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hassymo5:
how can i start a topic on the front page of NL,JUST like the one i reply now.

Just open your topic, if substancial it will be move to front page.

Liverpool 4 Aston Villa 0

Gerrald again

[quote author=agabaI23 link=topic=249996.msg3628703#msg3628703 date=123
I doubt if the Villa side will be correct
[quote][/quote]villa will come back with 2 goals as predicted but it might end 4-2

Liverpool 3 Aston Villa 0

Gerrard score d penalty

Liverpool 2 Aston Villa 0

Reira

[quote author=too_soon link=topic=249996.msg3627968#msg3627968 date=1237716669]I will favour both teams scoring two apiece.
Liverpool 2 Aston Villa 2, take it or leave it.

Goal Scorers
Villa
Barry and Heskey
L,pool
Kuyt and Gerrard[/quote]L'pool 1 vs Villa 0
kuyt scores

I will favour both teams scoring two apiece.
Liverpool 2 Aston Villa 2, take it or leave it.

Goal Scorers
Villa
Barry and Heskey
L,pool
Kuyt and Gerrard

rasputinn:

All the predictions against the Arsenal for yesterday's game against Newcastle all failed WOEFULLY as the GUNNERS CRUSHED Newcastle emphatically by scoring 3 goals to newcastle's miserable lucky lone goal

Arsenal will soon occupy the 3rd position and leave Chelski and Aston Villa to fight for the fourth spot

tayoccu spot on 1-3 in favour of Arsenal.

Quote from: tayoccu on March 19, 2009, 10:00 AM
Arsenal Wins this one 1-3.

we're on the move b'lose& livepool watch out.

normally custom clearance sales are usually cheap not only in Nigeria, i bought one car through Lagos custom half the market price, what made me pay was that i was able to see the car i am paying for and the advert on custom newsletter.

Wonders shall neva end!!! what are they going to discuss about nairaland? Is it Auto,Romance,Entertainment,Music/Radio Section? we are waiting oh,

@poster

just take heart!!!

epi:
Why would a man risk his health, his marriage and his reputation for a little nookie (pussy) on the side and blame it on booze. Like I say “Tom drunk but Tom’s no fool”

God I yearn for the day when I can read something like this from the women on this forum “My husband will never cheat because he is too fine and decent” instead of making idiotic excuses like “I love him, it’s the first time he cheated, I know he loves me, he said he’s sorry. . . . and the list goes on. It’s like their husbands cheat and they don’t seem to mind or even care.

Then you have some good-for-nothing men on here cheering the lady telling her “yea, give him another chance, you are a wonderful lady because you forgive your husband, tell him next time use a condom” . . . oh spare me with your pretentious ramblings.

And just when you think you have heard it all, here comes the “preachers” quoting scriptures to justify cheating husbands.

Now let's turn the table for a moment. . .

*turning the table* - I wonder what the reactions would’ve been if it was the woman who got drunk, had sex with a stranger and gave her husband Chlamydia

Must admit that davidyland, gamechange and Justgood responses were honest

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open your own trend on this topic (MY WIFE CHEATED ON ME) and you will definately get our opinions!!!

hurtin:
I didn't mind waiting to start a family.
I'm only 28!
As long as I have 1 - 2 children before I'm 35, I'll be very happy.

and your husband will equally be happy too, I wish you happy marriage life!!!No weapon Fashion against you shall prosper!!!Can i hear you say !!!Amen!!!

hurtin:
No I was on the pill.
Now I'm not.

good, that is the solution to a successful marriage, Stop using pills and start having babies.

Thank You

hurtin:
We've Not Had Children yet, as we've not had the money to raise a child. we seem to spend a lot of our hard earn money on family in Nigeria.
And have only just started to try for a family now.

Do you mean you guys have being avoiding pregnancy by protecting yourself when having sex?  how the hell did you contact Chlamydia?

And have only just started to try for a family now.
so now you guys are having sex without condom?

@poster
Take your case to CHEATERS for more video evidence before crucifying him just joking!!! If i may ask why the hell have you not have kids for him for 6yrs now, maybe that is one secret you did not want to share with us? Maybe you lie to him and now he has found out that you cannot have a baby for him, I beleive there is always a reason before a Man start cheating on their spouse.

so please clear this doubt of mine before i proceed with my advice!!!

[quote author=St.Funmi link=topic=237970.msg3505644#msg3505644 date=1235418182]Any of you care to know the reason why this woman is running from a yoruba maid?. If she has a good intention for the maid, why is she running from one that can easily be traced to her?[/quote]maybe she wants her daughters to learn different types of language!!!lol

It have nothing to do with the football clubs, who do they expert to see in Nigeria Supporters' club i.e Bankers or Engineers, ? na wah for una!!!

Redman44:
I don't believe i'm an hypocrite if I refuse to hire house helps. Though I grew up with them being around me, as soon as I clocked 9 years, I started doing things myself. I refused to let the house helps wash my clothes or do other things for me. Today, I'm better for it. The truth is some people today do not have a good work ethic because they depended on house helps to do things for them in their formative years.

The solution to the house help menace in Nigeria is for industrious individuals, to open up Agencies that will supply ' busy' couples and families with trained and vetted househelps who will not neccessarily live with their employers. They will be paid weekly or monthly through these Agencies. House helps have caused a lot of damage to Nigerian families in the past. Some brought in Armed Robbers, some stole their employer's property, others came with spiritual problems etc etc

As for me, I believe couples should create the time to do their chores. And when the wife is pregnant, her sister or other family members can come and help out. Cheers.

When she is pregnant you should keep on doing the job, You do not need a temporary house help!!! Also when you turn 70 you will need to watch your cloths yourself too, Macho Man lol

[quote author=*Hauwa* link=topic=237970.msg3503697#msg3503697 date=1235395419]my parents worked all the time. saturday and sunday my mom does all the cookings, when the soup is out, even at night, she still fixed something for the next day. if no light, we warm the soup. if the soup is sour, she made another soup. sometime she got up early in the morning. as we grew, we helped out.

one thing i saw was that some of the women using house help don't work. they spent the day visiting friends and gossiping. while omo odo roamed around shopping only to come back home for beating.[/quote]If your daddy comes back early he goes to pot, warm the soup and make garri for himself. I bet, your mum will be coming home late daily.

[/quote]When he got married my mom got another house girl she was about 16 or 17 yrs old, as soon as they employed her ,my family started having various problems and then she confessed one day in the church that she is a witch and the caused of most of our problems they sent her packing.
[quote]

Please spare me with this church say na witch, why your church no comot the witch for her body. This home video way some people dey watch don turn their head, so the new one will restore wealth in your family. you better keep quiet before i slap u now.

Siena:
I wouldn't opt for any.

Oddly enough, everyone's up in arms about houseboys / housegirls.
In Europe, and The Americas, house helps are just as common, just the name's different.

House maids.
Scullery maids.
Chamber maids.
Valets.
Butlers
Major-domos.
Cooks.

Of course, their working conditions are generally better than those in Africa, and in most cases, their employment is contractual.
Some house maids in the UK are also as young as 14 / 16, in the country, those in the larger cities may be older, it's not uncommon to see butlers and chambermaids as old as 60, and have been in service to the same family for over a generation.

So yes, I'm against young children being exploited for cheap labour, and discarded once they attain puberty.
But, I'm not against house helps in general, as long as the said house help are treated decently, and are paid a fair wage.

House helps have been around for centuries, as far back as biblical times, and are here to stay.

DeltaVAG^TM

good point!!!

aduje:
Diverse opinions on this topic, very controversal opinions indeed. I think I should tell fellow nairalanders what is working for me. I have too domestic assistants; ( a male and a female). The male was seconded from a janitory/cleaning company just like you find in the banking halls. This guy wears uniform, resume at 6.30am and closes at 5.00pm. He handles all the cleaning and washing in and around the house weekdays only (the pay is not much and is directly to the company). The female is a retired nurse and a widow, she works only on weekends. Myself and my wife including our kids are enjoying their services. The truth is that domestic assistants should not be left to do all the works. The wife too should do some chores, the husband do some as well. The kids as they grow up should be tought some domestic jobs. for example. during the week my wife do all the cooking (especially dinner), while I take the kids on home works from school. The female domestic staff do all the washing and other cleaning at weekends. i.e. 4 days a month (the pay is not much as well). Sunday is a free day for all of us. I like to discourage the idea of hiring under-aged girls and boys and enslave them as domestic staff.

what happens if your kids are on holiday? you will pay extra bills for the female domestic staff to baby sit ur kids during her off days or maybe you will take excuse from work? My friend you are not discouraging house help either because you have two, you are only avoiding them staying in your home, and pls stick to the topic it says House Boy or House Girl and not under age house girl or house boy,

[quote author=St.Funmi link=topic=237970.msg3502110#msg3502110 date=1235374842]Even when they have teenage kids  at home?. Why do you need a maid to wash and cook for you when you have children her age that can do the same?[/quote]what if the kids are less than 4yrs, will you ask them to wash dish and cook for you? or what if those teenage kids are in boarding school?, don't bother i know your answer, I will drop my house spare key with my gateman to wash for me then i will send a pack of mr biggs delicious food to hobby at work while i eat manage mama put food, for dinner, i will engage my hobby with office gist until he fell asleep . comon Broaden your thinking.

All working class married women need a house help but should not be treated like a slave!!! end of story

@Seller

try contact Driving Schools and you will definitely get a deal in Lagos.

can someone provide a link where i can watch this film online please?

nuzo:
U no wan go siddon for one corner mr grammar, fake nigerian like you.

On a more serious note, the whole of lagos would have heard us had i known they were security operatives of any kind. I returned there that evening and the next morning to confront them only to meet another set of robbers.

U no know me ooo.

You could have confront and over power them, so that they will provide the ones that robbed you how are we sure they even collected N1,000 from you, maybe his 100 naira sef