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lildams:
I love him, he also loves me by his actions & manners bt dere's dis guil dat kips forcin herself on him & he on d oda side is kind of helpless & has no choice dan 2 hangout wif her probably 4 d fun of it. Here's d deal, we both aint ready 4 any serious relatnshp 4 nw cos we are gud xtians & we want 2 do it d rite way. I swear I love him cos i'm ready 2 let go of him 4 any guil if dat wil mk him happy buh i cnt tk it anymore, havin 2 c dem cm bck 4rm d class 2geda @ nite!!!! Its hurtin! I know i shud face my studies buh deres dis part of me dat yearns so badly 4 his love. I'l neva ask 4 more dan his love! Help ya'll, wat do I do? I'm so helpless, even in tears rite nw![color=#990000][/color]

Sweetie, Sometimes we see what we wana see, it is crystal clear that the dude doesn’t love you, coz if he does/did, u wudnt be posting this kinda thread here, I think its only fair that u forget about him but I know love is unforgettable, U can just save urself another year of misery and focus on ur studies as u say, there is nothing rewarding more than getting excellent grades on ur studies hey

It means he has a lot of time in his hands and he is probably bored to death with excessive airtime in his phone and he has no clue what to do with it

candyshore:
hi poster its obvious u still love him and he knows u ve a weak point for him dats why he can even come back to tell u to ur face dat d mother of his child has broken his heart so he wants u to comfort him. dont let him take advantage of d love u ve 4 him, becos if d mother of his child comes back he will live u again and then u re back to square1. but from ur last post its like u ve already made up ur mind. anyway just apply wisdom so u dont get ur heart broken again.

Yah ur right, I once loved him but it was not gona be forever, as I said Im this kinda person, u hurt me once and my love moves from 100% to 0%, I have no place for a$$ holes is just that I was stressed, some1 I loved embarrased me on FB and I was devastated but now I am okay, thanks really its nice to know that there are ppl looking out for ur heart out there

biola44:
were u planning 2 complete d unfinished business b4 his comeback?

Actually no I wasn't but now that he is here and wants me back, I think he deserve whatever I have in store for him, the mother of his child taught him a lesson
and he has another to learn sooner than later

ThoniaSlim:
So after hearing his reply to your question, your still confused?

I really don't get it. . .Are you really gonna open up old wounds. . .that are in the process of healing. . .and get them hurting again/even more?

No Sweetie Im not opening any old wounds, I don't think there are any, the guy came at a very unfortunate circumstance but I am fully aware of his intentions and I will meet him half way, in fact I will actually go to him, I have unfinished business with him

ohaechesi:
this is not a true story but assuming it happened, for the fact that nothing is impossible under this earth, that is how the possibility of you according him the companionship he needed at this point is also possible my dear

It is sure true, some guys are rather a$$ holes than being human, anyway thanks I get where u are and I am fully aware of that is just that he came at avery convenient time what an opportunist, but I have better plan for him, I dnt love him of that Im sure, U hurt me once and we are done forever its just that I was vulnerable thats why I considered even getting back to him, but I will get back to him, I have a better remedy for all this, I believe in teaching some a$$ holes some 1, 2 tips on how to take care of a woman without breaking their heart, and oh s3x will be off limit

kokoA:
Hey! How old are you if I may ask. This guy lied to you in the first instance and then broke your heart afterward. Now you clearly know what he is out for (To use you as a comforter and then dump you again after his girl come to her senses). You be spare tyre?. Girl its high time you got back to your senses. This guy does'nt love you like you love him (That is if he had ever loved you at all). Go find yourself some one who is deserving of your love and leave him now that you have the time Ok? A word is enough for the wise!

First answer to ur 1st question, Im old enough to know when something is not gona work, Now we all know and understand that this guy is out to get me, Ur so right, I agree with u, and after taking sometime consoling myself about my drama with those 2 guys, I have realized that sometimes it helps to give some1 a bit of a taste from his medicine hey, Im sure u get me

chelseabmw:
i will like to chat with u, Whats ur yahoo Id? mine is drjonescure@yahoo.com Hope u aren't angry with me?Lets chat

Ag man of cause not, I was just pulling ur leg, kidding, I thought u had figured that out already,
mine is Traiceym@yahoo.com, I'll drop u a line later ok

Do u really want her to say it in words Dude that is so 19^th century, I mean the poor girl has given you all the hints and
go out of her way to show that she is into you and u sit there asking such a question, just go out there and make a better BF
to the poor kid, she probably think now u r not interested in her anymore, I mean I wud think the same too

chelseabmw:
wait oh, do u know me? do i know u? why will a lesbian be talking to me like this, did i invite u here?Please there is no vibrator here for u so go to the sexuality forum, u just got registered yesterday and u are here talking to a Young and cool guy like me.I nor blame u,come to Ambrose Alli University,Ekpoma to say this kind of thing,na acid we go put for ur yash, U suck.

Just as I thought, So u did go and check when I registered, well not every woman who oppose u is a lesbian hey or looking for a vibrator or anything less than that, just wondering who give a damn about which car were u driving and which one u are driving now, R u sure ur in the right place??, if that's what u guys do here then I might just reconsider joining this forum,

Now tell me where do u cancel Ur profile, Mr. Young and Cool guy, LOL

If this is what Nairalanders talks about all day long then Im certainly in the wrong forum, and I dont think this kind of thread deserve to be any where in this forum
And do u wana tell me that all those months u have been here except the last one u have been boring NLs with this kind of crap then I think ur way too
last year

biola44:
u dont need 2 understand women, u can only love em!

Because they are the most complicated species that only God the creator can understand

Im from Google and Google suggest that before you date anybody know their level of education and make sure
that his/her parents aren't stereotyped in any way

And I think Im addicted to NL, I spend sleepless nights thinking about it, I dnt eat in the morning rushing for the internet, have put a big fat stop in meeting
deadlines and now I have no job whatsoever at all

Back to the question ppl now this is unfair for the dude who post the topic

There is this guy I dated back then, we have been in and out of r/s and last time I saw him we agreed that we will never see each other again, he had a kid and the mother of his kid has been a problem, keep in mind that the kid was conceived while I was in his life and born and I didn’t know that until he was 1 year old, so after hearing that I have been a fool for this long I broke up with him and it was for good and yesterday he came in crying saying that the mother of his child broke his heart and he wants me back, my question was “R u here bcoz the mother of ur child disappointed u or what” and the answer was simple yes, so from the above I have realized that he doesn’t love me but he just need some1 to keep him company until the mother of his child come into her senses, so now the question is how do I answer him, according to the story of him and the mother he is been hurt big time and I don’t want to hurt him again, Im not a heart breaker, I used to love him but Im not sure now and I don’t know what to do anymore, I don’t know if those last feelings are for pity or what, if it were u what wud u do? Take him back or just kick his a$$ to the curb, he broke my heart so much that it has been a mission to let anybody in,

Remember yesterday my BF broke up with me on FB and when I get home my ex-bf was there begging me, how convenient of him and now Im so confused, I don’t know what to do I asked him to give me sometime coz I have a lot going on mind right now and since I was hurt I didn’t wana do anything I will live to regret, part of me wanted to throw myself in his arms just to comfort myself at the same time I was scared he might read too much from that, how to u combine crying and grieving hearts in the same place?

Gaggi:
It's in the female blood. They're all wired to cheat. Thats why the words 'ho', 'slut' were invented.

I object Ur honor, that's unfair generalization, not all females are wired up to cheat, Yeah I'd agree if u were saying all guys are
coz to be honest guys are never be cut out to be monogamist even in God's time, men had more than 1000s wives because they
always looking for something that will fill the void of being self-unsatisfied and stupid enough to think they can find it from some1
else

tsunade:
What kind of agreement do you have with your spouse, if any.

and u can only login to Ur spouse's account when s/he gave u his or her credential details hey

Tracey121:
To mess the living hell out of each other every nite outside FB and on FB to view their profile, pictures, read their status updates, read their comments and then suspect that they are cheating

Ok that was f$ck not mess

To Bleep the living hell out of each other every nite outside FB and on FB to view their profile, pictures, read their status updates, read their comments and then suspect that they are cheating

TheSeeker:
This thread is so disgusting. Either it is removed or we start another topic here, like, why do you think we still have stupid girls like this around?

And just why really, this woman needs to take her head out of her a$$

olusolami:
1) have lots of friends over everytime,
2) watch a lot of movies,
3) store your sim contact names in abbreviations,
4) have a lot of best friends, male/female
5) be in your best behavior anywhere you are around him,
6) dnt ever flirt with his friends,
7) sing awful songs
act childish when he is pissed,
9) shower him with TLC unexpectedly,
10) give a regular lowjob,
there, easy peasy,

What a tragedy

People dont date degrees but people sweetie, so if they love each other to hell with qualifications

tosyne007:
why in the world will anybody do that? can't u see/feel she's hurting?

sorry once again but u are right about being stupid. that's wat crazy or should i say blind love does to one's emotions. It makes u look stupid and foolish when u r not. Like u said, u must hav been seeing som signs which u must hav decided to ignore just to male IT work.

Like i said earlier, dont dwell on the past, move on and believe u can get a better person u will make this pain (u are feeling) go away. U might find it a bit difficult to blv this presently, so i will suggest u depend on friends and relatives to make u happy (i mean make u forget eat happened). u can as well depend on nairalanders. we aint all bad.

Thanks man, that did the trick really, anyway that wretched Jeck saved me another year of misery coz ever since I met him I
dont remember when was the last time I smile coz all we do is fight abt this and that

sexylogan:
Sorry for the way ur ex b/f broke up wit u. i think that was lame and
gutless.u sound like a sweeet loving girl and probably didnt deserve
such treatment. but y shdnt guys
be allowed to break up wit girls? i broke up wit an ex 4 years ago cuz
i caught her cheating. wudnt u do the same if u wer me?

She had it coming for a very long time, that's understandable but I mean in cases where a guy
broke up with u coz he found a new pussy to f$ck its really not fair and the worst part is he just have to be
such an a$$ hole and do that on FB so that the entire world can know, anyway thanks man
feeling much better already

iice:
[color=#9900ff]You mean women should be the only ones to do the break up? Rofl.

Come back to earth.[/color]

Yah sure that's what I mean, They cant just decide when to start and end the r/s, that's bunch of bullshit if u ask me,
at least he shud have given me a chance, damn I missed all the signs, they were there but I just turned a blind eye
on them, to think that I actually believed that I have found love that wud never die, how cud I be so stupid

My BF broke up with me on FB to all the places in the world, what shud I do, Im devastated right now, all crying, shudnt there be a constituted law that guys arent allowed to end the relationship?  , shudnt I be drawing up a petition now ooooo to the government about this issue at hand, sure the constitutional court can enforce such law