Hello, I need advise please. I met a girl 3 months ago and we have been friends. She is beautiful but I wasn't really into her. We chat occassionally. And she calls or texts if I don't Do that in a long while. We hung out twice in a fast food to discuss and I kept the spending so low she started saying I was stingy.







Now I was bored at xmas, so I asked to see her. Surprisingly she said she wasn't seeing me at a fast food and that she needed somewhere quiet and secluded. That kinda initiated something in me, we started flirting with each other and I can remember she told me to take a 'sex pill' when coming. we couldn't go out on xmas day because she said most places will be crowded. I intentionally didn't call her on 26th








On 27th she called me early in the money to ask if we are still going out. I said yes. Her words changed, she said she didn't mind calling because I was just a friend other wise I should have been the one to call. she said she wanted it that morning by 9am. Though it wasn't okay by me, I accepted.








I sheduled to meet her at a low profile hotel. I had to wait for her for about 2 hours because she said something came up and she promised me that I should wait for her that it will be worth it. Now when she finally came, I bought her drinks but she refused any form of contact, talkless inttimacy because she told me she has a boyfriend and will never have sex with me. I can remember I lost my cool later on outta frustration. I cut the meeting short and didn't pay for her tfare back. Literally left her in the road. But the truth is, she succeded in making me fall in love with her.





Please do you guys think she was playing games with me??
Now I want to talk to her every minute. Is it okay to call her everyday??


#Sorry if the post is long, I needed to explain things a bit

No bros

not necessary...words become redundant.

ikbnice:
not necessary...words become redundant.

Please how do I get my mind off her?

The fact that she "Honoured" your invitation is an "Affirmative Action".

If She has a Boyfriend, Why agree to meet you ITFP?



& No, Incessant Beeps is a Turn off.

dont even make that every day calling mistake

the best way to make a girl fall inlove with u is to pretend that u careless

#fact

Topmostt:

Please how do I get my mind off her?

she's either teasing u or testing u. Girls are complex creature.
Secondly, I guess u are still very young and inexperience.

falconey:
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We are on holiday, no Job right now

falconey:
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got a job for the poor dude

wetin una dey talk wey go make u call am everyday?

RexKex:
The fact that she "Honoured" your invitation is an "Affirmative Action".

If She has a Boyfriend, Why agree to meet you ITFP?



& No, Incessant Beeps is a Turn off.

That's exactly what I don't understand. To be honest, she had mentioned to me sometime ago that she has a boyfriend, I didn't really cared then. so I don't understand why she flirted with me and agreed to be meeting me.

OP u hv been friendzoned * In some Nairalanders voice* kpele

rawpadgin:
dont even make that every day calling mistake

the best way to make a girl fall inlove with u is to pretend that u careless

#fact

That's really difficult for me right now. Its really long I felt this way. Infact I think about relationships rarely, but this girl got me real bad

ikbnice:
she's either teasing u or testing u. Girls are complex creature.
Secondly, I guess u are still very young and inexperience.

I am not very young, in my late twenties, but maybe I am inexperienced.

Topmostt:


That's exactly what I don't understand. To be honest, she had mentioned to me sometime ago that she has a boyfriend, I didn't really cared then. so I don't understand why she flirted with me and agreed to be meeting me.

Isn't it Obvious?


Most girls put up the "Facade" of Being in a relationship SIMPLY Because of the "Erroneous" Fact that "single" Peeps are "Unwanted".


So, it is possible that This Girl is as Single as the Opposite of Plural BUT wants you to Believe She "Belongs" To some One.


My advice is; If you "Really" want her, "Play Your Cards" Well & She will be Left with "No choice".

cruzita:
wetin una dey talk wey go make u call am everyday?

I just want to call to hear her voice everyday and every minute.

Topmostt:

That's really difficult for me right now. Its really long I felt this way. Infact I think about relationships rarely, but this girl got me real bad

guy work on it, u may hate urself eventually trust me

been in this relationship game long enough

minimize whatever fillings u have for her or try not to show her much love

the average naija girl will eventually take u for granted

Vikky014:
OP u hv been friendzoned * In some Nairalanders voice* kpele

That's really scary. I don't know if I can accept that to be honest. Sadly after that incident, the word 'friend' started coming up more frequently.
Do you think I can change tthings around?

RexKex:
Isn't it Obvious?


Most girls put up the "Facade" of Being in a relationship SIMPLY Because of the "Erroneous" Fact that "single" Peeps are "Unwanted".


So, it is possible that This Girl is as Single as the Opposite of Plural BUT wants you to Believe She "Belongs" To some One.


My advice is; If you "Really" want her, "Play Your Cards" Well & She will be Left with "No choice".

My bro, I seem to be clueless right now

Topmostt:

That's really scary. I don't know if I can accept that to be honest. Sadly after that incident, the word 'friend' started coming up more frequently.
Do you think I can change tthings around?

yes u Can.... jst ignore her by nt calling or texting her

Topmostt:

My bro, I seem to be clueless right now

Don't be in a haste, Be yourself & Let things "Be Natural".

RexKex:
Isn't it Obvious?


Most girls put up the "Facade" of Being in a relationship SIMPLY Because of the "Erroneous" Fact that "single" Peeps are "Unwanted".


So, it is possible that This Girl is as Single as the Opposite of Plural BUT wants you to Believe She "Belongs" To some One.


My advice is; If you "Really" want her, "Play Your Cards" Well & She will be Left with "No choice".

this ur theory abt girls get k.leg ooooo...WONDERS!!!!

Wait u mean she did all these things to u and u did not rape her? Maka why

Vikky014:
this ur theory abt girls get k.leg ooooo...WONDERS!!!!

Well, Do We have to share same theories?

Cutehector:
Wait u mean she did all these things to u and u did not rape her? Maka why

Hahaha, I can't do that. But I was really really annoyed. Actaully I wanted to bail out on her, so that she will pay for all the stuffs we ate, but on a second thought. I decided to be a gentleman and let things go

Why don't u just switch off,stop all contacts for now since u r kinda confused and u r likely to take the wrong step if u make any move now.

RexKex:
Well, Do We have to share same theories?

NOOOO

ENJOY URSLF

kingslly:
Why don't u just switch off,stop all contacts for now since u r kinda confused and u r likely to take the wrong step if u make any move now.

Deep down, this has occurred to me. But its really difficult for me right now. I will try sha

rawpadgin:
dont even make that every day calling mistake

the best way to make a girl fall inlove with u is to pretend that u careless

#fact

bros not all girls.. I have met d ones dat took offense whenever i failed to call

gabby898:

bros not all girls.. I have met d ones dat took offense whenever i failed to call

she was pretending