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It shudnt have taken walking down the aisle before s/he realises that Nah, it aint going to work. should it

amen

Buahahahahahahahahaha

ofcos obama Duh!

I cannot blv this thread still exist

if you are truly n really handsome then you shudnt be desperate at all

presido1:
why am on urside now.

U lie, u are not my side oo
u support sauron

presido1:
Thats when u are too desperate, remember the patient dog

u mean the pretender

MrCrackles:
The ex-boyfriend and the ex-girlfriend!!

presido1:
Aww Chakal she pleads

presido1:
Nope!! itz better u end up with sumone u love that loves you. Don't settle sumwhere, settle where u want to.

AWWW. . . . Cute
but sumtimes we dont always get what we want in life, so if push should come to shove then i'll rather be with sumone that loves me than sumone i love

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=190620.msg3029347#msg3029347 date=1225664205]Isn't that a fact??
Men pay the brideprice. . . . .[/quote]it is but dont say it everytime there is an argument

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=190676.msg3029333#msg3029333 date=1225664051]And if he's a good pretender??[/quote]Then may God never spare him

presido1:
Everybody has his/her bad side. If u keep a hawks eye believe me you will not get that you want. You might even end up with that you don't like.

as long as that person loves me
my dear its better i end up with sumone that loves me than sumone i love

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=190620.msg3029296#msg3029296 date=1225663269]Ownership??

Tope should take a cue from you.[/quote]HEHEHEHEHEEH . . . . .
U know how u guys are na, any small thing i paid for your brideprice blah blah blah

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=190676.msg3029312#msg3029312 date=1225663722]So how did u know ur current boy/f wasn't stubborn in the wooing stage before dating him??
Remember, there was nuthing to argue about or drag in this period. . . .[/quote]This is why i take my time during wooing n dating stage
I hate rushing in2 relationship, i want to know what or who I'm gettin myself in2 before i start getting serious with them.
People hide alot of stuff during wooing n dating stages

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=190676.msg3029281#msg3029281 date=1225663057]Keep deceiving yourself.
Gurls hang around here like lions looking for innocent lambs like me to devour.
Thank God i have a guiding angel tope2000 that swats em away like flies.

If you are the no nonsense type and your partner is also stubborn, how would peace reign??[/quote]hehehehehe. . . . . . . . . u yourself always chase afta everything in skirt

First of all, A no nonsense person should never be with a stubborn person, that relationship is doomed for failure. I never said a no nonsense and stubborn person would make a good relationship o, please don't get me wrong.There can never be peace even if act like a fool
If i am stubborn i would make sure i date someone that easy going, likeswise no nonsense person 2. .
But i still hold my ground on you can let your partner know her/his boundaries even if u are the fool in the relationship

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=190620.msg3029266#msg3029266 date=1225662772]Be happy because it could be you.

It gives the groom a say.
I have been to engagement parties where the bride's family insisted on NO ALCOHOL policy.
The friends of the groom were so pissed but there was nuthing the groom could do. . . . If the expenses were from his pockets, i doubt such policy would exist. Why won't ma buddies sip some cristal on the happiest day of me life??
No chance!!![/quote]I hope I'm not sensing ownership here

whatever90:
yoruba culture or not,its wrong,seriously

because d guy is supposed to be in charge of all that,he saw d girl he wants to marry,so why should her parents be stressing themselves wt drinks food and stuffs like that


it should be d groom and his family,then if d girls parents want to help out,no problem

imagine d guy engaging d girl,and then d girls family hosting the engagement party that is sthg else

i honestly i agree
but thats how its been done

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=190676.msg3029257#msg3029257 date=1225662576]Then u can't be a peacemaker with such tough stances.[/quote]I beg to differ abeg
i know what im sayin

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=190620.msg3029239#msg3029239 date=1225662338]I am yoruba but i won't take a penny from the bride's family.
If they wish to organise their own private party, fyne by me but the engagement party and the wedding expenses shall be from ma pocket.[/quote]Im happy for ya future wife

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=190676.msg3029227#msg3029227 date=1225662158]Unfortunately, the peacemaker in the relationship is the fool.
A dude gets slapped needlessly but because he wants peace, he is the one apologising again so peace can reign.
Are u telling me he is no FOOL??[/quote]When i say the fool keeps the peace, it doesnt mean the woman has the right to slap.
you can be a fool and at the same time you don't tolerate any nonsense you know, you must always let your partner know her / his boundaries at the same time

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=190620.msg3029200#msg3029200 date=1225661725]Are u sure??
We are not talking about the venue here. . . .[/quote]I'm talking about venue, food, drinks the whole lots
because the groom's parent goes to the bride's parent to ask for their daughter's hand in marriage so they will be one to entertain and welcome them but wedding, the groom n family pays for that because they are taking the bride away so they need to do the entertaining

@jenny
in yoruba culture, its not like that

debosky:
Topsy is this your profile picture on auto-rotate? Everyday we see a different picshure.  
@ topic

Most of us are made 'fools' for love at some point, BUT unless you have reached a point of making a lifelong commitment to a woman, you shouldn't go into complete fool mode - yes she can get away with a few things, but inevitably there must still be a level of guardedness before you determine if this is a person you'll give ANYTHING for.

Ladies stop dissing NL guys, we're not all TUMFULUS y'know  

Lol . . . . how are u 2day sweet?

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=190676.msg3029192#msg3029192 date=1225661586]someone has to be the fool in a relationship further proves the original poster's stance another jot!!![/quote]Well you see usually the woman is always the fool but it wudnt hurt if the guy too is the fool 4 once , having said that the fool im talking abt is someone creating the peace in the relationship not the fool [ode] the poster is saying o.

presido1:
Are u assuming, Generalising or u have a prove  for the quoted?
If the later is the case then ,

Im also assuming like the poster na

Engagement party is the bride family
The wedding party is the groom family
I think

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=190676.msg3029156#msg3029156 date=1225661093]The guys that love genuinely and get treated like douche-bags. . . . . .Are they fools??[/quote]Maybe those are but then again sumone has be the fool in relationship
but the poster you have said some guys with reasons behind why he said that
he should have generalised based on some stupid assumption.

presido1:
Whats wrong with NL guys?

You guys think you are all that and u aint

@h202
u give me jokes

H2O2:
It has nothing to do with me.  Women objectify themselves.  For example, what do a lotta NL girls consider love?  GSM, credit, etc.  You give them these things and they will spread their legs as wide as the pacific ocean.

Just because you've dated a cheap OR worthless nler , doesnt mean we all are dear

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=190676.msg3029076#msg3029076 date=1225659818]I am always in control of ma environment which has been branded by girls as "selfish".
Love gets men killed quicker than HIV.
Many great men fell in the past because they fell in love.
One has to tread carefully around it. . . . . . .It's a land mine.[/quote]Love is a strange thing. It can be the most amazing feeling in the world, or it can really hurt, but in the end love is something most, if not all of us, will face. it just happens my dear

shegirl71:
I want to be kissed slowly, passionately and sweet.

i concur and a little rough too

H2O2:
I guessed as much that we're on the same side.  We both know how cruel and useless these things [girls] are.  They have done, said, boasted about, and caused so much crap that it will be a crime not to speak out against it all.   Love is a beautiful thing that should not be wasted on jealous NL girls.  The worst is when they see you with an easy going white girl that lets you do your thing, they get mad.

Im guessing you dont have things aka girls in ur family abi

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=190676.msg3029042#msg3029042 date=1225659320]Dumped by a NLer?? Not possible.

Love in itself is not foolish(don't get me wrong).
However, many peops love foolishly as they don't think with their head straight when they are in LOVE.
Did u not see that hilarious thread where peops were confessing on the foolish things LOVE made em do??[/quote]I do agree with that but love do make people do stupid things
Are u trying to tell me that you've never done something all in the name of love that u look back on now and think why in the hell did i do that

H2O2:
See NL girls. The truth is hard to swallow for una.

Hurt menini? I don't get hurt. I put the hurt on people. Moreover, I don't think guys get hurt after being dumped by Naija girls. The probably feel relieved.

Who are u seriously

@sauron
Ok
What are ur reasons?
were u dumped by a nler too

H2O2:
The point that guys who fall in love are fools.  They give their all in a hurry and pour out their hearts much too quickly when they should be playing it safe.  Would you wish it upon any of your siblings to become a fool for love for a NL girl?

*Sigh*
Who is the babe, please tell us

@sauron
Are u supporting the motion too that guys that fall in love are fools