₦airaland Forum

donpeey22:
"Older women are not supposed to be having sex" , according to whose law?
Sex is not food but it's one of the greatest bodily desires.
Older women should not have sex with younger men while older men date and marry younger girls... That's double standard.

My opinion is that a woman should have sex with any adult man she chooses, it's her life and we live this life only once.

i dont know where you are from, but traditionally, older women are not supposed to be sex sirens. Its probably a taboo or something.

leave that for the younger ladies who still have to find husbands and boyfriends.

Perhaps things are done differently in your area?

if you must have the sex, then do it with your age mate or someone closer to your age.

op you need Jesus in your life- that's the only thing I got from your write up.

and stop being a woman wrapper.

donpeey22:
The guy goofed by bragging about his sexcapade with the woman. He should have kept his lips sealed.
The sons did what any guy their age would have done under such circumstance.

The woman to should have gone to a hotel to catch her fun instead of doing in her matrimonial home. What does it cost to get a room at least in a guest house? I am sure 2k would have been enough.

The woman has the right to date and enjoy sexual satisfaction with whomever she chooses. Those saying she should have gone for older men think it is easy to find such older men who would meet her sexual needs and still go back home to satisfy his own wife. Research has shown that women's sex drive increases with age while that of men decreases with age. So, it becomes a tough work for lonely women to get older men.

hey, older women are not supposed to be having sex, especially when they have grown kids and especially if they are widows.

sex is not food.

but if they decide to, e nor concern me but not with some young un abeg.

dem age mate is better, and after marriage.

just sign a pre nup or something, if a lot of property or wealth is involved.

Nutase:
Correct that spelling before unilag withdraws your admission and your alma mata withdraws your first degree.

BTW u can marry again to get a new certificate.

can you explain what marriage has got to do with getting degrees.

Iyawo is bride or new wife while the term Aya generally implies a woman who is not newly married.

The "new Iyawo" period generally only lasts until the "Iyawo" has children, after which she gets a more "secured" position and in the olden days, her old spot of "Iyawo" ie novice, gets occupied by the new wife in a polygamous household.

being a "novice Iyawo", btw, was not an enviable position because you do all the major labour in the household immediately the honeymoon is over and your husband starts scouting for another wife while you try to get pregnant. Sort of glorified slave/servant.


All these are generally speaking, could have different contexts.

Alao and Olaniyi ke?

Yoruba?

Lord have mercy.

Orikinla:
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I don't like a woman who looks less attractive without makeup.[/size]

she has on minimal makeup here, do you like this better:

https://photos-g.ak.instagram.com/hphotos-ak-xpf1/10448975_1453798274867982_1951660630_n.jpg

not to mention are you not the greatest poster of women with makeup on, on this forum, second only to onila?

have you ever posted a photo of any lady without makeup?

beautiful picture.

the necklace matches the lipstick, same colour.

Wow, see Oga Fash!!!!!

Nigeria is supposed to have at least 1 million Oga Fash, how I wish that were possible.

Our image for don shine by now.

March was 10 months ago.

Possibly they got pregnant after the news broke.

They should name the baby linda or lindel if a boy.

Abi linda knew the wife was ovulating ni?

Fulaman198:
Typical Tuaregs in Nigeria, as dark as Charcoal:

https://images.huffingtonpost.com/2010-06-22-4.jpg

They look Kanuri.

Op is male, no?

Una dey get marriage/relationship issues too much.

Must everything really be so complicated?

Just checking to see what she's saying this time.

I see different hands, why?

Lord have mercy.

Westerners must be saying the same thing about africa.

onila:
https://scontent-b.cdninstagram.com/hphotos-xfa1/t51.2885-15/e15/10895495_361137534068936_409164962_n.jpg

You eat your cereal dry?

The hotel has milk nah.

Ipledge:
are you talking to me?

My post was for the person who quoted me, just before I made the comment in question.

It happened to start the next page., but the ^ indicated it was for the preceding poster.

Go live among gazelles then.

Or wolves.

Or monkeys.

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odikomo1:
Why do nigerians abroad still use foreign accent even when it is obvious that the person they are talking to is nigeria brother. It is so annoying.
What i do to most of them is to automatically switch to pidgin. Until they remember their root and answer my question in nigeria tone.
Whats your take?

Oju e le sha!


Hope all is well with you? You look like you swallowed a sour lemon.


Are you a terrorist militant by any chance.

Turn to Jesus please

Noted.

Ok,

@laudate

I'm not referring to a crisis of identity but rather the fact that when you are half something, you can't be exactly the same as the original.

Two halves make a whole, true, but the nature of the whole is what I'm considering.

You can check the other thread on mixed heritage nigerians, the op there has an insight.

Sometimes you don't notice immediately especially if you have a large family setting, but at some point you do.

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zaragal:
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You mentioned four different people, or do you mean you dated someone from Ogun state but are not sure if your boyfriend was Ijebu or Egba?

I assumed you meant you dated Osun, Ondo, and two Ogun.

^ I've been noticing your posts and comments for a while now, on the forum.

Its my opinion you should give Jesus Christ a chance in your life and mind , what say you?

Does that sound like an acceptable option?

May God have mercy on your soul sha

^are you not in africa or from africa?

pineed:
yeah, Runaway Bride was gud too, really enjoyed it.

It was nice.