IamBae:
You'll seem too clingy and trust me, girls hate that

rawpadgin:
she was pretending

Topmostt:

Hahaha, I can't do that. But I was really really annoyed. Actaully I wanted to bail out on her, so that she will pay for all the stuffs we ate, but on a second thought. I decided to be a gentleman and let things go

rawpadgin:
dont even make that every day calling mistake

the best way to make a girl fall inlove with u is to pretend that u careless

#fact

andromida:


Glad you didn't do this it would have made you cheap.

As per everyday call if a girl likes you she'll feel happy if you call her everyday. Even if she doesn't like you initially if you persist she may fall for you or you lose interest eventually either way it looks like a win-win for you.

HateU2:
Yes, that's a fact. My New BF is working that on me

Topmostt:

Appearing cheap was the least of my problems then, she was just laughing, ordering for more drinks and wouldn't even sit close to me after turning me on in the first place. What I wanted was to make her feel the frustration I was in. But thank God I didn't. I am 99 percent sure she likes me, but Loving me(as in romantic attraction), I can't say. That's why I want to be careful about this call issue so I don't mess myself up. Thanks anyways for your advice

HateU2:
Yes, that's a fact. My New BF is working that on me

rawpadgin:
real guy!
it has working for me

sometimes i will intentionally ignore my baby's call
even though i really want to talk to her

but a man gotta do what a man gotta do

Topmostt:

There is a common pattern In all of this. Initially when I wasn't really into her, she made tangible effort to keep in touch including comming up with flimsy excuses. But for the past few days I 'became mad', (not literaly anyway), she doesn't reply all my messages and don't always pick her calls. I think I need to ignore her a bit

HateU2:
I like the game thou
But it's killing me really
Nd me too will want to do shakara
Even thou we really wanna talk

rawpadgin:


whatever u do, stick to ur strategy as long as its working for

Topmostt:

Deep down, this has occurred to me. But its really difficult for me right now. I will try sha

kingslly:
it will be easier for u if u start something to keep ur mind busy,u'll CME out stronger at the end bro.

HateU2:
Yea, work the game on her. It works on us ladies(did I just tell u a secret)

Topmostt:

Lol. Maybe. The magic seems to have started working already, I was surprised to see her call today. Mtcheew, girls sef and this una forming.

Topmostt:

Please how do I get my mind off her?

ikbnice:
she's either teasing u or testing u. Girls are complex creature.
Secondly, I guess u are still very young and inexperience.

cruzita:
wetin una dey talk wey go make u call am everyday?

firstking01:
wats wrong wit a guy calling her frnd @least once a day to check on her?, c'mon i do dat everyday...once in a day is nt too much naw, haba...sm of u can lie here eh...tfu...i mean, y wud a day passby without calling my frnd to check on her?, if i call her my frnd?...dis is y dey say afrikaans ain't romantic

Estharfabian:
Don't call Everyday...We get seriously bored!

andromida:


Glad you didn't do this it would have made you cheap.

As per everyday call if a girl likes you she'll feel happy if you call her everyday. Even if she doesn't like you initially if you persist she may fall for you or you lose interest eventually either way it looks like a win-win for you.

2dice:
once a yeat should be cool

Yo got that right!!

Estharfabian:
Yo got that right!!

2dice:
lol..you are a Girl Why not help the Op

I tried!

Topmostt:

That's really scary. I don't know if I can accept that to be honest. Sadly after that incident, the word 'friend' started coming up more frequently.
Do you think I can change tthings around?

cruzita:
sir I don hear

Topmostt:

Please how do I get my mind off her?

Estharfabian:
I tried!