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Most of the young ladies nowadays are leaving life like a lust generation, who can not differentiate good from evil due to their lust and low level of up- bringing.
I refused to marry a way-word lady to make her a wife that she will never be. coming from a christian background as an African with moral etiquette insult, pride, lies are strange to me. How could a woman love a man you never loved? but you loved because of material gain and where is the joy and peace that is usually come with marriage?

Proverbs 12:4
4 A wife of noble character is her husband's crown, but a disgraceful wife is like decay in his bones.

Matthew 19:4-0
4 "Haven't you read," he replied, "that at the beginning the Creator 'made them male and female,' 5 and said, 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh' ? 6 So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate."

Hebrews 13:4-0
4 Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral. 5 Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, "Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you." 6 So we say with confidence, "The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid. What can man do to me?" 7 Remember your leaders, who spoke the word of God to you. Consider the outcome of their way of life and imitate their faith.

So long you have made that marriage vow, either in pretext or for reality you are indebted to God almighty the creator of marriage and not just your husband and no divorce in God`s marriage plan........... be warned!

It is a pity that you passed through all these stress just to provide food on the table for your family.
Please,what`s your discipline or better still send your CV to pkodil@yahoo.com

Regards.

Hey! Isn't this very straight forward? I would man up and tell it directly to her face what I discovered about her, and make her understand how that has changed my opinion about her person.

You should of course forgive her, but continue seeing her? That bro is totally your call.

About the phone, if you really bought that phone out of your own freewill, I will advice you still give it to her. But if you were induced into buying it, omo keep the phone


One thing i come to realise in this forum is that, a lot of young girls nowadays lack moral, and can`t even measure up where they are needed to make a little contribution.

This post is just funny

Be very careful and prayerful when it comes to marital issues. Come to talk about it, why do we now have more couples divorcing themselves than ever before? Our parent’s didn`t leave legacies of such for us, something needs to be done urgently..........
Western life-style is on the opposite side of our culture (Africa) and there is no two ways about it.
The churches, Islam have roles to play, Tradition does not have values anymore before this present generation due lack of moral antiquate thereby destroying our social and traditional value system.
In every one`s life, at a given point in time, there must be a Delilah in your life, but if you don`t nit it in the bud, you`ll end up like Sampson. May God forbid?

I know them all, from A to Z and even more. 40 years + no bi small thing oo............

Biafra/Nigeria war was just an eye opener to many Nigerians......... just in-case such a thing (war) happens again it will be more deadly and no opponent will be taken on granted. In as much as more sophisticated weapons are being manufactured or modified on daily bases.
Take a look at the Boko haram tussle with combination of Nigeria and other African forces yet it has not been easy for them defeat the Boko haram, talk more of a full blown war from any part of the country in this sophisticated world.

Don`t worry about the blast, just blame Jonathan for not providing enough security for entire Nigeria populace.

Why has it taken him this long without declearing his assets? I think the facts remains that in Nigeria the type of leadership is the same. the only difference is when the oppositions are giving their own piece of information to attaract sympathy from the public,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, watch out, the likes of Amechi, Bola Tinubu,Okorocha etc .. who stole billions of Naira from their respective states will be given a clean bill of health, while the opposition will be ment to face the anticurruption agency as usual.

For now untill 18 years of age

There will be no peace in this universe, no matter the level and inputs by human beings towords acheiving peace, not even the massive weapons, untill the second coming of our personal lord and saviour JESUS CHRIST. Who will now give peace to his very elect.

Well,what i want you to understand is that, there has being an alliance before now between these men your seeing today. They were together as members of PDP before personal ineterest seprated them on party bases. The real issue is that they have the majority members weither you like it or not and they know how to play the game, no amount of Exaggerations that can be closer to the real issue on ground.so, leave politics for politicians.

Don`t underestimate the power of the militants. The sodiers are humans though trained by the government,but the militants have their own form of training too,the only difference is the type of weapon and the number of fighters within the areas of operation.
Boko haram is a tipical example,sometimes it`s not always the federal troop that wins the battle but the local, Find out.