him and they had sex already.but her friend told her not to destroy her relationship for just a crush or is she willing to leave me for the boy,she said NO.
I had to check if she still cheating on me with others guys. I got to a chat and my suspicion was right. She was telling this guy she was pregnant and this dude was ignoring he messages and chats. She later went on saying is is because she was forcing herself on him.
She had sex with this dude 25 December,had sex with caretaker 27december. After I must have read all chats,I went home and confronted her she denied at first I later told her i read her chats and she started crying saying it was a mistake that it won't happen again ,that she was drunk when the second guy had sex with her and having sex with our caretaker was a mistake. I called her mother and told her what has happened she was disappointed in her but she also begged me to forgive her. I keep wondering where I got it all wrong and asked her but she said i have been nothing but faithful that she can't explain something what came over her. I have been good to the caretaker I painted his room for Free. He do call me "BRO" when addressing me
To cut the story short. I told her I have forgiven her,but deep down,I haven't..
I don't know what to do.. Please help...
NOTE I have Never cheated on her. I believe in equality in relationship. I don't control her. I never Never check her phone all through our relationship. I guess that's why she didn't had to delete her chats.
Kindly ignore my grammatical errors
Bro, create a standard for yourself and have the discipline to stick to it. if i were you i would forgive her and breakup with her. if a woman or anybody at all does something to hurt you delibrately they really should be deserving of that friendship/relationship. thats my take on this matter.
My dear, all the people God called in the scriptures he communicated directly with them and when he calls a man he proves himself with signs. Try having one on one relationship with your heavenly father please.