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woodboi:
@ tope2000

talking about gilrs here no guys men

its my opinion

white- both guys n girls

jennykadri:
it is a risk one takes

marriage is well covered ,u don't know what u have until u r into it

if u marry ur rightful partner then there wouldnt be a problem
from the moment i saw my hubby,i knew i was going to live a fulfilled life wt this man,even though then i was engaged to smone else,that is y i blive in love at first sight

every woman will kiss many frogs before she gets d real person,but if u r very alert u will know when u meet the right person

i met mine and I'm enjoying everysingle bit of it

Wow!!!
thanks for the heads up

jennykadri:
simple logic,i still stand on that word

marrying into the right family and u being nice on ur own,is where d simple logic comes in

and I'm talking about ur bros wives and not ur kids

so u is very wrong sweets

OK, even if it my brother wives, i still stand by what i said 2

how does one marry into the right family??
please define right family n how would a lady know shes marrying in2 the right family

i love his work

jennykadri:
its all about marrying into the right family

u will one day become someones inlaw wont u?

r u going to treat ur inlaws(maybe brothers wives) in a very wicked manner?if u find them living wt u in d same house?

abeg this is simple logic

Not everyone is nice, just because i might be nice to my on daughter or son inlaw
doesnt mean my own inlaws will be nice to me, so its not a simple logic
they are lots of cruel people in this world
u are just lucky to have good inlaws

SeXYhOTmOM:
yes they are nice people
but one of his younger brodas made this statement at one time

''they are still welcoming you''

another ocassion while i was at their place
one of his brodas wife was around
and she was complaining about aw, our mother-inlaw is never satisfied with what she does

after all this tins how do u guys expect me to still go there and stay after marriage?

my own advice is still stay with ur family

God help us!

SeXYhOTmOM:
thank you guys for all ur contributions
when my fiancee came home the last time
i stayed with him at their family house
and everybody was nie to me except mhis sister

when i even spoke with his siblings dey were telling of how
nasty their sister culd be, i even saw examples of d nastiness
dey told me of how she has fought with her elder brodas wives
aw she fights with everbody in d compound ,

am not used to typing much
there are still a lot of tins attached to my indecision

ok that is a DOUBLE NO for staying with in-law
continue staying with ur parent jor

@jenny
urs are just nice
i hardly hear good things abt inlaws

SeXYhOTmOM:
my dear it would hvae been a different tin if dey were sure of d time frame
but d estimated time frame is 6months
jeez that 1 na die o!!!!!


infact shes here with me now
make she read all ur contributions

thats like a life sentence oooo 
but like jenny said maybe it depends on her relationship with her in-law, Are they nice people?

SeXYhOTmOM:
as for me am strongly against d idea
because d eye service go too much
any little tin u do na their pickin them go first call


besides this, her fiancee's sisters are still in d house
and d 1st girl is a bit on the troublesome side
aw do u expect me to advice my poor friend to stay in that house after marriage
don't u think early frustration in marriage could because a lot of damage in future?

hmmmm. . . true talk
As far as I'm concerned its a bad idea

sistawoman:
I don't think i really understand your question?

Unless you will be locking the person up in your basement there is now way to make a person stay. You must be who you are and either they will accept you as you are or they wont. There is no need to pretend to be someone else because you will not be able to hold up the pretences for too long.

Just love them the way you would want to be loved. Treat them the way you would want to be treated. Treat them like you would want someone to treat your mom or sister or aunt or grandmother.

And if ur female then treat them like you would want someone to treat your dad, brother, uncles or grandfather.

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

Does this open you to hurt? Yes. But i would love no other way. Either i am all in or all out.

well said sis

jay bee:
Where is she staying @ the moment?
She might as well stay put @ her current location until the whole thing goes through.
Staying with in-laws before marriage is a recipe for disaster

for once i agree with u