Okokri who is an avid critic of the former Anambra State governor said anyone parading themselves and think they are a bigger opposition is suffering delusion.
What a journalistic error that doesn't need correction.
Eboofa: and you still comment...I do not know why yorubas feel pained whenever Igbos rise to challenge injustice ...Why derive joy in seeing people suffer? skull mining mentality
How my post got interpreted into Yoruba vs Igbo shows me you really have a BIG PROBLEM. You need help.
Jesuspistol: You should have picked up her calls to avoid it becoming this embarrassing. You picking up her call once in a while and telling her to keep to only messages when your wife is around would have stabilized her emotions and keep her stable for when you need her. If she can't keep to messages, block her number when wife is around and unblock her when you're alone.
She has an all-or-nothing kinda emotion. That's definitely the reason for her restrictions earlier. She knows herself. Such people in most cases form hard-to-get extremely to guard their emotions cus once they fall in love, they become helpless and lose their mind totally. She'll depend on you to help stabilize and balance her emotions, meaning you have to be emotionally independent yourself, but it seems you've not met or date such girls before cus her disturbance seems strange to you. They're victims of abusive upbringing
If you want to keep her as side chick, what I said up there is what I think you should do, otherwise, discard her.
I like your comment, it is reasonable. In addition, OP does not realize that divorced women or single moms will likely go for married men due to their experience. Normally, women mature faster than men so single guys don't usually have the experience to handle such women. It's almost like a mommy-son relationship. OP should handle her with care. She knew you were married and she made no mistake in choosing you. If you accept polygamy, straighten things with her and manage your relationship with her with established rules.
Most Africans don't know their history and that is why they are ashamed. What they know about themselves is the hate that has been given to them by others as their own history. It is unfortunate but that's what it is. It is why today even abroad, they prefer to celebrate your entertainers and sportsmen than to promote your thinkers so they give you the impression that you are only good for fun. You don't know your contributions because it has been hidden from you.
If they tell you Aleksandr Sergeyevich Pushkin was a Black man, you will never believe it. There are so many inventions by the blacks that have either been hidden or whitewashed to make you subservient in your thinking.
When I was in school, I was very proud of the pre-colonial leaders from Nigeria. I was inspired by their stories for freedom and the visions they had for Nigeria and Africa. So when people say we cannot lead, they don't understand history. These men wanted their people to be liberated. Go read the story of Fela, when he went to UK then came back home and joined alliances with the Americans who wanted liberation in the 70s. These guys realised that the African mind had been enslaved and an enslaved mind can never see good when he has done so much in this world.
Go to the museums in America and Europe, ask yourself why African items are there if they have no value. Don't be fooled
I thought Seun and the mods had dealt with those bots and arrangee accounts that like posts on the front page topics in order to game the forum. Those of us with eyes can see they are fake and inauthentic. Do something about them. It's all part of the propaganda and they think we are all foolish that we will follow the crowd when we know it is fake.
She choose to stay in the background i believe. They were last seen together in 2023 in my perspective after yrs of speculation they were no more. @op, the reason why you are "curious" about another mans wife whereabout is that you harbour hate and wish the wife leaves Oshiomole so bad that you want to earnestly confirm it, because you believe Osho baba does not deserve to bag the pretty lady.
Ringstonermasks: some folks here will say juju doesn't work.
Someone has used juju on me before to frustrate me back in d days, i later found out and the dude was checked out and everything confirmed.
I also withness first hand juju when i was working as a government teacher in my village years ago. This is not dem say, i actually saw how juju favoured someone and over night the guy was damn wealthy, although after some time he started getting much worser set backs.
I am not an Evil person nd don't want to touch anything related to that, but if a Web and software developer should apply juju to his Hustle, even usa company would contact him and quickly pay him to design a 5mins job for 10million... It just so crazy
I love the bolded. Terms and conditions apply.
You even wrote 'much worser' in an attempt to show us the magnitude of the repercussion. You dine with the devil, the top of the zobo is sweet and he ends it with the leaves which are sour. Zobo sweet, zobo sour but we love sweet things so no one wants the sour moment which brings patience and being content.
Someone was saying see how these politicians are getting rewarded, that forget this holy holy. If only you see their inside life, you will know the secrets they are keeping that doesn't allow them sleep properly. We didn't know our Deputy Senate President was going through life issues until his daughter's case put him in trouble. Who doesn't get sick anyway? We'll all die.
You don't know what blessing God has done in your life when you don't dine with the devil.
fabolouz1: It doesn't make sense in any way. Is he insinuating that Late Yar'Adua would have got him assassinated ? These people should just retire to their homes instead of heating up the polity with their unsubstantiated claims to curry favour .
If you followed politics of do or die then, yes.
Nigeria is still living in the shadows of military rule. Obasanjo made things do or die and there were political assassinations around that period, playbook of the military.
They werent born that way. They were molded into this right from their pre-puberty years(A different background would have made them a different person entirely)
More often that not, they are mostly people that grew up in a religious or a more modest/conservative home with strict parenting well into their early 20s
I can argue till the end of time that being an introvert is the ultimate version of any human. I struggle to understand whats fun and lively about being the opposite
I didn't see this comment until I had made mine. You are correct, your comment mirrors the one I quoted from the earlier thread about parental influence.
Why do they say that people get older and have less friends?
If you go through ancient wisdom in different cultures, you'll notice that introverts are revered and they often consult them because they are more discerning. They can see through things.
yemmit90: Majority of introvert are talkative, just that they only do that with people that close to them. Your no.2, say it all.
Introvert don't intentionally gives people the impression that they are dumb, people often see them as ones due to their reserved personality, and it pains them alot.
Every introvert wish they are not.
You are absolutely correct but the last line is not true. They only talk in environments they consider safe to talk. Because they are largely intellectual, they will talk when they observe that. I was just searching for the term, I think it's ambivalence, where introverts are not incels or people who lack social skills, some of them choose when and where to go out and you see their extroverted nature.
As an adult, you have to learn social skills so there are times you need to adjust to society or environment you are in.
trium: A lot of introverts are on Nairaland. You will know them by their posts. I remember when someone on this thread posted about introverts:
This was my response to the poster, there were others on the thread too
trium: You have a valid point about parental influence on a child being an introvert. On the other side, have you noticed that many Nigerians follow the crowd? They go with trends and they don't have a mind of their own. I am not saying being an introvert means you have sense but I think the other side of letting kids be also has its detrimental effect on you as an individual. Instead of learning from books, experiences, listening to others and all that, you experiment yourself or you learn from your peers, who don't know better. Children want to grow up fast and behave like adults but some of the things they do will cause them fatal mistakes in life. Like when you see girls gone astray, why do people always ask 'where is the father/mother'? It's because they know that the world is not as it seems but the child is in a hurry to see the deceit of outside world. Look at the kids of today learning from the internet, they are not able to think on their own, they have the stress of the outside world which is technology. You don't realize until later on in life that you have never made decisions on your own, you always needed validation of the outside world, your friends or external to make decisions. You don't have your own convictions. YOU are not doing what you really want to do in life, you are doing what society wants. Some people only discover this in their 40s that they have not been living their own lives. Why do you think the Japanese Samurai and other disciplines focus on listening to yourself? Many of us grow up as adults then realize that we only needed 1 or 2 friends in life, not the whole class. We start to see the peace of mind having less people does. LESS people, LESS drama.
There are some points for me that I want such kids who are adults now to respond to: 1. As a parent yourself now, do you think that you now understand why your parents kept you away from the outside crowd? 2. Will you do the same thing to your kids albeit in a different way? 3. As an adult, do you think being raised that way helped your life today?
PS: this thread proves that there are adults on this forum even though most topics because of FP gets taken over by clowns and political lackeys.
A lot of introverts are on Nairaland. You will know them by their posts. I remember when someone on this thread posted about introverts:
Archtype: Some of this introvert thing was caused by some strict parents who always want their children to stay at home, make them avoid friends to avoid being corrupted especially immediately after secondary school, some of these parents build a close monitoring around their children that even when their child finally gets permission to go out that is after questioning how your movements will be and dropping the names and necessary address and promising to come back within 2hours; so, the children now starts developing cold feets on meeting friends instead of going through the stress of convincing his parents, and somehow they develop a way of staying on their own and will rather watch BF than going anywhere. Our old parents contribute so much to this sh*t especially if you are an obedient child that doesn't want to be like your brother who they already rebelled "rebellious and stubborn" cos he took his small freedom by force
Midlife crisis. Don't worry, you'll be fine. You are not the only one who thinks they've not done well enough. Even the millionaires are thinking they didn't make billions and so on. Keep trying and never give up. Life will reward your perseverance.
You all think those things Nollywood show were fake
Now you know. Women can go to any length to secure the bag.
"Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" is a proverb that means a woman who has been betrayed or rejected can be very angry and vengeful. The phrase is often used to describe someone who has reacted very angrily to something, especially if their husband or lover has been unfaithful.
The proverb is a shortened version of lines from The Mourning Bride, a 1697 play by William Congreve. The lines are spoken by the character Zara, a queen who becomes involved in a deadly love triangle. The original lines are: “Heav'n has no rage, like love to hatred turn'd, nor Hell a fury like a woman scorned”.
Mom007: Are u sure that woman has not abandoned those kids and absconded? Raising 3 kids alone as a single parent is not for the faint hearted o
Exactly my thought.
What OP is not telling us and what he may not know are the conversations that were had between his wife and the woman. She has definitely got some intel and your wife may not know what she has said that the woman has taken advantage of in her grand plan to tell a super story. It is later on they will start connecting all the dots.
Emmydon183: she is not like that did you know our relationship is about three years now, she is a registered nurse in Canada but she came home on vacation to see her family that's why she wants me to come over.
You are too trusting. Just because she is working in Canada does not mean shs can't be a criminal. Google
Bueneflor Cruz
Never go to a foreign country without back-up particularly countries where they can say things you don't understand. You don't have any family or friend there but you keep defending someone you don't know.