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Cubby22:
9ja alwaz having a way of making people loose hope, but don't gud tin isour gene is stronger than failure, January Dondey go, well we r waiting

We need to exercise patience. I know unemployment can be frustrating. There are strong speculations that invites will be sent soon. So I suggest we all take a chill pill.

Please reply your mail Richyman29

Mekyno, preciouschydo, okobest, blackchampion,ezybest, engrr
How una dey? Here is dead silent

while I think this is a great answer to the question for an interview scenerio, but its not practical. We are talking about 'a wild, stormy night' and the young man thinks the best thing to do is to go chyke a girl. Will she even be in the mood?

eddytilldate:
Interview invites are rolling in..... Wonderfull

When is the interview? Where Is the venue?

mazizitonene:
itz for accounts created and funded online using online options such as ATM and quickteller...NOT AGENT.

I made the deposit through the bank, in their t and c, they wrote that all their deposit channels are entitled to the bonus. I guess I have to mail their customer agent

mazizitonene:
for online bet9ja accounts.....and it's given only for your first deposit into the account. its 100% initial deposit bonus for online accounts

I made the first deposit on 4th but I didn't get any bonus

mazizitonene:
read the t and c.......after selecting your games in the normal format (not less than 1.80 odds total), type the exact amount you see in your bonus in the amount space click bet, look below you will see "use bonus" in a small bar, click on it.....you should be able to stake

Is there something else I neeed to do other than deposit and play with the money on odds greater than 1.8? Must I play all the money deposited the same time, because I didn't, but all the various games were above 1.8

Rudewaterz:
Abeg make una tell me how I wan take stake with my bonus on bet9ja. When I try to stake dem go say insufficient funds, to redeem am ma I no fit! The bonus just dey there dey look me. Abeg make una help me.
Cc: maziztonene
Fabiano09

I can't see any bonus on my account. I depsited 4000 and have played with the 4000

ezybest:
I don't think the script hv been marked ooo cox d next two days after d exam would hv been d oral as d admin assure d hall that first day, still surprise that no one has receive text. God help us ooo.

I think the scripts have been marked. I expect them to send the invites for oral interview soon

Mcslize:
ok its kinda confusing tho. 26-29 should be mid 30's I think. I'm deemed to be corrected. Late 20's should be 21-25.

But in all u an adult. We may be age mate cuz am very very close to 30 by -2.

Just try and get ur mind busy with other things. Being too emotional about a gal is not too good for a guy.

Thanks bro. From what I knew, early 20s like 20 to 23, mid 20s is like say 24 to 26, then late 20s is 26 to 29. I am not hundred percent sure sha

Mcslize:
You're in your late 20's that should be between the range of 20-22. You'r still young.

It is normal for every young man to have uncontrollable obsession about the opposite sex whom he had spent maximum time with on several occassion.

I was the type of guy that really didn't have much time for girls. I was always on my own. I did my own things. Have few male friends and most of the times girls were the ones giving me green lights but still ended up treating them as just friends.

I had it at the age of 25 cuz I fell in love when I was 25yrs.
At that time I was so much obsessed with the girl that I always wanted her to be beside me. She was always on my mind.

It all happened when she started staring at me whenever she sees me till one very good day, I gathered up courage to have a chit chat with her and boom she was all over me.
I decided to play around with her but never knew I would fall in deep ocean of love. That was how it all started.

In essence:

The more you spend time with a girl, the more you will fall in love with her. But as a young man you need to put your emotions in check so that you won't end up suffocating the girl with too much attention.

Keep your emotion in check. Do other things. Like me I hardly call a girl. Not that I do not call but I keep it to the minimum level cuz by the time you keep on giving her loads of calls , she will get tired of your calls and sometimes ignore your calls by that time you will be feeling uncared for and feel very bad. You will as well feel hurt and disappointed.

Majority of girls care less about how a guy feels about them. The emotional trauma you will pass through will be quite enormous. Thats why you need to be wise to always know when to draw the curtain. Free your mind. Reduce the level of how much you think about her. Do other things, call your male padies, chat with other of your female friends. In a short time, that pool of emotions you have for her will reduce.

Simply divert your attntion.

Thanks bro. Though what I mean by late twenties is between 26 to 29

girlhaley:
Gbam!!!

That's scary. I hope not

StefanSalvatore:
She's a damn b!tch playing wit u

You are right man, from every indication she is. I am Taking the numerous advice I got here. I try to keep myself occupied each day, it makes me think less about her. I still do sha. Lemme see where this takes us

I formally welcome you guys into this blessed year. This will be a good year for all of us in Jesus name, Amen.

HateU2:
Yea, work the game on her. It works on us ladies(did I just tell u a secret)

Lol. Maybe. The magic seems to have started working already, I was surprised to see her call today. Mtcheew, girls sef and this una forming.

kingslly:
it will be easier for u if u start something to keep ur mind busy,u'll CME out stronger at the end bro.

Thank you

HateU2:
Yes, that's a fact. My New BF is working that on me

There is a common pattern In all of this. Initially when I wasn't really into her, she made tangible effort to keep in touch including comming up with flimsy excuses. But for the past few days I 'became mad', (not literaly anyway), she doesn't reply all my messages and don't always pick her calls. I think I need to ignore her a bit

andromida:
Glad you didn't do this it would have made you cheap.

As per everyday call if a girl likes you she'll feel happy if you call her everyday. Even if she doesn't like you initially if you persist she may fall for you or you lose interest eventually either way it looks like a win-win for you.

Appearing cheap was the least of my problems then, she was just laughing, ordering for more drinks and wouldn't even sit close to me after turning me on in the first place. What I wanted was to make her feel the frustration I was in. But thank God I didn't. I am 99 percent sure she likes me, but Loving me(as in romantic attraction), I can't say. That's why I want to be careful about this call issue so I don't mess myself up. Thanks anyways for your advice

IamBae:
You'll seem too clingy and trust me, girls hate that

Thanks dear

kingslly:
Why don't u just switch off,stop all contacts for now since u r kinda confused and u r likely to take the wrong step if u make any move now.

Deep down, this has occurred to me. But its really difficult for me right now. I will try sha

Cutehector:
Wait u mean she did all these things to u and u did not rape her? Maka why

Hahaha, I can't do that. But I was really really annoyed. Actaully I wanted to bail out on her, so that she will pay for all the stuffs we ate, but on a second thought. I decided to be a gentleman and let things go

RexKex:
Isn't it Obvious?


Most girls put up the "Facade" of Being in a relationship SIMPLY Because of the "Erroneous" Fact that "single" Peeps are "Unwanted".


So, it is possible that This Girl is as Single as the Opposite of Plural BUT wants you to Believe She "Belongs" To some One.


My advice is; If you "Really" want her, "Play Your Cards" Well & She will be Left with "No choice".

My bro, I seem to be clueless right now

Vikky014:
OP u hv been friendzoned * In some Nairalanders voice* kpele

That's really scary. I don't know if I can accept that to be honest. Sadly after that incident, the word 'friend' started coming up more frequently.
Do you think I can change tthings around?

cruzita:
wetin una dey talk wey go make u call am everyday?

I just want to call to hear her voice everyday and every minute.

ikbnice:
she's either teasing u or testing u. Girls are complex creature.
Secondly, I guess u are still very young and inexperience.

I am not very young, in my late twenties, but maybe I am inexperienced.

rawpadgin:
dont even make that every day calling mistake

the best way to make a girl fall inlove with u is to pretend that u careless

#fact

That's really difficult for me right now. Its really long I felt this way. Infact I think about relationships rarely, but this girl got me real bad

RexKex:
The fact that she "Honoured" your invitation is an "Affirmative Action".

If She has a Boyfriend, Why agree to meet you ITFP?



& No, Incessant Beeps is a Turn off.

That's exactly what I don't understand. To be honest, she had mentioned to me sometime ago that she has a boyfriend, I didn't really cared then. so I don't understand why she flirted with me and agreed to be meeting me.

falconey:
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We are on holiday, no Job right now

ikbnice:
not necessary...words become redundant.

Please how do I get my mind off her?

Hello, I need advise please. I met a girl 3 months ago and we have been friends. She is beautiful but I wasn't really into her. We chat occassionally. And she calls or texts if I don't Do that in a long while. We hung out twice in a fast food to discuss and I kept the spending so low she started saying I was stingy.







Now I was bored at xmas, so I asked to see her. Surprisingly she said she wasn't seeing me at a fast food and that she needed somewhere quiet and secluded. That kinda initiated something in me, we started flirting with each other and I can remember she told me to take a 'sex pill' when coming. we couldn't go out on xmas day because she said most places will be crowded. I intentionally didn't call her on 26th








On 27th she called me early in the money to ask if we are still going out. I said yes. Her words changed, she said she didn't mind calling because I was just a friend other wise I should have been the one to call. she said she wanted it that morning by 9am. Though it wasn't okay by me, I accepted.








I sheduled to meet her at a low profile hotel. I had to wait for her for about 2 hours because she said something came up and she promised me that I should wait for her that it will be worth it. Now when she finally came, I bought her drinks but she refused any form of contact, talkless inttimacy because she told me she has a boyfriend and will never have sex with me. I can remember I lost my cool later on outta frustration. I cut the meeting short and didn't pay for her tfare back. Literally left her in the road. But the truth is, she succeded in making me fall in love with her.





Please do you guys think she was playing games with me??
Now I want to talk to her every minute. Is it okay to call her everyday??


#Sorry if the post is long, I needed to explain things a bit

Djhack1:
me na social staker* no dey stake anyhow *

Oga my one dollar advise, watford is not winning today. Don't waste Your money unless ofcourse if its a spare money.