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beejay85:
sales rep...
Very sorry for your plight and the challenge you encountered to ensure your Children got enrolled in school..
I will want you to personally take up the enrollment of your children to a school close to where they live that you can afford.
And checkup on their feeding and ensure you get value for any upkeep funds you send if you don't want ur children to suffer from what they know nothing about

Thanks

Kobicove:
His mother-in-law did not just start selling ogogoro, OP knew all this before he married the woman

She ventured into the business late last year. She was selling shoes at BODIJA market and I met the girl here in Ilorin, she was a student at KWARA STATE polytechnic

dalass:
You didn't think of that before sending the children packing with your wife.

Mumu man, you waited till she dropped 3 kids and you came here to tell us you wanted to be sending money for public school education. Why can't you take them to the public school yourself and register them? You can not at least rent a separate apartment for your childrens sake instead of staying with an ogogoro seller Dey watch as your children become touts and ogogoro guzzlers

I put them in public schools here and I always tutor them for 1 and half hour everyday. I'm a biology teacher and a postgraduate student in university of ILORIN

fmlala:
Seems you don't understand how marriages work, the man would have tried effortlessly, all possible means to bring the woman to the right path which eventually did not work. During these periods, the man would not have need to abandon his conjugal responsibilities.

I enrolled her in a computer center but she complained about the starting of the generator after 3 months, I asked her to learn hairdressing but she told me it's NOT in line with SUNNAH of prophet Muhammad, I had wanted to set-up a UNISEX SALON because I'm a barber, teacher, an examiner

TechBaron:
That man doesn't have money. Simple!

I'm a civil servant; I teach Biology in one of the public secondary schools in the state. I have a side hustle too. I'm also an examiner (WAEC and NECO)

fitinwell:
Reasons why i don't support rushing to have too many children....

If u just marry.... 1 child is enough space between them like 4yrs at least before shooting next shot.. Not 3 - 4 children Every year in the name of whatever...!

Now if u had a Child with your so called destructive woman.... This would be very easy for you to crack....

But u knew she was destructive and yet you impregnated her 3 times....

Now you have successfully destroyed the future of this children....

My first child is 11 years, second child is 6, and 3rd child is 7 months old

Karleb:
Maybe you should not have married Iya Ologogoro's daughter.

See wahala untop marriage.

The MIL just ventured into OGOGORO business late last year

She was a devoted Muslim when I did the introduction in 2013

Bittersweetnig:
Abi o, e sent wife parking alongside his own children, who does that? And what is #32k for in this economy? The man sound like irresponsible

The 32k is for the enrollment of 2 children in public schools. The 3rd child is 7 months old. I sent 50 exercise books, textbooks, 2 mathematical sets, dictionary, school bag etc

I'm a teacher in one of the public secondary schools in the state

Toosure70:
Get your children back before you raise another terrorists for us again biko

Lol

luvme0702:
Where you beating her, cheating on her? What did you do to her that made her bring civil defense corps to you? Sending 30k to her to use for 3 kids in this present economy would be difficult for her to manage. She has 3 kids for you and you're yet to marry her, that shows you are irresponsible. No matter how small the wedding would be, you should have just formalized it. Go and beg her for forgiveness and do the right thing.

She's destructive like I said, many household items were destroyed e g fan, phone, hotplate, thermoflask etc. I'm tired of paying for a repair

I slapped her out of frustration and she went ahead to report at the civil defence office

EbereGod:


Wrong use of punctuation marks. Didn't know where the sentence actually ended and where there's a pause.Lol.

Managed to read through.

It's difficult to win cases like these.
5kg rice for 3 kids
God Abeg o




Three kids no bride price? Irresponsible lifestyle.

The 5kg rice was just for last small SALLAH

Fiscus105:
But it would have better if you go to family court straight. Many people don't know family court is existing. In family court, they would compel her to do the needful and if she fails, she might go to jail.

NB. Ministry of women affairs doesn't have power to compel her, they can only advice and if she fails, they will now ask you to charge her to family court.

I have not heard about family court, can u put me through?


Can u put me through? I mean family court

Fiscus105:
But it would have better if you go to family court straight. Many people don't know family court is existing. In family court, they would compel her to do the needful and if she fails, she might go to jail.

NB. Ministry of women affairs doesn't have power to compel her, they can only advice and if she fails, they will now ask you to charge her to family court.

Can u put me through? I mean family court

OboOlora:
Werey say sales rep on top agbo, sales rep kor Marketing Executive ni lol

Very funny

Bahamas95:
Jobless/destructive and you still allowed her have 3children for you.......Are you ok at all?

Did u read the part where I said that I established a business for her in 3 different occasions?

adecz:
Your children don become 'area'.....




The background of a spouse is very key in
any relationship... 🤔

U understand my plight

They are not in any school in IBADAN, they are now SALES REPS in her OGOGORO shop

illicit:
Do you have a problem with people who sell ogogoro, that's what the woman who raised your wife sells, and now she is raising your kids...

Why are you worried?

My children are not in school, they are helping her to sell OGOGORO in her shop.

They are not enrolled in schools

Good evening, ma


Is it possible to file for divorce through Ministry of Women affairs and social inclusions?


I have been manipulated by my "wife", in quote because I didn't pay her bride price, I did an introduction and they collected an EMPIRE BASKET full of fruits

We had 3 children together but my wife is JOBLESS and DESTRUCTIVE at the same time (double tragedy) I had set up a business for her on 3 different occasions but failed, I even sold my car and gave her the money without taking a dime.

We had a misunderstanding on 26/11/2024 and she went to bring civil defense officers to my place of work, on 27th/11/2024 I sent her packing.

They are currently at BARIKA, UI second gate, Ibadan, living with the grandmother. I told her to enrol the children in public schools in IBADAN, I gave her #30,200 in addition to 50 exercise books, school bag, 5kg rice, SALLAH clothe, school sandals. The items were sent through a commercial driver but she lied. I went to IBADAN on 18/4/2025 only to discovered that the children are not in school, they are helping the grandmother to sell OGOGORO in her shop.

I knelt down and begged the grandmother several times, I left IBADAN around 7:20pm and arrived ILORIN around 11:37pm due to heavy downpour. The grandmother is not responding to calls from my family members, even as I speak

I went to SANGO police station but I was told to go to the ministry of women affairs and social inclusions.

A date has been fixed 5/5/2025. I want the children to be enrolled in public schools and I will be sending the necessary writing materials and school fees through the School principal and class teachers

MAXAM dey d list?

It was possible for her to remarry because of her profession, a widow at that age, who has nothing to offer will become a liability

Tooor

I had #850 in my Union Bank account, I wanted to transfer #800 to a POS agent and I was told INSUFFICIENT BALANCE, I tried 750, 700, 650, 600, 550, 500.

Las las na #400 I was able to transfer via USSD

No one from Kwara

I'm here to read comments

I will COPY this when my father dies

The story is similar


Islamically they will tell u it's not good to speak Ill of the dead, I won't succumb to this

Misternas89:
Better by far . Lagos hostel that year Chaii 2008-2012, I represented as a king of burger

Correct

2008-2012

Science education

I stand with the poor man


There's a policeman living close to me, he has a car (MAXIMA) but during the hike in the petrol price, his boss asked him to take one unregistered motorcycle from the ones siezed from offenders or criminals. He took a fairly new motorcycle and he's using it till today. The policeman is serving at ..... State POLICE COMMAND

Policemen do convert EXHIBITS for their personal use

The 2nd picture

That's our BURGER in University of ILORIN back in the days. Sandwich the akara and press it

manuelkel:
State civil servants are really suffering, 80% of our governors are ripping them off .

True talk

KOPA dey earn pass me and I have been on level 08 since 2021 in Kwara

Atlantis585:
What did you say, please?

Lol

Beautiful girl