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Are these people insane?
Have we run out of our own cows?
Do they know how many diseases they are bringing in?
IN fact, I give up
I feel they are just spending money unnecessarily

They are higher breed cows according to them but i still think there is some money laundering involved in this deal. EFCC will make these guys import oyibo shit one day in the name of improved manure.

You're yet to make up your mind. If the drama is too much for u then leave him.

Are you gonna divorce your husband just because of his baby mama drama especially when you don't have any proof that they are okaforing each other?

I will not date my man who is a single dad if baby mother is ALIVE or REMARRIED TO SOMEONE ELSE be closer around him. . .too much annoying headache-drama between my man and baby mama!

I rather be with my man is single dad if baby mother is DEAD or DEATH ROW PRISON, no problem!!!!

lmao; remarried can still divorce, cheat or the one in death row may still come out of it at the middle of your relationship.

some of u ladies need to get off the horses you're riding. whatever happened to humility

Are men banned from practising humility?

Why doesn't he pick the child up to spend time at his house?

You are still far from a solution. Your baby mama calling you every week when it's not your visitation time and claiming whatever about your child just to bring you over will not stop because you spend lots of time with the child. It's not easy but I think that men are cashing in on that advantage to apply Okafors law.

Kwara to import 800 cows from South Africa
Yekini Jimoh, Ilorin
Friday, April 25, 2008
ABOUT 800 cows are to be imported by the Kwara State government from South African breed of Jersey diary animals to serve the Shonga Diary Factory, which will commence operations soon.








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The Commissioner for Agriculture and Rural Development, Professor The Great Prophet Gana, dropped the hint while briefing newsmen in his office.


According to him, the improved breed of cows, which would be airlifted from South Africa, would arrive in the state today at the Ilorin International Airport in batches.


He added that the cows, said to be much efficient in milk production, would be brought in batches of 80 cows per trip for onward movement to the diary processing plant site at Shonga, in Edu Local Government Area of the state.

http://odili.net/news/source/2008/apr/25/603.html

He has every right to go see his baby n his baby mama anytime, any day. If I was the one I won't even need to lie about my baby being sick

There are visitation days normally fixed by both parents or the court. You can't call a woman at night and tell her that her husband needs to visit his daughter that night. The funny thing about it is that some men sleep over in their baby mamas house only to tell their wives in the morning that they were singing lullaby for the child and fell asleep.

Tell him to get custody of the child since it is so obvious that she can't care for the kid on her own. Once the kid is with him, restrict her visiting rights.

You don't get custody by just telling the judge that she can't take care of the baby. You have the burden of proof and distress calls is surely not one of them.

I won't even be with him in the first place if he has a baby mamma

You never can tell; may be he has the baby mama when he was 16. It's like a man saying that he can't be with a woman because she has a baby. What if your man lied to you, married you and you later discovered that he has a baby? What if another woman knocks on your door and dumps a 6 month old baby belonging to your husband when you've been married to him for over 10 years with three kids to show for it?

Hehehe, that's why you should never show too much affection, keep him on his toes

I think so too.

Your man has a baby mama and she has the habit of inviting him over using their child being sick or something as an excuse. Even though he assures you that nothing is going on but you wanna make sure Okafor's law will not apply, how can you effectively stop that trend without making him think you don't love his child with the other woman?

Why is it that if you show a man that you love him too much, he'll always take advantage of that and tend to use you? Is it not advisable for women to control their emotions more and show him an average sensible love? Most men only act that way when they want to get some, else, they control this love thing way better than women.
I've seen smart and professional women complain over and over again how a man used them just because their emotions beclouded their judgement.

Is it advisable to show a man that you love him to death?

Guys: Why do you ususally change to a fox anytime a woman is head over heels in love  with you?

i think the problem is that many parents want there children to be "civilised"according to them and they therefore force their children to speak english language only.there is need for us as indegenious people to encourage our children to speak our mother tongue because it is part of our culture,grammer is not!

That is the new trend in Nigeria now, handed down to the rest of the west by lagosians. I just can't understand how a parent can deny his/her child an opportunity to learn something. I have three uncles from both sides that raised their kids that way and all their children(14 in total) can hardly understand yoruba how much less speaking it besides, when you speak it to them, they act like you are speaking aramaric or urdu.

What about all these butter wannabe yoruba girls here in the US that pretend like yoruba is chinese whenever you speak to them even though they grew up in Nigeria(west)? I can understand yorubas that grew up in the east, north, even lagos etc not speaking yoruba well but how can you grow up in Ibadan and claim to me that you cannot speak or understand yoruba even if your parents never taught you? Bold faced lie.


To those Yoruba Girls In the States: Yoruba language does not take away your ajebutter. Stop claiming please because it's the most stupid thing i've seen before. I just don't understand how you girls remember that you are yoruba anytime you really need a husband too bad and the outsiders wouldn't marry you. We'll appreciate it if you hook up with them and marry them. In case you are hoping on ibo men, they don't like ajebutters either.

says who?
who practised it before them?

Because people were not lettered in the dark continent of Africa then does not mean that things never happened there. If I claim that river Niger which was supposedly discovered by Mungo Park has been in Africa long before Mungo Park was born, are you also gonna argue that?

does the fact that indigenous words and/or phrases existed describing such people or relations not suggest that indeed these practices existed before contact with the whites and arabs?

Homosexuality has been in Africa before Sodom and Gomorrah.

lol homosexuality isn't foreign to africans, there are yan daudu's in nothern nigeria. king mwanga of buganda was bisexual.

“Many stories credit Africa with producing the Amazons. Beginning in the 18th century and continuing throughout the 19th century, there was an all woman army maintained by the King of Dahomey (West Africa).

There are at least 33 different cultures in Africa (From the Yoruba in Northern Nigeria and the Barenda of the Northern Transvaal, to the Kamba of East Africa) where marriages between women are recognized. Academics are quick to deny that lesbianism has any role in such arrangements despite considerable evidence to the contrary.

One study on homosexuality in Africa indicates that of 78 cultures, with little contact with Western values, 49 approved of or at least tolerated homosexuality. This may indicate that homophobia (NOT homosexuality) is a Western colonial import.”

Out in the World: Gay and Lesbian Life From Buenos Aires to Bangkok by Neil Miller:

“We can blame the white man for many things, but men have been doing this with each other for a long, long time, The Watusi still have a reputation for bisexuality in the cities of East Africa, Zande women risked execution by pleasuring each other, sometimes with phalluses fashioned from roots, In this part of Zaire, homosexuality had a mystical element to it, Bisexuality is also quite common among the Bajun tribes of east Africa.”

Thank you for this wonderful information.

Can any of you name one advantage of the foreign religions we adopetd in Africa over our indiginous religions. Ex: What did we gain by adopting a Jewish god or the Arabian prophet that we wouldn't gain in traditional african religions?

I don't go about advocating a notion I can't validate with evidence. produce Evidence and make your point Valid. The burden of Proof is on you not me. You speculated but you couldnt provide evidence.

Can you provide evidence that Africans actually sold their brothers to white people during slavery and not the so called white people kidnapping them?

why are they clear cut? I can work around and say long before the missionaries came Yoruba's practiced christianity. The only reason I can't say that is because no evidence supports such a claim. same is your claim with homosexuality in Africa, no evidence suggested that it existed before the computer era, colonization and neocolonization era.

You may start by exhuming our ancestors and inspecting their pelvic bones.

with no proof or name your stated pointed is nothing more than useless.

Okay-oh. You are seriously asking me the name like you need it for something else besides making valid points.

Homosexuality is one of the deeds of so called civilisation.
Name one club.

You think I walk around carrying the names offhand? The truth is that there has been homosexual groups in lagos before Awolowo and Azikiwe were born.

Same thing with Christianity, Africans just woke up and started practising it.

Christianity and Islam are clear cut religions that infilterated into Africa and can easily be proven. I can understand that dress culture, food, some lifestyles were influenced by the west but trust me, homosexuality has been there before the white missionaries came to africa.

You can always tell a guy that is from Niger from Hausas/ fulanis who are sent to koranic schools and as a result become almajiris.

Not all of them. A lot of things happen in the north. Can you remember when there was a report about Niger and Chad citizens that receive salary from ministries in Sokoto and Borno states as workers(ghost ones at that)?.

I get the feeling you are lying just to prove a point. Find me someone in Nigeria willing to admit he or she was gay/lesbian before the internet era and the infultration of western shows into the African media, then I will second guess myself

How many homosexuals accept being one till this day in the so called west? How much less Nigeria where people have a lot of religious sentiments. What am saying is that homosexuality did not infilterate into Nigeria/Africa from the west, id did not even infilterate into southern Nigeria from the northern part. It's an inherent evil in some of us. Do you know that homosexual clubs and fraternities in lagos are over 30 years old?

The North has a teeming populace of illiterate kids. Even if the worldwide figure is a 115m,we are still pushing close to 10%

True; but you cannot poll the northern figure like that because they have lots of normads and almajiris from Niger republic and Chad that troll there.

80million illiterate kids world wide divided by 11million illiterate kids in Nigeria.

7% of the world illiterate children are in Nigeria?


Hmmmmmmmmmmmm! Why am I not surprised?

11M out of 80 million is not 7%, it's 13.75%.

may be the free press.

there is this natural tendency that's in everyone: if u stay too long with someone, u tend to start developing feelings for that person. that's why we have people commiting incest. so in your school, may be the gals were not given enough access to guys within or ouside the school, so in that case (body no be firewood naaaaaaaaaa) theses gals, from teasing themselves, tend to develop advance feelins for each other and may even climax together

In order words you are suggesting that if you find yourself in a situation like jail, you'll turn gay?

that's why the internet and free press are there

There was no internet when i was in secondary school in Nigeria and our dormitory was filled with lesbians. How about that?

that's the idea

Even the secondary school kids that do it learnt it from oyibo,abi?

being a homosexual is not african.

Does it mean that those gay Africans learnt the culture from the west?

May God have mercy on both gays and lesbians,they need prayers because they know not what they do

All sins are the same before God. God sees a liar, fornicator,lesbian,thief, cheater etc as the same.

both lesbians and gays are not part our african traditon nd as such its a crime

African tradition? South Africa accepts gay marriage, are they not African? In Nigeria, there are many gay people especially in the North and some have come out in the open to accept their fate. Do you still wish to alienate them from our culture? I still remember one guy that came to Funmi's show and openely accepted being gay.