I feel sorry for all the single girls who come here hoping to be UNsingle.

On the contrary, most naija women are hypertensive because we have to take all the BS that most of y'all throw at us. Not only that, when a naija man marries, you see signs of a good life. It's not the same for a naija woman. Sometimes she's happy, other times she's sad. You guys are our emotional pendulum forces.
Most white women take all the BS and keep shut but since we don't, we are considered troublesome. It's not fair.

Guys are to blame because they keep answering these girls like muguns. It's very very sad. Y'all need to take a stance and spend money on who deserves to have money spent on them.
Oh jeez! Someone put you in this shape and form. I need you to go and see our resident therapist (baby osisi or maybe you should try topup). One of them will help you.

presido1:

Narcissism which they sumtimes refereed as personality disorder.

~Sauron~:

Keep deceiving yourself.
Gurls hang around here like lions looking for innocent lambs like me to devour.
Thank God i have a guiding angel tope2000 that swats em away like flies.

If you are the no nonsense type and your partner is also stubborn, how would peace reign??

tope2000:

hehehehehe. . . . . . . . . u yourself always chase afta everything in skirt

First of all, A no nonsense person should never be with a stubborn person, that relationship is doomed for failure. I never said a no nonsense and stubborn person would make a good relationship o, please don't get me wrong.
If i am stubborn i would make sure i date some that isnt, likeswise no nonsense person 2. There can never be peace even if act like a fool.
But i still hold my ground on you can let your partner know her/his boundaries even if u are the fool in the relationship

~Sauron~:

So how did u know ur current boy/f wasn't stubborn in the wooing stage before dating him??
Remember, there was nuthing to argue about or drag in this period. . . .

tope2000:

This is why i take my time during wooing n dating stage
I hate rushing in2 relationship, i want to know what or who I'm gettin myself in2 before i start getting serious with them.
People hide alot of stuff during wooing n dating stages

tope2000:

This is why i take my time during wooing n dating stage
I hate rushing in2 relationship, i want to know what or who I'm gettin myself in2 before i start getting serious with them.
People hide alot of stuff during wooing n dating stages

~Sauron~:

And if he's a good pretender??

presido1:

Everybody has his/her bad side. If u keep a hawks eye believe me you will not get that you want. You might even end up with that you don't like.

tope2000:

my dear its better i end up with sumone that loves me than sumone i love

presido1:

Nope!! itz better u end up with sumone u love that loves you. Don't settle sumwhere, settle where u want to.

tope2000:

AWWW. . . . Cute
but sumtimes we don't always get what we want in life, so if push should come to shove then i'll rather be with sumone that loves me than sumone i love

presido1:

Thats when u are too desperate, remember the patient dog

bravado:

You should be the greater fool for calling guys who fall in love a full,if you do not believe in love some others do.You should also know that you are a disgrace to ENGLIST LANGUAGE, Guy You No Go Even Primary School.Olodo

chika98:

Gurls hang around here like lions looking for innocent lambs like me to devour

Sauron: Seems like someone is a little too conceited.

Gtexcute:

hey! Who is that? Who told u, u are innocent? What are u doing here? I dare you to tell us if you are not directly or indirectly seekng who 'll be you milk dry 4 xmas.

chika98:

It has nothing to do with me. Women objectify themselves. For example, what do a lotta NL girls consider love? GSM, credit, etc. You give them these things and they will spread their legs as wide as the pacific ocean.

bravado:

You should be the greater fool for calling guys who fall in love a full,if you do not believe in love some others do.You should also know that you are a disgrace to ENGLIST LANGUAGE, Guy You No Go Even Primary School.Olodo

@ topic

Most of us are made 'fools' for love at some point, BUT unless you have reached a point of making a lifelong commitment to a woman, you shouldn't go into complete fool mode - yes she can get away with a few things, but inevitably there must still be a level of guardedness before you determine if this is a person you'll give ANYTHING for.

Ladies stop dissing NL guys, we're not all TUMFULUS y'know

How is it not the same for a naija woman who balloons from a size 6 to size 26 after marriage?
Are you kidding me? topup? The poor girl cried for 6 good months after breaking up with a Naija dude. Now that's a girl that didn't know what she had until she lost it.

Thats when u are too desperate, remember the patient dog