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I haven't even lived with my Father my whole life

men in general [especially those from broken homes who were raised by their mums] tend to find little or no fault with the father, since they barely knew him.

compared to the mother whose faults they can rattle off at the drop of a hat.

i think there might also be lingering resentment from the earlier marriage problems decades back which in typical nigerian fashion was ignored and the kids expected to just keep a stiff upper lip and move on.

i dont think the son can make blanket judgements about his dad's personality but of course nothing wrong with considering your dad a hero.

i'm not saying either parent is a saint- obviously both husband and wife have issues.

^^the henna stuff isnt tattoo.

i guess you've been away too long and have forgotten your culture, assuming you knew much about it before, which is doubtful.

name? photo?

i guess the matter might need to be ironed out somehow. Or maybe not sha, after nl's the seeker saga.

i could barely make head or tail of what the allegations were, especially since it seems there was so much clean up done on the other site.

sounds serious though.

is osisi no longer a christian or was she never one. She vanished after davidylan left [he married i think].

the woman tough no be small. She hated me like crazy.

that dream thread- what was going on with that. [s]Coupled with the nl one about yoruba men's privates[/s]. Una wan corrupt me for here sha.

me sef i dreamt i saw dayokanu marrying 28 nlers at a go but they were all fully clothed. I had a problem with their outfits however since he wanted them to wear bikini but i insisted they must put on proper wedding gowns.

if you want to know the females in question, just pick any 28 ladies on nl.

name and photo?

indeed amazing.

which state is he from.

i hope the friend wont become the new mrs wigwe.

tunnytox:
DO YOUR KNOW WHO I AM? i AM TELLING YOU DO YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE TALKING TO? lol

that's oyibo own.

yorubas will say "omo tani" with a very nasty expression.

^^i'm sure the "yoruba lover" was preceeded by a myriad of "other nationality/ethnicity" lovers on the man's part.

ki s'oju lasan.

imo.

he can only mention one yoruba lover.

if the wife begins to list his own, probably an exercise book would be needed.

some women take on lovers after the man has repeatedly refused to behave.

^^good advice.

where are these babies being trafficked to?

and for what purpose.

seriously though, na idleness dey cause this kind thread.

whatever happened to rating nollywood celebrities.

and why havent these celebrities [omotola, genevieve, rita dominic, kate henshaw, mercy johnson, etc] been producing more photos for public consumption.

see now, people are rating pastor's wives in the meantime.

rolchi:
My question is simple, Did God actually chose these ladies for these men, abi dem shine their eyes by themselves?

McCoy91:
^^ no offence but that's a very irrelevant and off-point question

lmao!!!!

sonyvaio:
Whatever happened to the elderly pastor's wives?
Aren't they hot emmm, Aren't they decent?

i already mentioned them.

both of them na ogbontira.

till now, nobody has explained why the man invited her back to act as his wife in an official capacity, after they've been separated so many years and havent even lived together for so long. And after they've both shagged other people to their hearts' content.

moreover, given her track record of zero tolerance for cheating as alleged by the husband, the whole thing looks somehow.

i'm starting to wonder who exactly was setting up who here.

btw, that "yoruba lover" [if there is one] must be shaking in his shoes now, though. abi na professional consoler wey dem no send.

no saint and no sinner here, thank you.

photo?

we need to rate his handsomeness if he's single.

j/k.

well the man said he remarried, the second marriage didnt work out, and for some reason, he decided to "recall" the estranged first wife.

sounds weird imo especially since he knew of her temper.

most nigerian men would have simply gone for a third marriage.

anyway, i think both parties involved need to start working something out now.

the guy has been recalled, the whole world is discussing the matter, the damage has been done.

time to start finding solutions and work towards ending the rancour if possible. Or at least minimizing it.

@ topic

the hottest ones arent listed here. eg the older ladies of 60 and above. God looks at the heart, not the outward appearance.

not saying the ones featured arent beautiful however.

I don't know if you guys have noticed, but our pastors seem to have the best taste in everything

lmao.

J12:
Have you read the sons statement?

yes, i read the son's statement and saw this:

I haven’t even lived with my Father my whole life. Yet, the times that I was staying with him due to his occupation, were some of the best times and memories of my life.

I have lived with my mother my entire life

outside of his account of what happened on the day in question, the rest of his statement shouldnt be used to evaluate anybody.

No saint and no sinner in this matter, for now.

^spending 5 or 6 years somewhere doesnt necessarily mean you know the place.

you're the one jumping up and down over an alleged big shot pure fulani you said you dated.

if, in your time in the north, you failed to understand the culture as regards relationships, then obviously you cant really claim familiarity there.

many of you miss it in this manner because you equate sexual escapades with knowledge.

anyway, i think this issue has been flogged enough?

if you prefer to believe a pure fulani girl from katsina and a big shot's daughter, fell for your denzel charms [southern bruvas as you call it], then good for you.

una ego no dey get limit.

some of you really do believe you're the next best thing since fried bread.

keep on keeping on.

however, i maintain there's a long story involved in the matter, but you do you and i'll do me.

try dating adenuga's daughter as well- your mojo fit jam you luck that way.

not a very good week for Hot yoruba men, i should think.

the non-Hot ones- may God strengthen una oh, because it's like a tiny sardine in a sea of hungry sharks.

thank goodness i'm not a black, nigerian male.

oluwa o se oh.

cant imagine being at the mercy of my hormones all the time.

una try sef.

^^no need to take stuff personal.

i dont know who you were banging up there but next time do your homework properly before boasting.

unlike you, i dont do sex tourism, so pardon my normal approach to life- i know i'm a minority.

and yes, something is definitely up with the girl. Either she wasnt what she claimed to be, or there were family problems somewhere.

if you dont know northerners are socially stratified especially when it comes to serious relationships, then good luck to you as you date your way through the place. Na so you go marry northern togolese thinking you don marry sultan's daughter.

I am mad because she didnt use a nigerian or african themed fashion designer.

even if na oyibo or other western designer, dem for put something african for that cloth nah.

hmm.

obviously more to the statement than would appear.