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Some ppl are rather inventive hey, LMAO

What Will Do If The Person You Love Rejects You Because You Are An Osu Cast?

Narrow minded ppl infuriates me, its just as surprising to realize that there are still sluggards who hold on too way closer to such ancient melodies
I guess we gona have to do this more often, kick her or his ass to the curb and find urself better things to do, s/he will be too much of a work even
after u tried to convince him/her

tpia.:
well, if you've bought him the cigarettes before, then what can anyone say really.

why did you decide to stop?

Sweetie, U know why I made it clear that it was his BDay when I bought the cigarettes, its bcoz I wanted even the slowest thinkers to understand that I only
buy the cigars to spoil him for that day and even if I did buy him more than just once when I wanted stop I was gona stop, its my choice ok

C2H5OH:
loooooooooooool this woman sef.

40 calling herself an overegoed bitch. indeed

OH Thank God there are still ppl with sense of humor in this world

@MRbrownJAY
Dude, ur one mouthful guy I have ever have to meet, but to sum it all up, I hear u and blv me I am not as stubborn as u think I am
Its just that I dont understand why is it a mission impossible for guys to love some1 without breaking their hearts, anyways its not like they gona
bring me the world coz everytime I put my heart out there for those a$$ holes all they do is to tear it apart so dont u think its kind of a
waste of time to be in any kinda r/s for happiness if ur not gona be happy anyway
There are more important things in life than relationship hey there dude

Winnergal:
I wouldn't call him , . . I loveeee my pride . . .

Me too girl, there are more important things than life itself and one of those things for me is My PRIDE,
I know I am an overegoed B1tch and sometimes my pride saves me from unnecessary discomforting situations
Can u imagine belittling myself over some wretched-miserable-a$$-hole who doesn't even know what he want
himself, please

tpia.:
are you using your money to buy him cigarettes or does he send you on errands to buy cigarettes?

Yep I was, I bought him once and it was his BDay and now he just assumed that I will buy him again, tough luck

tpia.:
But love can make people do funny things, I know.

And that's what I have learned in the past 40 yrs of my life hey

dont worry Tracey, i will be gentle with you as i know that you dont take criticism very well
I won’t agree with you coz Ur wrong

1.   Do u think he will call
nope, but if he does it wont be because he missed you and it will probably be because he needs something from you(cigarettes etc)
I’d reserve my comment

2.   Shud I beg him, shud I cry, shud I email him or text him
yes you should have sent him an email the day he removed you from his facebook to ask him why he did that. if his reason was "silly" then you would have known that something is fishy and therefore move on with your life as to wait for someone who is not serious with you.
U probably are right but I am the person who think first before acting, I don’t wana do something that will hurt my dignity, I was told I can do it with no man whatsoever at all, that means I don’t need a man to be happy or I can live perfectly without being in a r/s

3.   shud I call him and ask whats going
yes you should but you have to expect the worst.
Not a good idea what if he…. Never mind U will crucify me anyway

4.   or just sit here and figure that its over  between us
that is not the way to go about it because you will always wonder , what if. . . . . . .?
U are right but its me we are talking about and I don’t like to appear desperate, better keep it cool and under control

5.   Do u really think I was just cigarettes to him
no you was probably not JUST cigarette but the cigarette might have been what made him decide to end it with you. you dont say much about how it really happen so we cant really say
Here is how it happened, it was his BDAY, slept over in his place, he is been using my charger for his phone and I was using my USB cable to charge mine and I took it, so there he goes was angry, in this same day I went thru his phone and found out that he saved my numbers as ABC and the other one as XYZ, I was gona take him out but after seeing that I withdrawn n I knew I hv to take my charger the idea was never to see him again, but u know how love is u can’t dismiss it over night, so the following day he was online, we chatted and I asked him to call me ABC n he said I must not take things seriously and I asked him if he was sure abt that he said YES and I changed my status on FB to single and he was offended, told him that I was only taking things and him for granted then we argue, but b4 w cud finish or go deep to fighting he told me how much he misses me and I said the same n I did really after telling myself we were done, so he asked me to buy Cigars for him and meet him in town, told him no can do, and he was persistence about it, he didn’t have phone, he didnt have a charger, I took mine, so my last msg to the chat we had was “Im not buying cigars for u” and I left it was late, so a coloured dude called me telling me he was waiting for me in the shop that he said he was gona meet me, and then I was already in the Taxi to where I stay, told him so and the next thing when I try to access his FB account the ff day, I got a msg like “Whoever only shares certain information with friends invite him” and I said OMG, I sit and think about it and I said let me pretend I didn’t see that, and until now haven’t heard from him,, So does this do the trick for u


6.   do u think removing me from his FB friends was just a way to say we were done
probably, depending on how childish that person is.
Reserve my comment

7.   Shud I degrade my dignity and go after him to get those answers
if the answers bother you THAT MUCH then yes but if you can move on with your life not knowing then keep on playing the stubborn one(he might be doing the same thing on the other side)
Lets leave that way hey
8.   Or Maybe let it be and forget about him
its all up to you, you are the one who will have to live with it
We will see about that

9.   Is it possible that he may have a problem with his phone or something
where does problem with phones remove people from FB. you are just trying to make excuses for something that you already know the answer. if a person removes you from FB and suddenly doesnt ccontact you anymore then you know what the deal is, we know what the deal is so no need to pretend or make excuses for him. his email still works fine i guess.
U are right, U know we always hope for the better, that’s how were designed

10.   Shud I ask his friends so that they can tell him I was asking about him, then run a risk of putting my reputation at stake
you are talking about your reputation/dignity for such small thing like a person who is too proud for her own self. maybe that is what may have hurt you in that relationship.  on one hand you sound a bit desperate to get back with him, on the other you sound like you think you are better than that.
if you are desperate then do not talk about dignity/reputation and think about what you want.
Yah I am desperate but does he really have to know that now when he is behaving like this

PS: saving you on his phone as ABC/XYZ means that he is hiding you from someone/something that has access to his phone. this is definitely NOT a nickname and more like a "code"
He doesn’t have a GF, I know and I am sure but maybe he has managed to track down one in the past 3 weeks

And finally Sir U got it all figured out hey

steve49ja:
Lol, yes to what?

@post
ABC and XYZ?? thats hilarious. . do you need glasses?? after a man stays distant from you for weeks cos of cigarette of how much, you still think you guys still on? wear ya pants, remember ya coaste-push up bra, put on make-ups and go out so a new bloke can toast you o jare instead of waiting for dry bones to rise again.

Yep It is hilarious, I mean really funny, I cudnt stop laughing myself and now my friends are calling me ABC, we just have to meet those a$$ holes dont we?

and remember he saved my Cell numbers as ABC and the other one as XYZ on his phone book is this supposed to mean something? oh wait like your special to him, not too sure on that

Well I just thought that, thats what I am to him, ABC or XYZ, the only reason u can save a person like that is bcoz u dont care, I mean ABC, XYZ, common Dude, to all the things in the world

And as for the rest of the questions I think ur right, Im gona leave him alone, he is not worth it, I dont think he ever does, I just cant blv I can be this easily forgettable, this dismissed hey, I just thought I deserved to know, maybe reasons why he wud just disappear

chaircover:
Yes

Yes, to which one sweetie,

Dont answer this I get ur point, sorry, so u mean I dont have to do anything to find out if ur Yes is correct

MRbrownJAY:
hey Tracey , please dont get me wrong and dont get offended by what i wrote about your idea of an "independent woman", i didnt know you were talking about someone you knew.

let me rephrase that so you will understand it better.
marriage is a union where two people want to be together and spend the rest of their life together in happiness, sharing, giving etc if a person stays "single" in their mind while they are married then this union will surely fail and never work.
a woman who "does her own thing" cannot truly be happy in a union where sharing is required, a woman who "wud never let anyone tell her what to do" is  stupid because she automatically believes that whatever she thinks is right and whatever someone tells her is wrong. that woman wouldnt listen to her spouse when he tells her that the investment she is about to do is wrong or when he tells her"watch out there is hole on the road!!" that women thinks she knows it all and do not need advice from anyone else but we all know that humans can learn till the day they die, only a fool wouldnt wanna learn anything and think they know everything .

Ag man dont be sorry, no need to apologize Im not offended, not a single bit, thought u were clever enough to figure that out, I don't mean everything I say, Okay

Yep, I knew he was smoking but never thought he'd ask me to buy him cigarettes, I dont smoke and I dont have problem with smokers but buying cigars for them its gotta be some kinda mission

sesman:
i don't really care, as long as she makes a good wife and makes me happy

OH Thank God there are still ppl who understand English out there

Bolarge:
@MRbrownJAY

I got ur back.

_{Independent my narrow black ass.}

Do u still remember the question?

biola44:
u r 2 much!!!
independent my ass!

Dude, Ppl under their senses don't just use that term

MRbrownJAY:
this is what those traits say about that person:
- Some1 who doesnt like saying thank you: ARROGANT, HAS NO MANNERS
- who do her own things and who wud never let anyone to tell her what to do and how to do it and when to do it: STUBBORN, STUPID and with qualities like that UNMARRIABLE

Everyone is entitled to their opinion but urs are stupid dude

My Boyfriend, after I refused to buy cigarettes for him, he removed me from his FB friends and he never contact me since them and it’s been 3 weeks now, I was always hoping he’d call but he hasn’t even this moment, Only God knows how much I miss him but I am willing to hold my horses as long as it takes for him to call me back

So my questions are:
1. Do u think he will call
2. Shud I beg him, shud I cry, shud I email him or text him
3. shud I call him and ask whats going
4. or just sit here and figure that its over between us
5. Do u really think I was just cigarettes to him
6. do u think removing me from his FB friends was just a way to say we were done
7. Shud I degrade my dignity and go after him to get those answers
8. Or Maybe let it be and forget about him
9. Is it possible that he may have a problem with his phone or something
10. Shud I ask his friends so that they can tell him I was asking about him, then run a risk of putting my reputation at stake

Only God knows how much I hate begging, even worse if it includes BFs drama, keep in mind that I cant spend a minute without thinking about him, and remember he saved my Cell numbers as ABC and the other one as XYZ on his phone book

And finally please answer the questions other than that rest assured, no one want to read Ur pointless response

pinky lady:
ok oh waitin

Hahahaha, u go wait and tire my friend coz sweetpie is strictly in need of a Romantic story, and one wud wonder why other ppl still hold on closer to ancient history, coz romantic stories r so out dated, LOL, Ok now what u need to know is if I continue sweetpie will kill me coz whateva happens after the BDAY n engagement is just so way out of what she is looking for

pinky lady:
abeg don't mind dat.

plz wat happened afterwards?

it was just the beginning of her miseries, Let me check with my publisher first and see if anybody has a right to this material except me

sweetpie23:
can we talk about something romantic?

So Ur the one with this crazy idea, Oops my bad didnt notice, _{a sigh}

sweetpie23:
crazy people

I suppose by crazy u mean creative ha!

Once upon a time, there was a guy who loved his woman so much that every woman he comes across with was just like a guy to him and guess what he did on her Birthday, he called a helicopter to pick her up, oh, they had a son by the way n they were not married yet, she was overwhelmed to see the helicopter standing outside with mixed feelings, and big guys stepped out and held her high and took her to her sit, and she thought they were kidnapping her, screamed for her BF and a baby whom they held to his sit in a plain too and they tie her since she was restless and the boy was also tied in his chair bcoz of the same reason

The helicopter landed in a very expensive restaurant, she knew it was her Bday bt she had no clue what her BF ws planning and she ws terrified thinking that she'd spent the rest of her Bday in heaven with his son, after the plain landed they helped her with his son to hop off the plain and to her surprise when she noticed that in every corner of the restaurant there was "HAPPY BIRTH DAY TRACEY" note, as she reaches for the entrance just after she opened the door, everyone inside yelled "HAPPY BIRTH DAY TRACEY" and she cudnt see where her BF was and she was led to this table where there were all sorts of every food that she ever wished for, she was WOW no words can explain the feeling, then in a blink of an eye she was facing colorful words which were reading, "Tracey Eric, My Love, I have spend so much time with u and right now I cudnt ask for more, Ur the person I have been looking for my entire life and this moment in time I cant even begin to tell u how grateful I am that I met u and Tracey Baby WILL U MARRY ME" and when the words finish reading he was there with his one knee down finishing with the words "Will u marry me" she cudnt move for about 5 minutes she never thought of anything like this in her entire life, and the crowd was screaming say yes and finally her vocal organ managed to Yes with tears of excitement flowing down her chicks, hugs and kisses sounded insufficient at that time even s3x was never gona do the trick, she needed more than that to show how grateful she was for this guy that have been doing nothing but bringing smile in her face for the past 7 yrs and it was just the beginning of her miseries

NO ONE SAID IT HAS TO BE A TRUE STORY HEY

chidipupay:
some will still have special ones and still look for what is not looking for them.

Then that's what I call self-unsatisfied and extremely Selfish and Greedy

sweetpie23:
some boys have bad luck

There is not such thing as bad luck its all in the mind, some ppl just need to change the way of thinking

I am a woman and blv Im not rebelling against feminism but I always wonder the same thing too, why lie when u know the truth will come eventually and the answer wud be something like "Protecting the other lover" I guess thats just Girly thinging except this angel over here(ME) but to tell u the truth its hard to find someone with no one, even if its ex who always appeared to be calling or sending emails more than u do and if ur lucky enough u might win her over, the thing is we are always looking for taht special someone we created in our rooms and u know how guys are, u have to look until u have a ring in ur finger otherwise u keep on looking and in some cases u have to look even after that ring, too much work for women  hey

GEW:
who would you call too much independent ladies?
what makes a lady independent?
are you?

who would you call too much independent ladies?
Any lady who doesnt appear in the list of what u guys classify as Gold Diggers, ok here it goes
Some1 who doesnt like saying thank you, who always hv her own way to do things, who hate with passion
to ask for any help from anybody or accepting anything from someone but yet her slogan will be like "how can I help
u" that means she is willing to extend her hand and help others whenever possible,

What Makes a lady independent, is what I have mentioned above, she doesn't have to be rich or financial secured
but can take care of her own materialistic needs even sexual needs without asking or receiving help, who do her own
things and who wud never let anyone to tell her what to do and how to do it and when to do it, and thats the saddest
part in independent ladies which usually make guys feel unneeded or even worse unloved

Am I independent Too much, do I have to elaborate?

Guys, Some guys feel intimidated by too much independent ladies so which one wud you rather marry and give reasons

Binary:
My Girl Friend want me back after disappeared on Xmas and New year period. do i take her back and pay her in unusual way?

If ur talking about that Bitch she did the same thing to me